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| 1 | Marriage after baby.... HelpI'm the shell of a person that I used to be. I'm the shell of a wife and a friend that I used to be. Self care, self care, self care. I know that this might seem impossible now. While I didn't go through anything remotely close to what you are going through, I had three kids in three years and can commiserate a tiny bit. But you have to find something. The bouncer in the bathroom was my life saver. I had one hanging from the doorframe. Bouncing might not be the best idea for a baby with dysphagi… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/20 01:31 PM |
| 10 | Is this request unreasonable?I do think it's unreasonable. Can you really respect a man that asks you for sex? Touching is his way of letting you know. Asking is a mood killer and probably makes him feel like a weakling. And I bet when he asks part of you looks at him that way, too. Look, I understand. I really do. I was in your shoes 15 years ago. Then one day I got mad at my husband one night while I was making dinner. He wouldn't keep his hands off of me. So he said, OK. I won't touch you any more and he kept to his word… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/19 12:38 PM |
| 34 | Is this request unreasonable?You're husband is not being unreasonable. Men view sex with their wives as a loving act and being rejected for sex makes him feel rejected as a husband. Yes, men can have sex with women with no love involved, but when there is love, sex is an extremely important way to show him that. You asked how it work in my marriage? I don't say no. Ever. We've been married for more than 20 years. There is a saying that I'm going to botch. You don't wait until you're in the mood to have sex. You start having… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/11/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What is RPW's opinion about forgiving people?I think it is definitely okay to give this another shot, if he's free to do so. However, if he is a true alpha male (can have his pick of women and does so without a second thought) be careful. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/19 02:38 PM |
| 2 | What is RPW's opinion about forgiving people?Most people I know, who are more succesful than me about relationships, would just got really angry and shout at each other and never look one anothers face or talk trash behind one another. This isn't strength, it's throwing a temper tantrum. I do not think your wanting to forgive him is emotionally immature. On the contrary, I think it the opposite. Given the type of people you are comparing yourself to, you should rethink who is more mature. You or the people who treat people they "love" in t… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/19 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Advice on relocating for a better family enviornmentIf you plan on homeschool hop on HSLDA's (Home School Legal Defense Association) website to check out the state laws where you are thinking of moving. Some states are far easier to homeschool in than others. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/19 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Cooking veggies & concern about aromaSprinkle cinnamon on a cookie sheet and put it on low in the oven. Neat trick to do when you put your house up for sale before a showing as well. Orange peels, cinnamon stick, and cloves on a simmer on your stove, though this is more of a Christmas scent. Still, it smells very nice. Use your stove vent and try to quickly spray down any grease splatters when the stove is cool enough to do so. I just use vinegar and water. The vinegar smell dissipates as soon as it dries. In the morning, before it… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/06/19 12:04 PM |
| 13 | Roosh V's change of heartHe's been toying with religion for years. I saw this the other day and was happy for him that he finally took the plunge. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Please Help Me Let Go of ResentmentThere are two different red pill mentalities, those of women and those of men. These two mentalities are very often at odds with one another. Since you are asking this here at the women's site the answer to your question is one word, choice. We choose to live this way. I know little about Handmaid's Tale, but from the little I've read, it's all about force. And as for Christianity, there is not form of sharia law there where a husband is commanded to love his wife even to the point of laying dow… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/03/19 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, and how I was not like All The Women - until, all of a sudden, I wasI've been away from most of the red pill stuff for a few years now except for here and reading a couple other subreddits. The best place for you would be the side bar here. There were some women's blogs a few years back but most, if not all, of us shut down. My advice to you is to read the side bar and ask questions. There used to be a simple questions post here from time to time, so you could ask there or you could make your own post just like you did here. If you want to jump right into the de… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/19 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Hypergamy, and how I was not like All The Women - until, all of a sudden, I wasWe're about the same age. I know exactly what you mean. You want to know what's really freaky? When you start to learn that it's not just a couple of things that you're (we're) wrong about. It's a whole LOT of things. I came to the red pill in my early 30's so I've grown accustomed to it to a certain extent, but I have discovered over those years that what you're describing never stops. I am constantly learning what I've had wrong all this time. It becomes a combination of refreshing and scary o… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/19 08:57 PM |
| 27 | Hypergamy, and how I was not like All The Women - until, all of a sudden, I was>I still don't know if All Women Are Like That We are. But hypergamy isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's just a thing. A thing like men preferring beauty. It's what we do with it that is the important thing. Look at your response to your own hypergamy. You noted it, you learned from it, and you turned it around and took a look at what you've got instead of indulging in these thoughts. We shouldn't be afraid of things like hypergamy and everything else in our nature. We should learn about the… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/03/19 05:33 PM |
| 14 | Husband recently swallowed TRPHere's my guess at what has happened/is happening. He was taught from a young age that women are everything nice and he believed it. He pedestalized you and you lost respect for him. He probably tried harder and you lost more respect. When you confided in the other man, his world crashed around him. Everything he had been taught was literally thrown back in his face and he felt totally betrayed (I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but if you don't hear how he's feeling you won't understand. This is … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/03/19 01:03 PM |
| 9 | Husband recently swallowed TRPCan you give us more information? It sounds like he is going Rambo on you. He's angry. What drove him to MRP? I assume he hasn't told you anything about MRP, but what was he telling you before all of this happened? | /r/RedPillWives | 27/02/19 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - February 23, 2019For the first few months after a baby is born you hold on by your finger nails as best you can and keep telling yourself it will get better. It truly does. This too shall pass. Self care as best as you can, ride your husbands moods, even just stay out of his way if you have to. Do your best to just be happy. You'd be surprised at how contagious this can be. You have a little peanut right now. As best you can glory in this time. In an amazingly short time, this will be over. Enjoy it and hopefull… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/19 02:00 PM |
| 17 | Please Help Me Let Go of ResentmentAll marriages have ups and downs. Be patient. Let him get through this. As best you can, make you home his soft place to land while he is going through this project. Make the work your are doing while this is going on a way to try to reconnect with him in your own mind. He may not notice because he is involved so much with his own things, but YOU know. Make the connection yourself. Try to find little things that you know he will appreciate while he is working so hard for your family, even if it'… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/19 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - January 26, 2019My point is that I didn't look into it and wish I had. There was so much I didn't know about vaccines that I wish I knew then. I would do a lot differently. It's not black and white in the non vacciners are creating these outbreaks when there are other factors like illegals. Whether I'm the minority or not, people should consider other possibilities. A consideration and thought are something many, many people don't bother to do. That should change. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - January 26, 2019Maybe you don't want to have the debate. But, what about looking into it? Seriously, where is the harm in that? To be clear, I vaccinated all my kids on the schedule that the doctors told me. I would do it differently if I had to do it again. Yes, I would probably still vaccinate, but not on the schedule they do. Many of the vaccines are 3 in one shot and the baby might get 2-3 shots at one time. That's 6 - 9 different cocktails being injected into your baby all at once. In an infant whose immun… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/19 01:09 PM |
| 7 | Advice for engagement period?Develop patience if it is something you need to work on. Moving in with some else is not as easy at it may sound. Marriage is a wonderful thing, but two people with separate lives coming together is not as easy as we would like to think it should be. I remember getting angry with my husband when we first got married because he wanted me to fold the towels differently. It may seem petty and little, maybe from both of our perspectives, but you might be surprised at how irritating little things lik… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/01/19 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Do your husbands lose attraction to you as you age?Do you know what wife goggles are? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/19 11:52 AM |
| 9 | Do your husbands lose attraction to you as you age?When did wife goggles become inconsistent with red pill theory? If I remember correctly, it was Athol Kay who originally coined the term years before he started his forums and going down hill toward what I understand became purple pill hell. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/19 09:38 PM |
| 36 | Do your husbands lose attraction to you as you age?Wife goggles. It's real. However, YOU must maintain them. Of course, work hard to maintain your appearance, but looks always fade. More than your appearance, is your respect for him. Continue to respect him and the wife goggles will stay put. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Are there any trad con parenting / fatherhood blogs?Search for homeschooling blogs. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/01/19 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Good movies for children?The Little Princess, The Secret Garden | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/18 07:11 PM |
| 16 | Advice for daughters and young girls?Marriage isn't a competition. It's a team sport. You have to work together to reach your goals. You're feelings aren't always the truth. Just because your feelings are hurt, does't mean they should be. Marriage is a sacrifice. He comes first. Find someone who will treat you the same way and you will have an amazing marriage. You should never be ashamed of being a woman and all that entails. People will tell you that you have to behave like a man to succeed in life. This is a lie. Women make for … | /r/RedPillWives | 30/10/18 03:54 PM |
| 30 | Crying and vulnerabilityYou show vulnerability because you're vulnerable. This; calming him down by shedding tears and showing vulnerability is a very feminine and rp way to make him more receptive to your opinion. is manipulation. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/18 11:53 AM |
| 10 | In need of advice from wives and momsFirst off, it's okay to be struggling with this. It really is. Don't let guilt get in the way of an already very difficult situation. Second, when you get a minute, really that's all you need, tell your husband thank you. A sincere thank you will will vent some frustration for both of you, and when you put yourself in the place of gratefulness, it makes it much easier not to snipe at one's husband. I know those little fights well and when you remember everything that you are doing for each other… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/18 04:40 PM |
| 4 | What Are Your Favorite (Or Most Lusted After) Cookbooks?Hit your library for cookbooks. It's great because you can try so many for free, then you're not committing money for something you ultimately don't like. If you love one, you can always buy it later. Bonus, you can often find the recipes online from your favorite books. This saves a boat load of self space, not to mention money. Try Catholic Cuisine. She authors Shower of Roses (where there are also lots of recipes). She has a lot of recipes for kids to celebrate Saint Days and other liturgical… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/09/18 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Illiberal children's storiesThat's so funny, we can debate anything, right? I don't remember exactly now, the details of it. The message of that catchy song, though . . . . . Edit: Here's what it boils down to. You're most likely correct. But, that song. What do most people remember about Frozen? They remember the song. It gets stuck in your head. Let it go. I have zero trust for Disney and am quite sure this is by design. People remember the song and the rest of it is plausible deniability. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/18 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Illiberal children's storiesI think, on some level, we can all understand her, which makes that song 1) so catchy and 2) scary because what happens when people really do just say screw it and let it all go? FWIW: I like Frozen too and really like the song. It's incredibly catchy, which I think is on purpose. It makes it harder to think about what's really going on. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/18 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Illiberal children's storiesIn the process of "letting go" she refuses to go back and make right what she nearly destroys (if I remember correctly. I haven't seen it for a couple of years) Love brings her back, which is quite beautiful. But the highlight of the entire movie, that one song boils down to, basically, do what thy will. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/18 09:36 PM |
| 8 | Illiberal children's storiesFor when she is older, Caddie Woodlawn. It's awesome. There are others here that are fantastic. Lurve Island of the Blue Dolphins, Little Women, Laura Ingals Wilder*, etc. At this age, don't worry about female protagonists. Just foster that love of reading. She'd probably love the Beatrix Potter books, though she may still be a bit young for them. Just read. Go for old things. And when she gets older, start listening to audiobooks in your car. My kids are teen/preteen and we still do this. It's … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/18 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Illiberal children's storiesThe main song in Frozen is basically, just do what you want to be happy. Let it all go, and in the process, she destroys everything and nearly kills her family. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Career driven women making the SAHW leap?In my heart of hearts, I want to be the matriarch of a happy, loving family. Like the one I always wanted as a kid but didn't have. What is the best path toward this goal? SAHM or therapist? I'm worried about spending all my time doing something I'm just mediocre at. Were you always an awesome therapist or did you have to work toward it? If you had to work at it, was this work to get where you are part of the appeal? | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/18 06:05 PM |
| 10 | Husband doesn't think I am supportiveHere's what I see happening. He's feeling emasculated. You are the bread winner and he's still working just to get his business in the black. He wants to provide, but he can't right now. Then, he hears you talking about wanting to save money for household projects that can wait, and he just feels even more pressure. He needs to make sure his family is provided for. He doesn't want to hear about pumping money out right now. I get that's not what you are asking for, but in his current high stress … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/18 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Being WomanThank you for sharing, whitebunny. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/06/18 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Unsolicited adviceYou're asking "should" questions. It's not really about should. It's about how the man you choose, himself chooses to be in a relationship and whether what he wants is compatible with what you want. If you know you want advice given in a certain way, seek a man who gives you that and who is willing to take what you are capable of giving. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/03/18 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Chronically Ill WifeThank you very much. | /r/askMRP | 16/03/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Chronically Ill WifeThanks for this. Does he talk about headaches at all? | /r/askMRP | 15/03/18 05:24 PM |
| 4 | SAHWs I need some inspiration...What are you interested in? What have you wanted to learn but have never taken the time to do? This is the beauty of being a SAHW today. You can learn to do literally anything. Youtube is amazing for this. I want to learn to make soap but haven't taken the time to do it yet. I've learned a bit about herbs and make a salve and a syrup from time to time. I've learned about a few herbs that grow around my home and I'm planting a garden that is expanding slowly but surely. I find it all fascinating.… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/18 12:39 PM |
| 6 | Valentine's gifts for him - minimal cheese. Help!A hammock? Has he mentioned any music, books, or games in passing lately? A leatherman (great outdoor and all around tool)? Hot hands? A head flashlight? A portable ax? That's all I got right now. For the future: check out the site Man Crates. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/02/18 02:57 AM |
| 2 | How do I improve my voice?Drink more water and put lemon in it. It will help with the phlegm. Check into allergy problems that might exacerbate this. Learn how to breathe properly. You are likely breathing from the top of your chest rather than from your diaphragm. You aren't getting the support your voice requires. One way to practice this is to lie on you back and breathe. Pay attention. We naturally breathe through to our diaphragm in this position. It will raise your stomach rather than your upper chest. Then stand a… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - January 27, 2018Get one of those baby things where you carry the baby on you hand free. I'm completely blanking on the name right now but those are amazing. You have a new born. You should be sleeping when he sleeps. The house will still be there when you awaken from the newborn haze. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/01/18 02:47 AM |
| 17 | When a man says, “Don’t worry, I’ll handle it.”My husband has a rule, I get to either tell him what to do or how to do it. Never both. Trust him. Give him this gift. It's more important than I think you realize. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/18 10:41 PM |
| 7 | Marriage counseling.Check out the book, "First, Kill all the Marriage Counselors" by Laura Doyle. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/18 12:38 PM |
| 5 | My husband needs his alone time often when he’s stressed and not stressed. Need advice.I don’t know if I did or say anything wrong (probably did) What makes you say this? | /r/RedPillWives | 16/01/18 12:26 PM |
| 3 | What drew you to RP?This makes me happy. Thank you for saying so. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/18 03:00 PM |
| 11 | What drew you to RP?Also, it is disrespectful to tell women that the only way they can be a good woman to attempt to be a man. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/18 01:13 PM |
| 8 | What drew you to RP?Yes. The manosphere has been around for more than a decade. It all started with PUAs and morphed into theory. TRP took that several years later and made their sub. As more men found it, the more watered down it became. The more watered down it became and more men that found it, the angrier it got. There was plenty of anger in the manosphere, but it had a focus and we got to watch those men move past that anger and learn from it in real time. TRP isn't like this any more (I think. I haven't read … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/18 12:53 PM |
| 9 | What drew you to RP?I came here through the manosphere a few years ago. I learned a great deal from that sphere and applied it to my own marriage. Saw the mistakes I was making, continued to make, and still make to this day. I also saw how changing my ways really benefitted my marriage, my husband and me. I came here to help other women do the same; to hopefully learn from my mistakes before they made them their own. If too late for that, to be able to at least see what those mistakes are and what they are doing to… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/18 12:48 PM |
| 14 | Celebs at the Met Gala vs porn stars at the AVN awards (slightly NSFW? skimpy clothes)Kinda reaffirms for me that porn stars actually know what men want (beyond sex, ironically) while most other women are clueless. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/18 12:54 PM |
| 11 | Kristen Bell Discusses Her Husband’s Rule About Fights. What Rules Do You Follow?He said, "I have more respect for myself than that." It was a deal breaker for him. And what did she do? She decided she didn't want to lose him. She knows he is the prize, because he's not afraid and respects himself too much to put up with crazy. And FFS, what does Harry Connick Jr. do? Tries to turn it around. "Wait, you're supposed to be training him!" And calls himself stupid. I love, love, love how she talks about him, how she politely contradicts HCJ and not only sticks up for her husband… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill for my wife?I am and I've been part of the manosphere/redpill for several years now. I had a blog for a few years as well so I might be able to help her out if she is receptive. If you click on any users name you can read all their past comments and submissions so you can read through anything people have written. That will help. | /r/RPChristians | 26/12/17 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill for my wife?Prayers to both of you. Find your strength, your masculinity and she will be more likely to find her femininity and when both of you work at it you can have the most amazing marriage. If your wife wants someone to talk to, have her pm me. I'll do what I can. | /r/RPChristians | 26/12/17 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill for my wife?Try "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr Laura Schlessinger and "The Surrended Wife" by Laura Doyle. Also the blog Finer Femininity. There are other blogs as well if she searches for them. The important thing for her to understand is that she's not going to agree with everything on any blog. Women have a tendency to see one thing they hate and dismiss everything else. Don't let her do that. Submission is about trust in the husband and faith in God. These are GOOD things. Her natural t… | /r/RPChristians | 24/12/17 11:55 AM |
| 17 | Can single girls participate here?Yes, absolutely. Welcome. We are happy to have you here! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/17 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Pre + Post Christmas Megathread!!!Things I learned this Christmas: Glitter NEVER comes out of the grooves of your kitchen table. Never stir homemade caramel with a plastic handled spatula even if the spatula part is silicone. Teaching the kids to make cookies then handing them out to friends and neighbors is wonderful. It is entirely possible to make a batch of cookies without a blender! It's Christmas. No matter what the house looks like, or how crazy things are, it's Christmas. "It's wonderful" doesn't begin to describe it. Me… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/17 01:38 PM |
| 8 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?I do and I know other people don't notice it when they come over. Honestly, the more you stress about little stuff like this when you have company, the less comfortable your guest will be. They'll notice your discomfort if you stress about it, even if they can't put their finger on it. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/17 04:54 PM |
| 2 | CheatingAnytime. PM anyone you happen to like as well. Most likely anyone here will take the time to answer any questions or just chat. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/17 03:23 PM |
| 6 | CheatingThat makes it hard to open to up to anyone about this and contributes to the lonely, sad, and slightly depressed feelings I've had lately. Sadly this is unsurprising. Also, it is part of the reason we are here. So we can all come to a place where we can open up and follow our guts rather than the world at large. Contribute more, go to the IRC and chat (be warned, it is addicting) and talk to some like minded women. It will help you. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/17 03:07 PM |
| 4 | CheatingIt's hard because everyone says honesty/full disclosure immediately is the only acceptable approach. Otherwise he was supposedly being selfish. I don't see it that way and as a result feel very confused. Think about that for a second. Everyone says and your very gut is screaming at you that this is wrong. Instead of giving credence to "everyone", listen to your gut and then think about the implications of that. It should give you even more reason to trust your husband. It's like I'm automaticall… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/17 01:50 PM |
| 7 | CheatingThis is all such a great comment. u/gemmv all of what whitebunny said is quite true. Men do not deal with regret the same way as women. Given all you've said about him here, that he is a good man, he likely wanted to protect you from this. He could have been regretting all of this for years. The other thing is, there is a big difference between exclusivity in a LTR and marriage. There is a difference, a big one and while he said he would be exclusive and he cheated (and I know that hurts), it in… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women shit test you consciously or is it sub-consciously?Eh, women shittest consciously all the time. They just won't admit it. When called out on it, they just then believe their own lies. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Homemaking & cosy catastrophesHappy to hear things are good. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/17 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Simple Questions - December 02, 2017We don't condone women being plates and there are very few men who comment here. When they do, there is no, "Man, here" nonsense. It's just a comment. I'm sure there are more differences, but I haven't been there for a while to be able to compare. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/17 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Homemaking & cosy catastrophesHow're things? | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/17 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Homemaking & cosy catastrophesSeveral years ago we went through a hurricane. We spent the day with our close neighbors and we weathered it out together. Even though it was pretty scary going through it, we had so much fun all hanging out together. I hope things don't turn south for everyone there and you all stay safe. I'm so happy that you can enjoy this for what it is. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/17 12:41 PM |
| 4 | My (30) husband (32) has planned a getaway for our anniversary but weather warning has me worriedSometimes these situations are better than any perfect vacation you could plan, if you let them be. If he says you all go and you're forced inside you might have one of the most memorable vacations of your lives. It's these weird abnormal situations that turn so fun that we remember forever. Not the planned ones. Go with it. Enjoy it for what it is and have a wonderful time. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/17 02:38 AM |
| 10 | The Unexamined Brutality of the Male LibidoThese women are only seeing the "negative" or uncomfortable aspects of masculinity and screeching about how toxic men are as a whole. Exactly. But it's more than just fighting. Everything we take for granted. People also don't realize the crap jobs men do, and many love, that we would be absolutely helpless if they all decided to quit. What springs immediately to mind is coal miners. This job is hella dangerous, even with all the safety precautions we have today. Many, if not most, of us would b… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/17 12:17 AM |
| 16 | The Unexamined Brutality of the Male LibidoI'm too zonked to really get into this article right now, but what I think people fail to realize is that this "brutal libido" is only one side of a coin. The other side is channeling this violence into protecting what is loved. We do not get men who will fight and die for God, family, and country without this propensity for violence. Feminist have worked so hard to kill this propensity and I wonder how they would feel when it came time for these same men to go fight for them, as these feminist … | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/17 12:04 AM |
| 6 | StrugglingCopy and paste u/whitebunny87 comment and go from there. As your post is written it's nearly impossible to give you any tangible advice. As written, this is all in your head. Fix your head. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/11/17 01:59 PM |
| 5 | 3.5 months post-partum – an updateThank you for the update, Iris. I have been thinking about how you are doing. It gets better. It really does. Sleep when he sleeps and do what you can. You are no longer just wife. You are wife and mother. These are not two separate roles that you have to do everything both entail. It is one role where you have to find a balance. Remember, forever, there is NO perfect. You cannot do it all. No one expects this of you except you. You cannot be the wife/mother you need to be expecting this of your… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 12:38 PM |
| 2 | My husband is deeply miserable, and I've run out of strategies to help/deal with our situation.You're welcome. Best of luck to the both of you. This, too, shall pass. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/17 08:00 PM |
| 2 | My husband is deeply miserable, and I've run out of strategies to help/deal with our situation.Wow. Thank you. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/17 03:33 PM |
| 2 | My husband is deeply miserable, and I've run out of strategies to help/deal with our situation.And thank you, too! Can I just say that I love mum. It's somehow so fitting for kids. Like Mamma here. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/17 03:33 PM |
| 2 | My husband is deeply miserable, and I've run out of strategies to help/deal with our situation.Amen, sister. Well said. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/17 03:32 PM |
| 24 | My husband is deeply miserable, and I've run out of strategies to help/deal with our situation.Ok, so, your husband basically feels like a complete and utter failure right now. He feels like he is letting you down, like he's letting his family down and like he's let himself down. Please trust me when I tell you that you cannot know what he feels and how deeply he feels it. I don't tell you this to make you feel bad but to try to help you understand how horribly this affects him. First, read this. Next, you need to know that you are not responsible for his mood. But, of course, your action… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What Makes A Woman Put In Effort?I feel like LH women will have the most natural dread (positive and negative) in their relationships with dominant men, and I think both LH and HH women feel more excitement-dread on a daily basis b/c of the nature of their men. Agreed, as long as they actually are with more dominant men. I think the majority of women at this point are going to feel the negative side of dread these days because we don't associate dread with both the good and the bad. Only the bad. This is why women are so darn c… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | What Makes A Woman Put In Effort?Here you go. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/17 07:04 PM |
| 4 | What Makes A Woman Put In Effort?This is exactly what dread produces. This desire you're writing about. It' funny because when people read about dread, they are utterly appalled by it, but it creates excitement. It creates respect and it gives those butterflies in one's stomach when you do something for him that you hope he loves. That doesn't come without the disappointment side as well, when something you do (or don't do), falls flat. Also, I do wonder how much there is a difference in this from LH, HH, HL, and LL? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/17 11:37 PM |
| 6 | Was this too harsh?It's hard because comfort tests can come across as neediness, which emotionally drives me away. I've gotten better at concealing how I find the comfort test a show of neediness, but I don't think I'm any better at passing them. If I handled them better, he would probably do it less. You're still looking at this from the men's side of things. Stop reading the mens' sites. It's going to throw you off. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Connecting with a husband who works all the time?all I can control is my own actions Realizing this is incredibly freeing, as it gives you control. Not over him, but over you which is what we all need. I'm so glad to hear that you both had a good time and I hope it continues to go well. Keep it up, pretty soon your kids will be older and you won't know where the time went! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/17 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Connecting with a husband who works all the time?You're quite welcome. I tense up. Try not to do this. I know how difficult this is, but the better you get at not tensing up, the easier it will be for both of you. I found that meeting tense with tense just has a tendency to build up. If you can meet calm with tense, if you can just let it, not bounce off you (it'll bounce back at him), but just slide over you, it will often just dissipate. When I finally figured this out, I found that the snapping happened far less often. He was calmer just co… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/11/17 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Connecting with a husband who works all the time?Thank you. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/11/17 03:25 PM |
| 18 | Connecting with a husband who works all the time?I was in your position for quite a long time several years ago. It's not easy, for either of you. he can lose his temper easily....he is always quick to apologize, but it causes extra stress at home. When this happens, what do you do? We have a two year old and another on the way so with cooking, cleaning up, and getting our toddler ready for bed, we just have very little time to connect since he wakes early for work. A couple of times a week, could you prepare your meals during the day and then… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/11/17 11:47 AM |
| 11 | Dolly Parton on marriage and happiness"Some people work at being miserable. I work at being happy." Ain't it the truth. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/17 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Depictions Of Abusive Women In Pop CultureI think that Taylor Swift's music really exemplifies the idea of this behavior as payback. Heard of her, but don't know her music. But this makes sense. It's gone from fantasy to quasi real. When men decide to show them that it's not actually real, it will not be pretty. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/17 10:13 PM |
| 5 | Depictions Of Abusive Women In Pop CultureBut women CAN affect men, and they can a whole lot, especially today. And women know it, but they resent that the affect they can have is covert. Not overt like a man's. So this more overt form makes them happy, not least because it shows men being weak. The things is, when men turn on, it is a terrible and huge surprise to women, because they don't expect it and many honestly think they can be more overtly powerful than men, and then they pay for it. Though, too many men are scared to do this t… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/17 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Depictions Of Abusive Women In Pop Culturedoing things like screaming at their men, throwing things, destroying their man's belongings, stalking, enacting revenge, slapping them, saying cruel things, etc I think this is how they see masculinity and by portraying a woman doing it, they see the woman being truly equal to "men". It's a celebration of that, which is why it's always seen as funny, light, or deserved. It's payback. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over dating being so much easier for girls?Just remember, women have "The Wall". | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - October 28, 2017Congratulations! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | What's with the term "emotional labor" I see everywhere now?It makes perfect sense. First, while certain responsibilities fell in your lap, I'm sure certain responsibilities fell in his lap as well. Responsibilities that you likely do not bat an eye at, and since he does them, are not on your radar at all. Things that, if he dies today, you would take care of, but that you just don't think about. I know that women tend to get a lot more things because of house hold duties. But, each of those things tend to be smaller in nature. Now, I'm not trying to poo… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/17 02:32 PM |
| 8 | What's with the term "emotional labor" I see everywhere now?but it oddly contradicts the idea that a woman who is a SAHM and fully runs the household doesn't do anything. LOL. This is such a great point. It will be completely dismissed for some asinine reason, too. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 08:35 PM |
| 7 | What's with the term "emotional labor" I see everywhere now?Right? That's pretty much how I feel about this label. It's totally real. The moment I read the term I knew what it was, then I completely dismissed labelling it as more feminist BS. It's called being an adult. Deal. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 08:32 PM |
| 6 | What's with the term "emotional labor" I see everywhere now?So, if women get to label this, do men get to name and complain about their responsibilities in the family as well? | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 08:28 PM |
| 3 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?u/PhantomDream09 explains this well. In short, when we talk to other about our SOs that person gets an idea in their head about your SO. Since they will never know your SO like you do, that idea of your SO will ALWAYS be there, even when the problem has been solved. This is just the nature of humans and relationships. So, the point is to be aware of this tendency before you talk to someone else about your problems. Do you really want that person to take this view of your husband? An example, a f… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?There is a difference between complaining and trying to solve a problem. The language a person uses to convey complaining vs problem solving with another person is quite different. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Some Funny Images To Brighten Your Day :)My husband would totally do that. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 12:45 AM |
| 2 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Thank you, though I can't take credit for it. Someone gave me this description years ago and it stuck with me. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 10:52 PM |
| 5 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Do you believe men and women are complimentary? If so, this makes perfect sense. Men, generally, think beyond themselves. Look to the heavens and dream and then, they produce. Women, keep their eyes close to home, raising a family, keeping a home. Because if we dreamed and produced like a man, how would we do what needs doing for our families? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 10:05 PM |
| 2 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?I mostly did get what I wanted. And I was left needing so much more! This was something else that can be hard to see. What we want what we need are so often two entirely different things. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Some Funny Images To Brighten Your Day :)I absolutely love the first one. That's how it is at our house and I wouldn't have it any other way. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Also, I had to relearn disadvantage. What I used to see as disadvantages I've now come to see as advantages. Or rather, that in being woman, this is who I am, and it is good. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Not only that, but just coming first. It was ingrained in me. What women wanted, women got. It wasn't so much a selfish tendency as it just was. And I came from a family where my dad was head of the home and was rather strict and I still saw the world this way. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 06:55 PM |
| 6 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Well, for example hypergamy. Taken to its extreme we have women branch swinging and dumping good men because they're not happy and think they can do better. Taken as female nature, we are attracted to men who are "better" than us for good reasons. Not only do they care for and protect us and our families, but we pass on good genes to our children. More than that, we can respect a man in this position and this is how a man feels love. It's best for both the husband and the wife. As for solipsism,… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 06:53 PM |
