Reposted for a lack of clarity in the other

Okay so all you need to know about my boyfriend and I are that we're both into the red pill ideology. We've had a very bad couple of months (agreed to be FWB when the relationship seemed unsalvageable). We're currently committed to each other. He believes Im not entitled to literally anything and that's very frustrating to me. Ive always had some emotional problems. Ive been very clingy, in need of assurance from him, etc. He is always there to help me. In fact, as Ive become more familiar with red pill stuff he's asked that I come to him with my questions, which totally works out.

He's definitely the kind of person that needs space. I'm not. So to the problem yesterday: I was feeling particularly down about something and asked his opinion on it. He ignored my messages at first, then gave me a very vague "Im busy." Now I instantly panicked. He usually doesn't have a problem letting me know what hes doing, I also don't always ask. But from experience, the only time he purposely doesn't say what he's doing has been when hes out doing stuff he know I don't like (i.e. seeing other girls). This hasn't happened in a while, but I think you can see why I was worried. I told him that I was concerned, to which he said he was with another male friend and that he shouldn't have to tell me where hes going and asked that I don't message him again, something he does when I start being sort of irrational.

This really upset me and I guess I'm just looking at your guys' opinions on the situation. Should he really not have to tell me where he is? Am I being too demanding?