Is this natural? I had two female flat mates who both happened to be into me. Both of them were good looking but one clearly better than the other. I personally had better chemestry with the less attractive one but I was when it came down to choosing one, I end up picking the more attractive one. I know in my heart I'd do the same again. This relationship ended a few months later do to lack of compatibility.

I feel guilty and shallow for being looks orientated. I get much more excited over talking to a woman who is sexually attractive than one I have good conversations with. I wonder how much of this is biology and how much is my personal decision. Anyone else the same? How does this knowledge change how you approach dating?