Learning & Implementing Game at Young Age?

Billy_King · 2021-06-27T05:46:36+00:00

First off, I would avoid reading secular RP material. That stuff is very different from what RPC is focused on and does not serve God. The secular RP is self-serving.

5k/month for 16 yr old is insane. I’ve never heard of that. Good job OP.

As far as advice, I’ll let the older guys chime in.

I do have a few questions though:

Why are you cutting off your friends? What do you mean they “aren’t on your level of thinking”? Seems like a pride issue. Even if you are saying they are immature, they need a leader and someone who will share the gospel with them. You should be that person.

You say that you are going to Bible study but you haven’t read your Bible in years? I’m confused. Read your Bible.

What is your goal in developing game? If it to look for a partner, you should not be doing that until you are at a point in life where you can move towards the direction of marriage (and I know you arent at that point - lol).

In terms of developing game, I think your goal should be to work on developing your sphere of influence. I hear you saying that you have trouble maintaining/sparking conversations but you just gotta keep doing it and BELIEVE that YOU ARE GOOD AT DOING IT. If you think you’re bad at it, you won’t get any better. Confidence is key - if you are confident, you will be fine in conversation. Don’t get too caught up in “calculating” what you are going to say next.

I often like to compliment people/women as I pass by them (I am a college student) - “I like your shoes.” Etc. I have never had a negative experience doing this. They usually say “Thank you!” or something with a smile, and that’s the end of it. I’m not standing there waiting for her to say something to me - that’s awkward. I don’t have an interest in pursuing these women, but it is a easy way to display/practice confidence and be noticed. We live in a culture where 90% of our peers are wearing AirPods or staring at their phones when they walk to their next destination. Yet I often hear that this generation is longing for something different/authentic. Be the different man and you will get noticed. Pursue Christ wholeheartedly and people will join in your mission. Live in the confidence of Christ and people will be drawn to you.

And if you need to practice conversing, talk to old people! They’ll always talk to you and don’t give a crap anymore 😂

ThomasWald · 2021-06-27T18:22:56+00:00

Typing on my phone so I’ll keep it short

1) A lot of game can be broken down into: a) Principles to follow b) Things to do not do c) Basic Social Graces

In your case - I think the biggest thing that would help you out is social interaction and lots of it. When you are out getting groceries or running errands, talk to all the women you interact with behind the counter. Don’t have any particular goal other than to see if you can make them smile. The idea is to be used to talking to women so that when you talk to one you like it’s not new or nerve wracking.

You don’t need to go to bars or clubs because they’re s#%t places to talk to girls (too loud) and racking up a body count is something I’d advise against.

If you don’t already, find a group of guys who you respect and whose company you enjoy and hang out with them often. Whenever you start going out, make sure the goal is just to have fun rather than hunt for women. The latter is a very counterproductive frame to run the night through.

Keep up the good work with fitness, finances, and health.

2) Figure out what you want to do with your life and work towards that. Have a mission and work towards it. You’ll pick up friends and a wife along the way. For example, my goal is to make a neighborhood with men who have similar values to me and populate it with not crazy people, as a haven against this unfeeling clownworld dystopia we live in. It’s a vague, lofty goal for sure, but it helps focus me and my actions since I have something to work towards.

You are still figuring out who you are and that’s okay. The good news is that you have a say in who you are now and who you will become. It’s clear through your physique and finances that you’re relatively self-disciplined. But who else are you? It’s okay to have any hobbies and interests you like - there’s groupies for almost anything. Just don’t pick anything just to get women. You want women to like you for who you are, not for who you think they want you to be. So being yourself is the best path. I know, you’re still figuring that out but rejoice for you’re in the process. Follow your interests, pick up a skill or three, learn a foreign language. Women like a man who lives, not a man who just consooooms.

Hope this helps.

DeChef2 · 2021-06-28T17:44:28+00:00

I don't have much to say on the topic of developing game. Mainly just have fun when you talk to girls. You could also read the articles on the TRP sidebar that talk about flirting or passing s--t tests.

Feels like thanking the Lord when good things happen in my life, but completely ignore him when something bad happens or it's neutral.

Alright, this is what I want to address. You need to get a couple things straight in your head.

It's good to thank God for the good things in your life. It's a very good thing!
Ignoring God when life is neutral or going badly isn't a good thing
That said, don't assume that you should stop thanking God for his blessings
Learn to see it not as much as a place where you are failing, but as an area in which you can grow. At least for me, this helps me avoid any despair and focus on the goodness available to me (in your case, relationship with God through every circumstance).

I would recommend saying a very simple prayer, admitting where your prayer life isn't where it should be, telling God you want to improve, and then asking him to help you reach that goal.

Sad_Decision_3628 · 2021-06-29T07:58:43+00:00

I've found a good cure for anxiety is sport.

Team sports - football/rugby

Combat sports - boxing/wrestling/karate/jujitsu

Alternatives include things like: playing an instrument in public/acting/dancing/singing

Find something that boosts confidence that you enjoy and go for it!

Rifleshoot · 2021-06-30T16:09:19+00:00

You're young, so take notes, but RP principles are implemented differently at 16 than they would be at say, 40, or how they would be implemented at 25. So, definitely start lifting, start recognizing your value as a man. That takes time, though, but good to start now. Your valuation of yourself right now likely comes from your parents, and that's perfectly fine. But as you leave home and start forging a separate identity, you should begin taking validation from yourself internally instead of externally. Or better yet, take your validation from the Lord.

Women are different. They are going to seek validation from the men in their lives, and that is good. So, begin to forge your identity now. Begin building yourself up so that when you are dealing with women, you can do it with confidence.

As far as sidebar reading, be very skeptical of the TRP stuff. Personally, I like the marriedredpill sidebar a lot more, but it is still a secular source, so read it with discernment. It will give you a good idea of how women think, which will help you both in dating and in marriage. Hope that helps.

Title	Learning & Implementing Game at Young Age?
Author	Popyiy
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Date	June 27, 2021 4:32 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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