It’s a punchline of many jokes and can be seen everywhere in popular western culture: once you’re married, she stops having sex with you. Even one of the popular stand up comedian Bill Burr said: once you marry, you’re going to have sex with zero women. Has anyone here experienced something different? It seems impossible to always look sharp, act uber masculine and do everything else when you live together with you wife under one roof. She’ll inevitably see you in situations where your look/behaviour are going to be less then ideal for sexual attraction purposes. Also, my definition of a sexless marriage is sex less then once a week and/or “pity sex” regardless of frequency.