I'm a newbie to RPW. I'm 43 and I've recently separated from my husband of 13 years, but it is my hope to rebuild our marriage anew. However, he is the epitome of a beta male. For years I've craved for him to take leadership in our family, find a passion outside our relationship and work on self improvement.

I'm looking for advice on how to help him, without nagging him or having to teach him myself. I'm not sure if directing him to TRP is a good idea or not. Thoughts?