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Sweet! How much was yours?
/r/RedPillWives10/03/17 11:53 PM
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Then where did you get the box?
/r/RedPillWives10/03/17 11:46 PM
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Are you Finnish? I want one of those boxes too when we have kids!
/r/RedPillWives10/03/17 11:19 PM
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She said something about her plan falling through due to illness too. But that can always happen. What if the family member falls ill while she's thousands of miles away and there's no one else?
/r/RedPillWives05/03/17 03:43 AM
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Seriously. The other day I saw a post in one of the local Facebook groups where a woman was looking for someone to take her child in for a couple of weeks because she had no one and she had to go away on army business. How much you wanna bet her head is not going to be in the game when she's away? Giving the kid to a stranger.. something tells me there should be a rule about single mothers.
/r/RedPillWives04/03/17 11:47 PM
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Huh, that sounds like a really easy solution? Is the stuff you use more expensive than the smelly stuff or why would anyone use the smelly stuff?
/r/RedPillWives24/02/17 06:09 PM
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What do you do about the smell? I had a friend in high school who had rats and her rat room always smelled pretty horrible even though she took good care of them.
/r/RedPillWives24/02/17 05:58 PM
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Also I love Leah Remini... but what the fuck was up with her face???? plastic surgery.. If you're going to do it, invest in a good surgeon! I think the show could have been super interesting so I was really disappointed.
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 11:41 PM
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I just watched it on youtube and damn, what a cringefest. Milo had that one somewhat good moment but he could barely look Bill Maher in the eyes. I'm seriously disappointed. I was hoping for an actual debate and what we got was Milo trying to convince everyone he's not hurt when people call him names.
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 03:38 PM
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Mashed potatoes! You can never go wrong with those!
/r/RedPillWives17/02/17 03:21 PM
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Definitely stocking up on popcorn! I actually think both Bill Maher and Milo notevengoingtoattempthislastname have good points sometimes so this should be good.
/r/RedPillWives17/02/17 12:42 AM
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Sooo.. they're trying to say when you wear their perfume you smell like a douchebag? OK...
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 06:52 PM
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20 weeks is when you find out about many birth defects, and for some women it's a choice of "Do I carry this baby to term and have a stillborn baby/ try to carry to term but definitely have a spontaneous miscarriage; or do I spare myself the pain in the future and end it now?" That's the reality for the 1% of abortions that occur third trimester. I don't remember which subreddit it was in but a couple of weeks ago I read a comment about third trimester abortion that really hit me. I'm pretty cho…
/r/RedPillWives12/02/17 03:08 PM
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Taking the post title seriously, ladies. I saw this at Walmart the other day and couldn't stop laughing. for those of us who are planning a very special valentine's night.
/r/RedPillWives15/01/17 06:41 AM
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If you actually look at pictures of Marilyn Monroe you can see she was skinny so I always wonder how she's this icon of fat acceptance.
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 01:02 PM
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Yeah, that's a good plan. I skydived (dove?) there a couple of years ago and it was a great experience. Scary as hell but I'm so glad I did it because now I have a memory for a lifetime. And once the free fall was over I really got to enjoy the view and I'm just a sucker for South Florida.
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 04:57 AM
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If you find yourself around the Florida Keys in the somewhat near future you should jump out of an airplane there! It's so beautiful and you basically jump into paradise!
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 02:57 AM
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In germany they have a reputation for only teaching kids how to dance their names, lol.
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 03:50 AM
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YES! You are absolutely right!
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 06:27 AM
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I totally agree! How much can you dislike your own child if you want to make it have to spell the name out every time for his or her whole life? And also, it makes the parents look pretty stupid, in my book.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 06:21 AM
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I don't think he's even remotely trying to convince anyone and he makes his money off of offending the 10% extreme left so his 10% extreme right audience (don't really like putting it in those terms because of the connotations) is entertained. I used to watch his speeches on YouTube but you can only hear the same point being made so many times.
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 02:06 AM
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Does lipstick throw off your macros if you eat too much of it?
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 02:00 AM
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Why is living in a bubble only defined as being rich? Wouldn't a poor person who mostly just interacts live in a bubble the same way a rich person only interacting with other rich people does? That being said, I got a 33 and it sounds about right.
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 01:57 AM
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24, married 1 year, we definitely want kids in the future (2-4) but not yet. As a kid I had this awesome baby doll that I could feed and change the diapers for. As a teenager there was a time where I didn't want kids because I was afraid I'd end up a single mother like my mom (only saw dad every other weekend) so my plans were go to school and find a husband who would take care of any kids. That just kinda changed when I got older when I noticed I didn't want to work and nothing else all my life…
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 01:43 AM
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I was wondering if he would be black I got the same question ALL the time when I first started dating my husband (American soldier as well). Some people actually seemed disappointed when I said he was white. But I would say outside of bigger cities mostly in the southwest/south it's still pretty rare to see black people in Germany. Where I went to college there were a bunch of Asian exchange students but I dont think I ever saw any other ethnicities. When I moved away from there to the south I a…
/r/RedPillWives07/01/17 12:28 AM
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I didn't notice it shrinking or anything but I will pay more attention to it next time I cook some of it. It also didn't taste bad or dry so I wasn't disappointed with the quality, I was just surprised mostly. But I will definitely check out places to get higher quality meat.
/r/RedPillWives31/12/16 01:16 PM
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So L and I went to Walmart the other day and got chicken breast. What do yall feed your chickens here? When I got the first one out of the pack I thought I had accidentally gotten turkey breast or something. They're at least 2 if not 3 times as big as the German ones I'm used to.
/r/RedPillWives30/12/16 06:33 PM
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I've never seen another like that either. It's a nice wooden one that is made to be played with by children so I wouldn't even know where to start looking.
/r/RedPillWives30/12/16 12:18 AM
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We have a traditional 5 course meal for Christmas eve that I partially really like and partially really dislike but it's not Christmas without it. The other part I really like is the church service at 10 at night on Christmas eve. It's not nearly as crowded as the other ones and you dont have to watch kindergarteners butcher a nativity play (not that that's not cute). I actually can't wait to have kids so I can pass some of the traditions we had as kids on to them. Like my dad had a nativity sce…
/r/RedPillWives29/12/16 02:29 PM
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sweet jesus 15 hours sounds horrible. My time change was only 6 hours and I did go to sleep at a reasonable hour the first day (didnt get here until 9 PM so I didn't have a choice) and I've been getting up with L early every morning and going to bed at reasonable hours but I just still feel so sluggish during the day and I keep waking up at 2 am and 4 am. and yeah, we've been married a year (and 5 days :D) now but his orders kept getting changed around so they wouldnt let us get housing at his l…
/r/RedPillWives28/12/16 11:59 PM
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L and I just moved in together, finally. It's so great to finally live with him but it's making me feel like such a loser, too. I'm just so tired all the time from the damn jet lag that I barely get anything done. And we have so much stuff. I mean not really but it feels like whenever one little corner gets done suddenly three new boxes appear. I feel like such a failure for not getting everything done faster but most of the time we both just want to sleep. I got distracted and forgot where I wa…
/r/RedPillWives28/12/16 06:03 PM
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It's actually only a rule if a soldier sells to another soldier here. Which makes even less sense than if it was a general rule.
/r/RedPillWives17/12/16 07:09 AM
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I was just trying to say no one holds my husbands hands and if he had a thinner skin he'd have an even worse time there. So it runs kinda counter to what the guy said? But I'm also not saying both can't exist at the same time because it largely depends on the people you're dealing with from my experience.
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 06:21 PM
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Lol if they gave article 15s to everyone who drinks or shows up to work buzzed they wouldn't get anything else done here. And I totally get that they want to protect 18 year old privates from assholes ripping them off but my husband was trying to sell his beater car to a mechanic who knows the car, knows the flaws (passed inspection, nothing major) and knows how to fix them better than any of the mechanics on post, and the CO knows all of that. I also get that he has shit to do but all it took w…
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 06:16 PM
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Not my experience at all. In my husbands unit there are several guys who need real medical attention but they just won't get it. There are guys who can barely walk yet they are expected to be any kind of productive infantry men. And they wonder why so many of those guys are alcoholics when that's all they have to medicate themselves and get through those days. I'm not saying they should get once a week spa treatments but proper medical attention so they can actually be useful in combat is the ba…
/r/RedPillWives16/12/16 07:09 AM
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So I'm not too familiar with keto or what's in coke zero but cherry coke zero totally saved me from my coke and sugar addiction. It's still sweet and tastes great but no calories. And now I don't even crave sweet sugary things anymore. It's obviously not healthy at all but neither is eating candy.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 03:58 PM
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I'm already not a frequent flyer or collect miles or anything and I got a pretty sweet military discount so I don't think they would upgrade me even if I tried but if I'm not the only one doing it then I'll definitely take chocolate Santas. Thank you, I've loved the other parts of the states I've been to so I'm pretty sure I'm going to like it there :)
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 07:07 AM
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I'm grateful for my visa to the US that was in the mail yesterday. I was at the interview for it on Thursday and they told me it was going to be more like next week when I get it. Now I can finally book my flight to the states and actually spend Christmas with my husband! I'm also grateful for my landlady for being super flexible and letting me out of my place this weekend! Super short notice (because the green card took less time than I thought) and if she just acted within the law I'd be stuck…
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 08:41 PM
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Congratulations! What a way to start off the Christmas season!
/r/RedPillWives14/12/16 08:35 PM
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I'll take not fucking science for 400, Alex.
/r/RedPillWives10/12/16 08:01 PM
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This is what happens when every place has zero tolerance policies, people don't learn that there's nuance.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 11:12 PM
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What's even the point of getting engaged if you don't need one?
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 08:01 AM
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There's another video where she talks to people at a slut walk and after talking to her a couple of people "withdrew their consent" to being filmed and interviewed and she just looked at them and told them that's not how consent works. edit: found the video. it starts where my favorite interview by her of all times starts but the whole video is worth watching.
/r/RedPillWives29/11/16 11:37 PM
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Who the hell downvoted you for that? You're family sounds awesome and so does your thanksgiving tradition.
/r/RedPillWives23/11/16 02:17 PM
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I'm going to our friends house (L is army gone), they're deep frying a turkey and I'm super excited. I'm bringing booze and mixers. Though I'm most looking forward to their fluffball of a dog, he's just so adorable.
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 04:44 PM
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Just a practical thing: would it have been so bad to watch the movie with your husband and kiddo and then spend some time by yourself when your kid is in bed?
/r/RedPillWives20/11/16 10:33 PM
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I think that sounds like something that is absolutely needed for some people.
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 04:58 PM
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I expected my husband to know how my cycle works in general when we started dating (which he did) but I would have explained if he hadn't. One of my main pms symptoms is that I get annoyed at everything, which makes him laugh uncontrollably, and his laugh his so funny it makes me laugh and everything is better. I just think it's weird when men (or women) have zero understanding on how female parts work. I mean some people even think women pee out of their vagina. It should be part of biology cla…
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 04:37 PM
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There is nothing more ridiculous than women who think being in a relationship means they get to shave their legs less. I actually laughed when I read that because I shave more when my husband is around. Like the only good part about being away from him for army reasons is I don't have to shave my legs right now.
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 09:19 PM
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I'm pro choice, too. And I feel like Germany actually has pretty good laws about it. You can get an abortion up to week 12, and the requirements are meeting with a sort of consultant who basically goes over your options with you, and then waiting three days. After week 12 you have to carry the baby to term unless it turns out there's a disability. And honestly, I think I would abort too if it turns out any of my future babies had disabilities that can be diagnosed in utero.
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 08:57 PM
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i mean you gotta do something if you're just a normal person and not super special.
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 08:35 PM
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that big guy throwing a tamper tantrum from all the shampoo just made my day.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/16 09:46 PM
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it doesnt matter that he picked a woman to build his trump tower and a woman to run his campaign, he doesn't think pumping breast milk in a deposition is appropriate so clearly he's a sexist!
/r/RedPillWives11/11/16 07:45 PM
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and all the nice white college kids said that id requirements were racist against blacks. They listed such reasons as: blacks don't have access to the internet, the dmv, they can't get id's. All the blacks that were interviewed on the other hand did not see an issue with it at all. They were shocked, and annoyed that whites were so stupid and ignorant about how blacks live and operate in today's world. it's amazing how condescending some people are. I saw this example on reddit today. something …
/r/RedPillWives10/11/16 07:24 PM
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and cherries and mango! i just love frozen fruit in general because it's like ice cream but healthier and fewer calories and i could just never go without cold things.
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 03:52 PM
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my favorite fruit recipe: pick strawberries (as many as you can) put them in the freezer wait a couple of hours, depending on your freezer settings enjoy.
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 10:39 AM
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Not sure if scary clown or actual person.
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 08:14 PM
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"put the xbox down, man up, and watch the real housewives with me."
/r/RedPillWives22/10/16 09:42 AM
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how many camles are you and your husband worth? not sure if this has been posted before, but whatever. i got 76 and L got 72.
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 02:50 PM
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this is what happens when you tell people they're awesome and could do no wrong and everything they say is basically rainbows and flowers. though i am kinda sad that i cant do that lightning trick she talked about.
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 07:01 AM
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Same here!
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 06:41 AM
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Do you wash your stuff with hot or cold water? And do you wash your gym bag as well? You said even new clothes start smelling bad fast so it might be worth a try.
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 04:42 AM
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Troll. She posted on the blue pill about how she was rpw but then everyone treated her so badly so now she's blue pill.
/r/RedPillWives12/10/16 06:23 PM
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late to the party but the same hypocrisy happened with McCain's health back in 2008 where a lot of people questioned it and now Hilary's health where certain media outlets portray it as an absurd conspiracy theory.
/r/RedPillWives10/10/16 06:18 PM
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I agree with you but I do think it's part of vetting in the sense that you have to figure out if you can live with his decisions and if your values align.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 06:02 AM
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Right now I just carry a generic brown purse with: My favorite lipstick, it's by p2 which is a pretty cheap brand but I just love love love the color and it stays on forever Water Wallet Phone Pen Rubber gloves in case of first aid or any situation where I might need them Lady pain killers
/r/RedPillWives05/10/16 04:58 PM
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And the gloves are cheap, too. At least here in germany, I think I paid like 3 euros (3.36 bucks) for my last box of 50. Just make sure not to wear them for too long at a time and to use lotion afterwards.
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 07:14 PM
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Even the term honey-do list bugs me. It just sounds so condescending, entitled, and self-absorbed.
/r/RedPillWives18/09/16 12:25 AM
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my number one favorite video on consent according to feminists. honestly, if you're regularly in situations where any of the shit in the video is relevant, you might want to reevaluate your choices.
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 07:07 AM
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OMG those dogs!!! Whoever thought of breeding corgis with other dogs is a genius!
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 06:42 AM
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but you can be at the bar, have a drink and not actually talk to anyone.
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 10:11 PM
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Tomorrow I was thinking my go to: boiled potatoes, quark (like cottage cheese but different with creme and chives) and some chicken. Or maybe some goulash, haven't decided yet.
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 11:12 PM
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thank you! i blow dry my hair almost every day so i know i damage it, too but i just like the way it feels so much better after blow drying than air drying. i just want to hold on to the softness for as long as possible. definitely looking into that heat protection.
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 08:46 PM
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Don't be disappointed if he just wants some time to himself, depending on where he was and what he was doing.
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 08:29 PM
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Do you ever tell them you do it because he likes it and you love him?
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 08:27 PM
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A lot of it has already been covered but here are a few things L and I have talked about when it comes to raising our future children. I'd like them to have a more European attitude when it comes to alcohol. I'm sure my experience is extremely tinted from mostly drinking with soldiers and their wives nowadays but I don't want them to think alcohol is such a rare thing if they have access to it they need to drink all of it and get shitfaced. We're going to have alcohol (glass of wine or beer) wit…
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 07:12 AM
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I completely agree with you. I think for me part of it is that I was never spanked (or even grounded) as a child so now it's just hard for me to imagine wanting to hit a child.
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 06:48 AM
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what do you gals use for heat protection on your hair? i just got my hair cut because it was so damaged and i'd like it to grow back more healthily.
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 03:12 PM
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Haha it sure felt like a mountain in the moment but it was not going to be the hill we die on.
/r/RedPillWives06/09/16 03:21 AM
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ugly: we got last minute invites to a wedding (the night before) and i was super excited to go to a wedding with L but then i just started freaking out about what to wear and how to do my make up and hair. he was about to just tell the couple we're not going because it was that bad. calmed down, thank god, and it was actually a really nice wedding. until we had an unrelated fight. it was bad. good: i feel like when we made up that was really productive. i feel closer to him now and i feel like h…
/r/RedPillWives05/09/16 08:27 PM
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L said it first. It was after about 6 weeks of dating and he was with his buddies drinking when I got a phone call at 3 am. I asked him about it the next morning and he said he wasn't going to say it again until I was ready. Which I was but I told him I was gonna wait until I saw him in person. I've never said it first and in comparison I don't think I ever really meant it before I met him.
/r/RedPillWives05/09/16 07:54 PM
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fetlife maybe? i dont have any weird fetishes so i really dont know. and i get that it's not really sexual for you and i also get that it sucks, but how many sane hb9s without a fetish would really go for someone who may or may not live to see next easter, who depends on his controlling parents and who apparently isn't even attractive himself anymore? you yourself said you're not attracted to your 6/10 friend, but let's face it, you're like a 2 at best right now. you've been given a shitsandwich…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:58 PM
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there are websites for disabled fetishes.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 11:28 AM
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Sorry I misremembered then. As someone who's currently in the process of moving to America and loves reading success stories, can I ask how you did it?
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 03:25 PM
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good: finished a paper last night got my vaccines updated today and it didnt even hurt plus they gave me awesome dinosaur band aids edit: totally just forgot about doing my laundry ahead of schedule, yay for that. bad: should have finished that paper last week i was almost done with all the green card paperwork and just had L double check everything today when he noticed i messed up his social. thank god for strict gun laws here or i would have put one to my head. ugly (literally): i was so tire…
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 12:44 PM
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Didn't you say you guys live in germany in your post the other day?
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 08:44 AM
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lol a for effort on their side. i guess enthusiastic means different things for different people.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 03:32 PM
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My favorite comment there is how not being in the mood and then getting in the mood is going to make you resentful.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 06:27 AM
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you're preaching to the choir here. on the one hand i never would have known L if he wasn't stationed in germany by the army but then other times it's just the suck.
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 10:57 AM
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(although I told my friends to maybe send for the cavalry, should I not text them after a few hours) hahaha i did the same thing when L came over to my house for the first time. i even made up code words so they'd know it was really me in case he turned out to be an axe murderer, lol. congratulations on getting married soon and welcome to the army life ;)
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 09:32 AM
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I don't think I was ever formerly set up, but if someone has a party they're always "boy girl" naturally so you just get to know people and you kind know if you like someone before you ever go on a date with them. I mean I met L online but we still talked for two or three weeks over texts, phone calls and skype before we met so I still knew that I liked what he had to say and we shared values. As far as if you like both gentleman, that's a good question. I guess continue vetting, don't commit to…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 03:45 PM
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Maybe this is a cultural difference but I would have never gone on dates with several men at the same time. Part of it I think is that when I did go on dates it was always with men I already knew either socially through friends or I'd talked to them for a while. What do you do if it goes well with two men at the same time and you'd have to pick?
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 11:56 AM
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oh for sure. i just felt like a lot of times this could lead to days women would think are really nice and that men dont actually enjoy instead of focusing on the man.
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 08:28 PM
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Plan a day that he would love - for just the two of you. Maybe you start by kidnapping him and taking him to breakfast, or by letting him sleep in, giving him a massage and breakfast in bed. Make the whole day special and he will feel loved and appreciated. Or, if you are feeling extra ambitious, plan a surprise getaway for the two of you. the first part seems like great advice but then it starts feeling like something that women would love and most men wouldn't. Maybe it's just what i'm reading…
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 07:13 PM
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"there are no good ones" out there How much would you bet she also has a minion "if you can't handle me at my worst" quote on her social media? To op: there are plenty of good men everywhere but they usually want good women so maybe start by improving yourself.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 11:54 AM
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You're welcome. It was one of those things that I've used a thousand times in speech but never knew where it came from so it was pretty interesting for me as well :)
/r/RedPillWives14/08/16 05:46 AM
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according to wikipedia there are several possible ways. one is basically a theme for many old songs and poems from the late middle ages to the late 1600s. a man would ask a woman (princess or something like that) he inteded to marry to pull him up to her room while he's in a big basket but if she didnt like him she'd manipulate the bottom so he'd fall out or just leave him half way up the castle for everyone to see the next morning. another is that a guy would let someone else know who he wanted…
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 09:09 PM
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In German giving someone a basket means you reject them.
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 08:10 PM
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There are some seriously perverted Pokemon out there. Just the other day I caught a pidgy in my bathroom. It was watching me pee and I felt so grossed out I immediately transfered it to the professor. Maybe I should have gone to the police instead.
/r/RedPillWives11/08/16 08:50 PM
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Thank you for sharing the website. I'm definitely bookmarking it.
/r/RedPillWives11/08/16 08:46 PM
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Wow, I thought this was a safe space. Flowery is actually really triggering as it makes flowers seem weaker and smaller than they are. I'm like literally shaking right now I can barely type. You probably didn't do this on purpose but please keep it in mind. Other than that. Thank you for your advice. I will go and buy more alcohol for him right now and see if i can make it happen again.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 06:19 PM
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I called him mister husband man as we were catching Pokemon in town today. He responded with mr wife woman. Maybe I shouldn't call him husband in public in case he wants to pick up other women?
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 06:06 PM
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That's another thing. I actually identify flower-kin but whenever I try to talk to him about it he just laughs in my face and tells me I need to get my head out of my stem. Due to his different nationality divorce rape would be pretty hard to pull off though. Do you still recommend it?
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 06:04 PM
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My birthday is soon. I was hoping I could savor those last couple of days before I hit the wall but I guess I was in the sun too long :( thank you for wishing me good luck. How many cats do you recommend I get?
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 06:00 PM
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I'm not saying you haven't done anything wrong here but maybe you and your boyfriend aren't that great of a match? If family is really important to him and you're so different from them do you really think it will get better? Do you think you can get used to the noise and business? I'm really introverted myself and I'm pretty sure I couldn't change in that way. I think you need to do some soul searching, or maybe even try harder to appease them and figure out if it would ever get better for you.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 07:37 AM
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Or for any kind of media, really. Like social media for example where everyone only posts the best parts of their life (duh) and you only see the best parts so your life feels less good than it actually is.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 04:44 AM
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My husband actually linked me this post and told me this is special, in the good, completely non sarcastic way.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 04:38 AM
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I had to get up super early last week and to be able to actually spend more time with my husband I stayed up longer and then didn't get up early enough for a ton of make up and then this weekend my face is lobster colored for a lack of sun screen. It's far from ideal and I was worrying about it and he told me that if he needed a full face of make up to find me attractive he wouldn't have married me. Dont look super sloppy but if you're really sick i think the minimum is enough.
/r/RedPillWives31/07/16 10:23 PM
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Hahaha I love that one.
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 09:10 PM
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/r/TumblrInAction /r/fatpeoplestories /r/farpeoplehate (people who are more than a couple of feet away are just the worst) /r/JUSTNOMIL /r/justlegbeardthings i like my outrage porn. also: /r/gonwild /r/GonWildCurvy
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 07:33 PM
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town hall with bernie and trump
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 11:35 AM
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I agree with you. It sucks for milo because he makes his money off of being outrageous but private businesses can do business with whomever they choose. Or at least they should be able to. I've heard a lot of conservatives talk about how it should be a baker's right to not bake a gay wedding cake (which I agree with) but that also means it's twitters right to choose who can use their platform and who can't. It sucks for whoever gets banned because twitter is bigger and more important than a bake…
/r/RedPillWives21/07/16 04:19 AM
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I loved playing with those straws as a kid!
/r/RedPillWives20/07/16 04:59 PM
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lol well, said ex fancied himself a musician and so his song was actually serious and praising me and whatever. just in a super cringy way. and it was like 2 years or so after we broke up.
/r/RedPillWives18/07/16 11:24 AM
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I've had an ex boyfriend write a song for/about me and it was such a nice way of showing me making him an ex was the right decision.
/r/RedPillWives16/07/16 01:08 PM
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Won't that be kinda gross considering I will die first?
/r/RedPillWives15/07/16 01:06 PM
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Lol close enough.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 10:18 PM
3