| 2 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?For me it was understanding that we live in an female centric world. It took me ages to see this, then when I broke through that wall, I could see it EVERYWHERE. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 06:35 PM |
| 5 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?We're solipsistic for a reason. This is how we make hearth and home. Like all AWALT traits, there is a bad side and a good side. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 06:33 PM |
| 6 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - October 21, 2017Funny/cute Funny/Truth | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/17 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Victimization1) Status 2)Power 3)Attention Not necessarily in that order. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 05:56 PM |
| 3 | When you get tired of asking for help!It's not weird at all. It frees you up to see how things really are and not how feminism wants us to see things. I find that I don't stress when I just do a simple, "Will you please do x?" because I don't think about it. I don't stress about it. I just ask and he does it. It isn't your husbands job to see these things and he knows it and he just doesn't give them a second thought. But he knows that you do think of these things because that is part of your job and he is more than happy to help ou… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/17 11:33 AM |
| 1 | My marriage is on the rocks and self-improvement strategies have failed to get husband to respond similarly. Is there any way for me to get my husband to take the RP without upsetting him or coming off as nagging?it just kinda sucks. Of course. I'm just trying to make them suck less. His head is in a bad place and I'm guessing in a far worse place than you understand. This, of course, does not discount the things he said to you, but if you can try to understand, it might help you get through this. When we're done with school the plan is that we'll move out of state. How long? Because this might just change everything. I know it's only been one day) One day is one day more than it was. Keep going. This is… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/17 11:26 AM |
| 7 | FR: Death of the Honey Do ListTrusting him to figure things out around child and home care turned out to be less stressful on both of us. And FAR more fun! Well done! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/17 01:24 PM |
| 5 | My marriage is on the rocks and self-improvement strategies have failed to get husband to respond similarly. Is there any way for me to get my husband to take the RP without upsetting him or coming off as nagging?I realize this is a hard situation, but up and leaving him, with two kids at home is not the answer. 1) stay away from your families if you have to. Your own family must come first. 2) When he talks down to you say something like "ouch, that really hurt". You said he legit doesn't understand why you have a problem with it. This will help him understand. You are talking to him too much about something talking is not going to help with. I don't think he's trying to hurt you, if this is the case. 3… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/17 01:11 PM |
| 2 | My marriage is on the rocks and self-improvement strategies have failed to get husband to respond similarly. Is there any way for me to get my husband to take the RP without upsetting him or coming off as nagging?We do not encourage the you go girl, leave him thing here. We have one side of the story. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/17 12:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings?I haven't read it, but as long as it teaches technique, some diet, and the al important time needed to recover, it should be fine. You need to build muscle and then you need to work on your diet. Calories in and Calories out will help you lose weight. That is certain, but there are more efficient ways to go about it. Ways that will help you build more muscle faster and then to lose the fat. I would recommend you check out bodybuilding.com. It's a plethora of information. Find some beginner stuff… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/17 11:43 PM |
| 2 | How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings?then from a medical perspective I wouldn’t feel hurt. Maybe you should think about this from a marriage perspective. Look, it's probably going to hurt no matter what. But it wouldn't hurt from your doctor because you would know he has your best interest at heart. He wants you to be healthy. Well, not only does your husband want you to be healthy, he wants to remain attracted to you. He wants your marriage to be great and to do that, he needs to do the tough job of being blunt with you and tell y… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/17 11:39 PM |
| 3 | How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings?I don't think you are trying to diss him. I think you are trying to help. My point is, you don't know if he was being clumsy or not. Hurt feelings are not a barometer for that. He might have been perfectly sensitive, no hurt feelings, and then she feels no need to improve herself. This is far more damaging. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/17 07:26 PM |
| 3 | How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings?So you are aware this is something you need to deal with and not him. He's working on himself and now he wants to you work on yourself. This is good! Always keep that in mind. He's trying to lead the both of you to a better marriage. These things are never easy and it wouldn't lead anywhere good if it didn't hurt some. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/17 07:02 PM |
| 3 | How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings?How he went about doing this is not for us to worry about. She doesn't need to hear from us that he might be doing something wrong. Too often we see our men doing something wrong because it's not how we would do it. That doesn't mean it's actually wrong. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/17 07:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings?The heaviness of the weight is not really relevant. If you need to start at 3 lbs, that's fine. It's the manner in which you do it. The book Sculpting Her Body Perfect was invaluable to me when I first started lifting. I used to take it to the gym with me. Having a guide will help you make gains leaps and bounds faster than just winging it. Again, been there and done that. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/17 06:59 PM |
| 2 | How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings?in his (clumsy) way he was trying to help you. Why do you assume it was clumsy? I'm willing to bet, given what she's told us here, he came right out and told her what he wanted and it was this directness that stung. It's anything but clumsy. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/17 12:42 PM |
| 5 | How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings?I understand that you hurt, but he told you this to help you. Better to hurt your feelings now that to just keep letting things go and get worse and worse in the future. It might hurt like crazy now, but imagine down the road how much worse it could be if he didn't have the courage to bring this up now? Also, since he's RP, I assume he lifts? Ask him to help you. What you're describing now just isn't going to work. Cardio just isn't enough and skipping from diet to diet isn't going to work eithe… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/17 12:40 PM |
| 2 | What's you favorite red pillish classic movie? I just watched the original oceans 11 and those guys had swagger. In one scene Dean Martin tells Sammy Davis jr that he would like to change the constitution to make women slaves! No shit!McClintock | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do women love shoes?Hello, Thank you very much for saying so. I miss writing it but as my kids got older I found it more difficult to find time to write, plus I would have started to repeat myself. Everything is very well with me. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 10:39 PM |
| 8 | Why do women love shoes?Shoes are exciting to a woman like a muscle car can be exciting to a man. The shoes evoke a positive emotion and that emotion can be brought back each time the shoe is put on. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 02:06 PM |
| 15 | Y’all! You guuuuuuyyyyyys! A breakthrough!You're going to have to seriously support him through this. And that doesn't mean it's always going to be rah rah shish-boom-ba cheerleading. It's going to mean that when he finally takes the lead you follow, because guess what? When he does this, your gut check reaction is probably going to be to test him and to say no. You're going to have to be very quick to catch yourself. If you don't, you're not only holding yourself back, but you're holding him back as well. Trust him. This is the very be… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/17 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Saw this on the front page of reddit just now, it's so cute!!!That's my parents to a T. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/17 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Good classic movies that embody positive masculinity?McClintock | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - October 06, 2017Precisely. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/17 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Free Friday - October 06, 2017It's a bit early but for those of you who like to Christmas shop this time of year, you might find something different for your husband here | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/17 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - October 06, 2017Right, because living without indoor plumbing and electricity sounds grand. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/17 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Keto/LCHFI did LCHF while lifting pretty heavy a few years ago. I. could. not. recover. Finally I sat down and had a sweet potato and literally felt better within the hour. It was eye opening. While not working out hard, it's great. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/17 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I have STFU and lifted for a year. What results?Things to look into for your joints: Tumeric Fish oil With this, you have to be careful with the capsules. 1) Often the oil will go rancid and you can't tell without breaking them open. 2) With most of them, the capsule itself can cause inflammation and you are counteracting the solution. Hemp Oil This has worked better for me than fish oil or tumeric. The problem is however, if you work somewhere that administers drug tests, it may show up on the test. I'm just not sure about this. Also, of cou… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/17 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Found this today. Wanted to know you ladies' takes on it.I think most/all of us know exactly where her frustration comes from. That's not the issue. 1) why does it now have to have a name and 2) why does he have to guess at her frustration? So, I don't think you're going against the grain at all because we're women. We've all been there. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/17 06:01 PM |
| 11 | Found this today. Wanted to know you ladies' takes on it.She doesn't want a husband. She wants a girlfriend who will deeply understand here most deepest wants and desires without having to tell her about it. Women do not understand men and what they want. They think men think exactly like women and then get pissed off when they don't. Edited to add: Here's the thing, deep cleaning her bathrooms would probably take less time than writing that article. Plus: no "Emotional Labor". | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/17 05:24 PM |
| 8 | Advice on making a man cave for my husbandSo, take the time while he is away to organize it as much as humanly possible. Search organization tips and tools. Put as much as possible in other rooms. Get under the bed organizers to maximize space and closet organizers to do the same. Set up his favorite things in there and then tell him you set it up for him and to do with it what he will. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/17 02:33 PM |
| 8 | Advice on making a man cave for my husbandI hate the idea of a man cave. The house is his man cave. That being said, I understand what you are saying in that you want him to have his own space. Why don't you just tell him, "I'm staying out of this room. Do with it what you will. I have no opinion other than that." | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/17 01:26 PM |
| 0 | What’s in her mind?Gordian knot. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Whats the logic behind women wanting expensive weddings?cohrenet argument reasoning LOL. It's for the attention. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Daddy in delivery?For one of my kids, when my husband cut the umbilical cord, the baby sneezed or coughed at just that moment and blood spurted everywhere. He couldn't have cared less. Yeah, it's bloody, but it's what's supposed to happen. I don't think most husbands are squeamish about it and wives shouldn't be either. It just is. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/17 04:30 PM |
| 8 | Daddy in delivery?Having my husband in the room was invaluable. He talked to the nurses in a way that I just was not capable of doing. Also, when you're in the middle of labor, for those concerned with how he will see you, you won't care one bit. There is no thought beyond, get it out. Maybe it's different with an epidural, but you could have put me down in a crowded football stadium and I wouldn't have cared. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/17 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Keeping the love tank full in a long distance relationship2 years is a long time. We did it before we got married. It does and will go by. In the middle of it, it will take forever, when it's finished it will have seemed to fly by. If he wants you to open up to him, then open up to him, but be selective. Don't tell him everything tiny thing that is going on with you because you are going to have to be strong enough to deal with that stuff on your own. You cannot put it all on him. But talk to him about the big things. Be vulnerable to him. You are goin… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/17 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Hurricane HarveyGod bless you and yours. Stay safe. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/17 11:43 AM |
| 5 | What is some of the worst dating advice women are told?She doesn't look great with short hair. She looks great despite her hair. Imagine how much prettier she would be if it were long. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 11:27 AM |
| 15 | What is some of the worst dating advice women are told?You deserve everything you want and more! | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How did you deal with a long commute?Audiobooks from the library. Plenty of good ones out there that deal with self improvement that you can listen to while driving. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 11:32 AM |
| 4 | HoustonBe careful and be watchful of the looters. Thank you to you and yours for what you are doing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/17 11:21 AM |
| 3 | Stop Being So AfraidThanks for putting this up, Camille. I had forgotten all about that one. Stay safe and please update us when you can. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/17 12:59 PM |
| 5 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - August 19, 2017It is probably time to put his crib in another room. One of my girls screamed bloody murder for about 6 months before she would go to bed quietly and it was torture. She was stubborn then and she still is (lest people read this wrong, she has a strong will and I admire her for it). Yes, it is absolutely possible to spoil a baby. Unfortunately, there is no magic button. Babies are smart and since he knows that crying might get him what he want (you), you either have to give him you or take you aw… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/08/17 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions - August 05, 2017What should I do to make him feel better? Nothing. If he doesn't want to show you that he's feeling bad and you try to comfort him, he's sees that he's just failing at hiding it from you and it makes him feel worse. Just ask him one time if he needs anything and then give him complete space. Sometimes doing nothing is the best thing we can do for our SOs. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/17 09:08 PM |
| 13 | Female friend/relative (like sister): when she tries to come at me hard and I laugh it off and tease her with kino, she gets mad. Why?You took away all her power. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 02:21 PM |
| 2 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWHow do I stop being a bitch? is often the problem they bring. Again, we cannot EVER force a man to man-up. The idea itself is cringeworthy and would only serve to exacerbate the problem. This is why it is the man's problem. The wife problem is to not further inhibit his progress. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/08/17 12:41 AM |
| 3 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWWhat you have seen crop up are women who don't respect their husbands because they have nagged them into oblivion. These men aren't necessarily naturally feckless, rather they are reacting to the crap their wives put them through. We tell these women to get the hell out of their mens' way so they can become the men they naturally are. When the women do this, the men typically step up on their own. Not because the woman told them to do anything, which just pisses her off more, but because she fin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 06:55 PM |
| 5 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWthey already ARE MRPING for MEN and its costing them intimacy, love, and marriage It all boils down to this right here. Trying to think and act like men is what got us in trouble from the get go. We are actively trying to back away from this mentality. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWYou got kicked out because you were giving the husband tips. We were trying to help the wife. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 03:49 PM |
| 3 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWI gather the purpose of the sub is to add to this body of knowledge hopefully from woman who have done this successfully. Yes. Exactly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 03:45 PM |
| 2 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWThat's not leading, though. It's getting out of the way so he can learn to lead on his own. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 03:30 PM |
| 2 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWYou won't have to worry about this with Atlas being a mod. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 03:29 PM |
| 5 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWIt is not her job and even if she succeeded she would lose attraction during the process. Right. If a woman "leads" he man to be a leader, she is still the one in charge. The chances of respect stemming from this are slim to none. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 12:30 PM |
| 2 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWI had to leave long before this because of the tone that forum took. It happened in a matter of weeks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 12:29 PM |
| 2 | The Sandbox and the Swingset, Introducing MRPWThanks for this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/08/17 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Share your fun date ideasAnd nachos..... It's the perfect date. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/17 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Free Friday - August 04, 2017I'm just a little bit obsessed with good cooking shows. That looks amazing. Thanks for the link! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 08:57 PM |
| 10 | Share your fun date ideasBeer and wings. That's it and I love every minute of it. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | My LTR says sometimes I'm too confidentIt is a shit-test. If she was irritated about something else, she likely let that irritation flow into this and and decided to say something where she usually wouldn't. It doesn't make it any less of a shit test. She sees you as a reflection of her in this group of people and because you didn't acquiesce to the group dynamic, she got embarrassed. Remember, women are herd animals and her relationship with you took her out of that herd. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 07:44 PM |
| 8 | How Did I Become the Last Single Person in My Friend Group?Holy crap. I almost gave up on reading that. I was reading, "entitlement, . . . entitlement, . . . . more entitlement, . . . Dr. Jordan Peterson?! No way! And she didn't just brush him off!" There is a growing chink in the Narrative and it is starting to grow larger by the very people who perpetuate it. Danger Will Rogers. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 03:45 PM |
| 3 | National Girlfriend Day Warm and Fuzzy ThreadI hope it is helpful! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 11:09 AM |
| 5 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?This. This is key here. Look, /u/janeafraid. I don't know what you mean by slap. I don't know what you mean by he brought a gun into the bedroom. Did he slap your backside somewhat hard and you didn't like it or did he slap you full across the face? Did you use a loaded gun and point it at you and think it amusing or pleasurable or was it just pointing away from you sitting on the nightstand? I don't want to know the answers to these questions, but you need to examine them. There is a difference… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityDo you also think it’s about short cuts? Absolutely. Most people are hard-wired to seek answers, but Christianity, Orthodox Christianity anyway, requires sacrifice and love of other. Not feelings love, but action love. This can feel horrible and is by no means easy. Spirituality can give all the feelings while simultaneously giving the hedonism people want to pursue, which is why so many people ultimately find it lacking. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 10:14 PM |
| 6 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityDo you agree with the idea that “Most women, in their heart of hearts, are still ancients. Most men have moved on.”? Both in general and as it applies to you personally. I think most women crave drama and spirituality is another outlet for that. Also, women have a need to feel special, to feel unique and, to feel powerful. Spirituality can sate that craving as well. I think men can find these things is what they do more than how they feel so they can depend more on themselves rather than spiritu… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Congratulations Iris!!!!!!!!My current canned response when friends want to visit is "Sure! What are you bringing for dinner??? Good! Now, when they say, "What can I do to help?" don't be afraid to give them something to do! Seriously, IMO friends so badly want to help, but they don't want to overstep and they are pretty disappointed when they are told, "Nothing, thank you." They want something to do, even if it is just as simple as a load of dishes. Because that is not as simple as it used to be. Congratulations again, Ir… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 11:18 AM |
| 12 | Congratulations Iris!!!!!!!!First, congratulations! Second, some words of wisdom. 10, 10, and 10. 10 days, 10 weeks, and 10 months. They will poop fewer times a day after each milestone. Why does this seem significant some of you may be wondering? Newborns poop after each feeing when they are born. Those first 10 days are a blur of poop, nipples, diapers and more diapers. This knowledge helped me so much with my third baby, because I knew when I would be getting more sleep. Third, and you've probably been told this. Sleep,… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Princeton’s new ‘men’s engagement manager’ to combat aggressive masculinity on campusI'm all for loving, caring for, and respecting women This. This is why I so despise feminism. It does none of those things. It does quite the opposite in it's drive for power. Just take a look at Linda Sarsour. Driving the idea that women are beyond reproach only serves to harm women and in the process harm men (arguably worse?), as well. How can we deal with learning about ourselves and growing if we believe we are perfect and anything we do holds no consequences? And why the hell would men wan… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/17 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Princeton’s new ‘men’s engagement manager’ to combat aggressive masculinity on campusI've been thinking about this more, because of the sheer audacity of it. Imagine Rollo Tomassi becoming the Women's Engagement Manager (the Manosphere is the only thing even close to a Men's Study degree) and tried to combat the toxic femininity in women. He would address out inherent tendency to manipulate and lie to men and teach us how that ruins men's lives because deep down all women are serial manipulators and liars and are a danger to men everywhere. Can you imagine? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/17 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Get Pregnant at 25 If You Want a High-Powered Career!Because when you're 20 years old and you have tons of male attention and you hear this advice, you are weighing a hypothetical against all the attention. It's like saying to a drug addict, "hey, why don't you just quit and go straight. Your life will be so much better!" They can't see that through the haze of addiction. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/07/17 11:52 AM |
| 2 | The Daughters of Feminism Expose the LieJust saying travel is still possible with kids I know. I just had to further your point. Feminism is to go through life wearing the smallest of blinders. I feel the need to rip them off potential lurkers. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 10:10 PM |
| 2 | The Daughters of Feminism Expose the LieIn addition to being instructed on the wisdom of waiting to have children, Rebecca was further taught by her own mother that motherhood was about the worst thing that could happen to a woman. It was drummed into me that being a mother, raising children and running a home were a form of slavery. Imagine hearing that from your mother as a child. Imagine putting that responsibility on your own children. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 10:07 PM |
| 3 | The Daughters of Feminism Expose the LieThis is all true, of course. But why does life have to mean having a career and travel? Why are those the only worthwhile "life" for a woman to have? As Camille said, life is what you make of it and happiness is our hands no matter what we choose for our life to be. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 10:03 PM |
| 8 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!You're so right when you bring up their inability to imagine a man who outranks them. Part of this is because they've put themselves in a difficult position by earning degrees and professional advancement. If they are looking for someone on their level or higher, there are fewer options the further you are up the ladder. And how many men under 35 have the personality, lifestyle, and looks where educated and well paid women will overlook their inferior status in that realm? This precisely. What s… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 09:22 PM |
| 8 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!This strikes me as an article designed to destroy the status that women naturally achieve through marriage and the higher status a woman achieves by marrying well. Otherwise know as marrying a good man. It's also another way of saying I don't need no man. It's denying hypergamy or rather by diminishing marriage, it's saying that by having my fun in my youth and then settling to marry the man I'm with now, but would not have married when I was young is great and that women who did do this, who ma… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 09:19 PM |
| 15 | Crazy feminist thinks deep down all men are rapists, even her son. Because feminist men actually want sex too.My sons won’t rape unconscious women behind a dumpster, and neither will most of the progressive men I know. LOL! What?! By implication, non-progressive men will do this. If this was the case it would never be safe for women to leave their houses. Never. It would be a 50% chance of rape, at least. It pains me to say that I don’t feel emotionally safe with them, and perhaps never have with a man, but it needs to be said because far too often we are afraid to say it. Emotionally safe? Is that what… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Superfail that ended surprisingly well.The funny thing is that since we had the conversation, he hasn't done it once! It may be strange but I am not surprised by this. He told you was going to step and lead. He was no longer going to tell you what you wanted to hear. He is doing what he told you he would do. Keep on keeping on. As time goes on, I think you will understand what it means when we say we inspire our husbands. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/17 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Free Friday - July 07, 2017Let your son plant some seeds and watch him marvel at how they grow. Also, he is far more likely to love vegetables because he'll be so excited to try his own! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/07/17 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday - July 07, 2017We had three kids in three years. We also homeschool. My kids are all old enough to do chores now. My advice? Two things. Make them start doing chores now. Little things. Pick up their toys everyday. Give them a wet rag to wipe down floor boards and where they can reach doors. I didn't do this because it was way easier to just clean myself. But . . . when it came time to have them start doing chores, the learning curve was much steeper, because they would fight me harder on it. Take the time to … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/07/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - July 07, 2017Pickling. I literally just moved my fermented pickles into the fridge before I got on here. My garden is doing way better than I thought. I'll be passing out extras to the neighbors soon. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/07/17 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Can I turn my life around?Please follow the questions on the side bar as your post is rather unclear. Is English not your first language because, honestly this reads as if your posting this drunk, even though you said you quit drinking. We can't help you unless you're 100% honest. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/07/17 01:07 PM |
| 7 | Field Report: Superfail that ended surprisingly well.It sounds like everything is going really, really well! I'm so happy for you both. Figuring out where your weaknesses lie is the first step and it sounds like you've both made that step. The next hardest challenge, IMO, is when things start going so well and you think, I've got this! Then something happens, you fall back into old habits, you forget yourself for a minute and say something you shouldn't, you lose your temper, etc in any number of things. This WILL happen. It is inevitable. Don't l… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/07/17 09:57 PM |
| 7 | BF's 30th birthday dinner idea problemsA top notch dinner for most men is their SO putting in some good effort. Most guys would never be upset with a less than perfect dinner when your heart is in the right place. Cooking a steak is rather easy, in theory. It will depend on how thick your steak is. I recommend not going for a super thick steak because it tends to burn on the outside before it being cooked on the inside and even if your SO likes rare, it might be too rare. So, get your pan nice and hot, add oil of choice (or grill it … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/07/17 05:34 PM |
| 9 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?Back off. We are taught today that women are the definers of what it is to be a man and this is simply not true. Understand that, while we might be able to identify masculinity when we see it, enjoy masculinity, admire and respect it, we will never truly understand what it is to be masculine. We must trust and respect our men enough to stand back and let them be masculine with only our support. So much of what we are taught is "toxic masculinity" today, is exactly what we find so attractive in m… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/06/17 08:26 PM |
| 6 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?what is the difference between acting to promote masculinity, and trying to make your man more alpha? The answer to this is in the question itself. One is promote. To further the progress of something. To encourage and support. The other is make. To form something. We are not here to form our husbands. We are here to encourage them to be the men they choose to be (which is why vetting is so very important). Where do you see the line in terms of encouragement vs manipulation? Again, encouragement… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/06/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What are your goals?I wish you the best of luck. Bone broth is very good for you gut because of all of the gelatin in it and it is very easy to make. Put some bones in your crock pot, cover them with water and add a couple of tablespoons of apple cider vinegar. Cook on low for 12 hours. It tastes really good, too. Also, take a look at fermenting your own food. I make saurkraut. It is so easy and it is SOOOO good! Big time probiotic there! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/06/17 01:14 AM |
| 1 | What are your goals?Are you familiar with bone broth? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/17 11:30 PM |
| 2 | What are your goals?I remember playing this game. No more. Sleep is too important. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/17 12:33 PM |
| 2 | What are your goals?These are pretty good. If it will help you, make them very exciting! I personally don't think this is for everyone, but it works really well for some people. I'm not sure how a bullet journal works but what would be better is to write out your goal (I'd put your health care goal right at the top), then underneath it, write each thing you will do that day to work toward that goal. Then check off what you've done and use an arrow to what you couldn't get to to indicate what you need to now move to… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/17 12:32 PM |
| 1 | What are your goals?I wonder where this never ending list thing comes from. It strikes me being popular in the same way people compete for who gets less sleep. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/17 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!It takes more courage to embrace your own vulnerabilities than any anger/wit ever took. I used to protect myself in a similar way and I still do sometimes, but allowing yourself to feel and experience your own self is humbling and it does make you far stronger. Good luck. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/17 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Free Friday - June 16, 2017Thank you. I don't mean to harp on this, but it's a bit confusing. I get the impression that we call things by different names in the States (and I don't know where you live). I can get these for pork rinds. While reading about mofongo, the recipes said to use chicharron which look like this Are the two similar enough to swap out? What I use for salt park looks more similar to the mexican chicharron but I have no idea on the flavor. I'm trying to get it close to what a restaurant would serve as … | /r/RedPillWives | 18/06/17 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - June 17, 2017You just need to make up your mind. I knew going in I was not going to have drugs. I was terrified of drugs and they were not an option. So there was nothing for me to worry about, nothing to waffle on and no anxiety. I had my mind made up on what I wanted and I think that makes an enormous difference. Also, let you husband know what you need from him, before labor and during. I had a nurse come in during labor and she kept touching me and talking to me all sing-songy. I was ready to murder her.… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/06/17 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - June 17, 2017I wish I had eaten better during pregnancy. I was very sick with all three of my kids and my doc just said eat what sounds good. Get calories. Which often meant burger king. Now, looking back I wish I had eaten more of a whole food diet because I often wonder if I wouldn't have been as sick eating this way. I also wish I had done lots of research on vaccines. I just listened to our doctor and I wish I knew more myself. I believe in vaccines, but the schedule the US has babies on is intensive for… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/06/17 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - June 16, 2017Thank you! Now a pastry blender I've got. So, now. I can't just buy chicharron here. They say pork rinds are chicharron, but I don't buy it (you know, the stuff in the junk food aisle). I can make chicharron, but I'm not too keen on that. I thought I'd just try using salt pork because that is just salted pork belly. Do you think the taste will be fairly close? Thanks for your help! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - June 16, 2017My husband has traveled to Puerto Rico a few times for work and has fallen in love with it. I learned to make tostones so I thought I'd try my hand at mofongo. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - June 16, 2017Anyone skilled in making mofongo? I don't have a mortar and pestle and wondered if I could just pulse it in the food processor to make it work. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 01:36 PM |
| 5 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!1) My husband likes to eat the same thing everyday. To him lunch is fuel, so he doesn't get tired of eating the same thing everyday. He gets chicken parmesan, a baked sweet potato, and fresh veggies juice. On Mondays I make him a stromboli because he loves it for a treat. If we have something special in the house, like prosciutto, I'll pack that. 2) I prepare multiple days in advance and freeze it. 3) This mostly ends up being special food that he loves but he may not have thought of as being fo… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/17 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Eesh. I'm not sure how I'd structure that. If I just made a general thread and then let people ask questions, would that work? That would be a far easier form to work with. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/17 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Holy moly. You lead class today. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/17 11:42 AM |
| 4 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Class starts at 8 AM, sharp. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/17 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Easy now. I know you're frustrated, but don't go down this road here or in your head. This lack of respect will overwhelm you and spiral down the drain. Use your delete button and drive these thoughts out of your head. They will finish your marriage. "But I wanna eat with you." Me too! Here's what I'm making for dinner tonight. Unfortunately, I can't eat with you at McDonalds because the doctor told me if I eat that food my boobs will fall off. You know, my thyroid." Keep it playful. Then, every… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/17 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?When I hide that I'm struggling Ah, but see. We're not saying that you should hide that you are struggling. There is a balance between pretending like everything is great and crying on the floor utterly overwhelmed. What you need to do is find that balance. So, he sees that your struggling and your solution is to make a schedule for him. That, also, is not working. So try this. 1) Don't hide your struggle! I don't think anyone here thinks you should hide anything. 2) When he says, "Hey! What can… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/17 11:03 AM |
| 4 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Such a fantastic comment. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Yes, and not only that, but as much as we know men don't change, sometimes something happens and they do. So we can go from this man who was take charge no nonsense to a man who just shuts down. What then? You don't just leave. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?I agree with Iris. Your feelings are valid. The thing is, valid or not, tit for tat and covert contracts just are not going to work. I think you know that and that is why you are here. So, what I suspect is happening, is that your husband is so worn out from his own health issues that he truly does think he's doing his share or, he's just too tired to care and empathize with you right now. And again, there is nothing you can force on him to see this. Here's the thing about loving men, though (an… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?OOOOOOh. She pulled out the well bless your heart! SNAP | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 04:23 PM |
| 8 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Ok, good. Here's the thing with having macro goals. It forces you to focus on the big picture. Not the little things. If you do something towards meeting your macro goals everyday, but you don't get it all done, you're still working hard toward your goal. You had a successful day. You're goals daily should be, I will work toward a clean diet, I will deal with my husbands negativity in a positive way, and I will work to further my academic goals. Then, when you don't get one small thing done on y… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Can you give an example? How does he get bent out of shape? What does he say? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?I gave this more thought. These are good. Very good. But this is one macro goal. ~ I want to improve my health so I am at my peak, so I feel better, have more energy and can be my best! That is a macro goal. So, two more. What else? You'll go crazy if you keep them too small because you will meet them in a week and lose focus. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Excellent. As difficult as this may sound, everything else beyond this is secondary. The dishes don't get done? You haven't failed. Laundry laying around your house? You haven't failed. Your husband gets home from work and crashes? You haven't failed. In the grand scheme of your life, as long as you are focusing and working toward these three goals, You. Have. Not. Failed. Let the other things go in your mind. Don't look at them and think, Oh my Goodness! The dishes! The laundry! The garbage! I … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 01:20 PM |
