Lots of us men complain that women have it easy in the dating marketplace. They are able to sexualize themselves and monetize it on social media or more easily climb their career ladder. While that is very true, most men are generally willing to do anything just for a sniff of some vagina. Women have simply caught on to that and used it to their advantage. I’ve talked to many women, including those I’ve been in relationships with and from their point of view, it’s really not that great. They have tons of men hitting on them but the overwhelming majority of those men are low quality. Some of them are average and a very, very small if any percentage of them are the ideal, high quality men that they seek. And just because a man is hitting you up for a date, does not mean he wants to keep you in a relationship.

They are biologically weaker than men and have to worry that this new date might end up causing harm to her. While yes, birth control and abortion have greatly reduced the risk of pregnancies from casual hook ups, there’s still a risk of getting pregnant with a man who you thought wanted to be with you and then he vanishes after the child(ren) are born. They also have the emotional turmoil that erupts during their period and have to go through having physical pain from cramps once a week, every month. Now, I would argue that it doesn’t excuse them from lashing out on us men emotionally during that week since they wouldn’t do it to their employer at work.

So while women have it easy in getting attention from the opposite sex, it’s not like it’s all high quality men willing to marry them and dedicate all their resources to the future family. They have lots of options to choose from but it’s a matter of getting the man they want to commit to them and that’s where it is difficult. They also have a biological clock in which if they don’t find their ideal man who commits to them in that time frame, that’s it, time to settle or don’t have any children. Us men just find it difficult to get sex that’s not a result of directly paying the woman. We become more attractive with age since the main value a woman seeks in a man tends to increase which is his resources. So, I still would choose to be a man if given that choice in another life because I truly believe a man who puts in the time and work to elevate himself mentally, physically and financially above average has the upper hand.

What are your thoughts?