Who's getting divorced over Pokemon go?
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 09:42 PM
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Can you ask your lawyer what he would propose if it was possible you could see him as a team, not individually?
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 11:10 AM
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Yay L and i are the perfect match. We're both worth 74 camels.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 04:47 AM
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i guess i know what we're having tomorrow, lover.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 08:04 PM
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You can get pizza dough mix or find it premade by the canned biscuits. You can use any jarred pasta sauce hahaha, my dad has a great pizza dough recipe and his sauce is superb, so i'd make it from scratch but i love the idea of mini pizzas. with a lighter sauce, thin crust, vegetables and non super fatty meats it could make a nice lunch. thank you for the suggestiosn, i will definitely put them on the list.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 07:39 PM
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haha i've asked him so many times what he'd like to eat and he always says he doesn't know so now i just pick something and run it by him in case he doesn't want to eat that specific thing. but he really eats everything, it's awesome. i love the stir fry idea. especially now that it's warmer because it can be a really nice and light meal. thank you!
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 06:36 PM
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you know what, that date idea in the middle of the day actually sounds really nice. and i'm sure he's going to love the grilled cheese sandwiches. thank you for your suggestion!
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 06:34 PM
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i love the idea of wraps, thank you! they're so versatile.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 06:32 PM
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thank you for the suggestions! but what the hell are vampire tacos? will i have to sacrifice a virgin?
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 06:31 PM
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Why not just tell him she's trying to help him relax and that's why she's offering and that it's not a "we never do anything" kind of question but a "I want to do what makes you happy and thought it might be nice" question?
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 08:35 PM
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It's not even like there aren't any female super heroes, why not make movies around them?
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 08:32 PM
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Hahaha L and I were at the park today playing and we cross paths with this guy. We could tell from far away that he was playing, too and we actually talked to him for a bit trying to figure out where there are good Pokemon hiding. So might not be so sexless for some people, lol.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 01:49 PM
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Oh please, it's obvious you manipulated him by putting something in his food.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 07:06 AM
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i'm not sure yet because i'm not that advanced but as far as i know you can leave your pokemon in a gym and it fights for you against others while you're offline. i havent unlocked that part of the game yet though.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 05:53 PM
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yes, and if you cant handle me at my worst, i can't even finish that sentence.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 05:27 PM
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haha, well, you basically collect little fictional animals and then you train them and battle other people or fictional characters. it's a lot of fun.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 05:25 PM
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is that a rejection thing maybe? like if you want to look good for someone else and they don't like what you look like it's worse than if you repeatedly tell yourself whatever you're wearing is just for yourself? though the cooking thing is just weird to me.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 05:13 PM
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it's the best game ever. it's so fun and now there's a reason to go outside for all the people who dont usually go outside.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 05:10 PM
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Warmed sparkling water i just had a stroke.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 06:12 PM
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I 100% agree with you. And the thing is, some of those girls already can't find a guy to commit to them right now. They meet someone they really like and once he finds out about their past they try to turn to other people to shame him into commiting to them.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 07:40 AM
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That's also why a male slut isn't a guy who has a lot of sex but who gives commitment to a lot of women and doesn't get it back.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 04:47 AM
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It really is an entertaining app. One thing I didn't write about are the posts where someone asks how many people people who use the app have slept with and it's usually a bunch of virgin or almost virgin guys, one or two who slept with a bunch of women, and a bunch of women who have slept with anywhere from 1-45 guys. Just another concept in action, though of course you should still take self reporting sex numbers with a big grain of salt. L starts laughing as soon as I mention the app because …
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 04:46 AM
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haha i feel silly saying this but i'll probably try it sans the oil some time, we'll see what happens.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 02:27 PM
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lol i did end up reading further but it still sounds really wacky to me. plus, i get really greasy hair naturally so i cant imagine adding to that and then not washing it off. i've tried weaning myself off of shampooing every day before with dry shampoo and the likes for the in between days and it just doesnt work for me. so i was just overall annoyed with the whole post, lol.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 01:21 PM
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If you have any of the following conditons, you should avoid inversion COMPLETELY: pregnancy, hernia, low or high blood pressure*, recent stroke, heart or circulatory problems, glaucoma, conjunctivitis (“pink eye”), detached retina, spinal injury, swollen joints, osteoporosis, unhealed fractures or injuries, ear infection, obesity, or are otherwise unhealthy. not like i read further than this but it makes it sounds really dangerous.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 09:08 AM
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yeah, so i just tried that and it looked way easier online. i need to practice my nails more.
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 09:20 PM
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I'm really bad at patterns but i think i've seen a nail tutorial once where the girl used tooth picks for the stars. maybe it was for decorating a cupcake. Not sure. I think i'm going to try that though, I love the idea. I think my husband thinks i'm a little too excited but i've always wanted to celebrate Indepence day with Americans so I just can't wait.
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 06:24 PM
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I'm just going to comment again because why not. This year is going to be my first real fourth of july with Americans an everything. L and I are going to a BBQ and then to see fireworks. I'm super excited! I'm going to make key lime pie and decorate it with blue berries and whatever red berries look good at the store tomorrow and my friend and I have already decided to get our faces painted at the big event before the fireworks, lol. We're going to sparkle! Though I'm not sure about my outfit ye…
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 06:00 PM
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Happy Almost 4th
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 12:50 PM
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Where you're from do people usually dance naked with their genitals smashing into each other?
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 04:24 AM
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that first album you posted sounds like 80s porn music. i would be laughing way too hard to have sex if that was on in the background.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 08:59 PM
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ah ok, that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 02:53 PM
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I'm against MGM as well because it doesnt make sense, but let's face it, FGM is way more devastating. And those were really just two examples, there are tons more that I just didn't list.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:06 PM
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I mean I guess it depends on the specific person but I still don't think crop tops would look good on someone like that.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 12:13 PM
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It actually is a hate crime and if you're white that will get you sent to prison. I mean I think this collective guilt thing is bs but some things you just can't say.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 11:52 AM
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LOL
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 07:34 AM
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No, sweetie, we were not having a discussion. You can Google it yourself if you want to but your "discussion" techniques are shit so I'm not going to bother.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 07:12 AM
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Lol of course you're successful and you know other successful people so it can't possibly be that generally speaking the things I claimed are true. And #yesallmen are violent girlfriend/wife beaters, huh?
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 07:01 AM
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Well I'm in germany and here it is.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 06:33 AM
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Then I would suggest she get the fuck out. But most single mothers don't become single mothers that way. Statistally speaking being raised by a single mother means you're less likely to finish school, more likely to be poor, more likely to be in prison, etc. Etc. It's worse than growing up poor for all kinds of indicators of success in life.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 06:31 AM
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I don't know why but it just reminded me of a couple of weeks ago when my husband took me to this army community event. His one sergeant wanted to buy a monitor from him because he got a new one. The sergeant then texted his wife to put the money in his bank account and kept rambling on and on about how he's not even saying please. To have his wife give him access to his own money. He desperately tried looking masculine in front of everyone else and then his wife called. It was seriously like a …
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 03:09 AM
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That is true, I just felt like I was already rambling so I didn't elaborate that more, lol. I also think that especially here in germany we have a moral obligation to protect Jewish communities for historical reasons. People always talk about "moderate" Muslims. Moderate Muslims here protest in the streets chanting about how great Hitler was. I don't want more of those people here.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 03:02 AM
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Jesus Christ. You know people have too much time on their hands when that kind of bs happens. And honestly, that's where the man should step up and slap that shit out of the woman.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 02:53 AM
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Couple more cause I can't sleep: I think some cultures are superior to others. Like for example cultures where democracy exists and where there isn't widespread female genital mutilation. I like shooting guns and if I lived in America I'd get a bunch, and one of them would be pink. I'd also conceal carry depending on local laws. I lose a ton of respect for guys who say they're feminists, more so than for women.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 02:11 AM
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I mean we can already see men becoming more feminine. I think best case scenario is those little boys become the new daddy for some other guys kids but since they never had a father figure they don't know how to be one, they only know how to be mom.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 02:04 AM
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Most refugees don't actually need our help, there's no way to assimilate them all into our culture and they actually are taking away jobs from lower class Europeans. The left used advocate for working class people's treatment but it has become a shitshow of virtue signaling and people don't give a flying fuck about poor people anymore. They wonder where the big right wing parties come from but I can totally sympathize and I think it's natural for people to want to protect their country, their wo…
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:39 AM
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Farming leads to sedentary high-density living, making for a dirtier and more infectious environment that's not even true at all. just because there's dirt doesn't mean there are more infections. in fact, people who grew up getting dirty and playing outside are sick less in their overall life spans because they develop a working immune system. and allergies correlate with "more hygenic" conditions as well.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 06:50 PM
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to be fair though the comments on r relationships were overwhelmingly telling her she's wrong and needs to work out her crazy.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 04:26 PM
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And to a city that is known for weed, alcohol and sex, no less. What could go wrong?
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 08:04 AM
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I think a good rule of thumb in any long term relationship is "don't book a flight out of the country without at least telling the other person first". this part of a comment made me laugh out loud. that guy dodged a serious bullet. how did she seriously think that was controlling in any way?
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 04:49 AM
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I just want to highlight the shirt/sweater part. When my husband isn't there I always have a shirt or a sweater of his that he has worn and that smells like him and it really helps at night or even just during the day when it's bad.
/r/RedPillWives28/06/16 05:12 AM
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bill burr has talked about it on conan before.
/r/RedPillWives25/06/16 09:15 PM
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this is the coolest thing ever. you should share more of your maps :D and do you just think up the map or also people/cultures/climate zones/etc.?
/r/RedPillWives23/06/16 11:01 AM
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Is there a community college or similar institution where you live or that you could get to where you could maybe take a class or two each semester? You said you value education and if there's a free or reasonably cheap place that could be a social outlet for you as well? Where I live there's a college that offers guests the opportunity of just listening in on lectures and then there's place by the library that offers all sorts of classes, languages, literature, knitting, cooking, etc. That way …
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 05:05 PM
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Hahaha I scored 4 in hostile and 3.33 on benevolent sexism. I'm totally going to ask my husband to take this to see how he compares.
/r/RedPillWives19/06/16 08:13 AM
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lol i wish i cried as pretty as the women in movies.
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 10:28 AM
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a couple of weeks ago when i was showering my husband suddenly burst into the bathroom, yelled i love you, and slammed the door shut. i dropped the shower head and screamed like i have never screamed before. then i laughed, then i cried really really hard. my husband was just laughing is butt off outside and assumed i was laughing, too until he noticed it sounded more like crying and he came back in and started hugging me, all wet. he kept laughing while i was crying and i cant say i blame him.
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 05:59 AM
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Germany has parking spaces like that. They're usually closer to the exit in parking garages and better lit and also a tad wider than regular parking spaces. They're just not usually pink.
/r/RedPillWives06/06/16 07:52 AM
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For people who believe women should have a choice they sure are opposed to women choosing pretty things.
/r/RedPillWives04/06/16 07:16 PM
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everyone's joking
/r/RedPillWives25/05/16 07:09 AM
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Can I just say how annoyed I am people automatically assume she doesn't know she will get old and she won't look 20 her whole entire life? I mean I know they're misreading on purpose but Jesus fucking Christ. You don't have to look like you're about to go on stage for victorias secret when you're 57 and have the flu but you can absolutely take care of your skin, of what you eat, of how much you exercise and that WILL keep you more attractive than eating at McDonald's every day and smoking three …
/r/RedPillWives21/05/16 08:29 AM
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With a name like furio Hardwick you should go into wrestling!
/r/RedPillWives18/05/16 06:57 PM
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username checks out!
/r/RedPillWives16/05/16 09:11 AM
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My mom is in our area this weekend and she's just been going on and on about this being her first mothers day with her son in law. So despite me not having spent the last 4 or so mothers days with her I think she's more excited about spending it with him than me, lol. We're going out for brunch and I have tea, chocolates and a card for her.
/r/RedPillWives07/05/16 08:30 PM
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The horrifying: right before I met my husband I went on a date with this guy that didn't go super bad. So at the end, he kissed me. Which was him pressing his open lips against mine and then just putting his tongue into my mouth, without moving whatsoever. I was SO uncomfortable I "suddenly remembered I'd have to get up early the next morning" and then just avoided the guy. It was like kissing a dead frog. For 12th grade I moved to a new town and at first only this one guy talked to me. So I fig…
/r/RedPillWives05/05/16 07:39 PM
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Ok, fair enough. Can we still put Candance Cameron-Bure in the working but not careerist category?
/r/RedPillWives03/05/16 08:15 PM
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I actually kinda believe Candance Cameron-Bure. She doesn't seem to be working that much, at least not as far as I can tell and when you hear her talk on the view being a traditional wife really aligns with her views on a lot of things. I think most women here on the sub work as well and it doesn't mean they can't be a good wife at the same time.
/r/RedPillWives03/05/16 07:59 PM
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I feel like it's become socially unacceptable to actually want to be a SAHM. I've kind of dipped my toe in with women I go to school with when the topic was other people's children. I said I think I will want to be a SAHM, at least for a while (when I'm sure I do, for several years and then I'm hoping for part time work when the kids are in school). They immediately started talking about how bored they'd be if they had to stay home with kids all day and how they need adult conversations, basical…
/r/RedPillWives03/05/16 07:48 PM
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I also think it's super creepy that she wanted to give those pictures to a 40something year old married man.
/r/RedPillWives26/04/16 05:26 AM
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You could try hola and then use german Netflix. The movie will still be in English.
/r/RedPillWives26/04/16 05:16 AM
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We just laugh about it.
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 06:15 AM
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University of Tennessee Sorority Row Lay Out When you see it....
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 07:30 PM
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I actually haven't heard of her, but I will definitely go and check out her channel, thank you!
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 07:28 PM
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I was 22 and he was 23, so about the same as you. I think it's weird that we can't invest in love and our future happiness when we're young. If you've found a good man, why would you bet on unhappiness instead of happiness? Relationships don't just happen to you. In fact, you influence them greatly every day.
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 07:28 PM
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I moved across the country for my husband who at the time was my boyfriend. I would do it again in a heartbeat (which is good considering his job lol) and if you love him, and you're both committed to each other, I'd say go for it. If you have a year leading up to this and you're scared you could just start saving money now and then when worst comes to worst you can just move back. And if everything turns out perfectly then a savings account is still a good thing to have. I personally would have…
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 01:31 PM
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In what world is home cooking more expensive than take out?
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 07:24 AM
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Can you recommend any good YouTube channels or videos for beginners? I have a routine that's basically foundation, eye foundation stuff, mascara, eye liner, and lip stick and I want to become better but I have a real hard time finding tutorials where you don't right away have to use 50 things because that always makes me feel like I'm over doing it.
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 07:08 AM
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"What if you guys break up?" What if you don't? How can betting on happiness in a stable long term relationship be a bad thing? I mean I kind of understand that they worry and all but if you know a couple who is in love and who bases their decisions on that why would you ask them what happens if they break up? Especially considering switching colleges really isn't that big a deal.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 02:31 PM
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The comments who asked what about her and she deserves respect, too, really annoyed me. You don't get respect by being a bitch, you get respect by being a good person and a happy husband is so much more likely to reciprocate than one who doesn't want to come home after work because he just gets yelled at and then has to jack off in the bathroom.
/r/RedPillWives19/04/16 11:40 AM
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Maybe it could happen through a p.o. Box? I'm not sure if you have to have the person's name or if it can be done anonymously though. I just really hope the people will be safe.
/r/RedPillWives19/04/16 11:07 AM
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He did, when he was drunk one night really early on in our relationship and over the phone. I asked him the next morning if he meant it and he said he did but wasn't going to say it again until I was ready. I told him I was but I wanted to wait until we see each other to tell him in person.
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 03:11 PM
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hahah I'm Hedwig, too :D
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 08:33 AM
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Trigger warning: buzzfeed. Which dead Harry Potter character are you? Baby arm or bread? (not technically a personality test, but fun.) What percent basic are you? What percent grandma are you?
/r/RedPillWives17/04/16 10:27 AM
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https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/selectatest.html not sure how fun they are but i think they're really interesting. they have tests on a variety of topics, made by harvard.
/r/RedPillWives16/04/16 08:28 PM
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Apparently L and I are like Miles and Iris from the holiday. I barely even remember that movie. Guess I'm going to have to go see it again, lol.
/r/RedPillWives16/04/16 07:43 PM
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But those bosses can be female and you can work your way up? I don't understand your point.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 06:28 PM
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Oh yeah I know, I just meant to say that's not sexism or if there is a double standard it's tilted in favor of women.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 04:20 PM
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Yeah but you have to think of your children, too. If he can't control his drinking you need to take a step back and reevaluate.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 09:32 AM
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Well, 3 drinks I could live with, 12 drinks is extreme.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 09:02 AM
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3 to 12 drinks over what period of time?
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 08:57 AM
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How much does he drink? If he's an actual alcoholic and you can't have your kids around him when he's drunk you need to pull the plug and get out of there, for them.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 08:44 AM
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A patriarch vs "the patriarchy" is answering to one man vs all of them.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 08:41 AM
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I laughed out loud when she said when she doesn't eat she's in eating disorder territory and when she does eat she feels bad about herself, too, for eating like a human being should eat. You don't get to 400 lbs by eating like a normal human being.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 06:04 AM
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Didn't watch the video but... Female orgasm is rater R? Really? Male orgasm is rated x, so...
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 05:48 AM
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Or they beg people for money to make a video series and then only make 4 out of 12 promised videos and then just beg for some more money for a different project. Guess video games aren't that bad after all.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 05:43 AM
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Maybe she should have titled it "what women really want is a patriarch"? I feel like that fits the whole article better.
/r/RedPillWives13/04/16 08:17 PM
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I disagree with part about messaging every single guy back. I think you should message everyone who had some sort of base level politeness back, but some guy just sending you a dtf message is not worth it, and it will make him think you would go for that sort of thing so you actually do have to block him. For guys like that it's a numbers game and just a waste of time to message them back.
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 06:18 PM
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RIP knife.
/r/RedPillWives10/04/16 07:35 PM
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I saw that too with a picture of the same woman. With all the misandry going on in feminism it should really be the other way around.
/r/RedPillWives10/04/16 07:32 PM
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When I was still in medical school there was a doctor who would advise all the students to date teachers because they will be home when the kids are home. It makes a lot of sense for a doctor (or anyone with a stressful career) to try and find a partner with a less stressful and time consuming job.
/r/RedPillWives10/04/16 07:43 AM
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downside to this, girls hit on him, fkin shameless sloots this happens to my husband a lot, too. like i'll be standing right next to him, or even in his arms and they still hit on him. even my dad's husband is all smitten when he's around. The man is a God-damn Sexual Tyrannosaurus. Enough Said. this made me lol.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 06:30 PM
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the most handsome smile. :) sorry, my husband gets to claim that :P
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 06:26 PM
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In case anyone wanted the sub to the one picture about changing the word men to Jews in tumblr posts.... /r/menkampf
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 08:14 AM
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I read the self deprecating humor part completely different and I agree that it's usually the intention that's important. Like for example when I have a brain fart my husband will just give me that look, I'll realize what I just said and it usually ends in me repeating it and laughing about it and him teasing me. Sometimes it can be really funny when you say stupid things.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 07:41 AM
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haha awww
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 03:51 PM
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well, it's always what you make of it. my husband and i actually met on a dating website. they usually let you pick what kind of relationship you're interested in and then you actually talk to the people who message you a bit before meeting and usually it's pretty clear what they're after.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 10:08 AM
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All I ever wanted was to find a good man, settle down and start a family. I cant imagine what it must be like for single RPW looking for a partner now Its like the whole world went mad in the last couple decades. I honestly don't think it's as bad as they would like to make it seem. Most people in the real world still want to get married. The TRP-sub has rougly 150000 subscribers and even of those there is a significant portion who does end up getting married. Even if you look at the statistics …
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 08:34 AM
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She also continued to wear her purity ring for years after she started sleeping around and said that sex was "masturbating with someone else's body." So probably for the best that that friendship ran its course. this only works if it's the backdoor though.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 08:25 AM
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hey :D I'm frozen, I'm in my 20s, married to an awesome man who likes to dadjoke ("I'm hungry." "Hi hungry, I'm husband.") and who introduced me to RPW. I like cooking, baking, knitting, reading, making maps, and I'd love to learn how to sew.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 07:50 AM
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geography! yes!!!! you should totally come to the irc!
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 07:34 AM
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I get that it's fiction and supposed to be funny you know what they say... it's funny cause it's true. the only reason there are people laughing about those videos is that they recognize themselves and see those fights as universal truths. although, only savages put the toilet paper under, so that totally is a legitimate reason to fight.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 09:39 PM
5