| 8 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Alright, so if you'll allow me . . . what are your goals. Pick 3 macro goals that are your own. Let me help you focus on these. I had/have problems focusing on little nagging things and have made good progress focusing on the big picture. I might be able to help you do the same. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 01:06 PM |
| 6 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Yes, to all of this. A change in focus will help them both! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 01:02 PM |
| 7 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?"Hey, love! I'm going to the gym! Want to go?" and then drop it. Also, try playing it sexy. "Hey, baby. I love watching you lift heavy weights. Lets go to the gym!" When he goes, tell him you watched him and how good he looked, etc. Look, I respect your opinion here. I'm Catholic, too and I don't believe in divorce, but you have to work on your husband is the head of the household perspective. You're trying. I can see that, but you have some perspective changing to do. And it all boils down to o… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 01:01 PM |
| 18 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?It's just really hard to admit that I have to give up on my dreams because I got married to this man. Wow. This, right here, is what is going on. You do not respect this man. You married him. You chose him. Stop taking it out on him and love the man you chose. You're not giving up your dreams because "you got married to this man." You're giving up your dreams because you made a choice. Now, make that choice work and stop blaming it on your husband | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 12:33 PM |
| 16 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?So I actually HATE nagging and try to avoid it whenever possible. I believe you, but take read this a couple of times. The arguments over household chores was actually a series of attempts to NOT nag. By setting clear expectations around what I wanted him to do through lists, and having him keep tally himself, it meant that I wasn't nagging. I would just STFU rather than reminding him about the shit on his list. But after a month of looking at the to-do list and seeing a recurring pattern of him… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 12:16 PM |
| 19 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?I see a trend. You're nagging him. Stop this immediately. Yes, less stuff might get done. Yes, it might piss you off more initially, but let me tell you something. For as much as the sleep apnea is a demotivated for him, nagging him is far worse. He got to the point where he actually put a time limit on your ability to nag him. Okay, so what do you do? Let things go to pot around your house and don't stress about it. Seriously. Focus on you and what you can do, because you cannot change your hus… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 11:35 AM |
| 8 | Your husband doesn't have to earn your respect - The Matt Walsh BlogYou're welcome. That revelation was a good one for me. My husband is refinishing part of our house. He's never done it before and it is not coming out perfect. But that's not the point. The point is 1) He's having a blast doing it. 2) He's learning as he goes and a whole lot of that learning comes from making mistakes. My respect for him regarding this comes from his ability to learn and finish the job. Not from how good it looks. I find that so much of respect comes from our ability to change o… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/17 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Your husband doesn't have to earn your respect - The Matt Walsh BlogHow many of these failures have lead to future success? | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/17 02:57 PM |
| 11 | Your husband doesn't have to earn your respect - The Matt Walsh BlogI don't have the patience to read this right now. I'll give it a go later. However, our husbands deserve our respect simply by virtue of being our husbands. The man we chose. Even if we don't feel respect, that doesn't mean we can't give it. Respect, like love, is far more than a feeling. To attribute it to a feeling only is to tremendously undervalue it. Respect and love are actions. Do it. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/17 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Philosophy for womenI thought of some fiction. For femininity definitely read Little Women.. I recently reread it and I forgot how perfect it is. Tolkien and Bernard Cornwell are great for both sexes but more so for masculinity. The Little House books. The Witch of Blackbird Pond. John C. Wright also writes fiction. Science fiction and fantasy, and he writes VERY well. Old school style. If I think of more I'll edit this as I do. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/06/17 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Philosophy for womenG. K. Chesterton and John C. Wright | /r/RedPillWives | 12/06/17 11:47 AM |
| 5 | When your partner has a problemI deal with it myself. I've learned the hard way about this. You're strong enough to deal with this just the two of you. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/17 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Time Capsule Letters!We own land rurally. I was thinking of talking gardening/preserving on a free Friday but I was sure how many people would be interested in it. My kids are all a bit older now so I have the time to really start working on a garden and I am having a lot of fun. I'm excited about the prospect of bees next year, too! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Time Capsule Letters!I've got the garden in and I'm out there working a lot. It's hasn't been super hot yet, so we'll see how that goes when the time comes. The nice thing is, the really hard part happens when it's still pretty cool outside. No bees. Shortly after I wrote this the man I was getting the bees from said he lost most of his bees and couldn't sell any this years. Turns out it was for the best. A combination of a new garden and bees would have been too much for me. Nope. No better with the vacuum. -1 for … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/06/17 12:15 PM |
| 5 | Question, ladies?Thank you for the clarification. I personally like a mix. I like when he tells me he's coming home early so I can get things done to make the house more comfortable for him. Conversely, he often won't tell me so it's a surprise . . . and I absolutely love that. Honestly, the best thing is the balance. My husband is very understanding of me not always being "on", but at the same time, I can tend toward laziness (or focusing more on things I want to do and less on things I don't like that still ne… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/06/17 04:15 PM |
| 8 | Question, ladies?It's not our opinion that matters on whether or not we think it's a waster of time or an offensive outlook. What is your honest opinion as leader of your home? | /r/RedPillWives | 07/06/17 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Have to call her everydayIf she truly is submissive, she'll follow your lead. So lead her to stop this. Insecurity can absolutely go hand in hand with a submissive girl, but since she wants to be lead, she can derive strength from you and learn from you. If you choose to, you can help her to knock this stuff off. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/17 11:54 AM |
| 5 | How to Respect an Imperfect Husband - Shaunti FeldhahnYou ask men what is more important to them, love or respect and most of them will say respect. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/06/17 11:09 PM |
| 7 | Saw a post elsewhere in Reddit Land...Nothing else need be said. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/17 11:14 AM |
| 1 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?If you are episode 7 of season 2 and it's the relationship I think you're talking about, I cried like a baby. Actually there are two that had me crying. Eric is probably my favorite at this point in the show. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Also, I should have told you that this is historical fiction. While Uhtred is fictional, Alfred is not. He really was a womanizer, quite sickly, and very clever. He is also a Catholic Saint, sainted for his success in unifying England. I don't know what all is true history and what is fiction in the story, but I find it fascinating that much of this is true. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Uhtred is really frustrating at the beginning, but he gets SO much better. Ragnar Sr and Jr are two of my favorite characters and Mildred is AMAZING. So much happens in these shows and the characters change and grow. Watching how the characters related to one another and their actions regarding this is fantastic. Uhtred has loyalty. Deep loyalty, just not to anyone in authority above him and watching the dynamic between what Alfred wants and what Uhtred wants is also interesting. Alfred is frust… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 08:57 PM |
| 4 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?But Dan Savage points out that the stories about the mice that play accomplish what television, film, and literature have always done: push the envelope, make you think, provide vicarious experiences, and give you a chance to contemplate your choices. This is interesting. Two things come to mind. 1) I don't watch these shows, because I feel forced upon. I get annoyed or bored and turn them off because it's not organic. It's not part of the show in most cases. It's just, how far can I push the en… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?That's so funny. There was one show I wanted to tell you about but I couldn't think of it. It was Coppers. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?I've watched Longmire, Marco Polo, and Medici though not all the episode of any of these. I really liked them, but I have a habit of just getting bored with shows after awhile, even though I really like them. That doesn't make a whole lot of sense, I know. So, you might like Sherlock Holmes which is based in modern England and it's quite clever. Also, Ripper Street and Hell on Wheels. Again, these were very good, but I didn't finish any of them. I think part of the charm of the shows I do get th… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 12:00 PM |
| 3 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?I really did hit the jackpot. And reading these comments, it really is like I'm saying hello to myself. First, I had to stop watching The Office because I was so embarrassed all the time, but I loved parks and rec. We also have the same taste in sympathizing the the "bad guy", though not Hannibal. He was too clever for me to sympathize with, but I liked him. I liked him a lot. Roddick - love, House - love, we just watched The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly last night - love. So, you have to watch T… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 11:54 PM |
| 4 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Not only his human form but his voice! His flipping voice. It was so strong and then he turns human and speaks . . . . I thought, NOOOOOO. But even then I knew it was wrong to find the Beast more attractive so I never said a word to anyone because I was embarrassed by this fact. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 11:43 PM |
| 3 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Always. Yes, until I started college. Then I was old enough to realize that I might end up alone and I would sometimes be scared stupid. I didn't let it last long because what was the use? But I remember vividly thinking, "my parents met in college. If I don't meet him in college, what am I going to do?!" I met my husband my junior year. Tangentially, speaking of parks and rec, I married Ron Swanson. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 11:41 PM |
| 3 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?The classic 'Beauty and the Beast' story, really. Doesn't work. Nope, because the Beast was more attractive before he changed. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 06:44 PM |
| 8 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?I think we do this because we need a purpose and we want to live a life that has stakes. This whole paragraph is interesting and I think you might be right. What people don't realize is that, in real life, rising action and stakes are usually down right scary and nothing like the movies. We should learn very quickly that a life with "no plot" is a good life, indeed. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 05:49 PM |
| 8 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?See, a lot of the shows I grew up with as well had the girl fall in love with the "nice guy". I remember getting so frustrated in high school because I dated one guy and he was SO nice. I then wanted nothing to do with him. I could not figure out what the hell was wrong with me, because on paper, he was perfect. In reality, he literally repulsed me. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Masculinity, The Male Mind, Male Behavior, etc. - What Would You Like To Learn More About And Discuss On RPW?This is a fantastic idea. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 11:32 AM |
| 2 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"One moment I can be adoring, then the next about to be in tears. You're trying to go back to the way things were and when it doesn't go exactly as you planned, you freak. It can't ever go back to the way it was. Understand that this is okay and even good, because now you get to move forward. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"Don't tell him "yes, I'm better now" because you're not. What you have done is accepted and owned what you have done. That's in the past (and it's great). Now you need to fix the future and you need to start right now. I don't know if you should tell him or not. If it were me, I think I would. For two reasons, 1) he deserves an apology. 2) It's going to hurt like hell. Not only would you have to apologize, but you would have to tell him, with no hamstering, exactly what you have done. I'm here t… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 06:59 PM |
| 5 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"this is the first time that I've ever gotten past the honeymoon stage. The honeymoon stage has nothing on building a life of trust with a man. The honeymoon phase is like 10 year old puppy love compared to this. no. he is the first man that I was with sober and rp. Good. But you are slipping way out of RP. Let me explain to you what you've done. You have this man, this man who obviously loves you for who you are, who is well aware of your own red flags and you just let him know that he can't tru… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 06:02 PM |
| 9 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"I'm going to slap you upside the head, CQ, because you need it. I thought I had it in the bag. Got the hang of it. This is why you failed, and yes, this is a failure. Accept it for what it is if you really want to change things. Why do I know this is what happened? Because I've been there and done that. Pride slapped you upside the face and you let it. You're still letting it. He became human to me. He wasn't infallible anymore. Don't you see? This is GOOD. Imagine trying to make a life with a m… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Where the Good Men Have Gone and How to Get Them Back – Suzanne VenkerIn a world where ugly is forced down our throats as beautiful, masculine can never be seen as good. That is changing, thankfully, but it will be fought tooth and nail. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Where the Good Men Have Gone and How to Get Them Back – Suzanne VenkerI'm glad you posted it! It's a great article and that one bit should be discussed. Even among anti-feminists there are errors because we have been steeped in feminism for so long. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 01:46 PM |
| 10 | Where the Good Men Have Gone and How to Get Them Back – Suzanne Venkerrespect for a man’s contribution to marriage has died. Respect for men has died. End of story. People, and women in particular, do not understand today how vitally important respect is for men, and if they are not getting it, they rightly think, why bother? But women must lead the way since they are the sex that steered us off course. I disagree with this. Women will help, but they won't lead the way. Men already are leading the way by checking out and women will start to follow them to bring th… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday: Analysis of 'Oneitis'I know how stupid it sounds It doesn't sound stupid at all. I'm a big fan of I don't understand. I say it often and as necessary because I came to realize trying to fake oneself through to understanding something is dumb when all one has to do is make that simple statement. Also, any tool to help another user understand their own shortcomings is a-okay in my book. That thread is a good idea. I try to put it up later today. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/17 11:25 AM |
| 4 | Free Friday: Analysis of 'Oneitis'The concept of 'oneitis' has never been only and specifically for men. Yup. Alpha widow. no one should use RomComs (or really any movie) as a template for how to live and approach life. I think the point here is do and should. No one should use a movie for a template, but plenty of people do. The problem is that many of these movies have a bit of truth in them, so it is then easier to rationalize the rest of the movie true as well, even though we would know better in real life. My own case in po… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Facial hair, yes or no?A big yes to a big full beard. Husband has one and people comment on it all the time. The most common word is "glorious". His mustache doesn't connect to his beard, either. He trims his mustache short around his lip so he can eat and grows the ends long so you can't tell the difference. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!Your relationship has always been an inspiration to me and I'm sure everyone else feels the same way <3 Thank you! I don't know where I'd be without M's help and guidance and it really warms my heart to see you saying the same thing about your husband. You know, I always get a chuckle when I read feminist who write about this sub and all the condescending things they say about the women here. Doormat, codependent, no personality, and all the other colorful things they say about us, because here'… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!Off the top of my head my reactions seem to be more guilt based This is me. I feel guilty when my husband is very kind to me (which sounds dumb, but I can't help it). All I can think is that he sacrificing what he wants for me. All I want for him is to be happy, so if he's doing something for me he doesn't want, and that makes him unhappy . . . . . guilt. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!Quite frankly, I think High dominance women can "game" low dominance ones. And if us low dominance ones can grow enough, we can, too. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/17 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!Understand before I write any of this, that I still struggle with it. I think a lot of the younger women here think some of the mods and EC have everything perfect when it's just not the case. We might understand more, that doesn't mean our actions are always spot on. So, on to it, What are your tips for being more assertive within your relationship? Understand that a dominant man doesn't want someone who isn't assertive. Most dominant men hate weakness just as much as us women who love dominant… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/17 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!Hello me. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/17 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Do you have secret codes in your relationship?How about this? You're thinking to text him about anything and before you can get to your phone he texts you first, sometimes about the very thing you were going to text him about? It just happened. It happens somewhat regularly and it always amazes me. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/17 07:38 PM |
| 14 | Do you have secret codes in your relationship?Oh, yes, and I am sure I can't even tell you all of them because they are just so automatic that I don't notice them. grunt grabs sides of dining room table: this food is so good. Conversely: no noise, no grabbing of table means anything from this food is fair to terrible. He gets a certain look on his face and I know he's getting a headache. Another look and he's about ready to sit down and take a nap. Another one, he's worried. Another, he's getting ready to tell me a funny story. Another, he'… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/17 06:57 PM |
| 4 | So, you want maternity leave without kids? OK. Here's how that should go. (Response to the article /u/Zombies_InTheSnow posted yesterday)ZOMG! This is so hilarious! Here’s a weird thing: A bear or a cougar or something scary will be unleashed in your house and will be threatening everything you love. But you can’t see it and you are the only person who knows its there. Nobody believes you. You know you sound crazy but IT’S THERE. This article is so fantastic. I have more thing to add. The badger (house) must be touching you nearly continuously throughout the day and you are not allowed to get annoyed or take a break. Oh and I lov… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/17 05:12 PM |
| 8 | [Homemaking] Tips and Tricks!These aren't so much homemaking as new mom tricks. I found this one out after my kids were too old to use it, but it was so great I always share it when I can. Babies tend to have "blow outs" in the middle of the night when they blow out their diaper and it goes straight up their back. So, while making their cribs up, put one set of sheet down and cover these with a water proof pad and then put on another set of sheets. This way, in the middle of the night all you need to do is strip the dirty s… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/05/17 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - April 28, 2017It is an unreal experience. There are two things I can think of. Could this be postpartum? Also, have you researched food that can alleviate depression? Well balanced diet still might not give you what you need for your brain to manage it's chemicals properly. Try searching specifically for diets that help with this. It could make all the difference in the world. My best wishes to you. I know this can be hard. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/04/17 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - April 28, 2017The women in my family go back generations dealing with depression. I get it too. Having said that, when it does come on I can tell it is completely chemical. So I deal with it with exercise and diet. This works for me. My position is this. Antidepressants, IMO, are highly over prescribed I think a lot of depression can be dealt with with a change in lifestyle (diet, exercise, sunlight, supplements, etc) and that research should be done and tried in this area first. Having said all of this, I be… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/04/17 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Surf Safely!Someone asked me in chat once what my dog's name was. I wouldn't even answer that. The balance is hard to find, but it absolutely can be done. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/04/17 02:44 PM |
| 4 | My Husband Hates Me - Laura DoyleI had the power. Yes. And the responsibility for my own actions. It is liberating. Far more so than any claim to be a victim of my own circumstances. Good find. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/04/17 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Tips on hosting a dinner party for his workmates needed!I'm not sure. It used to be that Walmart sold Correlle dishes by the plate and you could buy the white ones for a dollar a piece. I'm not sure that is the case any more but it might be worth a look . Edited to add: Or maybe try a dollar store. I found these shockingly pretty bowls from a dollar store that people always think are expensive antiques. I paid a buck a piece for them. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Tips on hosting a dinner party for his workmates needed!So, as soon as possible, figure out your menu. This will coincide with your plans. Heavy hors d'oeuvres? An actual sit down? Outside BBQ? These are all fine, depending on your crowd. How many people? Get online and then find out how much food to buy for your crowd. I usually go a little bit higher because I'm part italian and have an inherent fear of running out of food. Next, write out your grocery list. Make sure your write down everything you will need. Because you will forget something small… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 05:50 PM |
| 10 | Tips on hosting a dinner party for his workmates needed!My biggest tip? Plan ahead. Get as much done before hand as you can. If you do it all that day, you are going to be very tired and not enjoy yourself. My second biggest tip? As much as possible, don't stress about this. The more you stress, the harder this is going to be. Also, the less fun you will have and then less your guests will be comfortable. Keep a notebook for what did work and what didn't work. Keep recipes and tips for yourself in there, so for the next one you can just pull it out a… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 05:28 PM |
| 16 | Finances with a SAHMBeing financially independent means getting a job, and I fully support that if that's what my wife really wants. Somethings tells me it isn't, however. No, she doesn't really want a job. She wants to stay home while feeling independent from the "new you" because of this. It's fried ice. She wants your support for her decision to be a SAHM while simultaneously feeling independent. I do not suggest you try to help her reconcile this. You can't do it for her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/17 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Finances with a SAHMthe subtext is feeling a lack of freedom/control. Yes, but more than this is, she doesn't trust you to lead fully yet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/17 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Call to RPWi for motivating me to start eating meals together at the tableI can't seem to "get out in front of him." Does this mean you can't get dinner on the table before he's ready to eat? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/17 10:04 PM |
| 3 | If girls resent betas why are all chick flicks star men who act like betas instead of alphas?Because attraction is assumed. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Theredpill scares meMove heavy things. Stop thinking so much. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Theredpill scares meYouTube body weight exercises. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Theredpill scares mehttp://startingstrength.com/article/maybe-you-should-gain-weight | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - April 21, 2017Sometimes the rambling blog posts end up being some of the best ones because then things get fleshed out in the comments. Nothing like discussion to help bring rambling thoughts into focus. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/17 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - April 21, 2017Isn't this just standard? I do it, too. :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/17 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - April 21, 2017What I find just as crazy is that in an effort to be different, to stand out from society, these people have buttonholed themselves into such a standard as to make it nearly impossible for them to think for themselves. Everything is all or nothing. We see it here (not so much any more) with the "How do I do this the RPWi way?" instead of thinking, what here will work for my own needs? I feel bad for the people who are honestly trying and just can't see they are doing this. I hate the people who … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/17 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday - April 21, 2017It doesn't make it easier when failure to start is a status symbol today. It's something to be bragged about. It's crazy. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/17 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday - April 21, 2017At the end of the day, it's just another form of keeping up with the Jones's and, of course, people are unhappy for it. Edit: (These ideas would make a really good post for your blog and/or here.) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/17 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - April 21, 2017I don't think people today actually know what a successfully run household looks like. They get on pinterest or youtube or any other site to check out homemaking and all they are presented with is perfection (because that is what the site owner portrays, which is natural if you think about it). This "perfection" then in the mind becomes our idea of success when this idea is actually false. A successfully run home is not something most people have seen before so they have no basis for comparison … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/17 02:54 PM |
| 5 | I went on a rant on my blogWe are all blind to some things. Even things we try hard not to be. But there is effort to STOP this behavior and there is effort to reinforce it. Getting online or into a group of women who all reinforce this is poison. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/17 04:27 PM |
| 5 | I went on a rant on my blogTit for tat is one of the fastest ways to kill all the very best things in marriage. Fantastic post. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/17 04:21 PM |
| 3 | [Advice] Books for Husband?I'm so glad he liked them. I hope he finds what he's looking for! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/17 10:38 PM |
| 6 | For the RPW's summer drinking needs. Boozy Sparkling Water!I've had some of this. I can't remember what brand but it was very good! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/17 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - April 07, 2017In college, I met this wonderful guy who was into martial arts. He encouraged me to go as well. We went together for a two years before he graduated. A year later, we were married. It was awesome and it was something we truly bonded over. It teaches discipline, strength, common sense, etc. It's wonderful. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/17 08:01 PM |
| 9 | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerIt's willful. Something else you absolutely MUST consider u/Mkd90 is, if you do get married, will you have children? How will this and how you respond to this affect them? | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 03:09 PM |
| 13 | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerI have to wonder. Given the lies about this, what else is he lying about? She's got a lot to think about. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 03:05 PM |
| 15 | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerYou need to know right now that, while you obviously love him, you CANNOT change him and while there is a small chance he might change, most likely he will not. So, you have a choice to make. Can you live with the lying and the cheating and still be happy or is this a deal breaker for you? It's not an easy choice to make, but it needs to be made. And IF you decide you can live with this, you HAVE to live with it. No more getting on his phone. No more getting on his computer. No more tears or anx… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - March 31, 2017It's one of my favorite shows. I was disappointed when I finished it and for me that's a big deal. I will often start a show and not finish it. Not because it wasn't good, but because I just lost interest (It took me months to finish Daredevil. I also have watched part of each show that you listed. They are good, but I have a tendency to just move on). But that one? I watched it everynight with my daughter till it was finished. more about execution and meeting the challenge. What a novel concept… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/17 11:40 AM |
| 4 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Managing your Hypergamy by Using Preselection to Your Advantagewe need to look for something internal to keep us motivated (and disciplined!) Yes. This is what I meant. By paying close attention to what actually does, it can foster a huge sense of gratitude and respect. This can go a long way in curbing hypergamy because it elevates our husbands in our own eyes. When you do this, who can out rank the man who has done all of these amazing things? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/17 11:36 AM |
| 6 | Some thoughts on Equal Pay Day, an annual event that spreads statistical misinformation about the gender pay gapYour logic hurts my brain. ~ Feminist. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/17 04:56 PM |
| 16 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Managing your Hypergamy by Using Preselection to Your AdvantageThis is a good post. The only thing I would argue is that while a woman's hypergamy might kick in given the example you provided, it is a choice whether or not to abandon him. The hypergamy itself, however, is not a choice. It's the time, and energy, and sacrifices you’ve already invested into the relationship that balances out your hypergamy urges. I would add to this, paying close attention to what a spouse actually does can balance out those urges as well. So often, we don't even realize what… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/17 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Simple Questions - April 01, 2017HEY. If you can't take me at my worst . . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 02/04/17 12:43 PM |
| 9 | Simple Questions - April 01, 2017Do you live in your mom's basement? It's a must. Also, I'd expect that you'd have to next me when I hit the wall at 23? | /r/RedPillWives | 02/04/17 12:14 AM |
| 16 | Simple Questions - April 01, 2017You MUST lie down in front of your door and be a doormat for him before he will actually see your worth. Without this final step, your redpill journey will never be complete. Side question: are you sure you're wearing the correct shade of pink on your nails? If it's not the perfect color, you WILL fail. Also, never forget how you sip your sparkling water. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/04/17 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - March 31, 2017He's uninteresting... no conflict, no darkness, no dimension. Exactly. What is supposed to be his childlike wonder is painfully annoying and frustrating. but taking his sexuality out of the picture made him even more uninteresting to me. Me too. You cannot make a superhero show like this and take the sexuality out of it. The reason Logan has been such a powerhouse in the movie industry is precisely because of what makes him sexy. He is an interesting and compelling man. Also, Danny's sexuality i… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - March 31, 2017Two things: If your having a rough day or just want a laugh, check this out. Is any one else watching Iron Fist? Do you like Danny Rand? SPOILER AHEAD I can't stand him (full disclosure, I have not read the comics so maybe he is supposed to be this effeminate). I really wanted to like this because Daredevil is so good, but I hate the scenes with Danny in it. The rest of it, especially Ward's relationship with his Dad, are very good. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Students Share Their Sins at "Masculinity Confession Booth"Absolutely perfect. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 07:34 PM |
| 8 | Students Share Their Sins at "Masculinity Confession Booth"ROFL . . . . RIGHT ON!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 06:25 PM |
| 9 | Students Share Their Sins at "Masculinity Confession Booth"Masculinity is a tool While true, in SJW world this cannot be. If one is a tool, then the other must be as well. This would discredit both how femininity is touted as better and masculinity is touted as evil requiring reconciliation. In a world where both sexes are held accountable, feminism loses. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 06:07 PM |
| 14 | Feminism Bad for More Woman Than it BenefitsWelcome. What can be done to turn this situation around? One, we should stop shaming women for wanting to stay home and be caregivers. I've read too many women who say that this is all they have wanted to do, but didn't because of the influence they let others have on their lives. These women, first and foremost, should not feel shame for their choice and second, we shouldn't be making them feel bad for it. My girls are 12 and 10 and they've already noticed this trend. Two, we need to realize th… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 03:43 PM |
| 10 | Students Share Their Sins at "Masculinity Confession Booth"Surely they don't expect masculine men to go to something like this? But they do! Because shame works so well for them, they cannot understand that not everyone will feel what they do. What I find so funny about all of this? They insist women must be more like men in the name of equality but that men must not act like men in the name of equality. Tell me again that this is not about power? | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 01:10 PM |
| 5 | How Do You Learn To Be A Homemaker?That is a really fantastic idea. Really, most communities already have something like this and often at the library. Knitting clubs and things like that and most communities have activities and classes only people don't think to look into it or try it. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/03/17 01:54 PM |
| 6 | How Do You Learn To Be A Homemaker?If women are shy about asking these women, don't be! The worst they will say is, "No." Most would be more than happy and even eager to help. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/03/17 01:19 PM |
| 7 | Being Your True Self in a Relationship Matters Less Than Being Your Best SelfWhat a refreshing and excellent article. I like how they name it the Michelangelo phenomenom. It's quite apt. I think it's important to note that this isn't just a one way street, either. I KNOW my husband helps make me a better person. It is a very direct thing. What took me a long time to figure out was that I also help make him a better person, only since it is far more subtle, it is far more difficult to grasp. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/03/17 12:14 PM |
| 9 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?I listen to things he says just in passing would be nice to have or that he thinks are really cool but would never actually think to get for himself. For example, my husband is a huge 80's cock rock fan and after we watched The Avengers he mentioned how he remembered Tony Stark's Black Sabbath shirt and loved it so I bought him one. He was thrilled! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 11:37 AM |
| 16 | [FR] When my husband made a huge mistakeThis is an awesome field report. Thank you for sharing it. Trust is key. Men make mistakes. We all do and blaming them for those mistakes, or rubbing them in their face to make them feel worse than they already do accomplishes less than nothing. Forgiving and supporting them while they try to fix is well, you already said what the outcome of that is. . . . Going through this rough experience really brought us closer. It was a good exercise in teamwork to experience before our baby arrived. Every… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/03/17 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Women seem to be interested, but they do not chase.Girls will always play games but is it our job (as men) to set the tone of the relationship and end all the silly games? If you don't set the tone in the relationship, know that she absolutely will. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to be interested, but they do not chase.Here's that post. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Women seem to be interested, but they do not chase.No, of course not. The chase is up to you. All of this is a power play. It tells her how much power she has to be noticed, then as time goes on how much power she has over the man, how much he is willing to put up with and, if he is interested, it helps her how to figure out what she needs to do to keep him. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to be interested, but they do not chase.women don't seem to care whether they lose me or not. To be clear, this could certainly be the case because women will do this same thing just to get what they want out of a man by leading him on. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Women seem to be interested, but they do not chase.This is true to a certain extent, but a woman who knows how to flirt well, will modify and change. Most women have no idea how to do this today because they don't have to. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Women seem to be interested, but they do not chase.Because it is our job to get you to notice us. Then entice you into chasing us. The disinterest part is her trying to see just how interested in her you are? Did her enticements work? Coupled with, are you confident enough to pass this shit-test of her not showing more interest? It absolutely is a game, through and through. It shows her both how well her enticements work and how confident you are and how much you might be interested in her. Ace over at 80-Proof Oinomancy had a FANTASTIC post abo… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 02:10 PM |
| 17 | Women seem to be interested, but they do not chase.Women don't chase. We tag you with IOI's and hope you chase us because we want to be chosen. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 01:47 PM |
| 11 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumIt should be noted that this is NOT a new third/fourth (wherever we are now) wave idea. This idea has been around for a long time: "A parasite sucking out the living strength of another organism…the [housewife’s] labor does not even tend toward the creation of anything durable…. [W]oman’s work within the home [is] not directly useful to society, produces nothing. [The housewife] is subordinate, secondary, parasitic. It is for their common welfare that the situation must be altered by prohibiting… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/17 12:09 PM |
