I say this because I have been in some situations where men have assumed that I am hypersexual or have had lots of partners, or I have been slut-shamed.

However, I have also had many situations where I have been assumed to be a virgin, and called a prude or asexual.

I assume this is common for women, but I was interested by people’s previous responses that your body count is more than just a number, and people can remark it by the way you carry yourself and your general personality. But people’s perceptions of me appear very fickle. So I wonder, is it how you present yourself, or can people always tell?