oh ok. i was like, who else would you think about when communicating with your SO?
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 06:23 PM
4

Thank you for posting this reminder. I remember the comic but I don't usually remember to implement it and I think I generally need to work on being more positive. Those examples are really great. I think something to keep in mind is also that apologizing too much takes away the meaning when you do mess up. So people might think since you always apologize anyway you think this is on the same level as a situation where thanking them would have been better.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 06:06 PM
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what do you mean not always?
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 06:00 PM
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ah ok, so then your situation is just overall different from mine. you obviously always have to have your SO in mind when doing those things.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 05:57 PM
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i think tone is really important there. i do it almost every single time my husband initiates and he just knows i like it when he's dominant and "convinces"/"seduces" me. it's easy to come of bitchy when you dont mean to but you can try to keep it light and playful by smiling and speaking in a higher more girly pitch.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 05:48 PM
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in a relatonship i dont think it is. it always depends on your tone of voice and your body language but you can make it flirty or you can shoot him down completely both with just the word "no".
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 05:20 PM
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I use LMR almost every time he initiates. To me it's just kind of part of flirting and the way he "wins me over" is sexy. He knows when my "no" is an actual no or when it's a yes, please continue. I say it with a smile one my face.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 05:19 PM
1

so this probably doesnt apply to your guy but my husband loves his lego and my mom gave him a huge lego star wars set for his last birthday. maybe he would like some sort of exercise gear like a fitbit?
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 05:15 PM
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Just the other day I read somewhere that sex is basically an aphordisiac. So the more sex you have the more sex you end up wanting. i know it's not a solution for every problem, but just saying yes even when you're not in the mood can go a long way.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 04:30 PM
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I think it's pretty telling how disgusted she looks when he tries to tell her how she emasculates him while at the same time blaming him ("why didn't you say something then?"). She still won't take responsibility at all.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 03:47 PM
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it's not just practical, it's also romantic because the man actually has to sit down and spend hours making the spoon. i love the idea.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 01:10 PM
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yeah, I completely agree with you there. but you know what they say... feminism is about giving women a choice. as long as we choose what they want us to choose.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 02:04 PM
3

Look at it this way: If he were you right now, he would probably want himself to shut the fuck up, too. You’ve got some really interesting points to make about gymnastics! sidebar material right there!
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 10:18 AM
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But while it’s not any less difficult, staying at home is increasingly seen as an alternative to the harsh reality of the workplace by some women. Dr Henderson describes a culture of retreatism in young women. “We bring girls up saying that they can do anything with their lives, and then they go to university and get a job and find out the workplace is tough,” she says. “The home is becoming this haven from a bad, tough old world.” Can she be any more condescending? That right there is exactly w…
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 10:03 AM
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I have nothing really to add right now but I feel like your flair kind of undersells you. Obviously being married for 14 years is awesome and a big deal especially with your husband's job and all but there is not a single comment I've read from you where I didn't go "wow, she's so right and she put it in words so well, I wish she could be my army wife mentor."
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 09:12 AM
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that's the perfect dress for when you don't get married.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:50 PM
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How can someone claim to be an advocate for women and then trivialize rape like that? It's one of the most horrible things that could happen to a person and she acts as if flirting and healthy expression of sexuality can somehow be equated to being dragged into a dark alley and forced to have sex.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 08:24 PM
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"women who sleep with you on the first date sleep with everyone on the first date which makes them sluts so don't ltr them but also if you're looking for an ltr make sure she sleeps with you on the first date". doesn't sound stupid at all.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:01 PM
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you sound weak even just from posting here. of course people are going to look at the weakling to see if he defends himself or if he takes it up the ass.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 07:58 PM
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I agree with you. And I would add to generally not text him when he needs his alone time unless he initiates it. It can seem like not a big deal because you're not physically with him or pressuring him to be with you but it might still put pressure on him to interact with you when he just needs to recharge.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 07:25 PM
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After hearing what I heard in the IRC I'm with you 100%.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 12:45 PM
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Did you see the video of a woman attacking a man at a university for wearing dread locks? I guess it really has become that ridiculous. this is him debating and this is the woman assaulting the man
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 08:20 AM
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I'm still not convinced he didn't hire those people to make himself look better and to promote his tour. They're just so incredibly stupid it's hard to imagine someone actually thought this protest was a good idea. He also debated an actual feminist the other day (I'll link the video when I get to a computer) and it was well worth watching, too.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 08:09 AM
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I love bragging about my husband, this should definitely be a thing :D
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 08:05 AM
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otherwise I couldn't trust him at all that's the point i was trying to make.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 08:18 PM
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right. and if they were to throw themselves at him he'd totally reject their advances because he's with you now.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 01:08 PM
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It's a big red flag. Why would he be friends with people he used to have crushes on? Sounds like he is still orbiting them.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 10:25 AM
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i actually agree that military life in this case was probably the larger contributor than feminism. there's a reason LDR aren't advised here. being married to a soldier is an LDR on steroids because not only do you get to deal with the distance, there are sometimes weeks, if not months, of zero communication, during both deployments and regular field exercises, and most of all the general uncertainty. but ultimately it still comes down to personal responsibility and choice. the woman should have…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 06:43 PM
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People delude themself into thinking that an hour glass shape is only achieved when a woman is overweight. No one seems to accept that a woman can have a perfect hour glass shape and be 100 lb or less. and most overweight women don't have an hour glass shape at all. you have to be really lucky to carry fat that way and 99% of women don't.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 09:52 AM
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Men liking curves means there should be several of them (like in an hour glass), not just one like in an apple. Fat acceptance ultimately hurts the women who buy into it (since most men still seem to know that being fat is unhealthy and not attractive to the vast majority of people) most. How is it empowering to basically cripple yourself? Is it not more empowering to actually be able to do stuff? The fat acceptance people who claim obese people are just as capable of physical exercise as skinny…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 05:07 PM
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https://archive.is/SjiKp Here is an archived link for those who don't want to give that site any traffic. Other than that: it's always easy to accuse people of being abused when you don't agree with their way of life. I never saw that show, but there's a reason you're supposed to pick a good man.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 07:38 AM
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really? i felt like from the first word on the author tried to make us sound as bad as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/16 11:35 PM
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You should go back and read the top advice to your original post.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/16 08:13 PM
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right. and since cocoa comes from a plant, chocolate is basically a vegetable ;)
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 06:30 PM
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They honestly sound more like 13 year old than 30 year olds.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 05:45 PM
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what the hell kind of man gets upset because you dont text back immediately when you're busy with your sister who is visiting from out of country?
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 05:08 PM
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i really hate it when people use "eating for two" as an excuse to eat a whole apple pie in between meals. first of all, that's not eating for two, it's eating for eight, and second of all, shouldnt you want to eat as healthily as possible to give your child the best possible start to life? you're responsible for another person's life, act like it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 05:00 PM
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If you're a man and you want red pill relationship advice go to /r/asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 10:31 AM
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Thank you. Those really are sad.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 06:08 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 04:59 PM
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It redirected me to a virus site. Just as a warning to other people on their phones/without adblock. Can you maybe copy and paste the jokes or something?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 04:55 PM
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To quote Christina Hoff-Sommers: "Want to close wage gap? Step one: Change your major from feminist dance therapy to electrical engineering."
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 10:36 AM
4