| 5 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumOnly when the tiresome and completely unfounded claim that “feminism is about choice” is dead and buried There it is in all it's slimy glory. I'm so tired of women coming here and telling us feminism is about choice. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/17 11:50 AM |
| 4 | Women in Australia now capable of crossing the street! EQUALITY!isn't it sexist to say we all wear skirts? This is exactly what I was thinking. I remember when it was still somewhat of a big deal that women were wearing pants and jeans all the time. Never once in my life did I see that red figure at a cross walk and think it was more than just a person. You know, because we ALL wear pants. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/03/17 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Amy Schumer Says Her Dismal Netflix Ratings Are Due To "Alt-Right Trolls"Netflix is changing their rating system to thumbs up/thumbs down over this. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/03/17 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - March 17, 2017Milk. It no longer does the body good because . . . . it's racist. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - March 17, 2017Holy cow! There was a picture in there of a man tied to the top of a wheel and I think his penis was tied to the center of the wheel to keep it in place while they turn him on the wheel! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - March 17, 2017What the world looks like when you can no longer tell the difference between satire and the real thing. Otherwise known as, when The Onion is a real newspaper. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - March 17, 2017Eesh. I don't like horror movies but that looks fascinating. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - March 17, 2017What movie? | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - March 17, 2017Since the "male" SJWs are arguably so feminine they are female, it would work just fine. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - March 17, 2017I stopped reading the second one at genetic chauvinism. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Free Friday - March 17, 2017I came across this yesterday and found myself laughing. I wish this would be brought back into practice. I introduce to you the . . . . Cucking stool which was sometimes used to punish the . . . Common scold | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 03:05 PM |
| 14 | Half The Fun Of Being A Parent Is Trolling Your ChildrenDo this. Troll them. Seriously. People think it hurts their kids but they develop the most awesome sense of humor when you troll them well and they will troll you right back. It is so much fun. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 07:36 PM |
| 9 | Half The Fun Of Being A Parent Is Trolling Your ChildrenThis is awesome. My kids used to think I had five invisible heads covered in eyes. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 07:16 PM |
| 15 | How Can I Make My Husband Happier?To your looks, believe him when he says to you not to compare yourself to women in a different situation. Do the best you can with what you've got. Don't discount second hand stores, as well. If you look carefully, you might be surprised by what you find in them. To your sugar addiction, the only way to beat this is to give it up. Some people like to phase it out and some people like to go cold turkey. If you go cold turkey, you might feel like hell for a few days (known as the carb flu, I think… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 02:44 PM |
| 8 | How Can I Make My Husband Happier?Please, please, please, for the love of God, just ask him. Straight forward, ask. Why do I say it like this? Because women communicate in a different manner than men. What your best girlfriend is going to understand from you is not what your husband is going to understand from you. Frame this conversation in the form of a straightforward question. "How would you like me to handle X?" Also, u/Irisandoleander 's questions are perfect. You said this is your problem, so it is on you to communicate w… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 02:38 PM |
| 5 | How Fashion and Media Influence TrendsPolitics is downstream of culture. I couldn't load your link but I searched it. It's not unisex. It's leans feminine and it's hideous. Herp Derp, it took me a couple of days, but I just realized I completely misread this question. It's too early for me to think of anything so I just deleted this part. I don't like it, but the pendulum is swinging back. It will get crazier before it gets better, but this is just doubling down in an effort the defibrillate the dead patient. I worry about my kids f… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Inspirational Quotes About Love And Relationships!LOL at most of the comments. Rationalization will kill progress before you even leave the gate. My favorite is the, if a man's wife believes in him, quote. I've watched men talk to their wives excited about something to which she then poo-poos it and the look on his face is like he died a little bit inside. Imagine a wife that does that all the time. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/03/17 11:47 AM |
| 11 | Failed VacationSpent most of the time alone with the other husband telling him to step up and stop being a BP husband Your wife may have been embarrassed by her loss of power over you in front of this man's wife and was trying to regain some control in front of her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/03/17 02:59 PM |
| 2 | [Advice] Books for Husband?You're quite welcome and thank you so much for the gold! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/17 03:38 PM |
| 3 | [Advice] Books for Husband?I highly recommend the Cernovich as well because it will teach him how to change his mindset. This will be key for him. But if the Donovan is up his alley, they might whet his appetite enough for him to then delve into the Cernovich. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/17 03:22 PM |
| 7 | [Advice] Books for Husband?Jack Donovan, Mike Cernovich, and Ivan Throne. As your husband begins to change, support him, have his back, and be there for him. Most of all Do. Not. Disrespect. Him. Why do I say this so strongly? Because as he grows, as he becomes stronger, he might surprise you. He might do some things that you might perceive as being hurtful simply because you are not used to it. Do not let these feelings get in the way of his progress. We are so used to men being more effeminate (please understand, I am n… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/17 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday: Arguments over traditionalism/feminism dividing the churchI did a quick search and it looks like the Catholic Church does not recognize The Church of England, so if you go this route be aware of that (and that you will not be able to receive the Eucharist), but I think it would be worth looking at anyway. The Mass is beyond words and I have learned so much since attending it. Best of luck to you. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday: Arguments over traditionalism/feminism dividing the churchI don't know how it works, if the Catholic Church recognizes the Church of England or not (as it recognizes Greek Orthodox), but if you are very interested in Traditionalism, look for a Tridentine Rite Mass in your area preferably run by FSSP or Institute of Christ the King. You will increase your chances greatly in having a traditional priest. I want to say that these Masses are somewhat common in England but I don't know where, exactly. I'm sure you could find them online. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Free Friday: Arguments over traditionalism/feminism dividing the churchThe Catholic Church, The Church of England and just about every other Christian church out there has a very heavy SJW faction. This faction is now currently in charge in the Catholic Church and is in the process of tearing it apart. Being new to the church is going to be difficult because of the high confusion of the politics. I believe this is intentional (I'm Catholic, so I hear you). | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday: Arguments over traditionalism/feminism dividing the churchThis article is confusing. It conflates the Church of England with the Catholic Church which has never allowed female priests. Is it just talking about the Church of England, then? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 03:43 PM |
| 11 | The Reality is PatriarchyI have a bit more time now and I've gotten to watch the whole thing. This is very good. It also highlights why I abhor feminism. Feminism's very premise is to use the same techniques they vilify "The Patriarchy" for to try to manipulate women into their view. They use shame, social pressure, etc. However, unlike "The Patriarchy" feminism chooses to infantilize women; take away their responsibilities because it feels good. It's disgusting and woman hating no matter how much someone tries to convi… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 03:35 PM |
| 3 | What's the meaning of a woman disrespecting you on purpose in front of other women?It's a show of power, that her status is higher than yours in the eyes of the other woman. It's also a herding technique. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 12:49 PM |
| 6 | The Reality is PatriarchyRelevant | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 12:42 PM |
| 3 | What if Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton Had Swapped Genders?Precisely. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/17 04:53 PM |
| 7 | What if Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton Had Swapped Genders?I think it even goes beyond unlikable into loathing category. Her sex is immaterial. If she was a man, I'd hate her just as much. Her ability to empathize with the common man is nonexistent. I think even among those who wanted her to win merely for being a woman, they didn't really like her very much. They simply feared Trump more and the idea of a woman in the White House was just that appealing to them (which is why these people are so disliked as well. The idea of putting someone in the presi… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/17 03:22 PM |
| 5 | What if Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton Had Swapped Genders?For these people, the world must be against women in power, otherwise what have they got for themselves in politics? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/17 02:16 PM |
| 7 | What if Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton Had Swapped Genders?What I find most fascinating about this is that it is the feminists and leftists who will be surprised about this. Most others will just say, "well yeah. Of course." Also, that it is "the effects of sexism" that must drive this and not simply human nature is very telling. I'm tired of everything being an affect of sexism rather than just being a normal human being. Normal is not a bad thing. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/17 01:25 PM |
| 8 | People talking badly of me because of showing affection to fiancéGood luck. Given how you've described your work environment I would not expect the comments to stop. However, this way you are doing what is appropriate to meet your goals. That's what's important here. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 11:20 PM |
| 17 | People talking badly of me because of showing affection to fiancéYou're at work. I think the affection is inappropriate. That doesn't mean you should ignore him or pretend you're not engaged, but that you keep being warm and friendly in an appropriate fashion. I wouldn't want to see that at my work. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 10:27 PM |
| 2 | A Day Without WomenThey make up new monsters, which is why they are turning on themselves. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 10:15 PM |
| 13 | A Day Without WomenIf my kids went to one of these schools, I'd pull them out immediately and make sure it was well known why. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions - March 04, 2017Sometimes, the only thing we can do is be sympathetic and when our husbands have a short fuse, we simply understand and let them vent, even when that venting can hurt. Now, I am not talking about abuse here as I know some lurkers will want to read it that way. But if he snaps at you because he's had a crap day at work, I'm saying, don't snap back, because it is his work talking and not his anger at you. Be his soft place to land and let him have a place where he can blow off steam without someon… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/03/17 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Getting Serious About SolipsismYou're welcome, CQ. I'm glad I could help. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Getting Serious About SolipsismIs solipsism the result of female nature? Yes. It is part of our nature. Or is this a recent phenomenon? It is a more recent phenomenon to celebrate it and wallow in it. Is this amoral? Solipsism itself is amoral. What we do with it is not. Is there a way to successfully navigate around it? Yes. Realize that what you may feel about something strongly does not dictate the truth of that thing. Also, realize that even when we think we know the people closest to us very well, solipsism can jump in t… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 07:09 PM |
| 2 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?I wish you luck with all of this. It is a lot, but you seem to know exactly where you are starting from and what needs to be worked on. There are a lot of different solutions to these things and I think you'll be able to figure it out. You'll get there if you continue working on it! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 12:31 AM |
| 9 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?So maybe instead of jumping right into being a SAHW, start setting yourself a general schedule? | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 06:59 PM |
| 8 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?I started here. Teaching theory, in my opinion, is garbage. Just teach them. The hardest part is being mom and teacher, because they don't see you as the same authority figure, but that's outside of that you are talking about. Most books for homeschooling today tell you how to do it, many even have a script. I think the hardest thing for most people to wrap their heads around homeschooling is that they, in fact, can do it. They know how to do it, too but there is so much, you have to be a colleg… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 06:57 PM |
| 10 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?Lots and lots of things, but the biggies: We get to choose their education and can specify to each child. Which, given what we've chosen, they will be taught and learn to think on their own. They won't be exposed to things in public schools we don't want them to, until we want them to be exposed to it. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 05:58 PM |
| 5 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?it's not a huge expense considering the frustration it saves. That's fair. I feel like that mental shift from "I can just buy whatever I want" to "I need to stick to some sort of budget" is pretty big. That is also quite fair. if you're just looking at money. Obviously a SAHW/M brings a lot more to the table than economic value, but a lot of people try to justify the position this way. And if I do that, it really makes no sense. So, what position, other than money, are you looking at the situati… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 05:55 PM |
| 10 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?I'm guess I'm just not sure if there's really enough for me to do, especially without kids . . . . and most of the other household chores are taken care of by the housekeeper. At the risk of also sounding provocative, if you don't have enough to do, then you just aren't using your imagination. There is so much to do, most especially with the internet to help you! Also, as to the house keeping, if you are wanting to get used to living on one income, wouldn't the housekeeper be one of the first th… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 05:19 PM |
| 4 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?I'm so happy to hear that. Have you heard of Temple Grandin? If not, I highly recommend any of her books on autism. Her insight into it is amazing. I was able to hear her speak once years ago and it was tremendous. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 04:44 PM |
| 3 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?I wish you well and I hope the therapy goes well. I worked for a few years with kids with autism and I know some of the struggles. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 04:37 PM |
| 5 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?Right, and then when it finally is truly picked up, it lasts for about 5-10 minutes before it gets dirty again. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 04:34 PM |
| 2 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?Are you in speech therapy yourself? I used to be one. May I ask what you go for? I'm merely curious so please don't feel obligated to answer. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 04:29 PM |
| 5 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?I've got two girls and a boy. My eldest asked specifically to learn to make dinner tonight and it is far easier to teach something like that one at a time rather than all three together. They will all learn eventually. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 04:23 PM |
| 15 | SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day?Today: Up at 5:45, shower, dress Bring husband coffee, get his lunch bagged, say good morning to sleepy kids, get husband out the door, feed the dog surf web for a bit, drink coffee motivate kids to start school, get ready for the day (we homeschool) start picking up the kitchen (this is an all day battle), make bread, make pizza dough for husband's lunch tomorrow and freeze what's left do school with kids (this will take till about 2 pm where I tell them I am finished otherwise they will procra… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/03/17 03:50 PM |
| 4 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DWelcome! I hope you continue to de-lurk! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 12:24 PM |
| 4 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DI think it's so cool that you got a recommendation to come here outside of reddit. Welcome! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 12:24 PM |
| 3 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DWelcome and good luck with your new business! Kombucha is something I've been wanting to try to make for quite a while now. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 12:22 PM |
| 5 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DI'm so glad you are already seeing a difference! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 12:22 PM |
| 8 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DHaving a place of like minded women to turn to for support when you are surrounded by people with very different views is wonderful. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 12:21 PM |
| 6 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DWelcome. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 12:21 PM |
| 13 | Okay To Be a Housewife With No Kids?You want it. He wants it. Be happy. Screw the rest of the world. They don't matter. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/02/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Excellent Boy BooksThat list looks fantastic! Thank you. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/02/17 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Excellent Boy BooksThat looks great! Thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/02/17 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Excellent Boy BooksThank you. I will take a look at those. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/02/17 04:49 PM |
| 10 | How do you know if you actually can do better?This, through and through. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/02/17 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Excellent Boy BooksThat sounds excellent. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/02/17 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Excellent Boy BooksI put it up over there. Thank you for the link. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/02/17 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Should Couples in Unhappy Marriages Stay Together?Here you go. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/02/17 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Excellent Boy BooksI will definitely be looking into this. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Excellent Boy BooksI did a search for it and I found a Red Pill Dads subreddit, but it is private. If you are a member, please feel free to put this up there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/17 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Excellent Boy BooksThank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Excellent Boy BooksMy son has spent his Saturday looking through his American Boy's Handybook learning how to make and use primitive weapons after being inspired by these books. I hope your boys like them as much. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/17 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Excellent Boy BooksI'm amazed at how grown up they are. Yes. I'm always struck by this when reading a good kids book. They are not condescending in the least and they are timeless. Thank you for the other authors as well. I love finding good books for my kids and I end up reading a lot of them as well! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Excellent Boy BooksThank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Excellent Boy BooksOoh thanks. One of my girls is worried about what she will read when she finishes Nancy Drew so I will definitely show these to her! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Excellent Boy BooksThank you for the recommendations! I will take a look at them. One of my girls just loved Laura Ingalls Wilder and the other I couldn't get to read them. She's a huge Nancy Drew and Hardy Boys fan. I haven't heard of James Herriot but I will give him a look. I think you'll find most girls will enjoy the Gary Paulsen books as well To be sure, but I like finding sex specific books as well, then leave them around for whomever wants to read them out of curiosity. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Excellent Boy BooksI thought they were excellent and devoured them. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Excellent Boy BooksI've heard good things about Heinlein but have never read any of his stuff myself. John C. Wright has some juvenile fiction he's writing right now too, that I've heard excellent things about. But my son may still be too young for those. The Paulsen books are perfect for his age. Thank you for the recommendation. I will definitely look into the Heinlein. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/17 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Should Couples in Unhappy Marriages Stay Together?Have you seen this? Go, even though you love him. Go, even though he’s kind and faithful and dear to you. Go, even though he’s your best friend and you’re his. Go, even though you can’t imagine your life without him. Go, even though he adores you and your leaving will devastate him. Go, even though your friends will be disappointed or surprised or pissed off or all three. Go, even though you once said you would stay. Go, even though you’re afraid of being alone. Go, even though you’re sure no on… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 02:32 PM |
| 3 | I’m 49% Mother and 51% Wife - And it Has to be That Way by Ashleigh SlaterI need to and I want to, but IRC is like crack for me. When I think an hour has passed it's been several and I get so little done! One day, when I have a day, I plan on stopping in, but that happens rarely for me. I'll be back, for sure. Tell everyone I said hello! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 11:01 PM |
| 4 | I’m 49% Mother and 51% Wife - And it Has to be That Way by Ashleigh SlaterI miss you all at IRC . . . . Best of luck to you Iris and have fun today! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 04:33 PM |
| 2 | I’m 49% Mother and 51% Wife - And it Has to be That Way by Ashleigh SlaterI remember that pain. I hope the yoga helps and I'm so happy that you feel so good! So . . . . . if you find out the sex, do you feel like sharing? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 04:28 PM |
| 3 | I’m 49% Mother and 51% Wife - And it Has to be That Way by Ashleigh SlaterHow are you feeling? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 04:14 PM |
| 9 | I’m 49% Mother and 51% Wife - And it Has to be That Way by Ashleigh SlaterYou wanna know what the really cool thing is? As the kids get older and you get into your routine, and as you continue to strive to keep your marriage as it was, it gets better than it was. Way better. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 02:23 PM |
| 7 | I’m 49% Mother and 51% Wife - And it Has to be That Way by Ashleigh SlaterIt'll bounce back because you want it to. That's the beauty of this place. It teaches you to keep wanting what you had at the beginning of your marriage and lets people see that this is completely attainable. Also, I'm glad you posted this. I've been wanting to put up a similar post lately but I have't had time. I'll still try to put it up in a few days to reinforce this. It's so important. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 02:11 PM |
| 3 | I’m 49% Mother and 51% Wife - And it Has to be That Way by Ashleigh SlaterAwesome. Just awesome. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 02:07 PM |
| 3 | The Sexist BillboardI'm not criticizing. I'm making an observation. Even if they wouldn't be attacked, they wouldn't say anything anyway because typically men would look at it, agree or disagree and just walk away. Women these days? Nope. Pussy hats and protests. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 10:21 PM |
| 5 | The Sexist BillboardOh yeah. That is true. I LOLed at that tweet from u/Irisandoleander BTW, I threw up a little. . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 06:13 PM |
| 5 | The Sexist BillboardI just can't imagine going through life being offended at every little thing. There is no room to actually live like that. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 06:06 PM |
| 5 | The Sexist BillboardBut the men are silent. Edit: Except on reddit, it appears. No surprise there. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Captain doesn't like it when I make him breakfast / pack his lunches every dayIt's this. He feels forced into something he didn't want. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 12:26 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] Have you noticed how the 'bitter childless post-wall cat lady' label does not get thrown at women who promote the anti-feminist line, such as Ann Coulter?She's not bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/17 04:56 PM |
| 1 | an engagement, and the biggest thank you<3 | /r/RedPillWives | 22/02/17 12:28 AM |
| 2 | an engagement, and the biggest thank youOh wow. I'm glad to hear that. I hope you've been able to get something from it. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/02/17 12:24 AM |
| 4 | an engagement, and the biggest thank youThank you very much, whitebunny. I appreciate it and I'm glad it helped you. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/02/17 02:54 PM |
| 8 | an engagement, and the biggest thank youOh YEAH! Congratulations! I am so very happy for you! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/02/17 02:57 AM |
| 3 | How to Break Out of a Victim Mentality: 7 Powerful TipsI just think F*** 'em. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/02/17 04:57 PM |
| 2 | I need some help motivating my husband.To motivate through a tough time you need to show him your loyalty. Not just in that you're not going to leave but that he still has your respect. This is huge. This is why you take him your problem. It shows you still trust him. So when he works on his problem you cheer him on. Don't over do it, but when he goes to the store, thank him. When he folds the clothes thank him and if you can in a natural way add in more. "Thanks for doing X! It helped me out a ton because Y! Don't make stuff up, tho… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 10:40 PM |
| 2 | I need some help motivating my husband.Everything makes much more sense now. Thank you for adding the edits. In the future, I suggest keeping the post long and not worrying about that part of it. The more info we have the much easier it is to give help. With the added info I think what someone else had said. Bring him your problem. Don't bring him solutions. Let him be your knight, not your sounding board. Best of luck. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 10:26 PM |
| 16 | I need some help motivating my husband.I don't know how to explain it without sounding like the nagging, bothersome wife. You're not a wife. You are a provider for the lifestyle to which he has become accustomed and has no intention of changing. Be honest, did you really come to the decision not to marry together, or did he convince you that the state has no place in marriage? Because I would lay good money on the latter. If you are ready to have children with a father and not a sperm donor, you need to move on. I'm sorry this is har… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 03:30 PM |
| 8 | [Repost] Ten Traps That Trip Up The "Trying-To-Be-Submissive" WifeI would add, being submissive just to get what you want. It's another form of manipulation. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - February 10, 2017Eh, probably. Don't care. They both work. ;) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/02/17 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday - February 10, 2017It's like they have to make an excuse for enjoying that hobby. If they don't make it edgy, they won't be accepted because enjoying it for what it is is super plus bad. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/02/17 05:43 PM |
| 4 | In your relationship, what are your "Blessings In Disguise"?My husband has a force of will that is unstoppable. When we first married, it drove me crazy and I didn't deal with it well. But, that force of will has driven me to accomplish things and grow in ways that I never knew that I was capable of. I am eternally grateful for it. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Ann Widdecombe Calls Women's March 'Pathetic'That. Was. Awesome. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, check your privilege!She used the phrase alternative facts. I am happy. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 12:38 PM |
| 6 | Why do Feminists always draw themselves to look thinner?it has to do with making pleasing pieces This is exactly what it is. And the hypocritical thinking that there is no standard look that is pleasing. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Why do Feminists always draw themselves to look thinner?Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I thought Big is Beautiful and all that stuff? Isn't this art privilege and triggering? Ok, all I've really done is look at the pictures. I'll read it later and maybe comment more, but this is irresistible. As a matter of fact, I just looked at this on my front page without paying attention to which reddit posted it and thought how perfect this would be here. I was laughing to see that it was posted here already. It makes me so happy. 😄 | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?The question is not why did this woman act like a woman but rather, why do you care so much? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 01:10 PM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?It's a power play. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/17 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - January 27, 2017I also get the feeling they don't mind accomplishing anyrhing beyond the backscratching that was the women's march. Just keep thinking this when it comes up. Because this is all it is. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - January 27, 2017Oh crap. I have no words. That should have a trigger warning on it because I feel sick . . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 02:51 PM |
| 7 | Free Friday - January 27, 2017At one point, Swift even flirted with the idea of “simply abolishing the family” as a way of “solving the social justice problem” There it is. Plain for all the world to see. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Free Friday - January 27, 2017Am I the only one who is a bit fascinated by the "Women's" March last week? It's a train wreck and I can't look away. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 01:49 PM |
| 12 | Husband wants to lose weight, has asked me to manage it since I do all the cooking.If he doesn't lose the weight, will it be my fault? Has your husband ever indicated in any other part of your lives together, that he will blame you for his own decisions? I did express my concern that I didn't know if I would be able to do that, and even if I tried, I'm not a professional nutritionist or trainer, so I don't think it's an effective plan. Has he ever indicated that he expects perfection from you in helping him with this? I get the sense that you are hamstering this into something… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Maria von Trapp (Character), An RP Woman?It's one of the greatest lines uttered by a wife in the movies. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Guess who's having a baby?! IRIS!Congratulations Iris! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Maria von Trapp (Character), An RP Woman?I've been using her for awhile now as my example of a RPW. I love when she tells Max something along the lines of, "I can't ask him to be something he's not." | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 12:17 PM |
| 2 | How did/would you handle the end of the honeymoon period with your SO?I'm going to need more to answer this question. Please write something up in a post to explain more what you mean? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 12:15 PM |
| 15 | GF wants me to show "that i care about her" by letting guys flirt with her and then expects me to "man up". I AM FUCKING ANGRY AT HER! AWALT??Don't ever let a woman define for you what it is to be a man. The moment you do, you have lost. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 02:37 PM |
| 9 | "Are You Sure You Aren’t Unhappy?" - Ladies Do You Experience This?I have experienced little comments that people throw in conversations about my husband. Things that are usually said to test the water with me. I always just turn it back on them and say something like, "Yeah! It's great!" Or, "Why do you think I married him?" with a huge smile on my face. It's never gone anywhere beyond that. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 06:35 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as perfect [REPOST]We need to give ourselves grace on a regular basis What a wonderful way to express it. Yes. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 10:24 PM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as perfect [REPOST]What I see happening is that the younger, single RPW are actually getting more rigid and less likely to go with the flow. Like RPW is a status thing. Right. It's not. It's not a set of rules. It's a way to live as a wife and make your husband happy. How that looks is not specific and it would never work if it was. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 10:23 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as perfect [REPOST]Right, but while single might not be able to RPW, they can certainly woman and I think it is a very womanly trait to learn to be flexible and go with the flow. This will help then when it comes time to match herself to her tastes. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 09:03 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as perfect [REPOST]This is an awesome example. We ALL do things like this, but being able to recognize it, and then work to not do it again are huge things. I think this drive to be literally perfect is more damaging than screwing up like this. We're human and we are the women our husbands married. They don't expect perfection and neither should we. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 08:57 PM |
| 7 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismIn a world where we have conferences on "Toxic Masculinity" where they deride everything it is to be man and then try to teach them to be women, this was inevitable. Women don't get to try to teach men how to be "men" without some eventual pushback. And this pushback was never going to be stoic, because we won't let it be. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 12:31 PM |
| 3 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?It doesn't really matter really. There are men whom women have been with for years where they probably shouldn't make themselves that vulnerable, but they stupidly do. Each and every relationship is going to be different. What a woman needs to learn how to do is vet her man and what he wants vs what she wants. There is not going to be a hard and fast answer. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 02:07 PM |
| 5 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?I can't give you a measurable level because this is going to differ from relationship to relationship. Typically, the more the couple commits, the more the GF would submit. A woman is not going to make herself terribly vulnerable for a man who's with her for a fling. That would not be smart. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 01:56 PM |
| 5 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?And every relationship is a little different Yes, thank you. I meant to put this in there and forgot. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 01:51 PM |
| 9 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?I think the biggest difference is that when a woman marries, she should be prepared to give her all to a man, especially submission. When not married, the SO doesn't quite get it all. That is reserved for a husband only. As far as long term marriage vs only a few months, there are always going to be differences because knowing a man for years gives one an insight into that person that can only come with time. You will often know what he is going to do or think well before it is said and sometime… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 01:40 PM |
| 7 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - January 14, 2017There are days I would wear this as a t-shirt. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/01/17 02:33 PM |
| 6 | My mother died on Mondaybut I always feel like I need to hold back. I want to scream that I hated her, and that I was so mad at her, and how DARE she... But that isn't very lady-like, is it? Who cares if it's lady-like? Seriously, it sounds like you NEED this, so do it! Your husband, more than any other person in your life will understand this. Get it out. Get it out. Get it out. What would be the best way to let people know I'd rather not be touched? I like others ideas of your husband helping you out here and moving … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/17 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Bucket ListsI had a kid at 28, 30, and 31. Your fertility will start to go down in your mid 20's but not just drop. Don't wait, but I believe that one of the worst things a person can do when trying to conceive is worry. It should be fun! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 09:16 PM |
| 3 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?I've got a SAHM mom post floating in my head (there seems to be more posts of late on this topic). I haven't decided yet or not if I want to post it, but may I steal this if I do? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 04:36 PM |
| 3 | [Singing to the Choir!]Stop Taking Pride In Not Knowing How To Do Basic ShitThe perfect desirable woman isn't at all perfect, but she always keep working to improve. Perfection isn't attainable, but improvement always is. Welcome and I hope you keep commenting! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!t's classy as fuck! :) I'm dying. LOL | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!No kidding. Jeans are insane. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Why Conservative Women Are So PrettyWhen I get a free day, I'll try to do that. It's just something that happens very rarely. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Why Conservative Women Are So PrettyLOL! I think that cranky old jew has school each and every one of us who has ever been on the IRC. I miss you guys and wish I had the time to be there. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 05:57 PM |
| 10 | Why Conservative Women Are So PrettyBecause, when you didn't agree with someone's views or heard a viewpoint you had never considered before, you didn't turn into a petulant rage monster. You listened and you asked intelligent, non-snarking questions. Even if you you still disagreed, you were respectful about it and you listened and thought about what was said to you. A lot of times, you clearly changed your mind. There are quite a few liberals here and I can respect them all because they listen and they think. And I believe this … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Why Conservative Women Are So PrettyYeah, I had ZERO surprise when you made the obvious shift to conservatism. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.I'm getting the impression that this situation is far less than how u/dashdotdott actually feels about it. I have a father who can be thoughtless sometimes, and it usually ends up being just that. He wasn't thinking. u/dashdotdott. Don't blow up a non-thing and turn it into a thing. I speak from experience here. It's not worth it. Think, is this just drama in your head or is it truly something more going on? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!I would love this phase of "distressed" clothing to stop. This is funny to me. This was a huge fad when I was in high school. Parents would freak because their kids were taking scissors to $50 pair of jeans (which was a huge amount of money for jeans back then) I didn't know it had come back around again. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Darn tootin'. My kids'll have my back, too. LOL | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Why Conservative Women Are So PrettyI remember you talking about how you were liberal in IRC. Even the way you write has changed since then. It is palpable. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 03:15 PM |
