My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. He is normally awesome and every year for four years he’s helped me make food for thanksgiving. We go to his parents house and they have a huge get together, I normally make 10 massive dishes. Five of those are pies.

I was banking on him helping me again. We both had really bad days at work so we unwinded for awhile, then he told me to go downstairs and get started and he would come down. Then he fell asleep. I feel like I can’t do this. I’m just crying alone in my kitchen, I’ve gotten two things done, I’m super tired and I just want to give up. I don’t know what to do. I wish I had his help or even just someone to help keep my spirit up while I get to work. I don’t think I can pull this off this year.

I’m so upset I don’t even want to go to thanksgiving with him tomorrow.