"what do all of your failed past relationships have in common? You." My husband is smarter than me but we both have our fields of expertise. So when he says something related to mine that is wrong I just tell him. I'll still be engaged in the conversation but I'll just say something like "actually, it's more like this or that". And he's usually interested in where he was wrong and why. So I would suggest you to just correct them. You can do that while still being soft and feminine and making him…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 08:39 AM
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havent finished watching but that connie woman who broke up with her fiance two days after they got engaged because he bought her new carpet that she wanted needs therapy, not a self help book.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 10:05 PM
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If he likes everyone's pictures I frankly don't see a problem there. Take a chill pill.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 01:04 PM
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Does he like other people's pictures, too or just hers?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 11:40 AM
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Haha it's tupperware and I got it from my dad. It makes it super easy to open cans and there are no sharp edges or anything. I tried a different kind at a friend's house a couple of weeks ago and I couldn't work it at all lol.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 02:26 PM
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Haha I know right. But I'm glad they chose the song because I love it and I would have never known about it without the show.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 10:23 AM
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I've been watching the Gilmore girls and just love their theme song. So where he leads I will follow. There are maps online that plan a route for you through every state so I'd hope we do something like that, and see all the important things, so I think I'd suggest that if he were to ask or just sit back and relax if he made surprise plan. For things I would take: I really really love my can opener so that's a must.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 04:58 AM
1

Hope I'm not insensitive but aa as in alcoholics anonymous?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 11:33 AM
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I don't have kids yet but I think leading by example is usually the best way to go.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 06:42 PM
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haha i'm glad. it's the most polite thing i could come up with.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 12:37 PM
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I think you should have a talk with him and tell him how his destructive behavior is affecting both you and your unborn child. You mentioned he has missed job interviews because of his fucked up sleep schedule. How is he supposes to find a job when he can't get up for the interview? Usually being supportive is the way to go but sometimes you just have to snap his head back in the right place. He's young so of course he feels anxiety that he's now responsible for three people instead of just him …
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 08:06 AM
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She's 8 months pregnant you idiot.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 07:58 AM
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I haven't had a kid myself yet so I don't really know but I figured you can never go wrong with clean dishes and completed laundry.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 08:32 AM
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If you have the time and are up for it maybe you could also do simple tasks that need to be done, like cleaning the dishes, folding the laundry, etc?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 08:11 AM
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He once traded his food in the field for a bag of Swedish mre because he knew I'd love it. Which means he didn't just think of me and about how much I'd love it he also went with less food (or no food) for a day in the field. I thought it was incredibly sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 08:08 AM
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you mentioned euros so i assume theoretically you could also take the bus or the train?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 06:48 PM
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if you live somewhat close to a university with a psychology department you can try them. they usually have psychologists, you'd just have to be willing to be treated by a student in their last year supervised (your sessions might be recorded but not necessarily) by a teaching psychologist.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 05:20 PM
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You need therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 11:34 AM
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Hahaha we do that too! Since he's a soldier when I talk about him with certain friends I usually refer to him as [his current rank] America. It all started by one of them calling him captain America all the time but he's not actually a captain so we switched it up.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 08:34 AM
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https://youtu.be/HdnW-NM_Nrs I think terrance popp is hilarious and this video is on topic, too.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 07:46 PM
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No, that wasn't it. The one I remember was of a middle aged couple where the man had an affair and wanted to leave his wife for the other woman who was also married. And I think the poster was a regular, but I'm not super sure about that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 10:24 PM
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Not sure if you can search for posts from specific dates but I remember reading one from a woman who was cheated on by her husband and I think he actually left her. Should have been posted on either 12/28 or 12/29 2014 (i read it at the airport so I remember the date).
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 04:39 PM
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Well I figure if you're interested in where in America people are from make that a question and then you can also add something like western world/elsewhere or Europe/Australia/south America/rest of North America/Asia/Africa.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 04:21 PM
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this was pretty funny, too, I think.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 08:52 AM
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I read their sub sometimes because I think it's hilarious. The way they twist words to make themselves look like they have the reading comprehension of a first grader. It's amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 08:42 AM
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I think it would also be interesting to ask about personal and family religion, aside from region. And I think those questions would be interesting for people not from the US, too. As in, have Americans sort themselves into regions but still ask follow up questions that everyone can answer.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 08:00 AM
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"that's not very nice" is exactly that negative rise though. With the added benefit of making you look like a first year gender studies major.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 05:41 PM
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"that's not very nice" is a really stupid thing to say to a bully. They already know they're not being nice and if they cared they wouldnt be bullies in the first place. It gives them power over you by acknowledging what they do is working.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 11:28 AM
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i cant stop looking at that kid.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 07:54 AM
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Are you bossing your husband around and being a general bitch? I think I know what you're saying but I don't think what you're doing is as important as how you're doing it. A woman supporting her husband on his farm is an ancient concept and it never made anyone less feminine. Because what could be more feminine and more beneficial to your relationship and your life than making sure your business succeeds? Always have your husbands back.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 10:24 PM
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Feminity isn't just wearing make up and pretty dresses. In fact, that's the most superficial part of it all. Working on a farm you will have to wear practical clothing because anything else would just be silly. I suppose you could get pink flower rubber boots but is it really worth it? Be his soft place to land, be silly and up beat but work hard.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 08:40 PM
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I agree and I'd like to emphasize the cutting contact part. It won't get any easier the more they talk about it and he'll see it as a door that's still partially open.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 11:14 AM
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Maybe you had the owner wait on you or something because him you wouldn't tip. Other than that: I'm German and I've lived in germany all my life and I can't think of another instance where you wouldn't tip.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 11:42 AM
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Yeah I wasn't 100% sure on other European countries but I've never had anyone not accept extra money either
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 07:52 AM
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How much did you leave? And are you sure he scoffed at you and wasn't just german? Sometimes it's hard to tell.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 07:51 AM
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I know it's not really the point but it annoys me that people keep perpetuating this myth of no tipping in germany, and Europe. You do tip. Not as much as in America but leaving less than 10% is pretty damn rude.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/16 11:33 PM
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uh yeah but a lesbian feminist isnt an authority on male mental health.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/16 08:42 AM
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How is this relevant to rpw?
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/16 07:35 AM
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I don't think I'd be married for much longer if I talked about our bedroom life like that on the Internet. And I doubt many other men would be fine with their ltrs sharing like that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 10:39 AM
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Have him teach you his favorite Co op video game and play together. Also, tickle wars.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/15 11:29 AM
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Don't seek a red pill wife, seek a traditional one. There are more of those.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 10:42 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 06:29 PM
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Pure alphas aren't marriage material. We want a nice mix of alpha and beta qualities. And sexual strategies of trp and rpw are very different.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 03:52 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 08:21 AM
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Haha, the good thing about eating with him is that I always feel less hungry and I'm full faster, so usually he'll finish my food anyway. :) Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:40 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:37 AM
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He really is and I couldn't ask for a better man. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:37 AM
1

Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:36 AM
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Thank you, I will, after our honeychristmas is over :p
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:36 AM
2

What's the title of his book? It sounds like it's worth a read :) And thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:35 AM
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Thank you :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:34 AM
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Thank you! That sounds like really good advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:34 AM
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Haha, I don't think the tickle wars are ever going to stop between us :p and thank you! (I guess I'll edit the post for more details in a minute)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:33 AM
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Thank you! The justice of peace had something along those lines in his speech which I loved. I don't even remember all of it but afterwards as we were sipping champagne he came over and talked to us about it again. And he said to never forget that we both make mistakes and to always look at how we individually went wrong and to never stop trying to improve.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:32 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:30 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:29 AM
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Haha I know right. I love the flair, too. Thank you to whoever put it there, and thank you :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:29 AM
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Thank you :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 07:28 AM
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Thank you :D
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/15 11:44 PM
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Thank you! I'll stop by the chat tomorrow because it's a little annoying to use on my phone and I don't want to produce too much light while he's asleep :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/15 11:44 PM
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Exactly. And I don't know what it's like on the American version but in germany they even give them the best seats so they won't deduct points for "not being able to see anything". It's so stupid. A wedding is supposed to be for friends and family, not strangers. And another thing: here they call it the perfect wedding. In my opinion, what makes a wedding perfect isn't strangers there judging. /End bitching.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 05:46 PM
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We just ordered our wedding rings from etsy, too. The guy makes all the rings to order and I just love how they weren't mass produced or made to be sold but made specifically for us exactly how we want them. And they're rather inexpensive as well. I looked around some and tried to find rings that match my fiances wishes and the guy looked like the best, so I'm hoping they'll turn out as good as we hope. To me it was a lot more important that the rings match than anything else.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 04:18 PM
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Four weddings is such a bitchfest. I don't understand how anyone would willingly participate in that. And it bugs me how female centric those weddings always are. Like it's her day, not theirs. Just not special or romantic or a celebration of love at all.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 04:10 PM
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It's a very angsty teenage sort of way to look at it. I felt the same when I was a teenager. I think it's normal to some extent.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 03:15 PM
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Pain isn't always a bad thing. It's not pleasant, but a life without pain would just be dull.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 06:09 AM
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I do understand male desire and the wall. Today we have a common divorce culture. If men are less attracted to 50 year old women, they are more likely to divorce them and upgrade to a younger model. If this woman doesn't have a good career, then her prospects in life are far worse. The only way for a woman to guarantee things will get better, is work on a career because of the divorce and higher standards we have today and lack of commitment. Then her life can keep getting better and better afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 03:03 PM
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Everyone knows jk or no offense are things people say when they know it's rude but want to blame the other person if they end up offended.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 11:19 AM
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I didn't mean that I just didn't pay attention to how I worded it. Don't have kids would have probably been better.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 05:21 AM
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Well that's the basis of everything.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 01:04 AM
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Well of course but we do advocate more traditional gender roles on here and stay at home moms are part of that to some extent.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 09:57 PM
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That's true but I don't think aspiring to be anything bad or half ass is something we should do. I want to be a stay at home mom and I want to have all the chores done by the time my husband gets home so we actually have that time together.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 09:55 PM
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Don't most of the women who work on here not have children? Because I think there's a huge difference between working and having small children and working and not having children/having grown up children. Personally, I think having a stay at home mom is just extremely undervalued in society. My own mom worked full time (and divorced my dad when my brother and I were young) and I was always jealous of the kids who had stay at home moms because the best days were when she was home when I got home…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 03:09 PM
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The thing about overdosing with what's on hand is that thats often over the counter or relatively mild medication. Which means your body goes through a whole process of trying to get rid of them (which is extremely painful and will most likely cost you your liver or kidneys, even if you're found in time) and the painkillers turn into paincausers. (is that even appropriate to say on a forum like this?) Anyway, don't most people who attempt suicide have suicidal thoughts long before they do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 06:59 AM
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Pills are actually really painful, especially if you take the wrong kind, while you're dead pretty much immediately after shooting yourself in the head. I'm not up to speed on American gun laws but in most states can't pretty much anyone go to Walmart and get themselves a gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 06:49 AM
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But it's not like men don't have access to medication or women don't have access to guns (and both could just go and.buy what they need) so why do women use slower methods than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 06:24 AM
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seems to be based on an irrational hatred of women damn, all that internalised misogyny got me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 10:49 AM
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women use suicide attempts as calls for help while men who try to commit suicide want to actually go through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 10:10 AM
2

I was going to say budget bytes, too! I love how the author always has ways to modify the recipe. I've made some awesome food using her recipes. Try out the pumpkin spiced snickerdoodles!
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 06:39 AM
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Most surgeries aren't that pretty though. I've had my hymen removed, too and it helped. It didn't make my vaginismus go away and I still need to use dilators when I haven't had sex in a while but after the surgery at least I could use the smallest size tampons. Op, if you and your gyno think it will be the right thing to do then get the surgery. It helped me a lot. And obviously work on the other things you bring to the table, as all the others have said.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/15 04:11 AM
4

Especially one who also admits he let's his wife sleep with other men. That's a cuckold, not an alpha.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 03:12 AM
3

How can you even be sure the kid is yours?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/15 12:43 PM
1

Everyone's bodies are the same in that way because you can't create fat out of thin air.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/15 10:06 PM
9

i was in the process of typing out a whole rant about bs like that but decided against it because nothing is to be gained from it. feminist activists make a living off of finding issues, if they dont, even huffington post would have to let them go. i dont know anything about the tax system in england but here in germany hygene products are all at 19% vat (i think, lol). my fiance's job (and many other professional settings) requires him to be clean shaven and with very short hair. he spends a lo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/15 04:22 PM
1

I Googled tdee calculator and I think I used the first one that popped up.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/15 08:05 AM
3

That's why I said some things are more nutritious than others. But if you eat fewer calories than you burn you will lose weight. Doesn't matter where those calories come from.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/15 07:40 AM
5

That's fatlogic. A calorie is a calorie. Some things sure are more nutritious than others but if you eat more calories than you burn you will gain weight, if you eat fewer calories than you burn you will lose weight. It's really as easy as that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 06:51 AM
15

Hooray fatlogic. Even at 5'7" if I were to eat 2000 calories a day I'd be gaining weight, even with moderate exercise. That 2000 calorie figure is roughly the average of what people need. So if you're a short skinny woman it's going to be way too much whereas for a tall bulky man it wouldn't be enough. I don't just really don't get how people can still not understand nutrition basics like that. It's like saying a smart car needs as much fuel as a pick up truck.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 03:55 PM
3

Maybe guy she's orbiting or gso? Or random sex dude, rsd? Or just fuckbuddy, depending on how much vulgarity you're inclined to use?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 04:03 PM
3

I just didn't know what else to call him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 03:52 PM
7

Fun and light in this context = plate.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 03:49 PM
5

Ok, but this one guy left you because you're too intense and he doesn't have time for himself and you respond with being so intense you half move in with your brother and take away his time for himself thinking the other guy might spend time with you, and not feel pressured at all because your brother is there as a back up plan.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 02:58 PM
4

Additionally to what the other two have said: have you even asked your brother if he'd be ok with you moving in for the weekends? He (and his family if he has one) needs time for himself, too. Plus, it would be a huge financial expense for him, considering you're not going to pay your part (rent, utilities, food, it adds up quickly). Overall I don't think it would be a good idea because you're imposing on your brother and your guy. You really need a chill pill.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 01:56 PM
5

Maybe try and let the man lead the conversation. If he asks about your job, talk about it. If he didn't want to know, he probably wouldn't ask, or ask follow up questions. You can still ask him questions about his work and his life but if he's interested in you, why not? Of course it's a different story if you relate everything back to your job but if you do talk about other things as well I don't see the inherent issue with talking about what you do.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 08:01 PM
2

You yourself said that you don't necessarily want to make it a career but make music as a hobby. Why would you stop that just because there are people who are better at it than you? If you enjoy it, keep working on it. We all need hobbies and music is a great one.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 07:53 PM
2

We don't really fight and I can barely remember the last time we did but he handles it extremely well. He won't even give me a chance to freak out, he'll just walk (or not answer the phone) and come back and talk to me again after a while. It gives me time to calm down and think about what the actual issue is and it helps a lot. I know sometimes I'm not the most rational person so having him automatically take control over the situation is great. I try to remember to stay calm but he makes me wh…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 05:33 PM
1

On this sub it really doesn't matter what men were like back then and what they're like now. We focus on how we can improve ourselves to attract that kind of high value man and how to then make his life better. Who cares what men were like back then? Because women now sure arent behaving as they were in the 50s either.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 02:06 PM
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Im pretty sure that second person took at least as much, if not more time and products for her make up. She does look somewhat natural but you can tell she's just really skilled at it and would most likely look very different without any make up. That being said, I agree with most of the others. Make up should be used to enhance your own beauty, so don't over do it but don't necessarily under do it either. I go for a natural look (but more natural than in the picture) on a day to day basis with …
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 01:54 PM
6

honestly, this article just makes the author look stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/15 05:54 PM
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4) This might be controversial, but to me player behavior is a red flag. If he's deflecting about his commitment, flirts with other girls, disappears for long periods of time without accounting for what he's doing, has "girl best friends", pressures immediately for stuff like threesomes, unreasonably large partner count, string of crazy exes (thanks /u/littleknownfacts!) etc....meh. I don't see why that would be controversial. If he doesn't want to commit you can't force him to. It will make you…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 09:38 PM
1

Haha thank you
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/15 03:47 PM
6

You could start enforcing your boundaries when your friends and family tell you he's working too many hours. You could tell him it's great he is passionate about his work and how lucky you are to be able to be a stay at home mom and that you're happy he doesn't have to work a job he hates. And if they do start telling you how sucky it is that he works a lot you could counter that with his positive traits. Maybe start with an internal monologue when bad thoughts pop up and go from there. You coul…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/15 08:32 PM
2