| 10 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.I would ask Dad why he excluded DH. If it's for the simple reason you stated, I would ask him not to make assumptions like that in the future. If your dad is just making executive decisions and left out DH, I would tell him I wouldn't be going, as difficult as that would be (and it would be very difficult), I would stay home, like everyone else is saying. You're husband and your children are your family. If your dad doesn't respect that, then you need to stand by your husband. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 02:59 PM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Well, I think I have the coloring for it. I have my dad's hair who is all silver, so I'm hopeful that I will be able to pull it off. I will also be keeping my hair long forever, even if I end up being one of those women with long wisps of hair. I won't cut it short. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 01:08 AM |
| 8 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?I thought of another while I was making dinner. Not everyone on the internet is a sperg. Sometimes you're just weird and/or an idiot. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 01:04 AM |
| 5 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?I HATE going to the salon. I'm going gray and have decided not to dye my hair. whispers ~ I am fortunate that so far the grays are coming in all silver and I am getting those cool streaks right above my temples. Fingers crossed. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:06 AM |
| 5 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Ketchup belongs on hot dogs. NO! Mustard and relish. I will fight you on this. Toilet paper goes OVER not under. BANE! America is the best country in the world, and if you think otherwise, you're just wrong. Looking forward to making it great again. Ok, ok. I forgive you. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:02 AM |
| 3 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Other that the occasional "lol" text speak should be reserved for children under the age of 12. I love you, too. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:00 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Chihuahuas should not be called dogs. They're cute and fun to cuddle if they aren't scared of you, but they're really more like mutated rats than dogs. I love you. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Christmas Day FRPeople think that women who are sahms are repressed Who is more oppressed? The woman who follows what she truly wants from life or the woman who is afraid of getting ripped by modern people for making the wrong choice? This is what so many women don't see. Feminism is just as oppressive, if not more so, than their imagined patriarchy. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Camille Paglia: How to Age Disgracefully in HollywoodIt's not mean to observe reality. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Camille Paglia: How to Age Disgracefully in HollywoodExactly. This is what comes from going for the all consuming attention seeking. She got a few years of glory which turned into bitterness because it was never going to last. With overtime she lets he ass or boobs hang out, she looses just a little bit more because she knows the attention she is getting is just fake. Finding a man and having a successful relationship, as you said, lacks the high level of attention that she was used to, but it is lasting when you work at it. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 12:22 PM |
| 12 | Camille Paglia: How to Age Disgracefully in HollywoodWhat also slightly irritates me is women who complain about the system after its benefitted them. Ding, ding, ding, ding!! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017Is there any way to move forward from this? Yes, focus on all the bad stuff that you know about the man with whom you are alpha-widowed. Even the most remote thing. Then, with this new man, focus on everything great. Not just the "beta" great things, but the masculine things as well. Especially the masculine things. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Camille Paglia: How to Age Disgracefully in HollywoodNice. I immediately came here to see if it had been posted. It just had to go up! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 04:33 PM |
| 17 | Camille Paglia: How to Age Disgracefully in HollywoodI found this article really interesting and I love how Paglia put it, "stop cannibalizing the young." Madonna and some other famous women today are angry at Hollywood men for "ageism" and sexism, when in reality if she chose to age gracefully she would likely be respected just fine. So, how does this apply to RPW? We are all going to get old. Some of us are there. It doesn't make us less as women. We are just at a different time in our lives and we need to accept that and work with it. For those… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 04:24 PM |
| 10 | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017I would own my mistake and I would absolutely forgive him, but trust would be hard, just as I expect it would be hard for him to trust that I would be able to change as well | /r/RedPillWives | 07/01/17 03:38 PM |
| – | Time Capsule LettersLast bullet point: de lurk more often! Welcome and if you do have the free time, I hope you comment more. We love getting new people here. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/01/17 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - January 06, 2017I was making stromboli yesterday and I was thinking that some people here might like this as an idea for their husband/SO for work or just a nice treat. It's simple but people love it and they also tend to think it is a really big deal when it's not. So, I make this pizza dough and then break it into packages of three and freeze it. One package works perfectly for a rectangular stone I have for making pizza and 1/2 a package is perfect for one stromboli. Cook up about 10 oz of italian sausage (I… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 06:13 PM |
| 14 | Advice Requested: How can I help my forgetful partner without nagging?First and foremost, just ask him. "Hey, I really want to stop nagging. So, when you honestly just forget to do something, how would you like me to handle it?" This goes a long way. Just make sure you say it neutrally with no eye rolling or that kind of thing. As for something like the garbage? Why don't you just do it? Don't tell him you're going to do it, don't remind him that he forgot again, just take it out and then forget about it. If he brings it up just say something like, "I saw that it … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here going to buy Milo Yiannopoulos' new book (or actually like him)?Exactly. Sometimes, people need to be slapped across the face to open their eyes. Reasonable people typically do not need this. The left 10% just needs to be slapped. They've been doing it to the right for years and now they are playing the, "you can't hit people!" game. They do this because they know it works. People like Milo changed the rules of their game and made it fair. They hate it. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here going to buy Milo Yiannopoulos' new book (or actually like him)?Right, but those reasonable people will get there on their own just by virtue of being reasonable. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here going to buy Milo Yiannopoulos' new book (or actually like him)?Because that 80% in the center tends to be influenced largely by strength and as more people change their views to the right, and it gains more and more strength, the more of those people will find themselves on the right. They will just shift, much like the shift has been to the left in recent history. Catering to the center is exactly why we ended up in the position we are in. The right has been doing it for decades. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here going to buy Milo Yiannopoulos' new book (or actually like him)?I doubt I'll buy the book, but I'm a big fan. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 12:34 PM |
| – | Time Capsule LettersDear Stingray, Stay on the ball this year. You're getting a new garden. You are getting to design it however you like and put whatever you like into it. Don't get lazy when it gets too hot. Get your butt out of bed early and get the job done. This is an amazing opportunity to do what you've wanted to do for years. You will get to can, freeze and dry food. Don't blow it. You're getting your bees. See #1. Don't let the heat keep you from what you've been wanting to do for years. Suck it up and get… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/17 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Rehabilitating FeminismExactly. It calls everyone who doesn't like what they see as feminism an idiot for believing what they see with their own eyes. And unfortunately, a lot of people, not wanting to be thought of as an idiot, will believe them. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/17 02:23 PM |
| 9 | Rehabilitating FeminismI got as far as, something along the line of, real feminism being conflated with the crazy feminist today. Look feminists, if your most vocal people are crazy and that is what people are being most exposed to that is exactly what feminism is. I'm tired of people trying to take a step back because they see that their movement is being destroyed from the inside and trying to change history to make it look like it was never like what our lying eyes tell us it truly is. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/17 01:59 AM |
| 2 | What does submission mean to you?It sounds like you had 3 kids in 3 years, too! Tough but worth it. They are friends to each other, a lot of the time. They do fight a lot, but they are also pretty close, too. It's really nice. It can make school tough though, because they want to play or fight during school. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 11:12 PM |
| 3 | What does submission mean to you?Age wise, grades 7, 5, and 4th. Academically they are all over the place depending on the subject. You? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 06:41 PM |
| 4 | What does submission mean to you?but even if I disagree I've learned to uphold and support his final decision. This is a HUGE part of submission. Acceptance and support. Furthered by: There have been times he's made a mistake, or made a choice he regretted, (as we all do lol) and I feel responsible to "cover" for him, so to speak. I think it's so vital that children never hear their mother trash-talking or complaining about their father. I try to uphold his decisions and authority in his absence, and while I am the Leader while… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 05:30 PM |
| 8 | What does submission mean to you?I would say my husband is the leader because he tends to have the final say on the big decisions. But those decisions (where to live, schools for the kids) are awfully rare. In general, I make the decisions about the day to day running of the household. This is how it is our home. And with most major decisions, he always comes to me to ask my opinion or to see if I have information or insight he might not have. Submission/deference is going to look different from relationship to relationship. Wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Surrendering The LeashAs I was trying to say, I agree, though I cringe when I would say wait till your dad gets home! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/17 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Surrendering The LeashMy flipping phone. Now I've gone and deleted them all! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/17 01:50 AM |
| – | Surrendering The LeashI personally think it's a good idea to reinforce that perception. I completely agree. This is how we do it though I cringed when I heard myself say, "just wait till your dad gets home!" | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/17 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Surrendering The LeashI love this because it is so true. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Unexpected ResultsLOL, Yes! People coming here looking to be offended are hilarious. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Surrendering The Leashhow I present it will show the respect. Absolutely. Also, learning to read the situation was something I needed to learn. He's telling the kids we are going to do something that I know we can't do because X. I just tell him. The kids are being super annoying but they might be under the weather and he doesn't know it? Pull him aside and tell him. Kids are clever little creatures and will use what they can to undermine your unified front with your husband. I think it was u/cats_or_get_out who had … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 06:46 PM |
| 15 | Dumb-Ass Stuff We Need To Stop Saying To DadsYou know the cultural tide is turning when you see this on HuffPo. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Surrendering The LeashI STILL do this from time to time with our kids. It's not an easy thing to not do because sometimes I just act out of habit. What worse, is when I know my husband is just wrong about something, not because he's not doing it my way, but simply because he doesn't have all the information. So as to not undermine him in front of the kids, I have to wait to tell him and it can be so hard to just not blurt out, "But your wrong! You need to know this thing!" Another difficulty? The kids will mind him b… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Unexpected ResultsAbsolutely. I think this is one of the reasons we have such difficult time explaining RPW to new members and why people have such a difficult time understanding it. We mean one thing and people hear something completely different because of how we each understand a word or a concept. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 05:46 PM |
| 3 | End Of The Year LetterTo have a group of women with whom I can come talk to and have them actually understand and listen about relationship ideas, how my relationship is, and things to try that might actually help their own relationship is amazing. I can come here and let my hair down. The only other place I can do this is with my husband. Thank you for that. It's beyond compare. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/12/16 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Unexpected ResultsWell I think the whole point of RP is that you understand YOUR nature as well as everyone else's -- I could never be a LH even if I wanted to. I think this is one thing that took me the longest to learn and understand. I always knew that women had different level of dominance, but knowing it and understanding it are two different things. And, what a highly dominant woman is going to need from a man is different than what a low dominance woman is going to need. Same thing concerning what dominanc… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/12/16 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Unexpected ResultsI think the thing that surprised me the most (it wasn't unexpected, just not thought about) was how much more confident and at ease with myself I became when I finally got comfortable with deferring. I'm LH and I was never comfortable with that when I was younger. I thought I had to be all that "strong and independent" stuff. I thought I had to be outspoken, lead, etc, etc. I was uncomfortable with deferring even though that is in my nature. When I started doing it without fighting it, I started… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/12/16 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016I garden. I'm getting ready to put in a new one this spring and I'm simultaneously dreading it and can't wait. New gardens can take a lot of work but it is so much fun. I'm also a SAHM so feel free to PM me if you ever have any questions! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016If you like that one, you will like "An Idiot Abroad" Same guy traveling but the set up is different. It's on Netflix as well and it's hilarious. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016The Moaning of Life on Netflix. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 23, 2016Trolls are trying to ruin Ivanka Trumps status at Amazon. They aren't even trying to hide the fact as many of the comments are only political. So, I went over there to check out her stuff as I didn't know she had a clothing line. And I have to say, HER SHOES! They are adorable! And they are not obscenely expensive. So, I wish to say, thank you trolls. I think I will be buying some of her things. Edit: LOL. The Issa boots referenced in the article are nearly sold out. Only a size 6 and 6.5 are le… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeIt makes perfect sense. I've been there and done that and my husband stayed away, as well. I can't blame him for that. Home was not a place of comfort for him. And sometimes, I can still feel that resentment, that social shame. Sometimes, the biggest, best, and most difficult sacrifices we can make are letting go of things like this. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'This is so awesome. Thank you very much for sharing it. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeWhy can't it be CQ and SunHappy <3<3 lol LOL. Nice I think when a man demonstrates to you that he wants to make the ultimate commitment to you, then you should be willing to do the ultimate sacrifices for him. Yes. Both men and women are risking a lot, but those things risked are very different. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeSo this might be an unpopular opinion here I agree with your whole comment and came to say much the same thing. That is more of a self issue. I just think there are tooooo many men out there to feel like you cannot hold true to your values at any age. Precisely. Also, i don't think men really think in terms of "does she want me for me or does she want a husband?" Some do, but that is not the man with whom you would want to be with anyway. This would be a huge red flag. Men are becoming more mani… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Examples of Selflessness/SacrificeRight, there are stages and the ultimate stage is marriage which requires the ultimate sacrifice. There is no longer CQ time or CQ XYZ or Sunhappy Time or Unhappy XYZ, it's forever more SO and CQ or SO *and SunHappy. I think it is very wise for a woman to hold something back till marriage. What that something or things are depends entirely on where you are in the relationship and this time frame will cary from relationship to relationship. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Examples of Selflessness/Sacrificeyour posts are always so calming and insightful. Thank you. how and when did you figure out your now husband was worthy of it, prior to you marrying him? LOL. I should have said this in my post, I didn't, consciously. I loved him deeply and I couldn't imagine my life without him. I'm old now and have begun to reach that ZFG age in life and hindsight is 20/20. Having said that, I was always a confident person and I knew he was a good man or I wouldn't have married him. It just wasn't 100% conscio… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Examples of Selflessness/Sacrificehow did you yield or act completely selflessly or even sacrificed when you did not want to I remember one where I was invited to a private Facebook group of people with whom I get on famously and with whom I have a whole lot in common. I was pretty excited about this, but we don't do social media. When I asked my husband if it was ok, he said no and I was very disappointed. Come to find out a couple of months later, this group was being systematically doxxed. Example 12,123 where my husband was … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 05:46 PM |
| 15 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'I consider myself ambitious. I've always wanted to be a SAHM, since I was a little girl (my mom was) and I have met and surpassed that ambition. Her ambition is to serve, to love her children and grandchildren, to provide a hospitable space for them, to nurture and foster their wellbeing and success. This is ambition. Just because one doesn't want a career, it doesn't mean she doesn't have any ambition. I had goals, and I met them. Now I have made more goals that I have every intention of meetin… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Weight concernsWhat can I do in this situation to gently lead him (and myself) into a healthier lifestyle? This is the very definition of you wanting to change something about him. Look, I understand that you love your husband and you are looking out for him. He's stated that he doesn't like this about himself and he wants to change, but he himself has not made the decision to do it for himself yet and you want to "lead" him to this decision. Not let him lead himself. This is the very essence of what people he… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Holiday Edition: Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI'm not sure but maybe you could use them to make apple butter? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 01:55 AM |
| 4 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DPlease, do tell! You are most definitely not the first former worst enemy we've had here. Will you share a bit about what changed your mind and what you changed it from? | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 06:58 PM |
| 6 | How to Be a Ladyperson at the Holidays: 10 Important TipsI'm a superfresh candypants sugar blossom. I want this to be my flair, right next to Pepe. And then? Then, I want to make a statement. This statement: Topless, smirking handbag-boxing ladies with boy haircuts make a statement. This is spectacular. Thanks for sharing. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016LOL. That's better! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016You forgot to bash the SO in the part where is says not to bash your SO. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:51 PM |
| 1 | My Husband Lies to Me - Laura DoyleWell, talking is doing something. It's really hard to do nothing, but it doesn't add irrelevant things to his plate and/or it allows him to focus on what he needs to focus on and sometimes, that can be really difficult to see. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:22 PM |
| 2 | My Husband Lies to Me - Laura DoyleEmpowering is a BP buzzword precisely because of the way they use it. You are exactly right, it is empowering to take personal responsibility for these things. Because we don't live in opposite world. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:21 PM |
| 2 | "Wearing a veil and hiding the body is a form of protection"Right. Rape/=Rape culture. Of course men still rape in the West, but it is the push of this nonsense Western rape culture that is diminishing the effect of actual rape on women (the fact that I must use the word actual is all the evidence one needs of this). | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:52 PM |
| 10 | My Husband Lies to Me - Laura DoyleI really liked the "Receive His Protection" part. Sometimes being RPW means we are forever looking for ways to lighten his load. Something actionable. One of the biggest lessons I learned is that sometimes lightening his load means doing nothing. By receiving his protection as she described in the post, you are receiving something. Not giving it. But this applies to more than just letting him protect you. It means that sometimes the best thing in the world we can do to help our husbands is nothi… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Share your Favorite Picture, Meme, or (SFW) video!LOL. Don't. Most of the time that is a good instinct because kids cry more when they fall because mom is scared rather than because it hurt. They will fall and immediately look to mom for how they should feel about what just happened. You can see it every time. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:27 PM |
| 5 | How Do You Define Cheating?Any sexual activity and/or emotional affair, most especially as described here. Quite frankly, this would hurt far more than a sexual fling. Like u/Camille11325, I'd rather not know. However, I don't believe in divorce and would not leave over an affair. But it would change our relationship forever. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 03:46 PM |
| 6 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - December 10, 2016Good Lord. How the hell else could that baseball thing be explained?! "Why yasssss. You did see the KKK in baseball! Your feelings are valid and your assessment of not understanding the game whatsoever is correct because by your redefined terms, you now understand the game in its entirety. Here's your participation trophy. Well done." | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Present Ideas, Holiday cards and LettersWe usually get out dog a big smoked bone for Christmas or something of the like. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016I loved this article and would love a whole post on it. I am not sure when I would have the time to write it, however. It's an important topic and ties into RPWi in ways people really should think about. Let me think about it. I had that excitement I used to get before I would blog reading this and I could likely get a pretty good post out of it. But, time is a major issue these days. Maybe I could break it down into more than one post or something like that. It's a wonderful and, in my opinion,… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016They can't have a coherent argument when they define words as they choose to define them. It's impossible. And they don't understand what they are talking about because their understanding is limited to only what they feel and what they feel has been dictated to them by other people. When arguing with a man who has dedicated 40 years to researching a subject that is understood as "it hurts my feelings and it scares me", that person cannot understand a damn thing being said. Their feelings are tr… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016Thank you for the links. I'm trying to listen to more of these while I clean (but haven't been successful because I get bombarded with "Mom!") I need to start trying again. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016You know, I think I could watch them if these weren't the people claiming high intelligence and then conflating that with status. I swear it makes me lose IQ points to watch these people. That level of stupid is astounding to me. And the thing is, they seek it out. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016Nope. I tried (I almost spelled that wrong, heh). I can't watch that level of idiot. Watching 500 hours of video searching for ways to be offended. First, Liar. Second, stupid is gonna stupid. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016I had never heard of him before this article. But he seems like one hell of a professor. I have a lot of respect for him for sticking to his guns. Really, who cares about their students more? This guy or some SJW who tells them what to think, not how to think? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...LOL. Anytime. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016It'll save you $10 and give you exactly what you want. Win/win! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:34 PM |
| 2 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...AAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHH! I feel better now. checking for spelling mistakes and autocorrect. good? good | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:33 PM |
| 2 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...Dammit. It's what I get for pointing too early in the morning. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016You could just trace the old one on to some plastic with a dry erase marker and then use those lines and an exacto knife or any sharp knife with a point, really, and cut out those line. Then all you need pay for is the plastic. And really you could just buy a cheapo placemat for the plastic. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016Do you still have the old one? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016Couldn't you make one? Use an exacto knife to cut out the openings. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016Here is a really interesting interview about free speech, hate speech and SJWs. He's well spoken and makes excellent points. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 02:17 PM |
| 7 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...How hilarious is it that embracing natural femininity makes one an edgelord? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 01:51 PM |
| 3 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...I will be happy when this edgy fashion is done. Or wait, is beauty now edgy because it isn't mainstream? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 12:45 PM |
| 7 | ColourPop Cosmetics makes a lipstick called "Feminist" and it's EXACTLY the color you are imagining...Nothing says kiss me like black/purple lipstick. Ew. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 11:42 PM |
| 3 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"Wow, I hadn't seen that one before. The art is all familiar though. How prescient, the images of the computers plugging into people | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 06:27 PM |
| 3 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"because that's the only way you can really even begin to understand the effects and context of different things. But if we being to understand the effects and context of different things and different times, than everything they believe in will fall apart. We can't have that. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 06:22 PM |
| 3 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"My husband got me listening to Disturbed years ago when I was working out (They have a song my husband calls the satanic monkey song, (Down with the Sickness) I wasn't a huge fan but their music is great for lifting). His voice is amazing. I used to be a Speech Therapist and learned a lot about voice in school, so I am utterly stunned listening to it and I get goosebumps. I don't listen to Beyonce and won't even bother looking up anything from her. However, I do remember reading somewhere that h… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:34 PM |
| 3 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"First, I LOVE the remake of "Sound of Silence". It's almost profound for me. His voice is amazing. As to the song, I remember hearing that it was considered rape a couple of years ago and did the eye roll, simultaneous face palm (I think I hurt myself). Feminists want to take all the fun out of dating and marriage. And for heavens sake, why can't a women just flirt but take care of herself with a flirty, playful man at the same time. God forbid she have fun. Now to watch the videos because this … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:22 PM |
| 10 | Woman Defends $130 Wedding Ring Set: 'You're Not Marrying Someone for a Ring'She asked why we were even bothering to get married. LOL. Right, because what's the point of the next 40-50 years? | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Trying to console my RP cousin...Have you told her about RPWi? It can be really hard to find like minded women in real life. It's great that she has you, but she would probably buck up even more to know that there are a lot more of us out here. We women like to herd and when you can't find your herd, it can be painful. Even though it's on the internet, it is a balm to know all you women are out there and it might help her a lot, too. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Trying to console my RP cousin...Damn. Thank you for the heads up. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 12:08 PM |
| 5 | Trying to console my RP cousin...I truly hope that things have settled down for you. I understand your distrust of people. I have that, too. But there are a few good people out there. Keep your eye out for them. I hope finding us here has helped you through this at least to a certain extent. Do you think that Brexit will change any of this? | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Trying to console my RP cousin...That's horrific. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Trying to console my RP cousin...Is she religious? | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 12:16 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Bring your captain your problem.Excellent field report. Thank you for sharing it. Well done. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions - December 03, 2016We told our kids about Santa, but we never let our kids on the internet either. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/16 09:53 PM |
| 9 | 100 Women 2016: I am a 'surrendered wife’ - BBC NewsI like that this woman tried something probably complety against everything she thought was ok for the sake of her marriage. You hear many women say, I tried everything I could. This woman did and look what it did. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/16 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Feeling unmotivated after husband's commentsWhat worries me is that I don't feel anything like that, not even close. I love him, I love being married to him and he has improved my quality of life dramatically. I wouldn't have my life any other way. Have you heard this quote before? A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband, while a man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. It's been around forever and it us utterly true. What is going on is normal. You just got a big dose of the reality of his life. if I see… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/16 01:17 PM |
| 5 | Feeling unmotivated after husband's commentsHe won't resent you if you don't give him reason to. He made his choice and he knows it. Instead of worrying about this, use it as motivation to be the best possible wife you can be. Remind yourself of this when you start to feel lazy, or resentful or any other thing that will be a temptation in your marriage. He chose you. He chose family. Help him the very best way you can to remember that this choice can be a wonderful one. I remember when I realized what my husband gave up for me and my fami… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 11:48 PM |
| 7 | Feeling unmotivated after husband's commentsYes, to all of this. He's being a man and she must not take that from him by making this all about her. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 05:21 PM |
| 18 | Feeling unmotivated after husband's commentsSo it's got to be me that is the problem here, surely? Absolutely not. Read that again. Absolutely not. Your husband just spoke to you like you are a man. He just unburdened himself to you in a way most husbands just don't. That he said these things to you shows a huge amount of trust. What you need to do here is trust him back. He meant it when he said that it doesn't have anything to do with you. You must trust that. What he just told you about is the huge responsibility that having a family i… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!It's no doubt a very difficult situation to be in. My Uncle died five years ago and my kids were little. My husband took the kids for a few days so I could fly out and see him before he died. All I could think was, what if this was over Christmas. How hard would that be? Having said that, you sound like your own worst enemy with this. You want him to do things you don't want to do yourself; swallow his pride and deal with your very critical parents. Here is what I suggests, make the plans to go … | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 02, 2016Reading these is like driving by a car wreck. You tell yourself, "DON"T LOOK!", but you do look, and then you just can't look away. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 03:50 PM |
| 3 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!Driven by pride, which exactly is why you feel awkward to impose on your relatives. You find it embarrassing. This is your pride talking. Can't you put yours aside for your husbands sake, not to mention the uncle that you said was like a father to you? Can you see the problem with this line of thinking? | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - December 02, 2016And in the comments. . . . "Yeah but . . ." facepalm | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - December 02, 2016"Oh! Great! (Shuffling of papers heard) That's, um, great! Are you traveling or taking it easy?" Holy cow, that is absolutely hilarious! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 02, 2016I think the first punch sounds better. Alternatively, you could do a hot drink in a crockpot (the downside being you couldn't use that awesome punchbowl for it). And I have to say, OMG for the cranberry orange cookies. I love everything and anything cranberry orange. I will definitely be trying these (and sending them to my mom who feels the same). Here are my favorite Christmas cookies. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 01:53 PM |
| 3 | How to respectfully disagree?I feel like I was able to maintain some level of RP while not compromising myself. It sounds like you maintained an excellent level of RP. You remained a team. You didn't criticize, you didn't do anything in front of your kids (which is not just best for you kids but best for every single person in the family and more important than that, best for the family as a whole), you didn't demean, etc. You brought him your problem and asked for his help in fixing it. That's one of the big tenants of RP.… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 12:25 PM |
| 3 | How to respectfully disagree?I don't really know what to tell you other than what CQ already said. One thing I will say is that over the years with my husband, the trust grows and things that would have truly bothered my years ago now now longer do because I can now see them through his perspective. I have no need to not defer in a single situation because I can see where he's coming from or he will explain it to me if I can't. So, yes, it could be that I vetted very well. Or it could be that I changed my perception and can… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 01:28 AM |
| 6 | How to respectfully disagree?Unless you are more specific there isn't a whole lot we can do for you here. You started a thread and with this comment basically just shut the whole thing down. CQ gave you good advice. Now you're saying you just can't do it so I'm picturing you going off on your husband in front of your kids and frankly, I'm having a hard time thinking of something that your husband is doing with your child that could hurt him more than that. As CQ said abuse and molestation are one thing, but parenting styles… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Tips on being a better housewife?at what age is a good time to start introducing chores and helping with cleaning? See, I think the very basics can start around 18 mos. to 2 years depending on the child. They are mobile enough and comprehend enough to start picking up their toys and basic things like this. As they get older they can take a hand broom and maybe start sweeping under the kitchen cabinets (you know, that annoying part under the cabinet that the vacuum never quite reaches), maybe taking a damp rag and wiping baseboa… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Tips on being a better housewife?I do think I could give my older 2 more responsibilities around the house. The thing is though, it always turns into a huge ordeal because they don't listen or whine and complain about doing it, so I find myself taking the easy way out and just doing it myself. I hear you. This is exactly what I did/do. But let me tell you, I regret not just listening and dealing with the whining. The faster you nip it in the bud, the sooner it stops and it. is. not. easy. Don't let it affect you and make them c… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 03:10 PM |
| 9 | Tips on being a better housewife?I have three kids and one thing I regret is not getting them to help more when they were little. Sure, I had them help, but I fell into the trap of doing it myself because it was easier. Small kids are capable of doing more than we give them credit for. Have them help cleaning the high traffic areas and when they get better at it, you can leave them to it for 10-15 minutes and deeper clean during that time. Or, pick a room and have them pick up/dust etc. while you get down and do the floor board… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 01:30 PM |
| 11 | Any tips and tricks on how to make Christmas special for little ones!Don't discount eating. Seriously, so many people have the most amazing childhood memories based around smells, holidays, and food. The food and what happens around it can shape the whole day. Make them a special kid breakfast. Monkey bread is easy but to kids it's like heaven. Some kind of pastry sweetness is always a hit with kids. Plus the smell is amazing and they exude this warm hug feeling of Christmas. Movies and hot chocolate are always good. There are so many good kids Christmas movies t… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 12:33 PM |
| 6 | Define the Roles and Know Your PlaceIsn't the "3 times the garlic is not enough" a rule written in stone somewhere? Really good post, Iris. It's about an unbreakable team, not keeping track of who does what. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How to give compliments?Do you find him physically attractive? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/16 12:19 PM |
| 2 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?I assume these are simple shit tests Most likely. Her tone will reveal whether it's the fun teasing kind or the rude kind. Either way, it doesn't matter. You know what to do. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 07:12 PM |
| 3 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?The beard accentuates what I already love about masculine men. The gruff and rugged is masculine and the beard highlights it in an amazing way. Give her time. I bet she changes her mind, she just has to wrap her mind around what her other parts are telling her. AFAIK, beards aren't hugely popular among a lot of women, so she has to reconcile what her body is telling her is arousing with what her mind tells her she thinks she likes. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 07:02 PM |
| 2 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?I'm not saying "be" anything. I'm saying this is what I find attractive, or rather, arousing. then bears are great! I don't understand what this means. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 06:49 PM |
| 2 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?It's funny you say that. He's one of mine as well. YYYUGE crush. But Anson Mount doesn't do a thing for me. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 06:25 PM |
