Hi all, as we all know, that most women when they want to settle down, wants a man that is successful, wealthy, has his shit together, basically resources so he can provide and protect for his wife and kids. Which is a very fair preference to have. On the other hand me being a man, I know most men want a women that is more on the younger side, good looking and most importantly a low body count, as we care less about how successful she is financially. Which to me is also a fair preference to have.

As I’m getting older a trend I am seeing is women in their mid to late 20s who all enjoyed their college years sleeping around, and are ready to settle down now, demanding a man that is rich and successful in other words in their eyes a high value man. However to men they themselves are not high value women. When you explain this to them they get extremely upset, that we shouldn’t judge a women for her past, but they have all the right to judge us for our future? How is that fair? To put it in a male perspective, if I didn’t work on my self, have a job a healthy life style, I would never demand to have a relationship with a high value women because I my self am not yet high value.

Note: my opinion here is from what I experienced, I am fully aware there are situations where this is flipped and also that there are many women who are not like this.