You might as well turn yourself in to the police. We all know what you've done.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 01:35 PM
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This lack of actually knowing women’s lives led Powell to the conclusion that if these men couldn’t connect or care to intimately know about women’s lives, they weren’t able to respect them enough not to perpetrate violence against their bodies. Yes. People who don't know what amelia earhart did are literally raping women.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 09:19 AM
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"I don't want to be with someone who is so madly in love with me he settles for the shitty version of me. I wanna be the best person possible." I liked that especially.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/15 02:11 PM
2

What brought you to Germany if I may ask?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/15 01:02 PM
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Half of the advice you give men don't care about and the other half would make her seem like a stuck up bitch.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 01:33 PM
4

I'm German.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 05:28 AM
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I don't think you should specifically mention sex because that sends the exact opposite message of what you're trying to send. Like how generally when girls say they never do something it's last minute resistance so they don't seem like sluts to themselves and then do that exact thing. Most dating websites will have a "what are you looking for" type question and there I would put that you're only looking for a long term relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 05:25 AM
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honest question because i dont spend very much time on here or the blue pill: what about that analogy is dumb? in what way does it or the concept it represents not work?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 07:50 PM
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If your kids are old enough, have them take over some of the chores. If not, do the bare minimum, as in clean dishes and somewhat clean kitchen, clean important bathroom parts and everyone always puts their stuff away (if they don't already, especially the kids). That way the house doesn't turn into a complete disaster during the ~week you're out but you also get to rest which is important in getting healthy. If you don't have any energy at all, you need to stay in bed because you're not doing a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 12:31 PM
1

Sending nudes to a guy that isn't her husband is pretty much cheating though. And their face timing probably wasn't about how great the weather is either.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 06:37 AM
1

Phew.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/15 03:59 AM
2

Well there are people who do blame victims but they're in the minority and I get the feeling it mostly happens when guys are assaulted because boners. Most victim blaming happens through the victims themselves. Like how op feels the need to defend herself and her decision to let him into her home when she had no reason to suspect anything was going to happen. There's a lot of shame attached to being a victim of sexual assault and many people blame themselves for a long time.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 04:57 PM
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It's not your fault. Those other people were stupid jackasses. I would tell him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 06:43 AM
3

Well I've never been there myself but I know a couple of people who have. The stories are pretty much all the same...
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/15 03:30 AM
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Even with conditions you can't get fat if you don't overeat. Even thyroid diseases and pcos which are favorites among fat people won't make them fat unless they eat more calories than they burn because the human body can't create anything (aka fat) from nothing. It's basic physics. Of course there are conditions where the person just feels extreme hunger and has to eat all the time but those start at infant ages and are extremely rare.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 03:19 AM
3

Yeah. Remember the night club bombings in Bali a couple of years back? It's a huge part of their tourism industry. Of course there are many other things to do there as well but anyone with a backpack is going to be partying a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/15 02:51 AM
2

Not sure about China but backpacking through south east Asia is practically synonymous with partying.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/15 02:37 AM
8

I think this should be in the side bar.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 08:33 PM
5

This is purely anecdotal. One of my neighbors was arrested last night for breaking a female neighbor's door (lucky for her his kicks just made the door harder to open) because she didn't suck his dick after he ate her out repeatedly. I live in a place where prostitution is legal and the closest hooker is less than a two minute walk from here. The second closest is just down the hill so all he'd have to do is get on something with wheels and have physics take him there. He didn't care about that.…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:32 PM
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Then honestly that jealousy really isn't all too irrational. You've already seen him cheat on an ltr before and it sounds like if he didn't end up liking you enough to jump the ship, he'd still be with her, probably cheating with someone else. Up your girl game and make sure your relationship doesn't just idle like his last one. And don't let him feel any jealousy or it will just push him away.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 09:47 PM
2

Can you elaborate on what made him cheat on his ex with you and not break it off first? What was their relationship like? Why was the end of their relationship and the start of yours so messy?
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 09:10 PM
2

Hahaha that's a brilliant idea. I'm going to make me one of those bingo cards, too!
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 06:04 AM
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Maybe you need to reevaluate your priorities because it seems like it's not working out great for you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 03:13 PM
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If he does find a way to contact you again after you blocked him you can still talk to your boyfriend and handle it differently. But z is most likely embarrassed or doesn't even remember it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 05:00 PM
1

Sorry I can't really tell from the picture but what makes this different from a regular vegetable peeler thingie?
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 06:47 PM
2

You forgot to color out a name in one of the pictures, just FYI so you can replace that picture. Other than that, this is one of the things you could post anywhere on reddit and still get the same reaction because objectively, this girl was being an assholes. It really doesn't have much to do with femininity, just with being a decent human being.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 02:06 AM
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Ah ok. If it's about wanting to know about his day then why not just ask him on your dates?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 09:47 AM
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Thank you. I thought the exact same thing. Not being connected to everyone 24/7 is normal. OP, do you use proper phone etiquette when you're on dates with him? As in, not look at it, or even have it on the table? Because that might be a huge turn off for him as it is super rude.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 09:02 AM
1

a forgotten anniversary is not one of them. she could have texted him and wished him a happy anniversary and he would have remembered. plus, they still had a nice dinner AND he apologized. stop being an entitled brat.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 12:27 PM
1

yeah exactly. plus, if you had just texted him a happy anniversary i'm sure he would have picked up flowers or something on the way to your date. besides, it didnt sound like your night was that bad, aside from him forgetting and you making a big deal out if it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 12:23 PM
2

that your boyfriend should have remembered the anniversary. bullshit on so many levels.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 11:40 AM
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what the hell kind of question is that? of course you have anniversaries when you're not married. you still enter in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 06:31 AM
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In what way is this a red pill response? He was stressed out and forgot.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 06:24 AM
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Of course you have anniversaries in non married relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 06:19 AM
2

i honestly dont think salad is filling either. if you dont like raw veggies then why dont you cook them? you could make a simple pan fried dish, like fried potatoes with onions, bell peppers and brokkoli, seasond to your liking.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 08:38 PM
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then why are we having this discussion? nobody on here would ever say not being sexy for your man is a good idea. but the question was what OP should get for that class. and lingerie for a class is not a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 08:05 PM
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Aaaand to achieve that op should buy lingerie for a class at a conservative school? It's just not appropriate. Plus. Who in the hell would want a wife who presents her underwear to random strangers for a grade? Does* not sound very classy to me. She can take care of her man in the privacy of their own home.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 07:18 PM
2

uhm. i dont see the connection there?
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 06:28 PM
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Lingerie for a class at a conservative school. Sounds like a solid plan. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 06:00 AM
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what about a nice sewing machine?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 08:22 PM
1

Plus when heimlich didn't work and the guy was passing out he should have bent the guy over and slapped his upper back with some force. That way he would have utilized gravity and dislodging the piece of bread would have been a lot more likely. Or technically, that should have been the first thing he did because heimlich performed incorrectly or with too much force can do a whole bunch of damage.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 01:48 PM
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not sure, i've never actually tried it myself just witnessed it because some drunk dropped their beer and it took a while until they cleaned it up. but i would imagine it should work.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 04:03 PM
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So I only discovered this by living in a not so great building with not so great neighbors, but: if you have really dirty tiles you can let them soak with beer for a while and that will make them white again. The walnuts trick for leather is supposed to also work for wood. I've never tried it myself but I heard if you have a scratched wooden surface you can rub walnuts on it and it will make it look new again.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 03:53 AM
2

this is not a feminist sub. what made you think that? read the side bar.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 03:19 PM
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we're all from a small town in montana but can't tell you which because we dont want to be doxxed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 12:02 PM
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You might get him to pretend to see you differently once he figures out you don't like that. But that will still only lead to you being plated, max. Next.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 07:39 AM
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That's ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 07:26 AM
2

you should, it's delicious! but dont forget the spices like i just did in the shortened versions :D basically throw in all the mediterranean herbs that you like and some salt and pepper :D
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 07:35 PM
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i like chicken that i pan fry on one side, flip, add tomato slices, fresh basil and mozzarella cheese, plus salt and pepper. super fast and yummy. potato wedges (cut potatos into slices, add salt, pepper, paprika, and maybe some olive oil if you want the spices to really stick; put in the oven on hot for 30-40 minutes) go well with that. or ratatouille (chopped onions, bell peppers, zucchini, tomatos, traditionally eggplant, put in a pot, cook) with rice. bot are fast, easy dishes that i love.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 06:15 PM
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cheating usually results from needs not being met because people dont if they feel like everything's unicorns and rainbows. or does it not count when a guy sleeps with his secretary because his wife hasnt had sex with him in months? you're pretty self centered. he may just need support in other ways. just because crying on his shoulder makes you feel better, doesnt mean it would make him feel better if roles were reversed. maybe in stressful times he just needs to be by himself playing video gam…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 06:40 AM
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so you know you're not just technically cheating, you are full blown cheating. (edit: that was worded badly. i meant technically cheating is full blown cheating) and you are what they talk about over there. it's basic hypergamy and branch swinging. sometimes studies need to be priority number one. you're cheating on him, yet you want him to drop everything and yield to your every wish? how is he supposed to turn into a successful 28 year old if you dont let him work on it? and how do you know mr…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 05:47 AM
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I wouldn't rule out online dating like that. Don't use hook up apps like tinder but regular sites have lots of people looking for relationships. You can usually specify what you're looking for and rule out all the ones who obviously just want sex. I, and several others on here, have met my boyfriend online.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/15 07:51 PM
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There are way more regular people using online dating than rapists and whatnot. Just like how you dont typically run into someone who will rape you on a day to day basis. Don't be stupid about it (as in always tell a friend who you're with, meet in public, drive there yourself, don't drink too much) but it's very unlikely something bad will happen just because you met online.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/15 06:42 AM
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i guess you're right. i've worked as a cashier before and so maybe i'm just overly sensitive about things like that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/15 07:15 AM
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isnt "you're such a good cashier, i'm sure you can scan my things and also put them in a bag right next to you" a pretty big insult? maybe i'm just cynical but i just cant think of a way that that or your version doesnt sound sarcastic. i like how you told those construction workers you appreciated them because nobody thanks them ever probably but a cashier? scanning things and putting them in a bag (which you could help doing, too btw) aint exactly rocket science.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/15 06:01 AM
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no but he chose this audience that's mostly sjw's (as he and his brother are too) so there was bound to come a day where someone made up some crazy shit. but he also gets a ton of praise from his fans and he knows how to keep 'em close.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:52 PM
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not sure what i expected but it's scary as hell how she somehow made talking him into killing himself sound compassionate.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:40 PM
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i dont think he'd be where he is right now if it wasnt for him being close to his fans with his youtube channels and all.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:24 PM
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Don't work on it. Block his number, Facebook, anything. If you run into him don't stop to talk. If don't actually cut him off it will never end.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/15 04:29 AM
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Lol 55 mph must be super painful for him. So yeah, as I said, try to relax and get used to the speed he's driving as you learn to trust him more.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 10:10 PM
1

Ah ok. Sorry, that confused me. I'd say if you really like someone and feel like it's going somewhere you can kiss them.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 03:56 PM
2

Sorry but how old are you that you call them boys?
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 02:40 PM
2

You mentioned in another comment that he's from a different country where driving faster is the norm. What's the big deal then? He learned how to drive by driving this fast, or even faster. I'm from Germany where the recommended speed is about 80 mph when there aren't speed limits. In driving school my teacher let me go 125 mph on the autobahn. Considering he's over 40 and (probably) has more than 20 years of experience driving cars it might just take a bit of getting used to by you. You can die…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 05:53 AM
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I'd assume he slept with her, if I were you. If he really was only catching up, why didn't he tell you in the first place? Why did he cover it up with a lie? And why did it take him three nights to catch up?
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 05:22 AM
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Tl;Dr stands for too long; didn't read, so it's basically a short summary and exactly what you did ;)
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 06:04 AM
4

My condolences. What is that keeps you from being weak and letting him be strong for a couple of hours a day? I know how it feels when someone so close to you dies and when they're this young it's just not fair. But it's also not his fault, or anyone's. Be angry and get it all out because that's an important step in the way but maybe there's a different way? For example instead of yelling at him, go somewhere secluded and let it all out. Take him, if you feel like it would help to have someone t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 05:23 PM
1

if they bring it up, yes. if you bring it up, i'm sure you already failed for a lot of guys. i like this song to illustrate the point. he doesnt sing about how she told him he'd have to wait, she just made him wait because she doesnt give it up easily.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 08:46 PM
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A lot of women say they don't sleep around and that guys will have to wait and then do it anyway. So I think if very early on you tell them you don't do that they might just view it as some sort of slut defense. Just show them you're not into the hook up culture.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 07:53 PM
2

I really like shotgun rider by Tim Mcgraw and addicted to you by avicii.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/15 08:19 AM
7

for those interested
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 06:49 PM
1

yay congrats, camille :D
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 11:02 AM
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it's not one thing he has done or said. he shows me he's a great captain every day.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/15 11:16 AM
4

But a lot of times it is. When women nag and don't put out it gets increasingly hard for men not to cheat.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 05:17 AM
1

Lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 01:22 PM
1

Well I didn't just pull higher rates of diabetes out of my ass. Or higher rates of testicular cancer in men who get testosterone shots. Wasn't the coca cola study on sugary drinks a university study, too? I'm not spewing ignorance but if you do a quick Google search and read articles of people who aren't trying to sell you hgh you might find different results, too. Just saying. I don't get why people feel the need to assume someone else didn't do their research just because they don't listen to …
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 01:03 PM
2

Really? What do you have to lose? How about your health?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 12:16 PM
1

lol but then you know there's a lot of non-sugercoating on rpw
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:26 PM
1

hahaha you clearly have never read anything from /u/wingnut. i agree with women not posting here but we're not necessarily more sensitive over there.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 03:31 PM
2

to be fair that is a good chunk of the advice we give over there.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 02:13 PM
4

men being intimidated by "strong, independent" women with college degrees and careers is a feminist concept. it doesn't actually depict reality.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/15 09:15 PM
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Men aren't intimidated by women.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/15 07:57 PM
2

to be completely honest: it's why i dropped out of medical school. you just simply cant prioritize your husband and work the amount of hours the medical field requires. especially when you have your own practice. the only advice i can give you is look for one of the rare part time positions? but those still require you to work odd hours and babies dont exactly care what time of day they want to be born, so that's that. other than that: maybe make sure you still take care of him? make the time yo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 05:08 PM
4

At the gym?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 09:21 PM
3

haha, i should mention i got that line from terence popp of redonkulas.com
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 06:39 AM
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this will be my last reply because you're twisting my words and trying your best not to get my point. i never said anything about walking up to someone and telling them they're a slut or fat or whatever else. i did say i wasnt going to treat anyone like shit. but someone came here for advice and you basically said the number doesnt matter at all and she shouldnt worry about anything even if she had slept with a lot more guys than she actually did. as i told you in another reply, there really isn…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 04:53 PM
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I'm not mad. I just think personal responsibility is a thing. And calling someone out on destructive behavior (even if it's just destructive to them) isn't a bad thing either. It doesn't mean I will treat anyone like shit but in what world is it better to coddle someone than to tell them the truth? Just because someone's feefees might get hurt? Grow up. Besides, you did say it was ok to be a whore by saying there was nothing wrong with having an n count in the double digits.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 11:43 AM
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ugh. honestly. this whole shaming stuff is so much bullshit. if someone decides to whore around then that's their problem. but please dont make it seem like that's ok and they can still find a high value alpha at 35 after so many dicks that if you stacked them and pushed her off them she'd die. and making it seem like that's normal and nothing is wrong with that is why so many girls nowadays go down that path.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/15 05:54 AM
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we dont advise people to ride the cc here. nothing wrong with double digits when you're cool with being a plate or only getting a lower value man than you would have to commit to you. but in general, yes there is something wrong with double digits.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 05:27 AM
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well, especially in this case you really cant know better. and even in everyday situations different people do things differently. just remember that when you get that feeling of you know better and want to tell him what to do. i know giving up control can be hard when you've never done it but it's so rewarding when you've gained that level of trust where you can just sit back and relax because you know he'll lead and things will be great.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 07:51 PM
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just trust his judgement.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 06:23 PM
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not really, no. though you should probably ask one of the endorsed contributors here who have ltrs why they do it, not me.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 03:02 PM
2