| 7 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?Full flipping beard. I mean FULL. I absolutely love it. However, I will say I've seen men who have full beards that just don't do a darn thing for me. It's in the eyes. Example: No and No even without the weird fork in it. Yes and Yes and (as the kids say today) YASSS! I seriously have a thing for facial hair. Most men just do not turn my head, but on the rare occasion that they do, they either have really nice long hair or a fantastic beard (and the proper look to go with it. On a hipster type,… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 06:07 PM |
| 8 | How to stop being extremely clingyYou said that you do spend a lot of time together and this is in your head. So here is what I suggest . . . This feeling of missing him is bother you; creating a sort of anxiety. So, change your perspective. Missing your husband is a gift. Not all wives get to enjoy this feeling. And while I understand it can cause internal discomfort, I suggest you relish it. You get to miss him. You get to look forward to him coming home. When you do spend time with him it is all the more sweeter because you c… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/16 01:35 PM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:I do remember that. I'm touched. Thank you, CQ. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday!I was nearly I tears watching that guy. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday!For our non-english speaking women - learn to speak english here. Shampoo!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/16 07:20 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!The oopsie bread and sweet potato chips might work. It's just that the potatoes have tasted so bad here lately. It's weird. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 02:56 AM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!He likes hummus. That might be something we can go back to. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 02:54 AM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!Here it is. This one sounds even better, at least for my husband. You've inspired me! I think something like this will work. I can make a batch on the weekend and freeze them and send 1 or 2 in a day. Fingers crossed that he likes them. Thanks again! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:47 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!Holy cow those look amazing! I also just found some garlic herb muffins. Thank you very much! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:40 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!I do celery with peanut butter. I should have been more clear. I need a carb that's low glycemic. That's the difficult part. But you gave me an idea. Maybe I could find some kind of muffin made with coconut flour. I need to find something that will be somewhat on the unusual side I think because of how and what he eats. He's just not a big eater. I appreciate your suggestions. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:35 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!Nope. Thanks, though. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:23 PM |
| 4 | FREE FRIDAY!LOL. No, he gets a big bowl of meat and fresh juice, too. He doesn't use a thermos as he just wants quick and easy with lots of protein. He doesn't have a lunch box as I just put everything in a bag. My husband does eat to enjoy his food. He eats for energy so he doesn't taste much. Him saying the sweet potato was bad means it must be really bad otherwise he would just eat it anyway. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:23 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!I have a bit of an odd question. I used to send my husband in a sweet potato for lunch everyday. For some reason, they have tasted really bad lately, so I need to find a replacement. I tried rice, thinking he was heating things up in the microwave. Come to find out, he just eats things cold. A cold sweet potato is good. Cold rice is just gross. He won't eat bread, pasta, or white potatoes. Does anyone have an suggestions? I'm drawing a blank. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 08:02 PM |
| 4 | FREE FRIDAY!I am so happy for you and your family. May she stay cancer free. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 07:59 PM |
| 6 | Ivanka Trump: Loving Wife, Mother, and DaughterNot only without fathers, but those with whom the father is present, he is often demeaned and made the object of stupidity. All the movies, commercials, popular anything and the man is an ignoramus who is not only dependent upon mom, but is often portrayed as dumber than the kids. He is there for provisions only. It's disgusting. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Ivanka Trump: Loving Wife, Mother, and DaughterIt's frickin' awesome. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 01:05 AM |
| 8 | Ivanka Trump: Loving Wife, Mother, and Daughter(Holy cow! I noticed your MAGA flair and loved it. I went to check out flair and imagine my joy upon seeing Pepe!! This is awesome!) Excellent speech (I could have done without the gender gap thing, though I completely understand why it was put in there) and excellent comment on your part. Fathers are so incredibly important in the lives of their children and it seems like so many people have forgotten that. I watch it in my own children every. single. day. and I think one of my worst fears is h… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!And I'm a bit ashamed I forgot to add this bit, sometimes from the bad, something better will be waiting for you on the other side. You just have to work for it and know what kind of work is required. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 12:17 PM |
| 2 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?Do you read Mike Cernovich? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!I hear you, but if it was all within our power it would leave out all of the wonderful, spontaneous things that happen we don't have control over. It definitely goes both ways. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 01:35 AM |
| 5 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?Ok. Makes sense. Now, what if part of the solution is vitriol because it is the only way to cut through the noise? (Please understand, I have no desire or time to argue about this. I am genuinely curious about your answer) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 08:33 PM |
| 7 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?How do you think Donald Trump's election will affect inter-sexual dynamics? Potentially, he could vastly change the dynamics. Men are are starting to come out of their shells because they no longer believe they are alone, or they no longer feel cowed. Though I attribute this more so to men like Milo than I do Trump. Trump could keep the wave going. Do you think feminists will double down on their positions, use Donald Trump as the ultimate example of "toxic masculinity", and resist him every ste… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 08:27 PM |
| 12 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?but he also has a large opportunity to inject it with unadulterated vitriol. What if I told you that this vitriol has been there for a very, very long time and Trump is the result of it, not the cause? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!We've been married for 17 years now. We've had some ups and downs. Some were completely outside our control and some were not. I think the key to getting through the lows is one's mindset. A mindset of, we are going to get through this together and we WILL come out the other side, no matter what the other side brings is huge. It allows you to keep yourself focused on the other side and not on the bottom. It makes the lows easier to manage and I think one comes out of them faster as well. We both… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 12:21 PM |
| 2 | NAWALT vs AWALTThat chart is awesome. And I agree about generalities. They are incredibly useful, but unfortunately it is where most women (and many men) get caught up. People should read an article and think, "Does this apply to me?" If not, then don't hamster about it. This was something that took me some time to figure out and I still struggle with it sometimes. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 07:52 PM |
| 4 | NAWALT vs AWALTThey are simply traits. There is nothing good or bad about them. There is only how we behave that is good or bad and it is the bad behavior that we should be trying to eliminate. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 07:50 PM |
| 3 | NAWALT vs AWALTLOL. Excellent. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!You're welcome. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!Is cutting someone off because they've expressed an attraction to you and are unwilling to stop making sexual comments towards you a reasonable thing to do? Without question it is a reasonable thing to do, most especially if you have a SO. You're not being mean in shutting him down. On the contrary, it is far more cruel to not shut it down because it gives him some hope. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 11:59 AM |
| 6 | Happy Friday!I didn't take any before pictures so there won't be anything to compare it to, but maybe I will. I have no idea how to use imagur as I don't usually put pictures on the internet. If I can figure it out, I'll try to take some pictures. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Moms Stay Home When Kids Enter Teen YearsWhen my kids were babies their pediatrician did this. I was a bit surprised by it at first, but she said she was just missing so much and that he three girls needed her at home. I was really impressed by this move. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Happy Friday!I'm refinishing my kitchen table and I'm hoping to start the polyurethane coats this weekend. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 02:19 PM |
| 6 | SMV and the Aging ProcessIt is going to get harder as you get older. But it keeps you motivated to continue to work hard and not get complacent. This is also where trust comes into play. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Clinton has repeatedly apologized, but apparently not enough for her accusers. Right, because when someone is accused of murder, an apology lets him off the hook. In droves, women are running away from the label feminist. This is why. Feminists think women are stupid enough to believe this tripe. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 06:32 PM |
| 5 | The Virulent Hatred of FemininityI didn't realize how far down a Voice for Men had gone. I never cared for that faction of the Manosphere, but I used to be quite familiar with the woman she has pictured there and I'm a bit surprised by the gender roles comment from her. I guess I shouldn't be. That was the direction they were headed in. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Sushi disaster (a bit melodramatic, but whatever)Get take out sushi and eat it at your house, just the two of you. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Had the ultrasound!Congratulations! We had two girls and then a boy. I wanted to have a boy first to be the eldest, but being the youngest? Boy is he learning A LOT about girls and how to deal with them. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Talked to my friend about relationship issues and now she won't stop pestering meShut this down NOW. one way or another. This woman is not being a friend to you in any way, shape or form. This has potential to turn very toxic. Shut. It. Down. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadHere's the cleaner. It definitely smells nicer than just plain vinegar but I haven't used it enough to see whether it really cleans better. My family hates the smell of vinegar so that is a plus. There is another lemon cleaner out there that I want to try, I just haven't gotten around to it yet | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadIt's so easy! You just use apples scraps (of course you can use a whole apple), some water and a tablespoon of sugar for a cup of water. Mix it all together and let it sit for a couple of weeks while mixing it everyday and removing anything that might get some mold on it. The link describes it all in detail, but all you are paying for is the sugar. Then you can let it sit and form a Mother and then add that to the next batch and it will make the vinegar even faster. This was one of my little exp… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 04:09 PM |
| 1 | The Something ElseI agree with this, but again, it's not the point of the article. There are many other articles out there that address this. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI made apple cider vinegar. I use this stuff quite a bit. I use it in my hair, I put it in water and I use it to make bone broth. The stuff is pretty expensive when you buy the high quality stuff but you can make it almost for free. It tastes far better then the good store bought stuff too. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The Something ElseThe point is not that there are other options. It's that White knight men who call these men who escape to the Xbox, porn, etc aren't all losers. Some of them are very pragmatic men who are simply responding to their surroundings. So, while the White Knights will call for these men to "Man Up" because they find fault with the men, what they are failing to see is that often times it's not loser men who are just being lazy. There are a lot of regular guys who are rationally responding to what is g… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/16 01:52 AM |
| 3 | The Something ElseHow is he when he comes home? Does he further retreat or is he genuinely happy to be there? | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 03:59 PM |
| 0 | The Something ElseNo one is telling them to indulge in this behavior. It is simply understanding why men do it. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/16 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Seeking advice about how to change my reactions/mentality to better benefit my marriage (as is).I agree with u/TempestTcup. Ask him again for the finances. Don't be accusatory, but play up to his strengths and your strengths. It's sounds like a division of labor that just makes sense. If it doesn't work and you have to live with this stress, I commend you for wanting to work through this and stay with this man anyway and more than that, I commend you for seeing what is good in him even though you are anxious about your finances. Here I again, I agree with Tempy. You are very likely beating… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Well done! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Date Night Megathread!We don't get to do this very often but when we go out just the two of us we usually go out for beer and wings wherein my husband makes me laugh my head off at anything he chooses. It is so much fun. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Advice on avoiding conflict within my family.Question 1. You can't change other people. The reason they were talking over you and posting this on Facebook in such a manner is that you threatened their views. You gave those views a legitimacy they don't want it to have. The best and easiest way for them to take down your views is to do exactly what they did because now, no one else will voice those same things around them. You can't stop them from thinking what they think, but you feeling bad about it comes from you and you alone. You don't… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 11:28 AM |
| 3 | 'Modern feminism ignores what women want' - BBC NewsLOL. Logic and math are too hard for women as well. You nasty men and your objective truth. It's so harsh and cruel and it takes away all my ability to get rid of agency. You're so mean! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 05:08 PM |
| 2 | 'Modern feminism ignores what women want' - BBC NewsThank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 01:54 PM |
| 3 | 'Modern feminism ignores what women want' - BBC NewsGood God, why?!?! It doesn't need to be parsed because lunacy is all it is. Why would you do that to yourself? I just think it is absolutely hilarious that in the 70's and 80's women could do anything a man could do, but in that short short time, now we are too stupid and scared and need to be protected. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 01:54 PM |
| 7 | 'Modern feminism ignores what women want' - BBC NewsI can't get the video to play but this is related Feminists think women and minorities are too stupid to understand the scientific method: Throughout her dissertation, Parson assumes and asserts that women and minorities are uniquely challenged by the idea that science can provide objective information about the natural world. This is an unfair assumption, she says, because the concept of objectivity is too hard for women and minorities to understand. “[N]otions of absolute truth and a single re… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Be His Soft Place to LandThat's hilarious! I just popped my chicken spaghetti in the oven for dinner tonight. My husband asked what we were having and got a pure caveman look on his face when I told him. It was awesome. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 10:30 PM |
| 10 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!So true I can attest to the truth of this, personally | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 09:41 PM |
| 8 | It feels impossible to NOT be swept up by my feelings.This is another way to say what u/BelleScarletta said. Accept your feelings. They are what they are. Don't push them away because they will only resurface with a vengeance. Rather, back up and take a look at how you are feeling and why. Then try to see it from another perspective. Over time, this gets easier and easier and faster and faster. It will go from the length of a shower to only a few seconds, to, for most instances, almost instantaneous. Things will still happen from time to time. Don'… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Laundry Questionu/mabeol beat me to it. Try the vinegar. It works really well. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Be His Soft Place to LandChicken pot pie. I just put in in one large casserole pan and top it with puff pastry. Chicken Spaghetti Casserole White mac and cheese I make this more kid friendly by switching the amounts of fontina and mozzarella. I also use penne pasta rather than egg noodles. Pot roast: stick a chuck roast in the crock pot with beef broth, tomato past, salt, thyme and garlic powder. For left overs, slice it up on good bread (I make sourdough bread and it's perfect) with some cheese, BBQ sauce, and mayo and… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 10:11 PM |
| 2 | SolipsismIt might be good parenting skills to develop for later on These absolutely are good parenting skills. When I am able to do these things, the difference in my kids behavior is amazing and my own happiness? So much higher. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 11:01 AM |
| 2 | SolipsismGame them. LOL. Amused mastery, frame, all that stuff. Frankly, I usually find it easier to just sit and listen (well half listen) because I always forget to do these others things. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/10/16 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Be His Soft Place to LandI love this. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Be His Soft Place to LandI see. With option one, you are still completing all the tasks that need to be completed, only you aren't focused on each task itself. Your focus is to be his support. So not only are you accomplishing everything you set out to accomplish, but you also meet the higher goal of being that soft place. It's actually a higher and more difficult goal, so when it is met, the sense of accomplishment is even higher. However, this is absolutely nothing compared to hearing your husband grunt because the me… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 09:38 PM |
| 4 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!LOL, internalizing misogyny is the best. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Be His Soft Place to LandOption 2 has a lot more ego gratification than option one. OK. Why? Or, what are the ego boosts that you get from one? | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Be His Soft Place to LandIt's all about one's goals. While Jenny was at the farm and the older woman at the store, their goals, their minds, their demeanor, was not on support of their husband. Yes, they were there to help. But they were there to get a job done and that is where their focused was and it was beating them down. If these women had to be at the store or work on the farm, first, there are always ways to finagle work responsibilities around to make it easier for either of them to get home and make it a place … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 12:52 PM |
| 11 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!I don't care. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Be His Soft Place to LandThank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | SolipsismYou're welcome. It might not specifically answer your questions, but I hope it will help. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 08:37 PM |
| 2 | SolipsismI wrote about a being soft place to land at the old reddit and thought I had also posted it here. I checked and it's not here. I'll put up that up here in a few minutes. It should be a good place to start. Please ask questions if it's not quite what you're looking for. I'll link back when I get it up. EDIT: Here it is | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 08:04 PM |
| 2 | SolipsismHalf the time when people are talking I'm already composing my "empathy story" to have ready when s/he finishes Yeah, I do this, too. It's a difficult thing to stop doing, but I do think some people, particularly women, like the empathy story. With DH at least I feel comfortable enough to ask "are you just wanting me to listen right now or do you want sympathy/solutions?" This is so nice to be able to do and I think men appreciate it. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 01:46 PM |
| 3 | SolipsismLet me tell you about my own experience with solipism. I love it here. ;) I am not comparable to the average man. Precisely. This, "we are all the same except our plumbing" business was harmful to both sexes. Why would we want to be the same? It's the stark differences that make men so damn appealing. I never want to take that away. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:38 AM |
| 3 | SolipsismAh, NAWALT. Yes. And I don't think it's usually meant to reassure the guy. It's usually said to put oneself above the competition. DEE What's this? | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:35 AM |
| 5 | SolipsismI've never meant it to be self-centered I think this is how most women are. We're just doing what we think is right, but what we think is right is to treat our man like we would treat another woman. Do other women view this as narcissistic when a woman they are speaking to does this? Not usually. You can usually tell when the woman is being narcissistic vs when she is just trying to help make you feel better and the latter can be a real comfort. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:34 AM |
| 3 | SolipsismI would argue that only real way to lose in life is to stop trying, because even failures can teach us. Amen | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:33 AM |
| 5 | SolipsismI've embraced what women are I really appreciate this sentiment. A lot. However . . . Just do you is the equivalent of, "Just be yourself!" and we all know how well that works out. Women today are not a true representation of our feminine capabilities and we should ALL expect more from women. Especially when our culture encourages women to embrace and celebrate the very worse aspects of ourselves and then goes on to tell us that the best aspects of ourselves are weak and bordering on disgusting.… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Solipsismeven though not doing so can feel as if you're not helping at all. One of the hardest things I learned in RP is that sometimes not doing anything, or not feeling like you're helping, is the biggest help of all. It truly makes us step away from ourselves to be able to give our SO's exactly what they need. To fight the anxiety it's producing and succeed anyway, to then be able to step back and see that helping in the way HE needs the help and not in a way that makes us comfortable is quite a fight… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Femininity MovesI'm big fan of, "Jerk!" and the arm slap. The look I always get in response is priceless. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 08:12 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3It's not the area that makes it a home. It's who you're with. Repeat this as many times as necessary to yourself throughout the day, then GO EXPLORE. It might not be your ideal place, but make the effort to find some ideal things about the place where you are. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 02:02 PM |
| 2 | RP Friendly Blog - The Modern Day 50s HousewifeI don't really know where "here" is so it's hard for me to say. I can tell you that kids don't have to be as expensive as a lot of people will tell you they are, especially when they are babies. But each country is different and even from state to state the cost of living changes drastically. Even if you can't be a stay at home mom and you have to work, you still don't have to devote your life to your work. You can have a job, help with the finances and still devote your life to your family. The… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 11:13 AM |
| 3 | What's In Your Bag?!Wallet, pencil, a couple of pocket knives (I grew up with men who always had a knife handy. One gets used to that and then gets frustrated when there is not a knife readily handy), rosaries, extra monthly accessories, and a whole bunch of old receipts and grocery lists (though I am getting better about keeping it cleaned out than I used to be). That's it. I put off carrying a purse for years and years because I hated it. It's still not my favorite thing so I keep it sparse. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 03:31 PM |
| 5 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Your not intruding and if you get something from here then you belong. I hope you stick around and comment. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 11:35 AM |
| 4 | RP Friendly Blog - The Modern Day 50s HousewifeI read her manifesto ("About Me" section). I just read it. I cried. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 11:26 AM |
| 7 | RP Friendly Blog - The Modern Day 50s HousewifeWhy can't you just do it anyway? Society meaning the pressure, or is it a money thing? | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 11:18 AM |
| 4 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3I think this is very cool. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 05:43 PM |
| 3 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3You should consider doing a field report yourself. People shy away from them because they think their progress is too small or that they don't have a major epiphany and it's not worth sharing, but progress is progress and field reports help everyone improve. You might get advice for something that you are struggling with or motivation to keep working through something difficult. We all LOVE field reports, no matter how small people thing they are. It can be difficult to write down your failures … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 01:06 PM |
| 3 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Welcome! Field reports are my favorite. I get the best warm fuzzies. Sometimes even a few tears. :) How are the changes coming along? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 11:05 AM |
| 5 | A bit overwhelmed and struggling to meet the feminine idealI don't have a lot of time this morning, but I can somewhat sympathize. I had three kids in three years, we homeschool and I try to keep up to standards. The first thing you absolutely must realize is, you cannot do it all. In trying to do it all, you aren't doing much of anything. I did this as well and it is incredibly demoralizing. You get so overwhelmed that you just sit down and do nothing. Then you feel even worse. Am I close? My kids are older now and I have gotten better with these thing… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 12:05 PM |
| 3 | ..."he is a creature of the feminists’ own self-righteous making."When you can't tell the difference between a troll job and real life, somethings gotta change. Hence, the Alt-Right and Donald Trump. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 03:48 PM |
| 17 | ..."he is a creature of the feminists’ own self-righteous making."I am an unreconstructed woman who grieves at the passing of the "wolf whistle" era. Yes. I shout out loud if a man stands up or rushes to open the door for me. YES!. I look a man straight in the eye, smile brightly and say, "Thank you!" whenever this happens. I love it! I literally pine for compliments from men. To be told that I looked beautiful or that my outfit was sexy would keep me on a high for weeks. YES I had a greeter tell me in Walmart a few weeks ago that my skirt and shirt were beaut… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Homemaking question!Thank you! I am brand new to essential oils and need to take more time to learn about them. I look forward to reading the links you left. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Homemaking question!You can get an oil diffuser. They don't smell like chemicals at all but what I've noticed is they don't really settle into your home. They smell good while running but it doesn't last. You can also make your own sprays with these same oils. I haven't tried that yet, but the glass containers to try it just came in the mail yesterday. :) You can make linen sprays and air sprays. I'm hoping these things will have more staying power. I'll be trying mine today or tomorrow. I'll let you know how it wo… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 05:48 PM |
| 4 | How to handle salty/judgemental comments about my relationship?Agree and amplify is an excellent way to address these things. It takes the edge off, makes everyone laugh and gets the point across. I'm not very good at this, but hopefully you will get the point: "Are you sure you're at that stage yet?" Are you kidding? I wax his back hair so I think this is ok. (This might be regarded as disrespectful to some men and not others, so you have to be careful). "You're throwing your life away if you spend it pleasing a man." Pssshhhhh. Making sandwiches IS my lif… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 12:56 PM |
| 12 | Why I returned to work (the long version)After almost three years of making my husband my whole world and really not being happy, I realized I had to create my own word and at the same time make my husband the center of that world. I love this. What a great way to describe it. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 01:05 AM |
| 8 | Inspiration for cooking and marriage!One of the things I love most about Jeffrey is that he thinks I still look like this!!! Ah wife google. Glorious, glorious wife goggles. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Inspiration for cooking and marriage!Thanks! LOL | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadOoh. I'm showing this to my kids. They love to bake! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/09/16 12:06 PM |
| 9 | My heart's broken for my blue pill parents.I was just going to say basically the same thing. You take the red pill and then you start to see it everywhere. You start to understand things that were just a tickle in your brain before and now it's like an explosion and you want to share it; you want to help. But you won't help, at least very few because most people just don't want it. They are more comfortable in what they know. Be for your dad what you know he deserves. But you can't change your mom and you can't make your dad see how he i… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Routine HappinessThat's part of it. Part of it is that it's easiest to do these things when my husband is home, but I'd rather hang out with him. The other part is, when I do it when he's not home the kids are like, "Mom. WHAT'S ALL OVER YOUR FACE," or, "What the heck are you DOING?!" And it's every time like they haven't seen it before. It's a silly reason but I just don't want to hear it every time. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Routine HappinessI don't know why it feels like a task but I can rarely get in the right state of mind about it. I'm the same. I just don't enjoy it. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.That's the worst. It feels like everything will crumble around you (but it never does. Which is actually frustrating when you're sick. It's weird). I hope you feel better. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.it is so easy to focus on little things that are not going well and ignoring the big wonderful life backing you up. And when you start to look at that big wonderful life backing you up, 99% of those little things just seem to disappear. And that 1% of the time they pop up? It's usually because you're too tired, hungry, busy, etc to see the big thing. When the big thing pops back onto your radar again, those little things go back by the wayside where they belong. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 11:13 AM |
| 4 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.I'm dying. Well done, stevierose. Well done. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationThanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationOh my goodness. I've been so sick of food lately and that just might bring me back from the brink! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationI'm here all night! And I'll just fix those apostrophes. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationOooh. May I have a link to that Keto recipe, please? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationThis is a brilliant post. Well done! I think it needs to be said that just because your friend's cousin's boyfriend's mother (or even just your friend), got a relationship out of sex or she waited for 10 years and they finally married, that it's going to happen to you. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:02 PM |
| 3 | My SO sees me as Bridezilla!Ah. Ok. That makes more sense. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 02:39 PM |
| 3 | My SO sees me as Bridezilla!Serious question. Why are they grabbing their nuts? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How Not To Rape [Trigger Warning: Condescending And Awkward Millennials]Precisely. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:30 AM |
| 7 | What's in a Name?I'm dying! A good friend of mine, her first name rhymes perfectly with her last name and both have the same number of syllables. When he husband introduced us to her, they both just got a bit of a goofy smile on their faces and looked cute about it. It ended up being rather charming. But this is just cute. Some of those names . . . What the heck were the parents thinking? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How Not To Rape [Trigger Warning: Condescending And Awkward Millennials]I literally started to feel nauseous. It was so bad. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:23 AM |
| 3 | How Not To Rape [Trigger Warning: Condescending And Awkward Millennials]You get me so much. tear | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:22 AM |
| 6 | How Not To Rape [Trigger Warning: Condescending And Awkward Millennials]No . . . . No. I couldn't do it. I got about a minute and a half in. I had to make. it. stop. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Hello, RPWives! It's Friday (or Saturday) night - what are you having for dinner?We had company tonight that we spent the afternoon with. Since they were coming over for dinner afterward, I put this together yesterday and then just stuck it in the oven today. I use puff pastry instead of the homemade crust and just put that on this morning and stuck it in the fridge until we got home. We eat it pretty often in the winter. My husband loves it! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | New and ScaredWelcome. Don't worry about being scared. I think it's natural. Stick around and ask lots and lots of questions and you will learn a lot. we won't pull our punches with you but if you just continue to ask for clarifications you will like it here and people will take a lot of time to explain things. Best of luck! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.When my toddler fell down the stairs I was terrified of CPS questions. The doctor said to me, hey, mine fell down the stairs at that age too. It happens. No one is going to come talk to you about it. I was so relieved. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 05:56 PM |
| 7 | I have a question about self harm scars.Good for you. Let this attitude naturally shine through and he will be less inclined to run away. But as others have said, be accepting if he does. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 02:42 PM |
| 5 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.I use Kids in Mind all the time. Common Sense media is ok when the movie isn't listed at Kids in Mind but not nearly so detailed. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 01:04 AM |
| 8 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.without fear This is typically the problem in my experience. There is no fear so that exploration can turn into a very nasty fall. I don't want to argue with you about baby gates. Merely give you something to consider. I caught my kids countless times as they nearly tumbled down the stairs while they were trying to work them out. They were never scared and always over confident. Now, this is only three children out of the millions out there, and other kids might be different, but one cannot alwa… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 12:56 AM |
| 10 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.The baby gate gives you time to get there before they tumble down the stairs and yes, of course they have depth perception. BUT, they want to try to walk down the stairs like mommy and daddy when they need to crawl down backwards and they often will try to do this when you have your back turned for just a moment. And this is all it takes. I know. I spent an evening in the emergency room with one of my little ones when she fell down the stairs. It was horrible. I've never seen a baby try to climb… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 11:47 PM |
| 10 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.I gotta ring in on the baby proofing. It can go to absolute absurdity, but there is common sense in there as well. Yes, kids are smarter than many give them credit for but they also want to test their abilities. Stairs are a huge temptation and you really can't keep your eyes on them 24/7. Common sense will get you far with this one. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions!They're not blackheads. They are red spots that look like tiny whiteheads that dry up and are gone the next day, only for new ones elsewhere. I think it's probably what u/blushinglilly said and my moisturizer is too strong for that area. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!Heh, I don't use eye makeup remover. I just wash it off. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 06:53 PM |
| 5 | Simple Questions!This makes a lot of sense. Thank you. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!I have a skin care related question. I keep getting these tiny pimples around the corner and under my eyes. They aren't milia. They usually dry out and go away overnight only for new ones to appear the next day. I can't figure out what is causing them or how to get rid of them. When I google it I keep getting milia so it's no help. Does anyone know what these are and how to get rid of them? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 12:10 PM |
| 3 | The Case Against Female Self-EsteemWhat do mean by it being difficult to pull off Feministic environment is one small reason. Women who are feminine are often derided. But more than that, we are taught from day one that to be a strong independent woman it must look like how a man does it. To break out of this mold is not only scary, but we have few women to look at as roll models on how to do it. Is it possible to learn this sort of female confidence? I don't think it is possible to learn the confidence, but a woman can learn how… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 10:56 PM |
| 5 | The Case Against Female Self-EsteemLet me see if I can explain. . . . I remember when I was growing up it was a huge thing that when a man at work was forward or confronted a problem head on he was seen as confident and dominant and applauded for it, but when a woman did this she was seen as a bitch. It was lauded as a huge meme for feminism and how dare women be seen as a bitch. BUT, when women try to act like a man in this situation, the reality is, people WILL see her as a bitch. A man can be forward, self assured, and even co… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Goodbye ?!Oh, I know you didn't mean to imply that. My point was the same as yours. There are lots of pro-women posts here. If she isn't looking for them or not finding them, that is not on us. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Goodbye ?!I suggest you search through the sub because I personally have submitted a multitude of pro femininity posts. I think most of the EC have, not to mention the mods. There are loads of them. But when femininity is looked down upon by the beholder and only women attempting masculine strength is looked at as a positive, then it cannot be seen. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 09:22 PM |
| 9 | The Case Against Female Self-EsteemA woman with excessive confidence is like a man with a vagina. This is the very heart of the entire article. Women absolutely FREAKED when this article first came out because we have all been taught since infancy that self esteem is the Holy Grail. Only when women think self esteem they begin to act like men. Not like women with feminine confidence. Quite frankly a woman with feminine confidence had the courage to be vulnerable and this is what men find so attractive in a woman. Or, in other wor… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 06:06 PM |
| 9 | Goodbye ?!I feel like This is what is hindering you. Not us. You haven't been here long enough or stepped back far enough from your own feelings to understand what we are about. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:37 PM |
