Things you can do to make them commit to you: DON'T! Yes, just don't do anything inorder to 'make' them commit. If they want to, they will. Respect yourselves queens, don't strive for commitment. Make the relationship and your life more than just your constant desire to settle.Forcing your significant other into making it work will only make it worse. The day you realise that you are the only one willing to 'forever' this bond is when the relationship starts suffering. A key to a healthy relationship is when there's no great dependency of happiness on eachother. Don't make them the only source of happiness in life, there's so much more!