to extend the analogy to female sexual strategy: you want to be the one book he just cant put down. the one reads over and over and that always provides entertainment, new facets of the story that are revealed to him as he reads the book again so he gets to know you better and better. in fact, you're so good he may walk past the library or a book store and he might even glance but he'll never actually want to abandon you because after years and years, when your cover has faded, you still bring m…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 11:24 AM
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well then it should only be one extra pill that you have and i dont see why you're SO reacted the way he did. unless of course you're one of those people who say one thing and when you call them out on it they "clarify" why it's not really the way they originally put it. also: what kind of medical student works 40 hours a week?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/15 02:40 PM
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yeah, that's why i mentioned how short the dress in the picture was. maybe i'm old fashioned but just because men like short skirts doesnt mean it attracts the kind of men we'd like to attract here/sends the right message.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/15 12:50 PM
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I have occasionally missed a few pills this implies that it happens more than once every few months.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 08:17 PM
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uuuh. you do realize forgetting a pill here and there makes it ineffective, right? same as taking antibiotics and a whole range of stuff. you should talk to your doctor and have them educate you on birth control pills. or ask them about a different method that doesnt require you to take a pill every day. hate to say this but he's kinda right about being paranoid if you dont take your birth control correctly.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 08:01 PM
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but that makes no difference because they hide the legs like leggings do and you're not showing your butt off either. i think that style looks kinda wacky, tbh. and the dress is pretty short so you'd have to be comfortable with that, too.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 06:20 AM
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not sure if communication by talking is effective here. i'd say allow him to be masculine. be feminine yourself, treat him like a king, let him make decisions, let him lead.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 10:37 PM
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uuuhh, are you paying for the ingredients and time? or why dont you just try it yourself?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 07:08 PM
1

i'm going to be put the cold hard truth out there: you disgust me. you disgust her. she's broken up with you 9 times. you're that pathetic loser she kept somewhat close because you probably bought her stuff and so that she wasnt lonely. she's going to move on to college and find someone better than you. no, she's going to find hundreds of guys that are better than you. she might have already found them when you guys were broken up those 8 other times. go to /r/TheRedPill or /r/asktrp to find out…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 01:46 PM
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you're on the wrong subreddit. i'm guessing you're here because you already know the advice asktrp would give you and you dont like it. you seem desperate which is sure to drive her away. move on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 01:00 PM
1

yes it was.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 01:16 PM
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ok, then here's my advice: break off all contact with that guy. hit the gym if you're not already doing that, eat right, cultivate a feminine frame of mind and dont agree to sex without commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 01:11 PM
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you asked for help. you made it clear that you didn't actually want the advice that was going to be given. i'm just trying to make it clear where you stand from a red pill perspective. if you want to stay a plate then i really dont care but dont come here asking for advice on how you should act as one. edit: i reread my replies. where am i rude? in calling you a slut? dont act like one if you dont want to be called one.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 01:07 PM
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but that is the actual problem. you're a plate and you dont want to admit it to yourself. he was with another girl the other day and he told you it was a guy friend because he still wants to have sex with you. that's really all there is. if you want to get out of the slutzone you have to improve yourself and not be one anymore. but it wont happen with that guy. you threw that away when you cheated.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 01:01 PM
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no, they're not. you said in your other post that he doesnt refer to you as his girlfriend. doesnt matter if you call him your* boyfriend or not if he doesnt reciprocate. not sure why you changed your post but if you dont like red pill advice you should probably go post in /r/relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 12:56 PM
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He believes Im not entitled to literally anything you're a plate. doesnt matter if you said you're not fwb anymore. if you still have sex and you guys are not exclusive you're a plate.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 12:53 PM
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fwb=plate. why would he give you commitment if he gets sex for free?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 12:45 PM
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so you've both slept with other people and you expect exclusivity? you're a plate. dont sleep with anyone without commitment. i doubt there's a whole lot you can do about this one. move on and dont waste the pretty.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 12:21 PM
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the married red pill sub isnt actually red pill. she shouldnt tell her husband to go there.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 05:55 PM
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so i didnt listen to the whole song because to me it sounds like a cd in a blender but what i've heard was just about sex. how is that especially red pill?
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 02:32 PM
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seconding the travel advice. you'd be surprised how fast you can learn to speak a language if you don't have a choice but to learn it. when i first came to the states as an exchange student i had some basic english skills from school and i could communicate alright but nowhere near fluent enough. after three months i even started dreaming in english (which was pretty weird at first). if you cant travel for whatever reason i suggest you pick a language and then start watching tv shows/youtube vid…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 07:22 PM
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Maybe something like this or this could help you feel safer? i havent tried them out personally but they're supposed to make it nearly impossible to get through a door and they sure will make it extremely noisy which will scare of almost all intruders and give you enough time to call the cops/get your gun.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 06:48 PM
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You don't have to give up your whole personality when you date. Liking certain TV shows is fine. I'd even argue that some men will like you more for it because it may give you something to discuss, as long as your attitude is still feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 04:35 PM
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"honey, we're financially stable, we have a home, we have health care and rights, our families live close. I'd like to start trying for kids now as I don't want to take unnecessary risks. What do you think?" Don't do it when he wants to go to sleep, or is otherwise preoccupied.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 12:00 PM
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there's this thing called masturbation. you might wanna try it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 07:29 PM
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to paraphrase barney stinson... when i dont trust him i stop not trusting him and trust him instead.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 04:49 PM
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sociopaths can be great leaders. the real question is if OP can handle it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 06:21 PM
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i'm not sure i would have thought about that. but it does make a lot of sense. they have many important things on their minds over there. and while i dont think he'd let himself get distracted in important moments there's no need to risk anything if there's no way he can do anything about it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 08:42 PM
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that's a good idea :) there's a drama club here that i'd like to join but i was too late this semester so i'm waiting it out and joining them next semester. but maybe i should dig deeper and see if there's one off campus that i could join.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 08:37 PM
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i'm pretty introverted so that's something i definitely have to work on. There's a girl in one of my lectures who always sits one seat over from me and I decided I will just introduce myself next week. And I have another question: my boyfriend is a soldier and there's a deployment coming up in the foreseeable future. Do you have any experience/advice on how to be a good girlfriend (wife if everything goes according to plan) to him while he's away?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 06:34 PM
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Haha my boyfriend knows my reddit username so I can't tell you whether or not I've read the books ;) I just moved and I dont know anyone here. I'm not really great at making friends, to be honest. And since I'm in college most people are just interested in hooking up and drinking. I'm not into either. And I'm not overly religious so I'm just not sure where to go and find people. There are a couple of women I talk to in my classes but that's about it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 05:28 PM
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So I'm 22 and the boyfriend and I are talking about getting married. The one thing I'm nervous about is letting him down. I've never lived with a man before and we won't be moving in together until after we're married. My mom and dad divorced when I was rather young and I can only faintly remember my grandparents relationships so I feel like I dont have anyone in my immediate family as a role model. Aside from what's in your books, is there any advice you can give me?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 04:15 PM
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in what ways did you care for your ex and what made you feel under appreciated? a lot of times we over look the simpler things while we overvalue what we do.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 12:26 PM
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the proper answer would be what you have to offer. it's like asking what the proper answer to "what's the color of your eyes?" is. it will vary from person to person. edit: asking someone's weight might be a better example because it depends on a lot of things (like bf%, muscle mass, height, etc) and people can do something about their weight relatively easily.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 07:51 AM
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I'd like to read it :D
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 07:55 AM
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have you seen the norwegian videos linked in the side bar? every time the reporter challenged one of the "scientists'" beliefs they answered "that is not interesting." because apparently that's how science works now. there's evidence that you're wrong? well, let's not look at that evidence because it's really not interesting.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 07:32 PM
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Most of the things you named are cosplay femininity (credit to /u/_wingnut_ for the term). Change your attitude and the other things will come almost naturally if they're important to him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/15 01:54 PM
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https://archive.is/oWjWA this rpw posts illustrates it well. it doesnt matter how you behave, speak or write because people will tell you how smart you are either way.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 02:28 PM
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This just reminded me of my grandma's blow dryer from back then. It's basically a plastic hat with lots of holes in it that you put on your head and then you attach the blow dryer. It blows air through the hat so it's evenly distributed. So much more convenient than a modern one because you can sit on the sofa and read a magazine while your hair dries :D
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 08:04 AM
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Well yeah, that's usually how you find out. But how do you never use peas or cherries in four years in a western country?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 08:00 AM
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so i just read almost all of her blog posts and couldnt help but notice she not once cooked a family recipe. kinda sad.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 05:13 PM
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i just read day 1. they've been together 4 years and she doesnt know he hates peas and cherries? what do they usually eat? those arent bizarre ingredients.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 06:04 AM
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Yes! And you need way less salt if you just grind it yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 06:05 AM
2

how does that work? i mean isnt everyone typically looking forward to their wedding night?
/r/askTRP12/05/15 07:55 PM
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What time will the Ama start?
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 07:55 AM
2

find a way to do my hair and make up for the ball the boyfriend and I are attending this weekend. He doesn't like a lot of hairstyles and I'd like to do something so I still have to find something good that's a compromise. go to the gym/work out three times this week. study more, especially Spanish as I have my first test coming up next week!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/15 06:24 AM
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i think a lot of the ideas still apply, so why not? but just as a pointer, there's also /r/altTRP, for red pill ideas and ideals within the LGBT community.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/15 08:37 PM
1

could be related to the train conductor strike and more than usually crowded streets.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:33 PM
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Yeah but that's exactly what I meant. It's just been annoying lately, feels like most comments here come from men and they always start with man here..
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 06:32 AM
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topvintage apparently has a uk shop. at least they have a union jack on their website.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 10:04 PM
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mentioning your gender here or over at TRP is usually attention grabbing though.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 05:52 PM
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can we have the same rule here they have over at TRP where when you mention your gender you get banned?
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 03:59 PM
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i doubt you can break that psychological barrier without actually going out and being rejected.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 06:51 AM
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Just offer your support. Be there for him and for her. A lot of people are uncomfortable with people who have just lost someone. Don't push yourself on her but just be there in case she needs someone to talk. And maybe in a couple of weeks cook her food or invite her over to dinner. She probably has a fridge full of food right now, as everyone is thinking of her but it might be useful when everyone else goes back to their lives and people start feeling uncomfortable with her grieving.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 06:33 AM
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in the article for a brief line she even admits it's making her unhappy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 07:43 AM
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in the sense that the kind of lumberjack traditional guy might like it if his woman loves to be outside. i wouldnt pass an opportunity like that up if i were op. sure, we advise to make ourselves more attractive to what most people find attractive but becoming less interesting because you dont do the things you love? most men want someone to share experiences with, not just a pretty face.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 04:15 PM
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and traditional in the good sense. a lot of germans pride themselves with certain aspects of our culture here that just arent as big over in the states. it annoys me to no end because of the complete disregard for things that actually matter. who cares if you're legally allowed to go out and dance on good friday or not if you cant even smile at a stranger in public without being the weirdo? before this turns into a rant: nobody's perfect but there are a lot of things in the US that are pretty da…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 09:01 PM
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i'm 22 and i found my boyfriend online. sure there are guys who just want sex but you dont have to go for that.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:53 PM
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the women you hear bitch arent all that representative though. you just dont hear/see the women who eat right and go to the gym bitch on twitter about how oppressing those ads are.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 01:51 PM
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haha thanks, but i was talking about the target popsicles in the yellow boxes, the grape, orange and cherry ones. i dont think they'd survive transatlantic travel anyway :) what's wrong with online dating?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 07:34 AM
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haha you do have everything, except for kinder eggs :P
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 07:33 AM
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nope, no popsicles and not even cheesecake factory. but why wouldnt marriage by the time you graduate be a realistic goal? i'd just advise you to not look for men on campus, but you know that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:32 PM
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i have vaginism and i was horny and i wanted him in but it still didnt work. what he described sounded exactly like me. sure it's rare but it could also be the reason she's still a virgin.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 11:29 PM
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he actually lives here in germany right now. almost no one gets married that young here. this whole move out, get an education, get a job, have a career, then get married thing is the norm here. i'm sorry for bursting your bubble (sort of) but i dont think you'd be happier here than in the states. and since you guys have popsicles i'd definitely stay if i were you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:12 PM
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i'd say diet is 100% of the battle. you cant outrun 3 pizzas a day. calories in, calories out. easy as that. no one needs to exercise to lose weight. at all. exercise is for feeling better, having more energy and looking good naked with a good enough body fat percentage.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:27 PM
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good luck finding traditional men in germany or france. i'm from germany and i'm dating an american. i've dated german guys before but they're all super blue pill and weak. in that sense feminism is more rampant here. you have to be equals and really experience your life before you even consider getting married here. 25 is considered too young to be married by most in this country. from what i've experienced in the US there are way more traditional men. germany is far more left than the US polit…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:18 PM
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this is wrong on so many levels. sounds like the girl has some form of vaginism. if he cant even put a finger in right now he sure as hell wont be able to put his dick in. no matter how horny and wet she is. or you know, he could just traumatize her more and shove it in. /r/vaginismus.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 08:44 PM
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sure thing. if you ever feel like you need a stranger over the internet to help you with your motivation or whatever and not sugar coat things, feel free to message me.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:16 PM
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i'd suggest a cook book that specifically only has healthy foods. though i dont have any suggestions on that since i'm not american. i started just counting calories, i seriously dont believe in the whole low fat, low carb, low whatever. except for low sugar. i used to drink at least half a liter of pepsi every day and i stopped that. went cold turkey (also stopped all the other candy) and the first couple of days were hard. you dont realize how addicted to all the sugars you are until you stop …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 05:49 PM
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Lose the weight. That's the number one thing you need to change and you will start feeling more comfortable. I'm speaking from experience. I used to always wear jeans and t-shirts because everyone could tell I'm fat either way, might as well be comfortable. I'm now at a weight where I am way more comfortable and learning how to dress nicely and boy does it make a difference. There's a good guide on how to find pretty clothes in the sidebar of /r/femalefashionadvice, go there and check it out. My…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 05:15 PM
2

then why dont you just get two twin mattresses?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:56 AM
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have you considered putting the firmer matress in your bed and just going to bed earlier so that if you do wake up you still get enough sleep?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 09:44 AM
3

the nautical vocabulary really just illustrates the point.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 11:34 AM
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I've only ever slept with my boyfriend. I'm 22 and in college. I'm happy I dont have to live with that hollowness. I've never met any girl or woman who when talking openly and honestly was really happy about sleeping with a ton of men. they're looking for commitment and cant get it. that shit eats away at them. who wants to be alone all the time except when they party and then drunkenly sleep with fratbro no. 48?
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 06:48 PM
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someone else making most decisions doesnt mean we dont get a say. that's where picking a good captain comes in. because a good captain will consider what we have to say and factor that into his decision.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 12:34 PM
1

zalando is so annoying i vowed to never give them money. but only and vero moda are really nice, i agree. actually just ordered a bunch of stuff. i'm just still looking for a place like modcloth here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:54 PM
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I'm bad with names and sometimes i still forget names but it really helps to repeat them back to yourself a couple of times when you first meet someone.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 08:41 AM
2

those are german sites, yay! you dont happen to know of any that fit into a student budget better, do you?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 08:15 AM
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no, i meant it's a good thing when the woman has "oneitis" because of hypergamy and all that jazz.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:27 AM
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the female equivalent of oneitis is being plated though. oneitis isnt bad in a woman, in fact, i'd argue that oneitis is preferable in women. (edited because i hope what i was trying to say is clearer now)
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:01 AM
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the thing about the wage gap is that women generally work less and their jobs are lower paid. you cant exactly expect to make the same amount of money an engineer makes if you have a gender studies degree. plus when things are equal (same job, same degree, the like) young women now make more than young men. so that's that. and if you look at education: that's focused mainly on how girls and women learn, not on how boys and men learn. women have a pretty big advantage right there.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 12:41 PM
1

the pull out method, when done correctly every time, is actually almost as effective as condoms, at least according to planned parenthood. it takes a ton of self control and trust and i'm only mentioning it because you've been together for long (so no risk of stds, he's experienced enough, and so on) but maybe it's worth looking into? of course when done incorrectly it's not effective at all.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 06:51 AM
1

in addition to your comment: what a lot of women dont understand is that being a whore in bed isnt bad. it's only bad when you're a whore for lots of men. you should be open sexually with your husband. i understand that there are things some people dont want to do, and that's fine (like threesomes for example, for me that's essentially cheating with the partner in the room) but most things you can at least try.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 05:05 PM
1

i play video games on occasion. i suck at them but whatever. i can still wear dresses and make up and do my hair ;) and if you're scared of liking them too much then just dont start playing until all your chores for the day are done. and who cares if you spend a whole rainy weekend in the house together playing video games? having fun together is what's important.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 05:59 AM
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yes! and maybe i'm weird but i think a really small intimate wedding, with maybe even just three people (couple plus whoever weds them) sounds so much more romantic than a big elaborate one. and then just a regular dinner out. i'd want to actually spend time together and not running around in circles for a year to then not even get a few quiet moments the day of. so yeah, you guys sound awesome as well.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 06:06 PM
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this sounds like the perfect wedding to me. edit: copy and pasted your text and sent it to my boyfriend. he said the only thing missing is the ringpop. that's why i love him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 05:34 PM
1

tying into that: a lot of people also completely disregard how valuable their time is. sure, making soaps and the like can be a hobby and then it's a great thing to do but forcing yourself to make soap for hours on end when you dont like the activity just so you save a couple of bucks just seems silly. other people have mentioned to compare purchases to your hourly salary. i'd do the same in this case. of course no one is going to take time off work to make their own soap but hours of your life …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/15 09:23 AM
1

Hahaha, the goat is even better of an idea than a coat.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 02:17 PM
1