| 3 | The Case Against Female Self-EsteemLOL! I love that you posted this. I remeber when this came out and people absolutely freaked. Matt had his bot out (can't remember the bots name) to mess around with the SJWs who commented on it. It had over a thousand comments if I remeber correctly. I'm too tired to reread it and comment tonight but again, I love that you put this up here. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Captain second guesses me and I can't help but feel resentfulWhen done right it works like a charm! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Captain second guesses me and I can't help but feel resentfulThere isn't a detailed post on Game as it has been hashed out on dozens of websites over man years and could never all be put into one post. There is just too much information and too much nuance to ever be put into one post. To get the best feel for Game or the Red Pill you best bet is to put up a post with a specific question or to ask questions in the next "Simple Questions" post. Most of us here enjoy answering these Red Pill questions and would be happy to help, but they need to be started … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Captain second guesses me and I can't help but feel resentfulI thought A&A was more guy game than girl game. It is more guy game. It increases attraction in women toward the guy. For girls, it might not increase attraction, but it keeps it light when you are wanting to get mad. It makes you both laugh and it takes the air out of your own sails. If it works, then do it. Don't think of it as Game, but as a technique that will get you what you both want. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 01:40 PM |
| 7 | Captain second guesses me and I can't help but feel resentfulOne question, have you messed up little things in the past where it is rational for him to think you might need help? There are certain things my husband will help me with because I failed miserably in the past with them. I don't necessarily need help any more because I learned from it, but I don't say anything to him because it makes sense that he wants to make sure so I just let it go. However, if this is not the case, I would take a page out of Game and do something like agree and amplify. He… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 01:32 PM |
| 3 | new here, looking for advice or other wives with similar experience, can my husband changeNot like I have to do literally everything for him and tell him what to do. Like what? And why? Just stop telling him how to do things and stop doing everything for him. That is easier for me to type than for you to do, I'm sure. But chances are pretty good that if you step back and let him do these things, he will. They might not be done how you want them to be, but they will be done. There was a thread awhile back about how some women are married to easy going guys. Maybe you are married to on… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Inaugural Caption Challenge!!!!Wears cologne for new marriage/ DUTCH OVEN!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 07:56 PM |
| 2 | RPW Pregnancy and Motherhood Survey ResultsI did natural child birth three times but my labors were relatively easy. Yes, it hurt and it hurt quite a lot, but I knew without question I would not be using pain medication unless medically necessary. I had my mind made up. No waffling which made it easier. Frankly I was terrified of of having an epidural. You don't remember the completeness of the pain when you go in for labor again so that also helped. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 04:02 PM |
| 11 | About pregnancy, childbirth, and new babiesMy kids are older now, but here are two tricks I learned after my kids were out of their cribs but wish I had known a lot earlier. Buy extra crib sheets and an extra waterproof crib pad. Put one crib pad down, then a sheet then put the extra pad down with a sheet over that. Then, one your baby had a blow out in the middle of the night, you don't have to change any sheets. You just have to pull the top ones off. Put toddles/littles extra fitted sheet and regular sheet inside one of their pillow c… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/16 03:29 PM |
| 2 | [DISCUSSION] Let's share our housekeeping routines!Ooooh, I hadn't seen that and it sounds right my alley. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 07:31 PM |
| 11 | [DISCUSSION] Let's share our housekeeping routines!Laundry daily. Walk around the house. See how dirty everything is. Aw crap, the floor needs to be vacuumed! Darnit, the kitchen is a mess. Man, the bathrooms! Mopping? Crap! Dusting? That too?! Get overwhelmed, maybe do one thing on the list while I spend the day doing a whole bunch of other things that also need to be done, then one day get a bug in my bonnet and try to get it all done at once while getting mad at the kids for leaving their towels on their bedroom floors and their shoes spread … | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 05:16 PM |
| 5 | [First post] We're in the midst moving madness and I a few questions for you allwhich makes it harder to deal with. I get this. Been there done that. You're making a type of covert contract that you will do some work and then get praised for it. I'm a words of affirmation gal so I understand. Here's the thing, when you do these things simply because they have to be done, and that is your goal, it doesn't hurt any more. And let me tell you also, when that is your goal and THEN you get those words of affirmation (because they will come when you least expect it) man oh man, wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 11:51 AM |
| 2 | [First post] We're in the midst moving madness and I a few questions for you allIt's not about the nail. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 12:35 AM |
| 1 | [First post] We're in the midst moving madness and I a few questions for you allI know how hard it is having no friends or family around to help and to just have to soldier on. It's not easy, but you will get through it, come out the other side, and be stronger for it. I hope it goes quickly and smoothly for you from here on out. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/08/16 08:27 PM |
| 5 | RPWi weekly reflectionsThis is RedPillWives. Are you sure you're in the right place? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/08/16 08:25 PM |
| 6 | [First post] We're in the midst moving madness and I a few questions for you allshould I suck it up more? Well, yes. It's not going to be easy, but keep telling yourself that it is going to be over. This is something that has an end in sight and one that is not too far off. Do I have the right to be this stressed/butthurt? The right? No, not really. Is it understandable? Yes, but depending on how much organizing your husband has done with a toddler around my guess is he just doesn't understand how hard it can be and it's not something that you are going to be able to explai… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/08/16 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Shit Post...Sunday!Because it's true | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/16 10:24 PM |
| 4 | [Newspaper] 1856-02-21 - The Wife (Livingston Republican, NY)Lovely and I'm not saying that sarcastically. I wish we hadn't removed earned from our vocabulary. It is such a better word than deserve. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Research-Based Wedding Vows; What do you think?Eesh, I picture my husband saying any of these things to me in seriousness and I feel slightly sick. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Where you do even find Alpha RedPill'd Men?You said you're driven and ambitious. This is going to lower your pool of men because there are going to be far fewer men who are going to attract you. Also, the men whom you are going to find attractive, these days, far fewer of them are looking for a relationship. I would suggest looking for a man who is at least 10 years older than you, if not more, who has "sown his wild oats" or done his thing and is ready to settle down. You do come across as driven and standoffish. Keep in mind that this … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: RPWi is not "one size fits all"The long hair, no tattoos, etc are obviously not hard and fast rules. However, when young and single and searching for a man, they open the doors to the largest number of men because this is what most men are looking for. But when you already have a man, then you do what he likes, because obviously men will be different and you're not out to attract other men, just keep the man attracted that you already have. So, never feel like an outcast or an idiot for not fitting into to every nuance that w… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/16 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvement DiscussionA thought, you don't need to be on Facebook or any of those other things. I understand the desire to do so, but be aware of the downsides (Full disclosure, I'm not on Facebook but never have been but I've had a blog and know the draw) these things become literally addicting. You will hop on "for only 15 minutes" only to find hours have gone by. As I understand it all the other social medias can be the exact same way. Also, even with the privacy settings, it's on the internet and someone somewher… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/16 01:02 PM |
| 3 | GK Chesterton's "The Emancipation of Domesticity" And A General Discussion On Positive Female TraitsI just found this quote by him, "The act of defending any of the Cardinal Virtues has today all the exhilaration of a vice." Excellent. I've said before that we are the new rebels. Traditionalism, RPW, the alt-right, the manosphere and there are many more. I like the way he says it much better. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/16 12:42 PM |
| 2 | GK Chesterton's "The Emancipation of Domesticity" And A General Discussion On Positive Female TraitsThat's fantastic news. I wonder what the miracles are? | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/16 12:33 PM |
| 4 | GK Chesterton's "The Emancipation of Domesticity" And A General Discussion On Positive Female TraitsShe should have not one trade but twenty hobbies; she, unlike the man, may develop all her second bests.. . . . Women were not kept at home in order to keep them narrow; on the contrary, they were kept at home in order to keep them broad. This is a fascinating observation and I think very true. I like what he says later about the fact that this being drudgery is basically unfathomable to him. I do not deny that women have been wronged and even tortured; but I doubt if they were ever tortured so … | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/16 12:39 AM |
| 3 | How to Become a Homemaker: Intro & Step 1Excellent. I've been a homemaker for almost 12 years and I could still use this series. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Your "Daily Dose of Drama"See for recipes, it's never bothered me when someone didn't like it because it's not mine. I can just go find another recipe. Plus, I don't want people eating food they hate, but something to do with me? Something that is mine? It hurts, but that doesn't mean I don't need to improve. We all suck at some things. Why not try to make them suck less? | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 07:34 PM |
| 5 | If you can't handle me at my worst.....Comics are such a great way to paint reality. When your best sucks, it's not other people, it's you. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Your "Daily Dose of Drama"Also, you are right. I love that my husband does not shy from telling me what I need to hear. It is one of the things I love most about him, even when it hurts a little bit. I can trust him to tell me what I need to hear. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Your "Daily Dose of Drama"See, I'm L and I think it has to do with not wanting to ever submit to a man who is not manly enough for me to respect him. It's awful because these men do things worthy of respect, but when they pedestatlize women, or worse, me it brings out this horrible thing in me and I have to constantly battle it. It's basic shit testing really. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 07:00 PM |
| 6 | Your "Daily Dose of Drama"Some drama is fun and some is downright destructive and I think it is the wise women who learns the difference right quick so as to not confuse the two. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Your "Daily Dose of Drama"I get on the internet for my drama. Here (though not nearly so much as before) and another website I read daily. I find I don't need as much drama in my life as I get older and actively avoid it far more than I used to. As to my husband, when I get in the drama mode with him he just looks at me and says, "Shhhhhh". It's hilarious! As u/BellaScarletta said, he just doesn't care about this. Something I'm ashamed of? When I get around men who annoy me, I can get into drama with them, especially whe… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Why We Must DiscriminateAnd the glasses . . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Why We Must DiscriminateI don't know. I think a lot of large corporations could just get rid of a whole lot of unnecessary positions. cough Human resources cough | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 04:20 PM |
| 5 | In one or two sentences, what is the best relationship advice you have received?It changed my outlook on marriage more than any other thing. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 12:28 PM |
| 9 | In one or two sentences, what is the best relationship advice you have received?Be grateful. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Why We Must DiscriminateNo, you were clear. I reread your comment and thought, d'oh! She already made this clear. I got caught up on one sentence in your comment. I really just meant to draw the analogy that if a woman is qualified, she should get the job based on that merit. Ah, I see. I misunderstood. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Why We Must DiscriminateBecause there is no such thing as feminine nature (unless there is a sinking ship) and women are being oppressed since birth to not actually want to be in STEM. It's not like women can actually make a sound decision for themselves and what career they want to be in or stand up to systemic oppression from the menz. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Why We Must DiscriminateI'm going to play devils advocate here for a moment. Right now, companies are not free to choose. They must meet quotas. So, what do you think of their freedom to choose the person they wish to have for the job regardless of quotas? That would lead to fewer women being chosen for the same reason they were years ago. Child rearing, maternity leave, more absences from work, etc. Also, as to the military thing, what about how men react to women, even those 0.0001% who might make it past real traini… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Why We Must DiscriminateBut of course. . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Why We Must DiscriminateI think it's a fantastic article and it will be fun! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Why We Must DiscriminateLOL!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Why We Must DiscriminateIs it wrong to make popcorn? | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 07:32 PM |
| 5 | RP Guy Needs AdviceBalance, Lifter. It is the most difficult thing to find right now but that's what to strive for. Don't over compensate because you will drive yourself crazy in the opposite direction. Balance. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 11:10 AM |
| 8 | RP Guy Needs AdviceIt seems an ironic fact of life is that children often kill marriages and then keep them on life support. This doesn't have to be and I'm not sure it really is natural beyond the first several months (during those first months, time and lack of energy really is against this). I would be willing to bet your wife misses all of the fun flirty stuff too. It is likely she feels pressured more to mother from people around her, she's forgotten how to do it and also that she might not feel like she shou… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Thank You, and Good Luck /u/LifterofThings!Congratulations, Lifter. I'm so happy for you! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/16 07:23 PM |
| 6 | “Back Then...But Now”No problem, CQ. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/16 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Advice neededI second the gratitude journal, or at least take hard mental notes. When I started to pay closer attention to everything my husband did and why he did it, I was shocked at how much I was not seeing. I was also shocked at how much I misunderstood his reasons for doing a lot of things. It so easy to get stuck on those things we want them to do that we miss what they are already doing. In that same vein, we get so stuck on them doing things the "right way" that it is so easy to forget that there ar… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/16 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Advice neededIt will be hurtful to hear these things from your husband. We are all taught that our husbands should love us as we are. But, what if what we are is not the very best self we can be? What if his courage in tell you these things brings out the very best in you and he is with you and encouraging you and helping you every step of the way? He's done the first step. He had the backbone to tell you exactly what he wants. Tell him you want to do these things and ask him for his help. Let him help you b… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Advice neededOk, you don't like the Captain/First Mate option. After reading the comments, I understand why. I get the impression that you get defensive with your husband. You are trying to maintain control. Only, this need to maintain control undermines him and he finds it highly disrespectful. Pick one thing that you know you do that he doesn't like. For example, there was something about how he handles the children. Don't undermine him when he parents. You might not like the decision he makes, but it does… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 09:51 PM |
| 5 | PassivityI want to find the confidence to get over this sense of injury and live, actively. I think you need to slow down a bit (I speak from experience here) and when something happens that makes you angry, give yourself time to think. You did this the other day and had the time to not get passive aggressive, but to make yourself behave as you once did and it worked out beautifully. The more you practice, the more easily it will come to you and the more your confidence will grow. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/16 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Curse Like a Lady (ahem, close but not quite)I wonder how many of the same women who say this like to opine about how a real man x,y,z. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/16 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Curse Like a Lady (ahem, close but not quite)The comments . . . . one says something like, what is more ladylike than having a vagina? | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/16 12:04 PM |
| 2 | "I'm 50 today. This is what I know." Dr. Jen GunterWTH? facepalm | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 01:37 AM |
| 7 | "I'm 50 today. This is what I know." Dr. Jen GunterGood God, I looked up something called vagina steaming and I can never unknow that that is a thing ..... | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?I can almost guarantee that your husband has never thought that you have let him down. I understand why you feel that way, but understand that he would likely be very surprised and feel terrible that you feel this way. Not terrible in the sense that he would be upset with you that you do have these feelings, but terrible for you. I'm so sorry you are going through this. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 01:38 AM |
| 8 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Complacency | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Don’t say yes to a dress, say yes to traditionBut my flowers were better . . . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/16 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Don’t say yes to a dress, say yes to traditionand there is nothing wrong with wanting really pretty really fun big party gravy Agreed. But women have to let it BE fun. Not turn it into a status fest of my flowers are bigger than your flowers. Who the heck cares? They're FLOWERS. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/16 01:22 PM |
| 5 | Don’t say yes to a dress, say yes to traditionI just went to his site for the first time in quite awhile and learned that I can use urine to fertilize my garden! Ew and fascinating. I'm buying his book very soon. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/16 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Don’t say yes to a dress, say yes to traditionLOL. I thought maybe you all were neighbors or something. That would have been cool. You know, small world and all. It' weird making internet connections and then you talk to someone who knows someone from a basically, unrelated site. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Don’t say yes to a dress, say yes to traditionYou know him personally?! That's so awesome! He's one commenter I always read. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Don’t say yes to a dress, say yes to traditionReally good post. I gotta ask, do you know David the Good? I've been reading his comments elsewhere for years. Also, I need to buy his composting book. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 10:07 PM |
| 2 | My Journey into Womanhood.That whole scene was like watching a train wreck. I wanted so badly for it to be over but it was fascinating at the same time. I wanted to throw my computer across the room reading that. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 01:56 PM |
| 5 | My Journey into Womanhood.I think it's recommended reading for the parts you talk about above, Dagney is beautiful and she's not afraid to be beautiful. But how she reacts to being dominated, not shying away from it but embracing it. Enjoying how it makes her feel and accepting it whole heartedly and unashamedly. But also, how Rand describes the politicians and people who are in the government and for the government in that book are amazingly accurate. Almost prophetic. It is very much how feminists and SJWs especially t… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/16 09:38 PM |
| 6 | My Journey into Womanhood.It would be nice if someone could please tell me more about the concepts in this book. The is SO much in that book. I'm more than a third through it and her descriptions of human nature border on the profound. Can you be more specific on what concepts you wish to learn more about? And welcome. I'm very glad that things here have helped you become who you want to be. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/16 06:55 PM |
| 10 | In a feminists ideal world, no one should judge you on a lack of groomingI remember taking one of those "extra" classes in college we all had to take for credits and there was a discussion one day about this. Most of the girls in the class were complaining about this. I raised my hand and stated that I liked to wear makeup. It makes me feel good to wear it. Besides, it's not like men don't have to be presentable, wear a suit and shave and to their manly grooming things. You could have heard a pin drop and if looks could kill. I was sitting next to a friend of mine, a… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/07/16 06:33 PM |
| 17 | Nothing says Valentines Day like consent cards!!It might as well just say, "Get it over with and just next me." | /r/RedPillWives | 21/07/16 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsTannerite. You must try it. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/16 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Advice/thoughts on signing a prenuptial agreementYou've been together for 5 years. I don't need to know the answer, but in that time, have there been any red flags? I'd assume no major ones, since you want to marry him. The risk is there. I don't know if it's substantial or not. He's taking a risk as well. Now, I don't know who's taking the bigger risk because I don't know divorce law, but the bottom line is, is it worth it? You are putting yourself into his hands. Do you trust him enough to do this? If no, then you shouldn't marry him prenup … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/16 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Simple Questions + An AnnouncementI think it depends on the situation. For example, back when G. W. Bush was running for president and won, there weren't a few liberals going around saying, "I can't believe he won! I don't know one single person who voted for him!" That is solipsism. It disbelief because they cannot see at all beyond their own sphere. There can be situations where saying your wrong is correct, depending on the argument. Because people are often wrong. The problem lies when people are speaking in general terms an… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Simple Questions + An AnnouncementI'm trying to do this more. I had a problem with our learn mower recently. I got it stuck and couldn't get it out myself. I didn't want my husband to have to deal with it, so I called the place we got it from. They said they'd come out and told me the price. When the guy got here, he just drove it right out after some slight finagling and didn't charge me. I baked them some cookies to say thank you for getting me out of a tough spot and saving my husband a huge hassle. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 08:32 PM |
| 7 | Feminist Envy Of The BeautifulA hilarious photoshop of the same picture | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Feminism and Cultural MarxismRelated It was 1969. Kate invited me to join her for a gathering at the home of her friend, Lila Karp. They called the assemblage a "consciousness-raising-group," a typical communist exercise, something practiced in Maoist China. We gathered at a large table as the chairperson opened the meeting with a back-and-forth recitation, like a Litany, a type of prayer done in Catholic Church. But now it was Marxism, the Church of the Left, mimicking religious practice: "Why are we here today?" she asked… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 10:23 PM |
| 8 | [Insanity] Barefoot Contessa's latest book focuses on cooking meals that her husband enjoys...apparently this undermines her career and reputationI LOVE Ina Garten. Her recipes are amazing and I used to watch Barefoot Contessa all the time. She's such a calm person, yet she seems full of joy. Take a look at the photo on the cover of the cook book. She's leaning in, resting her cheek on her husband's shoulder. She look very happy. She looks like a woman in love. And look at his smile! I hate that this picture of her happy life, one in which she clearly likes to serve her husband is so demeaned by people who want to make such a big deal of … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Need some advice on my relationship/manWouldn't calling him an insecure little bitch be considered emotional abuse? For me but not for thee. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice on my relationship/manWhat's more important to you? Him or your reputation? Like u/TempestTcup said, you can't change him. You can only change yourself. If your reputation is more important to you, then move on. If not, you're going to have to change to keep him. You have to become the woman he wants and he will be willing to give up more for you. Even then, he's probably never going to be willing to give up everything you hope he would. If he did, you would never respect him. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice on my relationship/manPart . . . . You want help from us, presumably you want to make this work, how can we help you if you won't tell us what you're holding back? I tend to think there are some pretty important things you aren't telling us. As to your FB status and telling your family, he wants to be the first and most important person in your life. You made it clear to him that your reputation is more important than he is. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Need some advice on my relationship/manWe can't help you if you're not going to tell us what the "lot more" is. The festival thing is more than reasonable on his part. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 11:01 AM |
| 6 | Having trouble Surrendering, can I tailor the experience to suit our needs?What Tempest and cats said. You may find over time of doing this that his confidence increases. If this happens, the continue to slowly back off. Help him where you know he needs help and stand back when you know he doesn't. Hopefully over time, the former increases and the latter decreases. If not, keep doing what works in your own marriage and above all, keep working on your weaknesses. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/07/16 02:34 PM |
| 2 | What are your unpopular opinions?We have a Rott. He got sick once and I swear, when he farted, it removed the paint from our walls. We literally did have to leave the room. It was amazing. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/07/16 03:12 PM |
| 7 | What are your unpopular opinions?Hey . . . . THANKS! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/07/16 03:10 PM |
| 5 | What are your unpopular opinions?Hussy | /r/RedPillWives | 02/07/16 12:37 AM |
| 22 | What are your unpopular opinions?I think I've seen most of mine up here all ready, but I don't think this one's been mentioned yet. You don't get to dress like an object and then complain that men treat you like an object. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/07/16 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Let's Chat :)So, I have no idea what this will do to your extensions, I have ZERO experience with them, but I do have problems with an itchy scalp especially in the summer. What works for me is apple cider vinegar. I pour it on my head for about 30 minutes on days I'm washing my hair and then wrap it in a towel before I jump in the shower then use conditioner on it to "wash" it. It works really, really well. The kind with the "mother" in it works best, like Braggs. On days when it gets really bad, I will use… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/16 04:19 PM |
| 2 | MAY 2016 SUBMISSION CONTEST WINNERS!!Wow. Thank you all very much. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/16 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Is this supposed to be some version of the opposite of YXChromohomes?There is a link on the side bar that explains it very well. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/16 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Beauty, Fashion, and Makeup MegathreadThank you! I'm in the process of learning to coupon now. Not in the insane crazy way like that show that was on a while back, but to learn to save some good money and to stock up on highly used products. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/16 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Beauty, Fashion, and Makeup MegathreadThanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/16 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Beauty, Fashion, and Makeup MegathreadCan any one recommend a good facial sunscreen that doesn't reek of, well . . . sunscreen? I need to be outside a lot this summer and I won't be wearing makeup (the stuff I use has an SPF so I usually just go with that). I'm looking for something that's not really heavy and doesn't smell bad or at all. I'm not sure there is such a thing but I'm not at all knowledgable about this kind of thing. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 08:25 PM |
| 6 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldOf course anyone can hit anyone else, but a lot of women have literally forgotten that a man CAN hit and some WILL hit. Hell, I've done it myself by stupidly getting in between two men who were about to get into a fight. I could have gotten seriously hurt because I seriously believed it couldn't happen that I would get hit. The whole point was that these are things that women have forgotten and one example was that men CAN hit. Women being able to hit has nothing to do with the conversation. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 04:45 PM |
| 5 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the world"This" idea, not "your" idea. I wasn't talking about what you said. I was talking about the general consensus that "real men don't hit". Nothing about what you said. So no, it's not for the same reason. I'm not taking this personally. I'm trying to have a conversation about what CAN happen. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 04:38 PM |
| 9 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldSerious question. u/Sunhappy_DC says: Real men CAN hit women and you reply Nope, nope, nope, nope. She uses the word "can" which means "able to". Why do you conflate it with "should" which means "used to indicate obligation, duty, or correctness, typically when criticizing someone's actions"? No one is saying this is the "correct" thing to do. Only that it can happen and this idea that hitting then makes a man somehow not "real" is just stupid. It's like saying a woman who cries is not real. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldCan you give me an example or two? When a woman screams at, berates, slaps, hits, throws thing, spits, etc and men are just expected to walk away or take it. The example u/PhantomDream09 gave in her comment. There are more. Lots more. You asked what I think of when I think of war and such, this is what I think about. When you think about the Revolutionary War, the Civil War, WWI, and WWII, you think about the scant number of women who pretended to be men? Telling. I don't know about you Being an… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 03:29 PM |
| 10 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldGood people don't like the idea of others beating people who are weaker (man or woman, children, animals) than the "abuser" (used in quotes to differentiate who I am talking about since I fear that sentence doesn't make any sense). Of course. And today, bad people are taking advantage of this and using it to emasculate men's perfectly reasonable masculine responses that are NOT abuse. Historically, women had to pretend to be men to fight in wars. During the US Civil War there were many women who… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 01:11 PM |
| 6 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldBut this is all irrelevant. The details don't matter. Because in the world today a woman acting in a masculine way is praiseworthy. A man acting in a masculine way needs to apologize as is evident by your friend who stupidly thought he was serious. Why is it even ok for your friend to think him serious for any amount of time? Presumably, being a friend, this person knows you two? Why is it okay for this person to assume this and make you two feel awkward and not her feeling awkward for assuming … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 12:20 PM |
| 11 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldLast night my husband made some kind of joke about hitting me, then apologized and said "If I ever hit you, I expect you to leave me." I replied "Oh honey, I wouldn't have to leave you, because you'd be dead." He laughed and said "Atta girl." I'm going to break this down. Husband jokes about hitting wife and apologizes for it. Wife responds with death. She gets an "atta girl". Inevitably people will say, but she was joking. He was joking too. But with saying she will kill the husband, a highly m… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 11:20 AM |
| 0 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldI've been busy all day and couldn't take the time to partake of this thread as I should have and I'm too tired to do so now, but I just had to say . . . . BOOYA! Well done. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Wedding Stories!The best advice I can give you is to not stress out about it. Problems are going to arise and some people might have weird ideas or even insist on certain things. It's your wedding. You do what you two want and don't stress about what other people want. Don't stress about the small problems that come up. It's just a wedding and while it is important, it is not the most important. That is what comes afterward. It's the beginning of your marriage, not the only day. This will come through to your g… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/06/16 12:18 PM |
| 7 | June 2016 EventsIn the spirit of General Chat, I would like to say, I like the yellow flowers better than the pink. Pink is nice, but it was getting to be too much. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/16 08:25 PM |
| 3 | BBQ/potluck season is upon usMedium dice these: tomatoes avocado red, yellow, or orange pepper can of corn can of black beans rinsed cilantro limes (I think I'm forgetting something. I always do this from memory) Put these all in a bowl and then zest and juice the limes. I use two to three. Add salt to taste and eat with corn chips or by itself. It's a wonderful summer thing as it's fresh and delicious. *If I remember what might be missing I'll update later. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/16 01:20 PM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as PerfectIt's funny you say this. One of the things my husband says that he loves about me is that I help him to not take himself too seriously and I do that through the good natured teasing. These are some of the very best laughs we've had. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/16 11:50 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as PerfectThis family needs a peaceful, stable home now. and It helps me focus on reality Yes and for many women reality is helping one's husband and that translating into a better home and a happier family. As you know, but many, many do not, this is highly important. It's not nothing, it's not holding women everywhere back and it's not useless. Just because it can feel boring from time to time does not mean that it actually means nothing. You should take these two comments and write a post. They are tre… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/16 11:49 AM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as PerfectRead this comment by u/cats_or_get_out. Don't feel nervous about that. Marriage happens and in marriage there are always going to be tough times. I've fought with my husband. I'm not sure how you could be with someone for almost 20 years and not have disagreements. But, how one deals with these is key. Before RP, sometime we would really argue and I was TERRIBLE at it. Just terrible. I usually ended up walking away because it was just easier to shut down. Since RP, we still have disagreements an… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/16 11:49 AM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as PerfectFantastic comment. I want to add something, but really, there's nothing more to add. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/16 11:42 AM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as Perfectand could function as one reason some members might hesitate when disclosing their struggles openly and honestly I'm sure it is. But I think another reason is that to write a FR as an EC or mod comes across as a humble brag even if we don't mean it to. So there is this fine line to walk where we must let new comers know that we are not perfect, that we hold ourselves to the same standards that we hold everyone else, but also to try not to draw attention to ourselves in a way that shows a false s… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 11:11 PM |
| 4 | There is no such thing as PerfectThanks, Tempy. Things should steady settle over the next few weeks. Good enough can be great. It leaves time for the great things to happen. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 10:35 PM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as PerfectI remember when I first learned about Shit-tests. When I finally figured out what they truly are, I worked so hard to not do that, but it took all the fun out of many things. I was so focused on not Shit-testing my husband that I was afraid to even tease him. We tease each other a lot. It is something that we've done since the day we met and when I took that away out of fear of failure, it made things unnatural for us. All this to say that sometimes I take my teasing unintentionally too far and … | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 10:34 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as PerfectIn aa we always say "progress not perfection". Yes. This drive to attain perfection, it only highlights the failures. Rarely the progress and the progress is where we must focus. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 10:30 PM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as PerfectI think that's why in the RPW 1.0 sub we had several newbs ask "how do i _________ in an rpw way?" I agree. I also think that the desire to be perfect does more harm that good. It has too much potential to be done for the perfection rather than for the marriage/relationship. It's a form of keeping up with the Joneses. It's vital that we all remember that slip ups happen and while we shouldn't use them as excuses, it's good to keep in mind that we're still human. Well said. We have to keep our ey… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 09:07 PM |
| 6 | 1,000 Subscribers!!! New users, come say 'Hello' :)Ok, so I've been here forever (well, almost) but I want to do this because it's fun. Look at what he does that you never even notice. This changed my life. Shep something or other. I can't remember the street name, but just being Shep it has the potential to be a great male stripper name. I used to love these. Not so much any more because I have difficulty suspending disbelief like a used to. So how about a couple of corny movies I found again on Netflix lately? Bring it On and Legally Blonde. I… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/16 10:14 PM |
| 2 | 1,000 Subscribers!!! New users, come say 'Hello' :)Holy cow that video is amazing! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/16 10:09 PM |
| 1 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!LOL, this actually has about a 1,000 more thumbs down than thumbs up. I thought it was absolutely hilarious | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/16 02:41 AM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Ah. The one with Trigglypuff. It's an instant classic. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/05/16 08:41 PM |
