Can someone give me some resources to read/watch (YouTube preferred) which would give me some tips on how to be more feminine. I work full time in a high demand job and we have 2 young kids. I'm finding it hard to embrace my femininity when I feel so burnt out some days.

I'm a great cook. I've been putting more energy into keeping our house clean. My husband has commented he likes how I'm decorating our house (as we continue to settle in, just moved here in october). I'm trying to respect his budget as he designs it.

But like when it comes to me as a person, I'm losing weight and trying to dress more feminine and act more feminine but that'd where I feel I'm falling short. Any advice appreciated!