Jetskis always take forever to be delivered though. Since op is looking for a quick lay I think she should go for something more convenient, like a designer coat or hand bag. Or maybe a car that she can even use to drive away as quickly as possible. This will also increase her value to other men because it's a very obvious display of how much she is worth. Gotta use that preselection to your favor.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 11:26 AM
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go to okcupid or tinder and find Chad Thundercock. He's known to be discrete and your beta bux might not find out until years from now when he already signed the birth certificate of chads kid that you had. Happy April fool's.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 01:35 PM
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My boyfriend is in the military and while the longest he has been deployed so far has been two months, I think I can still somewhat relate. I don't think there's a whole lot you can do to make him miss you less. You're already talking as much as you can and sending him presents. My only idea is that maybe you can send him t-shirts of yours that smell like you? Or a pillow case that you used that smells like you? You can also personalize them. Other than that as rough as it sounds I think he has …
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 03:17 PM
2

Does your town have any facebook groups? I just moved and the town i live in now has one specifically for people who are new here with meetings every week. Maybe there is something similar where you live?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 07:08 PM
1

you're right.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 02:16 PM
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thoughts turn into actions though. maybe not now, maybe not in the next couple of years but eventually they will. especially if they keep popping up and if the bedroom life is sub par. i dont have a solution except for breaking up and giving him the chance to find someone who respects him. the thing about hypergamy is that you tend to think you can get commitment out of guys you could get sex from. smv 101, it just doesnt work that way.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:11 AM
3

what about little notes in his lunch every day? not sure if this is in the other threads but maybe just a little post it with an 'i love you' or a compliment or a 'have a good day, i'm thinking about you'.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 08:29 AM
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I know I'm going to sound super materialistic when I say this, but: it makes me feel taken care of when my boyfriend pays for me. I like that. I've paid for dates and going out before and I dont mind it but I can't deal with the mind set of someone never ever inviting the other person out. Makes them seem cheap to me. And it reminds me of really horrible past dates. Obviously, if there is not going to be a second date because you just dont get along I'm going to pay for my half. But if it starts…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 08:21 AM
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not sure how much of an issue that is but what if you paid a neighbor's kid to mow the lawn or watch your kids while you deep clean on a saturday or sunday?
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 08:16 PM
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What's up with that whole dating several people thing? Maybe it's a cultural thing but if you can't see yourself with them enough to not go on dates with other people, why even bother? It seems disrespectful to me. Like you're wasting your and their time and resources even though you already know nothing is going to become of it. And if you already know you like one guy more than the others why not ditch them? Plus I feel like it could paint you in a bad light.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/15 07:48 AM
3

let me (or us) know if you decide to start blogging again.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 10:20 PM
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can i ask what happened to your blog, too? i used to read it and then suddenly there was a password..
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 08:06 AM
3

maybe for a start it would help if you told him you want him to really dominate in the bedroom? you said you want him to be more manly maybe that would help. i agree looks really are important but either way he's not going to change over night and him acting more manly might be helpful. if you're both shy you can maybe phrase it as role play? or look for porn where the male star is really dominant and have the two of you try to reenact that. but if he's not going to change and you're not attract…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 01:06 PM
2

yes! so much this! i wore a bra that was too small my whole life. they helped me find out my actual size. bras are so much more comfortable now!
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/15 07:09 AM
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found my source. http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/07/17/when-rhode-island-accidentally-legalized-prostitution-rape-and-stis-decreased-sharply/
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 08:39 AM
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found my source. http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/07/17/when-rhode-island-accidentally-legalized-prostitution-rape-and-stis-decreased-sharply/ and i have a hard time believing mexicans are the only ones who rape.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 08:39 AM
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correct me if i'm wrong but wont that lead to more rape? as in you rid most men of their ways to release sexual tension (except for the top x% who are desirable for women) and that just pushes a bunch over the edge?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 08:52 PM
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how is that helpful? op is right.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/15 07:31 PM
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germany, early 20s, white, medical school drop out (now going for a different degree), from a middle class family with a feminist mother. before going to med school i always thought i'd be "married to my job" and if i was going to have kids i'd get a husband to take care of them. i learned about myself then that that's not what i want from life. if i'm going to have a family (which i really want) i'm going to want to take care of them. i love cooking and baking for my boyfriend and just generall…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 08:43 PM
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i found my boyfriend on okcupid. apparently some people use it for hook ups but using their profiles and all the questions you can answer i think you can weed out the ones who are only looking for hook ups. plus it depends on how you present yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 08:35 PM
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this just made me so sad. she's supposedly so smart and successful yet not once she asks where her fault is. she not once wonders what she could bring to the relationship blaming men for nothing working out.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 10:12 AM
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there are a lot of women with careers on here. some are even bread winners. there are women on here who dont want children and women who dont want to get married. it doesnt mean they all cant accept their partner as their captain and that they cant be submissive.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 09:45 AM
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thank you :D
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 08:42 PM
1

i really like that my school has a ton of resources for parents. there's child care, there's free food at the cafeteria for kids of students, there's several people whose only purpose is to help those who go to school and have children. i think that's awesome. because let's face it: having a child when you're still in school isnt as bad as people try to make it seem. in college you can mostly set your own schedule by taking classes that fit in it. my job even lets me set my own hours. when you h…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 02:07 PM
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sorry if i wasnt clear enoug. i had a concussion and it was hard on my eyes to read/watch tv/be on my computer and that made the headaches worse. and since i was sick and not going to work i could have been fired for leaving the house except for going to the grocery store/pharmacy/doctor/other necessary thing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 04:43 PM
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unless they understand enough of it.. https://archive.today/OJV0y
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 08:08 AM
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that's so true. it's really one of those things where "fake it until you make it" just works. and it works fast. back when i worked as a cashier and was required to smile at every customer it took and hour tops until i genuinely smiled. and at work now it's become so natural to smile while speaking to callers (work in a call center now).
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 08:11 AM
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hamstering is when you rationalize something. as in you cheated and it just happened and it's really you husband's fault for not making you happy, etc etc. there are two people in every relationship. show him you appreciate him. dont tell him about wanting to change. just do it. dont nag, dont ask him to do stuff, try to be his soft place to land. he'll notice, i promise. and he might not step up right away but more than likely he will pretty soon. there's a saying here (not sure if you have tha…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 09:00 PM
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if someone constantly had a negative attitude towards you.. would you be motivated to do stuff for them and help them out or would you start ignoring them eventually? and if someone was always positive towards you: would you feel better around them or worse? would you be more or less motivated to do the things they ask? would you be more or less likely to do things they havent even asked of you just because you know it will make them happier, taking some stress from them?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 07:06 PM
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exactly. i just felt like that part was left out in a lot of the comments and it annoys me when women are portrayed as the bad guy when really it's just a result of everything we're taught and just as many men are being solipsistic. it's also why rpw exists.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:51 PM
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as a woman i was always told men and women are the same. so i had male friends who never made a move, said or did anything to make me believe they wanted more from me than friendship. i know now that some of them wanted sex. how the hell was i supposed to know that? they never said anything. and most of men would fail that sally-anne test, too because they try the same tactics of being mister nice guy over and over and wonder why women see them as friends. sorry, but that's not exclusively the f…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:40 PM
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you slapped him. if roles were reversed we'd call that domestic violence and call you an idiot if you went back to him. why shouldnt he feel the same way about this? he might be physically stronger but it's still crossing a line that should never be crossed. as all the others have said: work on yourself, try to be a better person and eventually work on being a better girlfriend for someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 05:08 PM
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yes. i feel like a lot of times it's just so easy to notice all of those party girls on the cc but there are a lot of women who arent like that, even in college. you just have to know what you're looking for and where.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/15 11:35 PM
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i'm moving soon so this is perfect. i was hoping to find a knitting class because i really enjoy it but cant really do a lot yet. i figure there could be women there that might be more traditional. other than that i'm hoping for things to work out like they usually have. i've moved a lot in my life and i found that just by being in the same place all the time it was easier to bond with people. have the same class everyday? start with just introducing you to someone, maybe going to lunch after an…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/15 11:23 PM
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so he might not get any more hot 18 year olds but i hear lots of older women (lots of literal widows) are desperate for attention. even my grandpa has a girlfriend now. the question is just if he wants to give up being comfortable with someone.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:47 PM
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i would if i ever needed to. i just cant think of a situation where i could protect him better than he could protect himself/me. he's stronger, faster, calmer, more rational. he is trained to protect people and himself. i am not. so if the situation called for it, yes, i would. i just cant think of a scenario where that would be the case.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/15 12:47 PM
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have you talked to him about it? if you have and he still offers let him do the dishes and trust his decision.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/15 08:58 PM
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why would you waste your time with him? why would you think you're not going to be single mom #3 when he's done with you? you're a plate. get the hell out of that and find someone who will commit to you to have a family with.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 09:10 AM
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my boyfriend is an infantry soldier. this makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:52 PM
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you should seek counseling.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 09:50 PM
1

assuming it's roughly the same here in germany as it is in france: it's significantly cheaper to eat healthy here than to eat fast food. we have it, sure, but it's expensive compared to what you could eat that doesnt make you fat.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 06:27 PM
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haha i'm 22 and i need naps! sometimes i feel like kindergarteners are the only ones for whom naps are socially acceptable while they're also the only one who dont need them.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 06:16 PM
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so much this. i live in an apartment complex that has washers and dryers on each floor so you have to share. there are so many people who just dont clean out their lint after their load is done in the dryer. and as you can imagine the dryer just first of all doesnt work as well after a while of people not doing it and one time i assume it almost caught on fire. at least it made really odd fire alarm-y sounds and my clothes all stank like i aired them over a camp fire. there really should be home…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 06:12 PM
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i like cooking for my boyfriend because i know when i dont do it he either gets take out or really shitty food that's prepared for him. he's sent me pictures and it's a bunch of stuff that's all just a different shade of brown. when i cook i can make sure it's tasty and healthy. granted, i only ever get to cook for him on weekends but i could be playing video games with him and chill. i choose not to because it's nurturing and it's a way to show my love. maybe start thinking about it not in a wa…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 09:21 PM
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LOL luckily it will be his 24th birthday.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 03:16 PM
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well we do tell women to hit the gym here which is not body positive the way SJW like so it might be safe to just save everything.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 01:33 PM
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being western european myself i feel like people are more straight forward with their intentions than americans. if a man wants a plate i feel like he'd articulate it because there are tons of women who'd want to be one.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 06:16 AM
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the 14th is his birthday so that day will be all about him. we'll get his favorite pie (because he says it's not worth making pumpkin pie from scratch as apparently it doesnt taste any better than the store bought one) and my family's traditional birthday cake because it would feel weird for me to celebrate a birthday and not have that cake :P i've offered to take him out for a nice steak dinner but he said he'd rather have me cook (which personally i think is super awesome). so we'll eat his fa…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 06:01 AM
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besides the fact that you just simply can't change anyone, you can only change yourself, the one thing that my mom has told me and that will always stick with me is "you should never try and change anyone. it's the most disrespectful thing you could attempt and it is guaranteed to fail". if you're not attracted to him, leave. it's not going to get any better. and just a couple of days ago there was this post which sums it up pretty well. http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2trbsl/uarch…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 08:22 AM
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maybe a cute onesie? if it's not super loose fitting it might be kinda cute. http://www.onepiece.com/en-us/womens/slim-fits those are the first that i found and they'd be way to expensive for my liking but there are tons on amazon and all over.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 08:44 PM
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there's no better way to dry up a vagina than being insecure.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 05:47 PM
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haha no, i'm very lucky i havent been put on the internet yet.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 05:46 PM
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that describes my driving perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 03:25 PM
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thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 05:03 PM
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haha so i didn't do so bad when i first when to the gym :D i'm moving soon and i guess i will join a different kind of gym there. and invest in someone making sure i don't make horrible mistakes the first couple of times. my gym doesn't actually have any weights except for a couple of tiny dumbbells.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 05:02 PM
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you're probably right. and i'm not giving up because i dont feel comfortable yet. i have a goal and i'll be damned if i don't reach it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 04:42 PM
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oh well. i have many more stories like that. of being ignored when i really tried in PE class and all that jazz. it did discourage me for the longest time but about a year ago i decided that those teachers dont care what they've done to me. and that it doesnt harm them when i dont exercise. it harms me. and the best way to tell them to (excuse my french) go fuck themselves is to work on myself and to be active. they will never know but i feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 04:34 PM
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here we have a mandatory track and field day every year where depending on your age you had to achieve a certain number of points. it was all stuff i was really bad at and i was miserable. the best students got honorary mentions, the second best got victors and the worst got participant mentions. not like i didnt already know i cant jump for or run fast, no, everyone had to know. i vowed i'd take my kids out of school on those days (unless of course they enjoy it) and do something fun instead. t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 10:36 AM
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i'm kind of jealous of you. i'd like to have some form of exercise that is fulfilling that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 09:41 AM
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yes, that's what i meant by fun, too. but usually you can tell when people have fun in a 'wow, i feel great because i've really accomplished something today'-sense or when they even leave the building looking like they just wasted another 2 hours of their life. i've been thinking about it for a while now and i've decided to use the machines at the gym to build muscle but my cardio workout will be my bike and once i've moved i'll find swimming pool for that also. the mind numbing-ness is especial…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 09:39 AM
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well, i love swimming for example. but i'd like to build some muscle. and with the amount of time i'm willing to spend on exercise i just don't see a lot of muscle building in the water.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 09:33 AM
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what do you mean by 'when a client isn't having fun'? this might be a stupid question to ask but who has fun at the gym? i've looked around and i never see anyone who seems to be enjoying themselves. and frankly i find it rather boring, too. sure it's a small success when i notice progress but usually it's just mind numbing to me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 10:14 PM
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i used to like judgy bitch but she's taken it too far. i get men's rights and whatever but those boys clearly violated the girl. yes, she might have been passed out and probably shouldn't have been drinking that much but how is that any excuse for what they did? not sure how old they are so maybe putting them on the sex offender list for the rest of their lives is too harsh, teenagers should be given a chance to learn from their mistakes. but how is that not at least assault? and why doesnt she …
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 08:56 PM
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this post is even linked to from the rpw sub. pretty sure lots of women read it and are reading the comments. source: i'm a woman and the rpw post led me here.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 08:04 AM
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that post should be in the side bad here. personally, i've never once given this any thought. and it's scary to notice how influenced i am by destructive values like that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 07:55 AM
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to me, it's not a confirmation of my relationship with my boyfriend, it's about eventually being a family unit (which i realize happens anyway when you have kids), and also having rights. say something happens to him. i'd like to be able to visit him in the hospital, even in the icu and i'd like doctors to be able to tell me what's going on. those are small, tiny arguments for marriage that probably don't even seem rational and i realize why more and more men choose not to get married but to me …
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 10:51 PM
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i didnt mean to invalidate what you said in the link i just felt like most of the arguments against marriage were against making the day about the woman and going into debt to finance the wedding. which i'm not at all for. my only exception is the proposal. i would just like the gesture.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 10:46 PM
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but none of that is really against marriage itself but about how crazy weddings can be.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 07:57 AM
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i always take that with a grain of salt. a lot of guys over there are in the anger phase. but there are also a lot of guys who are in relationships and who are moderate about all of it. there's always extremists and they are usually the loudest but it doesnt mean they speak for the majority.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 08:58 PM
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that's something i just really don't get. and here comes the infinite wisdom of a 22 year old: there are times in life where you just have to ask for the things you want. because how would anyone else be able to tell if you don't say anything? maybe he thinks if you wanted to be official and exclusive you would have brought it up already. maybe he doesn't want to be official like that and that's why he hasn't brought it up yet, maybe something else. you're most likely not going to know in a time…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 07:07 PM
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dont go meeting new guys right away. take some time to yourself so the new guy isnt a rebound to fill a hole. that wouldnt be fair.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 07:49 AM
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why not just ask for exclusivity?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 07:38 AM
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studying in a coffee shop doesnt really seem super inviting to me. i'm not a guy or generally someone who easily approaches people but if someone is working on something or even just reading or listening to something with their earphones to me that's a sign that they dont want to be disturbed. if you want to be approached maybe go to a coffee shop and just have coffee? or if that would make you feel awkward try reading something for fun there? because while to me that would still not scream 'ava…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/15 06:52 AM
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if you want to fuck her and that's that you'd probably go for someone with more experience. they're most likely easier and know how to act in bed. but if you want someone for a long term relationship you would want someone who can still pair bond.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:52 PM
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big, ginormous, muscular soccer player.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:50 PM
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i'm in a long distance relationship and i feel like when i send him selfies at least he'll masturbate to me, not to some porn bimbo. i dont include my face though. probably really stupid, too, but i feel like at least if he were to upload them i could still tell me it's not me. idk. point is though: we're in a commited relationship and i want him to be my kids' father one day. i wouldn't send anyone who i've only gone on a couple of dates with a nude selfie. and i think asking is so rude i'd nex…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 07:38 PM
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i fear(ed) a ban because it goes against pretty much anything the red pill says. the portion of you who want to start a family obviously want a quality woman and what i said was pretty much 'you aint gonna get a good woman if you dont put a ring on her finger'. because as bad an idea it is for men to get married it's just as bad an idea to start a family with someone who you're not married to as a woman.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 06:47 PM
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the thing with marriage is: getting married is the man taking a lot of the risks. if the relationship fails and the woman turns into a super bitch the man is fucked. not getting married is the woman taking most of the risks of the relationship. as a woman you usually would stay home with the kids and raise them, make a home, have a part time job to pull your weight. no career, no safety net to fall on. so if the relationship fails and all of a sudden you have to support your kids (i dont know ho…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 05:47 AM
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my boyfriend is cute sometimes. he's mostly manly but sometimes, for example when he tries to speak my native language he is incredibly cute. or when he yawns and looks like a hippo.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 01:47 AM
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usually when people mock religion they completely miss the point while thinking they're oh-so-smart. i think that's what ticks me off the most.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 05:16 PM
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how do you even learn about your ex's sex life with their new boyfriend? is that a 'rub it in' kind of thing? it just seems so weird to me. why would anyone discuss that? or even let someone else discuss it?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:22 AM
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that reminds me of the time i poured myself some cereal and even cut a banana in it. #masterchef
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 03:06 AM
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I have the exact opposite feeling about the number of christians on here. I feel like mostly when people post religious articles here they always tell us to just ignore the christian part and focus on the advice, that is very RP. and to answer the actual question: I wouldn't date someone who is as negative about religion as you, OP. I'm a twice a year kind of christian but it annoys me so much when people are as patronizing as you. you're so smart, good for you. everyone who doesnt share your wo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 02:46 AM
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I could be wrong but isnt smv something that cannot be determined objectively? Because it is determined by your possible partners not an outside entity.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/15 10:57 PM
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We're spending the night at the boyfriend's parents house while they are out. His best friend is coming over and we're going to order pizza. It will be a night of board games and different kinds of craft beers that he likes. And we're still jet lagged so i hope we'll even make it to midnight. Resolution wise i dont really have any. Rpw made me want to improve year round ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 10:30 PM
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I dont have anything to add but i would just like you to know how sorry i am this had to happen to you. Sorry but what an idiot.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/14 07:02 AM
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well i'm european so probably socialist by american standards. but i think there are people everywhere with all kinds of opinions about all kinds of things that are butthurt when someone disagrees. it's just human and depends on your personality and how you view others disagreeing with you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 09:31 PM
1

