How many others share this experience?

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dirge42069 · 2021-02-12T17:10:53+00:00

You have to be unrealistically exceptional to have a good time using OLD as a dude. Don't worry too much about that.

DaBlockObama · 2021-02-12T17:12:25+00:00

You are asking if there’s any other guys who feel as if they should be getting more girls than they are? Yes. Almost all of us are constantly sharing that same experience. It’s really like the main thing we like to talk about in this sub, unless you are a delusional bp simp who applauds women for seeing that you are just not doing enough attract them.

HOLYREGIME · 2021-02-12T17:18:54+00:00

This, for me, supports a couple hypothesis. That women have an extremely strong bias towards height.

This says to be women have no intention of meeting up and are just looking for conversation and validation. That’s not you, it’s them and here’s why.

I matched with a girl 2 months ago on bumble. I found out we worked for the same organization. Same building too since the campus is huge. Shes better than me in every way (athletic, social, Ivy League school, better job) but I’m not too shabby either.

We messaged in paragraphs because the conversation was great, FaceTimed but when it came to actually going on a date she flaked then ghosted.

My reasoning was that my current entry level job wasn’t good enough for her and that’s why she ghosted me. To you, it’s because of your height, to some other guy it’s because he’s not attractive enough or doesn’t lift enough weights. We’re all pointing out our biggest flaws as the reason but hear me out. Maybe she never wanted to meet up in the first place?

2021-02-12T17:11:13+00:00

This, for me, supports a couple of hypothesis. That women have an extremely strong bias towards height (I'm only 5'7"), and the Pareto Principle. I live in LA. Where there's tons of wannabe stars, models, basketball players, etc. So I'm imagining maybe if I am a good looking guy there's just too much competition?

You can't really feel out height in online dating, so it's very likely your location. San Francisco has a very similar problem, where every one is a startup founder, high earning engineer, or product manager.

You are good looking likely in the sense you have "handsome" features in your face. But you just aren't remarkable because there's so many amazing men around you and in LA.

I think I am in a similar boat as you. But when I have traveled to Taiwan, Thailand, Vietnam, China, boy oh boy my Tinder blows up with matches. It's nothing to compare.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-02-12T17:13:31+00:00

No internal questions

Title	How many others share this experience?
Author	SekCPrice
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	February 12, 2021 5:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/lifb8y/how_many_others_share_this_experience/
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