thank you :) and i will let you know :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:30 PM
1

i've bought a bottle of my school's wine that supposedly even tastes good. never tried it myself but my mom liked it and she knows a thing or two about good wine. so i hope his dad (stepmom apparently doesnt really drink wine) will like it, too.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:26 PM
1

well it is nicknamed the land of unlimited possibilities here ;) but thank you for the reminder, i think sometimes i do that, without meaning to be rude.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:23 PM
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It does help but i really dont mind getting dirty so i hope i wont come across as that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 03:37 PM
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just that most men on reddit arent lumberjacks or working in alaska.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 09:38 AM
1

challenging my boyfriend in front of anyone seems weird. like i hope i've never done it or that he feels i've done it but well i try not to. thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:46 AM
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haha isnt rule number one always dont bring up politics or religion? thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:36 AM
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beard=testosterone. just have an actual full beard so you dont look like you're 15.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:21 AM
1

we definitely planned on going to the zoo. and doing the shark dive! thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:20 AM
1

haha i would not be prepared for royalty :D
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:06 AM
1

i've never even thought about separate rooms. i suppose i should keep that in the back of my mind. most of the dishes i thought about aren't very hard to make. for example the one dish my grandpa always makes when we come over is pretty much just pasta, eggs, salami (not sure what the english term would be, a kind of sausage) and spices. but it means a lot to me. or there's ratatouille which i personally just really like, but that's also pretty much just chopping a bunch of veggies up and then c…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:02 AM
1

..and i can legally drink in america now, so that could work :D but so do i go in their kitchen to get the drinks? isnt that rude?
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 07:38 AM
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we're going to seattle. any thoughts? :D
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 07:36 AM
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from what he's told me they at least dont sound annoying :D what's frufru?
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 07:34 AM
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just one question: do you really like women who wear no make up or do you like women who look like they wear no make up? there's a huge difference.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/14 07:32 PM
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close enough. we just have that exact saying, too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/14 09:04 AM
1

German? :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 11:33 PM
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pretty sure for every man who is like you there's a man who is turned on by his pregnant wife just because she's carrying his offspring. (like for example my boyfriend who has told me on several occasions he finds the thought extremely arousing)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 08:55 AM
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maybe volunteer? or take up a hobby outside of uni?
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 09:21 PM
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Maybe try dating older guys. Of course your virginity is a turn off for guys who are in College expecting to get laid a lot and plate you. For someone who wants to settle down, though, it's a huge turn on.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 01:11 PM
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maybe you could sit your parents down for talk (maybe even over the holidays during a quiet moment) and tell them how you feel? how it made you miserable and you just couldnt take it anymore? i just recently switched out of med school partly because of how miserable it made me. i think my parents were concerned at first, too. switching out of med school to pursue a degree in geography (not wasting money, tuition is 61 euros a month) doesnt seem like the smartest thing to do. but i think now that…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 09:04 PM
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she is pretty anti feminist. even got banned from twitter a couple of times because feminists couldnt stand her logic. guesses are the publisher got scared of them and now decided he doesnt want anything to do with a book he spent a year of his life on.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 08:51 AM
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not really red pill and i dont know how good it is in english but the girl who saved the king of sweden by jonas jonasson is really good. i'm only on cd 2 but i really enjoy it. going to listen to it on my 10 hour drive to my moms this christmas and i've knitted to it before. and maybe the hundred year old man who climbed out the window and disappeared also by jonas jonasson. both really enjoyable.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 09:21 PM
1

I started (seriously) thinking about getting married to my boyfriend pretty soon after we started dating, too. I think it would be weird if I didnt because that would mean I didnt believe in this relationship. I know it's not wise to actually go through with it after just a couple of months but that's why I'm with a man who is level headed and who makes good decisions. And who is not some beta orbiter I just upgraded because I was bored.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:41 PM
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fake it until you make it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 08:42 PM
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i'd rather not post a picture because he hasnt seen the scarf completed and i'd like to save that for christmas. and i dont know the kind of yarn. it's nice and soft and not scratchy :D
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 05:48 PM
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A lady takes care of herself and her looks. She eats healthy and tries to look as best as she can by dressing appropriately, working out and applying make up as it best suits her.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 02:44 PM
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he reads what i comment on reddit so i'm just going to tell you about the things he knows.. i knitted him a scarf. it's the first thing i've ever knitted and i'm kind of proud. he's seen it when i was still working on it and he's asked me for one so it's not really a surprise. there's one little thing i'm hoping he has forgotten about and i'm also giving him a gift card for an activity that will be done when we're in his hometown, just after christmas. i'm nervous about that last one.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 02:08 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that. and i know i'm being an ass but i edited my original comment and added a wikipedia article to back my claim up. because sorry but saying you dont agree with something that has been studied and where i know i'm right because i've written several research papers on that specific topic just irks me.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 07:04 PM
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obviously it's different for everyone but there's also a lot of different kinds of dementia, alzheimer's just being the most common one. and for alzheimer's it is usually a long way.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 06:59 PM
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while i agree (and let's face it, sex was probably the best thing in the old woman's life) it takes way longer than that for someone with alzeheimer's to die. (source: grandma, visits to the nursing home, wiki)
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 01:58 PM
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just that if crematoriums arent equipped for fat people those people actually set the whole place on fire.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 08:49 PM
8

i wouldnt know, i'm a mindless doormat.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 08:04 AM
12

why would he give you commitment if you give him sex without it?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 08:23 PM
17

yup. there's nothing to gain from tinder.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 07:50 PM
10

not the terror squad but you know you have that desire and whenever it comes up you actively dont seek out any guys. make female friends. hang out with them and dont talk to your male friends. the desire will lessen with time and it sure as heck wont get better if you keep guys around. be busy. learn a skill. work out. work on being more pleasant to be around.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 07:47 PM
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it was and still is somewhat weird for me. I'm just starting to learn why my parents got their divorce. Before I always just thought they fell out of love and that it happens and nothing can be done about that. Now I'm learning how my mom kind of lost it and blamed my dad for a lot of things that were not his fault/that he did because he had to (like working because someone had to do it). I've learned about some of it before I met my boyfriend and about some during and I'm sure there's even more…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 01:29 PM
15

I always wonder how they dont see what a big FUCK YOU their actions are to all real rape victims.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 09:13 PM
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oh wow. sorry. it never even occurred to me someone might not have kitchen essentials.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 06:55 AM
2

does he not have a kitchen you can use? i think that might even be easier than cooking food then bringing it over to his house.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 11:22 PM
7

when i'm by myself i wear a tshirt and comfy pants because i get cold easily. when i'm with my boyfriend i only wear panties and he keeps me warm.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 09:56 PM
1

I never had a stay at home mom but i know the days she had off that werent during school breaks were the best growing up.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 05:01 PM
2

I'd recommend interning first. you can do that during summer. i worked on a children's cancer ward and let's just say it was different than what i expected. It's not just that it obviously takes a toll seeing kids that sick (though most just played a lot and it was always super loud there, like on a playground, just inside). I cant really put it in words but i've wanted to become a pediatric oncologist for the longest time and my two months there really changed my mind. I'm not even in med schoo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 12:24 PM
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I'd recommend interning first. you can do that during summer. i worked on a children's cancer ward and let's just say it was different than what i expected. It's not just that it obviously takes a toll seeing kids that sick (though most just played a lot and it was always super loud there, like on a playground, just inside). I cant really put it in words but i've wanted to become a pediatric oncologist for the longest time and my two months there really changed my mind. I'm not even in med schoo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 12:24 PM
1

There was a good article about this here a while ago. Basically you have to factor in how much you spend on working. Usually you need a car (and we all know those are expensive to fix should there be something wrong), gas to get to and from work, lunches, you need someone to watch the children, work clothes, and so on. You have to do the math for yourself but apparently (no experience with that) a lot of families barely break even. And then there's this whole thing about how much you value money…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 09:39 AM
2

I've actually thought about that but I just don't feel like i'm RPW enough to actually post something. I try and comment and learn through that and what I read but my thoughts don't seem post worthy. or not yet. but i do hope that will change in the future so maybe you will see posts by me :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 09:11 PM
2

thank you :) i think 17 year old me would have had a stroke had she known i was going to be in a relationship like this. i was strong and independent. but i love it. it's the best relationship i've ever had. with a man i love more than i could imagine.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 07:22 PM
3

I love your post! he picks the song i fall asleep to most nights. it started at the very beginning of our relationship, before we even started dating. we talked about his taste in music and it was just so relaxing i said i was gonna fall asleep to one of the songs that night. and ever since then he picks the songs i fall asleep to. it makes me feel so much closer to him. and then there's planning what i cook for him when he's here or i'm there. like next weekend i'm going to cook him and 2 of hi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 09:17 AM
2

since we're in a long distance relationship the weekends we have together we kind of catch up on the activities we have been planning. like going to the zoo or the aquarium, watching movies and most importantly lots of cuddling. mostly we just hang out together and enjoy that we're there together. like next weekend we're planning on visiting a big christmas market and a post thanksgiving dinner with some of his buddies. as a child i loved when my dad would takes us to a bigger city using the tra…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/14 01:48 PM
1

Do you have a recipe for the actual pumpkin stuff in the pumpkin pie, too? I'm not American and I'd like to bake my boyfriend a real American pumpkin pie :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/14 08:15 AM
2

I think you forgot a 'not' in your first sentence ;)
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/14 08:57 AM
1

so like those thai people who look like women and still have a penis? then op, breaking up was probably the right thing to do.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 12:30 PM
2

What's a T-Girl? (other than that i'm assuming he cheated on you?) I'm not sure if 1.5 years of being single counts as a long time but let's just assume it does. I think it's important that you see this as a time to grow. and a time to learn to be happy with just yourself. you're 20 so you have plenty of time to find a great guy. make sure to take care of yourself, eat healthy, work out, try to improve your personality (basically all the reasons we're here) and just be content with what you have…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 12:03 PM
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i just dont get why they won't realize how their trivializing rape is such a big ginormous FUCK YOU to everyone who has actually been raped. I've actually posted something like this in TwoX after I saw something particularly infuriating but it obviously got deleted. those people need to step back and re-evaluate their priorties. and see how they only cause damage. to the men who are wrongly accused of rape (regret is not the same thing as having been raped, someone wishing you a good day in new …
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 07:38 AM
2

2: You save time compared to some public transport, walking or cycling. that's not even neccessarily true. when I take my car to work it takes me about 15 minutes to get there (and i'm always super early because if i leave any later traffic is worse and i'm late) compared to the 10 minutes it takes me riding my bike there. so factoring in traffic and having to leave home earlier i save about 15 minutes if i take my bike. same with going to university. there is no parking anywhere close to the bu…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 02:08 PM
1

thank you :) and she probably missed it, too. or maybe it's just part of being strong and independent.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 12:21 PM
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lol ok not being a native english speaker i looked it up on urban dictionary after i posted (probably should start doing that before i post though) and they agree with me :D
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 09:59 AM
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I dont really get that sweater. isnt 'male tears' a euphemism for semen? and wouldnt bathing in semen mean she's being used by a whole bunch of guys and lets them?
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 09:40 AM
2

very interesting points. if you look at it like that it might not be that bad of a show. i just think it's not exactly the kind of show that provokes critical thinking. or at least it didnt for me. i always felt like it was the kind of show you watch when you just want to relax and not think about anything. and that then is the problem because it makes people think that that's the way to be and act. i was in middle school when it first aired here and i remember watching it because everyone did a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 10:58 AM
2

I was raised by a feminist single mother. she always wanted to work but stayed home after i was born and when my brother was born. i think she was jealous of my dad for going to work and advancing his carreer. they got divorced and she was single for 10 years. didnt make her happy either but at least she got to advance her career. when i was in high school i always said i wanted kids and wanted a husband to take care of them. i started changing my mind early this year. just kind of figured out f…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 08:17 AM
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there were re runs of it here until not long ago (september? october?). they advertised it with "those ladies know what they want... and how to get it". uhm. no. just no. if they did there would not be a show like that.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 07:44 AM
3

Fit: 1: How did you get moving this week? rode my bike everywhere (does it even count if i do it out of pure laziness?) 2: What was your go-to healthy food item or meal? a lot of my meals consisted of fruit (tangerines!), bell peppers and tomatoes. need more variety now that i think about it. 3: What song got you moving? shake it off by taylor swift. 4: What are your plans for next week? actually excerise at the gym at least three times, be more pleasant Fat: 1: What is the most delicious thing …
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 10:33 AM
2

I agree with you. My decision making process (to discontinue taking the pill) was actually started because of a bunch of very interesting facts i heard in one of my lectures in medical school. and the class where we got to talk to actual patients and i got paired with a 20 year old patient who had been taking the pill for years until she had a stroke. 20 years old. obviously it might not have been the only factor that played a role and she smoked which increases the risks more (something like 38…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 08:38 AM
2

I went on it because everyone was on the pill. I didnt even really question it. It was just great to have my period pains lessened and my period 'manageable' (as in when it wasnt convenient i just wouldnt go on the period break but continue taking the pill). I started questioning the whole thing about two years ago and went off it 1.5 years ago. took me about a year and a massive infertility scare (still have my doctor monitor my ovaries) to get back on track with my period. from what i've read …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 05:05 PM
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my boyfriend has mentioned how girls on birth control usually don't like his smell. i love when he hasnt showered in two or three days because it makes me crazy horny. there's a plethora (did i use that correctly? trying to expand my vocabulary :D) of reasons why birth control pills are just plain bad. from my point of view now i wouldn't allow my possible future daughters to go on it. it just messes with the body so badly. and i think it's scary how no one even asks questions about why it's so …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 11:26 AM
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it's not even really different things. it's having a beauty standard and wanting possible mates to fit in that. just that weight is something that can usually be lost whereas height is something nobody can just change when they feel like it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 08:37 PM
1

i thought of it more as her perception of mr darcy's smv.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 08:53 PM
1

I haven't read the book or seen a movie but it also sounds like her father is talking about what we would call hypergamy ? because the respectable part sounds like he's hinting towards she would go look for men with more "SMV"?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 05:35 PM
1

i bet it does. and i dont think he even meant it. it was just a quick wanting his bottle deposit money, took like 5 seconds and i would have let him cut, i just thought asking would have been nice. and i guess i didnt exactly sounds humble there. it's just that i hear other people working at the call center being so rude to people. and i try to always be on my best behavior there, and really everwhere where i interact with people. i'm obviously not perfect but recognizing your faults is the firs…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 07:50 PM
2

i love the cutting in front of you in the grocery store part. because just about two hours ago a boy (maybe 11 or 12) cut me off. i think generally it pays to be nice to people. and i really notice that at work. i work in an outbound call center. we dont sell or advertise anything (that's illegal here), we try to get people to participate in our surveys (if you've ever wondered where things like "two out of three people like apples more than bananas" come from - we gather that data). anyway. we'…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 07:26 PM
1

ah thank you. so probably just someone in the anger phase.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 09:38 PM
1

would it be really out of line to ask what he (?) commented? because it's a comment to my comment but i never got to read it and it kind of bugs me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 08:32 PM
2

i love that story. and after 15 years of being together i think her love for him is probably big enough to stay through hard times like this. that's a long time. call me naive (because i am) but i choose to believe love is what drove her.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 11:27 AM
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I know women are not supposed to comment but here it goes: my boyfriend sometimes doesnt shower for several days at a time. makes me crazy horny. like catnip for sex. there are men who can pull this off.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 04:28 PM
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