| 7 | Ways to cheer on the husbandWhen things get particularly rough, I thank my husband for putting up with what he has to for us. I don't do this very often or it would lose it's meaning with him. So, another thing I do is ask him what I can do for him. What I can have for him at home that he might want. The other thing I do, and this might be counterintuitive is leave him alone. A lot of times, he just wants to do his thing without me being his cheerleader because, I think, it reminds him of what he is doing that he doesn't w… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/05/16 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Examples of Red Pill Wives and Red Pill Husbands in MediaI always think of Maria and Captain Von Trapp immediately when asked this question. Near the end of the movie when Max is trying to get the Captain to play along with the Germans Maria says something along the lines of, "I can't ask him to be less than he is." I love that line. Alas, in real life, I understand Maria was very controlling. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Smash it Down vs AcceptanceThank you, tintedlipbalm. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/16 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Smash it Down vs AcceptanceThis makes sense. To get stuck there though, with only suppressing them, can be dangerous. It's like staying in the anger phase and it accomplishes little in the long run. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/16 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Smash it Down vs AcceptanceSmashing down those feelings is just another way of trying to be in control: you are controlling yourself and your emotions to a certain extent, but when you examine the source of these feelings, and understand why you are having them, you can let them go fully. Well said. And letting them go is far more effective than putting them away because they are actually gone. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/16 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Smash it Down vs AcceptanceThank you. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/16 03:04 PM |
| 2 | [Repost]: Decide to be HappyWhy such desire for approval, for praise? We women love to be admired. My theory is this is how women view respect and how we want to be respected. How to refocus so that meeting his needs is the reward in itself? Know what he likes, know what it is that you have to do and do it well. Recognize that you are doing it well or if you could improve and improve as necessary. Let doing a good job be it's own reward. Having said that, I am very much like you and my husband knows it. LOL. I noticed that… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/05/16 12:19 PM |
| 2 | [Repost]: Decide to be HappyMy husband doesn't say much about meals either. I know when I've done a very good job when he says so or if he grunts. That small grunt he will make is far more of a compliment than any words he could say. ;) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/16 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Are these "toxic behaviours really toxic?Also, we tend to forget that we have flaws as well. Things that drive our husbands crazy, but that they overlook. It's a two way street that people tend to see as one way. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/16 02:33 PM |
| 3 | 5 Baby Steps to De-Shrewing: Things You Can Employ Right Now to Be a Better WifeI can't remember everything I posted there, but I think the ones that I really wanted I put up at my blog. The only one I would love to see put up here or some place accessible would be Phedre's sourdough bread recipe. I was going to rewrite it here at some point because we see a lot of women wanting to expand their recipes and/or baking skills. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/05/16 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Difference between following and being lead?Here's the thing with doing this. Over time, the fears lessens and may even go away entirely. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/05/16 11:28 AM |
| 6 | 5 Baby Steps to De-Shrewing: Things You Can Employ Right Now to Be a Better WifeThis is awesome. I was just thinking a few days ago how I wish we could repost this one. I'm so glad it's back up. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 11:36 PM |
| 10 | Mother's Day Megathread!Damn. I had no idea it's coming this Sunday. I need to get something for my mother. I'm sooooo bad at this and I feel terrible every year because sometimes I even forget to call. Edit: I just told my kids that it's this Sunday and that they should make something for their grandmother to mail to her. They all got this silly look on their faces which tells me they have something planned. Honestly, what better gift can I ask for than that? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 04:42 PM |
| 7 | Difference between following and being lead?There is a quote my husband and I often chuckle about. "A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband, while a man never worries about the future until he gets a wife." | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 02:23 PM |
| 9 | Difference between following and being lead?Trust is not the absence of fear. Rather it is following his lead despite fear. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 02:20 PM |
| 5 | How The Government Is Robbing Men Of Good WivesAll of this can happen without a college degree. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 12:13 PM |
| 11 | Difference between following and being lead?This is a really good question. It would help us a lot if you could link one or two of those MRP posts that he says describe you well (and to also answer these questions) . Sometimes, at first, the line between some things in RP seems so fine as to be almost nonexistent. Until you see it and then realize that the line is actually enormous. The difference is, you follow when you understand, when you are without fear and when you trust. But that trust isn't being directed toward your SO. It's in y… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Celebrity women who like being a "traditional wife"I haven't watched either. I loved the book the Hobbit. I'm not interested in watching how Hollywood played games with it. I never got into Lost. Heard it was good, but it just doesn't ping my radar. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 04:48 PM |
| 13 | Celebrity women who like being a "traditional wife"“I’m very proud of being a woman, and as a woman, I don’t even like the word feminism because when I hear that word, I associate it with women trying to pretend to be men and I’m not interested in trying to pretend to be a man. I don’t want to embrace manhood, I want to embrace my womanhood.” To see this quote from someone in the spotlight is pretty amazing. I have no idea who Evangeline Lilly is, but good for her. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 02:24 PM |
| 2 | What is your before bed routine?I'm imagining the bottom of my trash can and it's not pretty. . . . lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 12:37 AM |
| 2 | What is your before bed routine?Skin care is such a mystery to me these days. There is SO much out there. I just do the best I can. I don't even know what a thermal spring water spray or propolis mist are. LOL. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 12:09 AM |
| 2 | What is your before bed routine?What do you do with the oil when you're finished with it? | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 12:06 AM |
| 3 | What is your before bed routine?I use this I actually heard about NaPCA from this subreddit a couple of months ago and decided to give it a try. I did a bit of research on it, decided to try it and I like it. My skin is normal to oily and rarely dry and it works really well. Edit: It may be considered more of a toner. I have no idea. Skin care products are very far from being my forte. I find that my diet affects the looks of my skin more than what I put on it. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 11:39 PM |
| 8 | What is your before bed routine?Start to doze off on the couch. Try to shake myself awake. If successful, see 4. If unsuccessful, see 3. Sleep for a while until husband either sticks his finger up my nose, or gently caresses me awake. His prerogative. Shake myself awake and go to the bathroom. Brush my teeth. If not half asleep, wash my face. I follow up with either a moisturizing spray or a 4% (I think glycolic acid moisturizer). Pray Read phone for 5 minutes. If my phone hasn't smacked my face from dozing, I put the phone do… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 12:31 PM |
| 2 | How to best use my timeI think that my biggest struggle will be to not control his planning. Right, which is why I specifically say help him. I think I remember you mentioning this trip in another thread. This is something he has been planning for quite some time? My advice is to tell him something along the lines of, "I'm here to help. Just tell me what to do." He will likely appreciate a certain level of, "Did you pack X?" or something along those lines. Just be very careful not to cross that line from being helpful… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 12:15 AM |
| 2 | How to best use my timeThe very first thing you should do is apologize for specific things you've done over the past 3 weeks (just list them like you did here). Next, stop doing them. Third, help him over these next two months. Presumably, he has a lot to do to get ready to go. Support him through this. It's going to suck. It's going to suck big time, but if you support him any way you can, it does make it easier. Help him pack, help him make lists and help him complete tasks on that list. Fourth, since you have 2 mon… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/05/16 10:31 PM |
| 3 | "Spring Cleaning" the RP Woman and MarriageMARGERY! YEAH! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/05/16 03:27 AM |
| 5 | A Captain trying to help his first mateHere is what I see happening. For 10 years you two have been distant. You decided that wasn't what you wanted any more and wanted a change. So far so good. You found something that appeals to you and something that has the potential to make you both happy. Again, good. Here's where your problem lies. You see this logically and you want her to see this logically too. After all, who wouldn't want to grow together again especially when you two are still attracted to each other. So, logically, you s… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 09:58 PM |
| 4 | A Captain trying to help his first mateShow her Saint Monica, St. Augustine's mother. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 08:15 PM |
| 5 | A Captain trying to help his first mateThis may make her believe even more that you are trying to make her into your "slave". | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 07:27 PM |
| 1 | A Captain trying to help his first mateIt's about respect and support of one's husband. In the ways a man wants support and respect. Not in the ways she wants to give it. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 07:25 PM |
| 6 | A Captain trying to help his first mateWell, as I said. We don't believe any of those things. We've made a conscious choice to live as we do. To respect and love our husbands and to provide them with the support they need. That means, we day no very little (unless sick, injured, etc). This doesn't mean we hate sex and grudgingly starfish it. It means we might not be in the mood but have sex anyway and then enjoy it. We make plenty of decisions. It's not like we are calling our husbands when ever anything comes up because we need him … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 07:24 PM |
| 6 | A Captain trying to help his first mateHow do you reconcile RPW concepts without it becoming an exercise in self administered slavery? (never say no, no decisions of her own, no say in her own life, not entitled to thoughts, etc) Is this your wording or hers, because we don't believe a single one of these things. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 07:03 PM |
| 2 | I never feel feminine. Looking for advice.You're welcome and I appreciate you considering it! Sometimes just knowing where to start on something gets you over that initial hurdle. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 04:27 PM |
| 2 | I never feel feminine. Looking for advice.Ah. But see it's not about being a very good seamstress. It's about you knowing how you didn't like it when you started, but you got through it all anyway and still do it. That's where I think a lot of people would be starting. Obviously, if you don't want to, you don't want to. But don't let your experience or lack thereof stop you. Your experience is exactly why I think you could write a good post! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 03:55 PM |
| 9 | I never feel feminine. Looking for advice.You are miserable dating weak men and leading them, but you are miserable and infuriated when people don't live up to your standards. Which is worse? You getting mad is on you. Unless a person is under your authority for some reason (doubtful given your age and being a freshmen) then who cares what they say? What purpose does getting mad and being bitchy towards them serve other than to alleviate your anger? Your anger is yours to deal with. Not dish out to the world of people who don't stand up… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 03:40 PM |
| 6 | I never feel feminine. Looking for advice.This might be silly, but would it be possible to put together a post on the very basics for learning to make your own clothes? I would very much like to start soon, but don't have a clue as to even where to begin. I realize that this might be too much for a post, but if not, it would be fantastic. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 03:36 PM |
| 6 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Apparently it far easier to call them ingrates and just let them stay that way. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 07:10 PM |
| 7 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Yup, my husband does too. Even my children are beginning to like more and more meals. Huh. There must be something to this. . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 05:38 PM |
| 10 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!It's expensive and time-consuming and often done for a bunch of ingrates who would rather just be eating fast food anyway. What a lovely woman. It's like she got down to the end of the post and just couldn't hold back any more. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 04:13 PM |
| 9 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!The most perfect illustration of the hamster ever Just because I found it the other day, have watched it over and over, and laugh every single time. This one might not be safe for work. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 03:16 PM |
| 7 | Do redpill ideas translate to parenting?And so I feel a need to control their behavior so that they don't make mistakes, but I also see this is very detrimental to their self-determination. This is it in a nutshell and I feel your pain. At the end of the day, letting make their own mistakes is going to help them to grow more than almost anything else and will also save you a lot of heartache in the future. It's difficult, but they will learn. Also, I think it's fine for his older brother to motivate him to get up. They might fight, bu… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Do redpill ideas translate to parenting?On those times when Dad is not there and the older won't get out of bed, what are some natural consequences that can happen (I struggle with this too and my son is only 8, so you are not alone)? For example, if he won't get out of bed till late, breakfast is cleaned up and put away. No tone or anything from you (again, this is where I struggle) but simply "Sorry, breakfast is over. If you get up on time, it will be there for you". Basically, you are still being neutral and caring for them, but i… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 12:18 PM |
| 4 | Do redpill ideas translate to parenting?I'm not talking about having circle time where you hold hands and talk about how splendid he is. LOL Kumbaya my Lord! Kumbaya! Sorry. It jumped right into my head when I read this. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 12:10 PM |
| 6 | Do redpill ideas translate to parenting?Mothers should emulate to their sons how a woman best treats her husband. They will learn what respect toward a man looks like, what support and love from wife to husband looks like. Other than that, a mother's job towards her son is really just to get out of the way as he husband (or other man in his life) teaches him what it is to be a man. Men have a different idea than most women on how to do that. We should do our best not to interfere even when that way scares us. It is that fear that we p… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 12:06 PM |
| 7 | What makes men cheat/flirt?Most women believe that your high beta is alpha. They don't realize that this husband here is far closer to the true definition of the word. Women don't want to think of their man as less as that is what has become of the whole alpha beta thing. Alpha/good, beta/bad. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 03:12 AM |
| 5 | An invitation to older women to get your feet wet.Put those questions up in the Simple Questions posts or make separate posts. It's hard to know what people want to know sometimes. Regarding the 7 year itch. Nah. Never experienced it. The other stuff like retirement, I can't say. My husband isn't even close yet, but I think it will be awesome! These things are what you make of them. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/16 09:48 PM |
| 7 | An invitation to older women to get your feet wet.Excellent. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/16 09:19 PM |
| 26 | What makes men cheat/flirt?If this is something that he has been doing since you met and he really is super Alpha, this might be something that he will never stop doing. I tend to think the 10 pounds has nothing to do with it. You say he loves you. Men are capable of having sex with other women and still only loving one. You need to ask yourself, is this something you can live with? Some women can and some cannot. EDIT: To answer your question in your title, some men are just unwilling to go without strange women. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/16 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsAre you kidding? Don't be scared. These types of field reports are some of the very best posts. They are awesome to read. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/16 07:34 PM |
| 2 | The Magic Mirror in ActionLOL. I thought you would like this. I almost didn't write it up but I thought you would appreciate it. ;) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | The Magic Mirror in ActionI won't be able to watch that for quite a while, but I'll watch it when I can. Thank you for leaving it. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 02:21 PM |
| 3 | The Magic Mirror in ActionI may just be commenting to comment ;) Excellent. I hope more people do. ;) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageHypergamy can be enhanced when you take the time to notice who your husband is and what he does, especially when you've never taken the time to notice these things before. It will increase respect which directly relates to attraction and love. Of course there will always be a better version of my husband and if I were to ever meet that person I would ignore him and stay away from him. One can subvert one nature with their force of will. I've met other men whom I've been attracted to in my life, … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 01:06 PM |
| 4 | The Magic Mirror in ActionWhile you might be commenting for the sake of commenting, anecdotal stories have a real way of sending a message home. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageI understood you to mean a sense of devotion towards our husbands. Not in a general way. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageBecause we work to enhance our hypergamy towards our men. We work to see what they do for our marriages and for us. We work to understand and be grateful and not take for granted what our husbands are doing behind the scenes. Some of this will fall under security and protection and some of this will fall under masculinity. As an example, I've learned to watch my husband and listen intently about what he does as work and it is a battle. This is increase my gratitude for what he does and also my a… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageDevotion is a choice, not a feeling. We choose to be devoted. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 12:31 PM |
| 3 | How to be vulnerable.Absolutely. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 02:23 PM |
| 4 | How to be vulnerable.Step 1. Don't talk. Don't even think about talking when he speaks. Just listen. Put your hand physically over your mouth or drink water and hold it. Whatever it takes to simply listen. Step 2. Acknowledge him. Not yourself. Make it known that you heard and understood what he said. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 02:00 PM |
| 3 | How to be vulnerable.I'm trying here, and I'm getting quicker in my reaction time between acting ugly and apologizing. Pretty soon I'll get that reaction time so quick, I won't have to apologize because I'll catch it first!" Precisely! This is exactly the idea. Most men notice this effort and will be happy that you are trying. An real effort will be highly appreciated. I don't think most men require perfection, just concerted effort, as long as it's not too late. I don't think it is too late for the OP. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 01:54 PM |
| 4 | How to be vulnerable.The thing is, you are afraid you're going to be hurt. But you already hurt. It can only get worse or get better. At this point, things are not going to hold steady. If you go off and pout, because you forget in the moment or it's just too much, it is still not too late to apologize. You can go back, five minutes, 10 minutes or even hours later. You just need to apologize. And be prepared for not much of a reaction or even a poor reaction. At this point, he doesn't trust that you are going to cha… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 11:43 AM |
| 3 | How to be vulnerable.I withhold affection, I argue to be right, I rationalize my behavior and feelings and blame it on my SO and I pout. You are holding so tightly to control, that this is all going to break apart in your hands. You've got no room to move or to breathe. When something goes off kilter you simply snap because there is no place to bend (Ugh, I' haven't been up very long. I hope this makes some sense). You need to let go. At least a little bit. Things that are rigid tend to break. When you notice you ar… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsCheck to see if you have a botanical gardens near you. Those often have teas. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsWhen you remove your RPW pink nail polish, what kind of remover do you use that doesn't destroy your fingernails? Edited to add: In the summer time, is there anyway to keep your toenails from turning that nasty yellow from wearing nail polish too often? I always try to wait a few days between polishes, but by the end of summer they still look funky. Sorry to be gross. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsI think I said it first. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 01:04 PM |
| 22 | Introduction from a Literal Alpha Widowfairly often I read on here (or back in the old RPW sub) comments berating/deriding women in their 30s who have yet to marry. I doubt you read exactly what you say here. We don't deride women in their 30's who have yet to marry. We tell women in their 30's who have yet to marry that it is going to be more difficult for them. We will deride women in their 30's who think that none of their past decisions should affect their ease in finding good men. Of course you have a chance. You have a past. Yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 12:45 PM |
| 2 | So I heard you ladies can cookBacon Wrapped Pork Loin Boneless pork loin Salt Bacon Trim the silver skin of the pork and sprinkle with salt (the better the salt, the better the meat. Gray salt is my favorite). Lay the bacon on top. If necessary, hold in place with toothpicks. I don't wrap the pork with the bacon because the bacon doesn't crisp on the bottom. Cook at 350 until the meat is cooked. If the bacon isn't crisp yet, turn on the broiler for a bit. Just watch is closely or it'll burn. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 02:13 PM |
| 1 | So I heard you ladies can cookStuffed Hot Peppers hot pepper of choice (jalapeno, anaheim, etc) cream cheese sour cream Hot sauce (I like Frank's) shredded smoked Gouda bacon (Sorry, I don't have measurements) Mix these in a bowl. Cut about 2/3 through the top of your pepper then all down the length of it being careful not to remove the top all the way. Remove the seeds and membranes (or leave them for more spice). Stuff your peppers with the cheese mixture and then lay a slice of bacon going down the length of the pepper (i… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Being WomanI'm a natural people pleaser. It was difficult for me when I was young as well. What worked best for me was just standing my ground. I had to go through a period of slight overcompensation (it wasn't awful, but I made some mistakes and I learned from them). But then I decided that I was going to be happy with what I wanted to be happy about and I was also going to be calm about it. It doesn't matter what other people think because I'm good with everything. It's taken time, but it makes a huge di… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Being WomanThis is really difficult for me to ingest. I remember this. Are you a people pleaser? I think people pleasers struggle more with this than other women. Eventually this crazy woman showed her REAL colors Just remember this. With 99% of those progressive women, this will be the case. True colors are usually intentionally hidden. Spend more time with your new boss and you will become more comfortable with this notion. I was thinking of writing a post about what you talk about here. I'll try to do i… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsI guess I either misunderstood at the beginning, or the term has broadened so everyone can play? The latter. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Being WomanWomen are neither inherently good nor inherently bad. Believing women are all good, sugar and spice and everything nice, is a large part of the problem today. Being female does not make us good, nor does it make us bad. We are what we decide to be. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Are we all just pre-wall prancers?Yeesh. I like my looks as a corpse better. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 12:47 AM |
| 4 | Are we all just pre-wall prancers?I turned 40 last year. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Being WomanI especially like the AWiT reference, I always loved that series. It was only in the last 6 months or so that I found out this was a series rather than a stand alone book. I read it as a kid and I loved it. I had no idea there were more. I am headed to the library later today to pick up the second in the series to listen to with my kids. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/16 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Being WomanThank you. FYI: I forgot to put it in there, but that top quote is from A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle. I've fixed the post now. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/16 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Are we all just pre-wall prancers?Are you doing things you know with 100% certainty will only improve your life? If the answer is yes, then it doesn't matter what anybody says. Yes, we women have our AWALT nature. AWALT is absolutely true. But that does not mean that we have to let it rule our lives. We rule our lives. We make the decisions that matter. I am hypergamous, but it does not rule me. I do. You must look at this the same way. Improve your life while accepting what you did in your past. Be truthful about it and realize… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/16 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Making and Canning ApplesauceOOOh. Lookie what I found. That is just so cool. I can't wait. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Making and Canning ApplesauceHoney and candles. That is what I really want right now. We go through a crazy amount of honey and bees wax candles are amazing. I know there are other things that I can use these things for but I don't know enough to know what those things are yet. I'm looking forward to learning. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Making and Canning ApplesauceI use a wide variety of apples mixing some very tart ones with really sweet ones. I used to have a farmers market near me that would carry a huge amount of apples every fall and I would just go from bin to bin filling my bag with just less than half tart to just over half sweet. I couldn't tell you what kind of apples I used because I can never remember the names. There were ones I had never seen in the grocery store before. Red and golden delicious were in the mix. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Making and Canning ApplesauceThat sounds amazing. On a side note, I really want to have bee-hives some day soon. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Making and Canning ApplesaucePickle crisp is calcium chloride and I will tell you for pickles it makes all the difference in the world. It's not expensive and you only need to use a tiny bit per jar. Here's some info I found about it. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Making and Canning ApplesauceAh, I see. I don't have a good recipe for you, sorry. I've never canned peppers before. Have you ever tried pickling garlic? My husband loves pickled garlic. Maybe once the hot peppers turn soft they could munch on that. Edit: I just did a quick search and one of the forums said to add pickle crisp to the jar. Do you use that? I know my pickles turn gross when I forget to add that. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Making and Canning ApplesauceI think I would freeze hot peppers and then also make and can hot sauce with them. I have a friend who made her own hot sauce one year and it was the most amazing stuff. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Online DatingI think people take the offense because they expect people to always be rude. When someone is polite, it puts up a mirror. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI gotta ask, because I've seen you say it many times, where does the word huscat come from? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI've been thinking about starting kombucha. How do you like it? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 11:35 PM |
| 6 | Feed the Good StuffYou're welcome. It's not easy for me to share things like that but I am trying to do it more. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 11:32 PM |
| 10 | Feed the Good StuffI've never met anyone who can make me laugh like he does. I'm talking full on tears streaming down my face. We still laugh about things that we did to each other on our honeymoon and repeat the same phrases that were born from these memories. Wife Goggles. He still chases me around. Beard. Kingly beard. Nuff said. He's an Oak and would destroy the world for his family. Heh heh. Yes. It's almost scary sometimes how our thoughts align. Yes, he kissed my hand and told me I had his most favorite nam… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 11:25 PM |
| 9 | Feed the Good StuffMy husband and I were long distance for 2 years. To this day, when one of us has to go away over night for whatever reason, we still get butterflies and that sick feeling in our stomachs, most especially if we have to go to the airport. This is 16 years later and it still physically affects both of us. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Making and Canning ApplesauceThat would likely work best and save you the most time. I just use an apple slicer to remove the stems and core when needed. It saves a ton of time when you can get it on the apple straight! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Making and Canning ApplesauceI have tried it both ways and you get a richer flavor and a deeper color when you leave the peels on. I wouldn't do it without a device that removes the seeds and the peels, though. Then I would just peel and core them. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 09:17 PM |
| 9 | Making and Canning ApplesauceThis is the best website I've found for canning. It looks like it's out of the 1990's, but if you take the time to look around, it teaches you how to can just about anything, including meats. I was intimidated at first as well, but it's a myth that it's difficult. It's ridiculously easy to can. It's time consuming, but very easy. Let me know if you have any questions. I've only done it a few times, but I plan on getting into a lot more soon. Strawberry season is just around the corner. 😄 | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Amoris Laetitia - The Joy of Love, written by Pope Francis. Thoughts?On point | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/16 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Some observations/questions about what men value in women vs. what women value in men.Why are they interested in someone much further behind in life? You think you are behind in life compared to them. They likely do not think the same. Assuming you are looking for a relationship and seeking men who want the same, they are not looking at your career because you can be a very good woman without having a career. You can still add a whole lot to his life without being a doctor or dentist or engineer. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/16 12:05 AM |
| 4 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Kids. The original black knights. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 03:07 PM |
| 7 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!That doorbell stand up is absolutely hilarious. It is so true. I heard the squeak of the plastic covered couch as the company sat down to eat the Sara Lee cake. And when the doorbell rings at our house? That's me telling the kids to be quiet and to stay away from the door, while to dog slams the front door because he's so excited about having company. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 02:22 PM |
| 4 | FR - My Week Long Challenge to Not Nag My HusbandI used to take it offensively Oh man so did I. I'd sulk off, "Why would he speak to me that way?! He's being such a jerk!" Then one day, i'm not sure why, I just decided to turn it back around on him and play with him just as he was playing with me and it turned out hilarious. Now, I do it all the time. It just helps me not to take myself so seriously, because like you said, it wasn't his fault that the tires sunk in the mud. Gosh, I remember one morning I was in a pissy mood with him because I … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 02:19 PM |
| 9 | FR - My Week Long Challenge to Not Nag My Husbandhe made a joke and asked if I needed to go back outside and re-enter the house nicely. I've found that it helps tremendously to take my husband up on his amused mastery when he says things like this. I would have gone back inside and come back in ridiculously happy like a total goofball and we both would have had a good laugh. It not only snaps me out of my irrational funk (sometimes it just happens) but it turns the joke on me, and we get to laugh together (which is one of my very favorite thin… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 02:04 PM |
| 4 | The cup incidentMy husband says his mind is typically silent I don't understand . . . . . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 09:34 PM |
| 4 | There Can Only Be One CaptainYou are very welcome. ;) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 03:58 PM |
| 10 | The cup incidentYou are Cooch, Princess of Quarantine and defender of the secrets of RPWives. YOU HAVE THE POWER!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 03:57 PM |
| 3 | [Homemaking] Sewing A Button ImageThat and I don't put that little cross stitch in first. I just start sewing it in. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 03:02 PM |
| 10 | There Can Only Be One CaptainI enjoy being a helper. I find a sense of purpose in supporting my husband’s goals. I take pride in being his support system. Sometimes, these are a wife's goals. These are the things that she wishes to accomplish in her life. And it goes to the larger picture of his goals, her goals and biggest yet, the families goals. Lots of people don't like the fact that these might be some women's goals. It doesn't make these goals wrong or less, because they are her own. Great post. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 02:42 PM |
| 5 | Why theorizing about a slut is stupid.why should I care? If it doesn't apply to you then you shouldn't. But it will apply to some women who will read here so it is for them. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 12:23 PM |
| 4 | Anger Management for Women | Laura DoyleIt's hard to be angry when you're happy. It's also why I get frustrated (angry?) with the whole feminist thing of speak your mind. I remember when this whole thing started when I was little. It sounded like such a good idea at the time. As in, all these women were quiet as a church mouse and were always afraid to ever say anything they wanted at all and since most of us did learn to keep our mouths shut in certain appropriate situations, we took it all wholeheartedly. We've taken it all so far. … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 11:51 AM |
| 5 | [Homemaking] Sewing A Button ImageOOh. I know how to sew a button, but that looks far stronger than the way I do it. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 11:51 AM |
| 4 | WE'VE REACHED 500 SUBSCRIBERS!!!!Do you have a balcony that gets quite a bit of sun? | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 04:49 PM |
| 7 | WE'VE REACHED 500 SUBSCRIBERS!!!!That vibe comes from people coming in and thinking they can literally "start over" or erase the past. That cannot be done. However, one can begin to be better and improve their life no matter what has happened in their past. The reality is, you have a child from a previous relationship. That in no way will hinder you from being able to improve within this reality. It is when women think reality should bend to their will that it becomes a problem. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 02:57 PM |
| 11 | Why theorizing about a slut is stupid.The only thing worth talking about in a red pill woman context is being a non-slut. Exactly. Being a slut is easy. Ridiculously easy. It's not only non-interesting to talk about anything else, but it's counter productive. This is all about adding to one's life, not taking away from it. Quite frankly, taking the easy way out of most things that are important in one's life takes away from one's character. Sexual liberation for women is a way for women to try to add value to their life in as easy a… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Weird Things "All" Couples Fight AboutI thought these were hilarious. They are absolutely true and my husband and I have had the actor tiff many a time, only now we turn it into a really fun bet and game. We know it's stupid so we go with it. I think these skits are fantastic because they can point out how terrible these things are and do it in a way that people will actually listen while at the same time, showing people just how silly it is to fight about it. If they can laugh once they realize how stupid they are being, they will … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 12:09 PM |
| 7 | WE'VE REACHED 500 SUBSCRIBERS!!!!Congratulations on your new baby! We've been homeschooling for about 7 years. Feel free to PM me with any questions. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 11:57 AM |
| 18 | WE'VE REACHED 500 SUBSCRIBERS!!!!Hello. I'm Stingray and I'm an RPW. Crowd: Hello Stingray . . . . I love it here. I've been here for almost 3 years, I think. I've been around the sphere for about 6. I was intrigued from day one and it's been a process, but one I will be forever grateful for. I'm still learning and still applying and my thought is I will be learning and working at this until the day I die. Because if I ever stop working at it, I've given up on my marriage. That's simply not an option. I've been married for 16 y… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 11:48 AM |
| 3 | SteaksThinner cuts or just turn the temp down on your stove. You'll still get that nice sear, it will just take longer to get there. I actually prefer a steak that is a bit thinner myself. I used to buy the super thick ones and i hardly ever got them right. You really have to be on the ball with those. We like our steak pretty much rare and with a thinner steak all you have to do is let it touch the pan, turn it over and let it touch the pan again. You still hear that faint moo in the back ground and … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 07:32 PM |
| 5 | SteaksI have an electric stove and mine always cook through fine. I think a lot of it depends on the thickness. Too thick and you have to be more careful with the heat because they'll burn on the outside and still be rare on the inside. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.You get used to it and after time, for me at least, begin to really appreciate it. We all get complacent from time to time. We're human and reading that post title, frankly, made me smile because I knew it was going to be a good post and one that I would get something out of. More than that, I knew it would spark an excellent discussion, and it did. Sometimes our feeling getting hurt can do more to motivate us than any inspirational speech ever could. Don't discount this kind of help just becaus… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.but the headline calls women "ball busting shrews" and wow, I don't see why it had to be so hostile! Did it catch your attention? Make you back up for a second and think that for many women it might be true? Look, it's a slap across the face. And why not? We are trying to make our relationships better. If it requires a firm slap, it's worth it when it wakes us up. let's try to understand each other... My husband isn't here reading. He's not trying to understand me by reading this sub. For most m… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Steaksthey seem fine and non-stick as long as you use plenty of butter, bacon fat, or coconut oil. See . . . I can't get my Lodge to be nonstick to save my life, no matter how much fat I use. I still use it, but only for things that can stick without mattering. Frying an egg? Forget it. Baking a chicken? Perfect. Honestly, I think if I just used it regularly it would probably improve greatly, I just haven't made myself patient enough to do it yet. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.Well said. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:39 PM |
| 4 | SteaksOi! u/TempestTcup. RPW cast iron lady. Help us out. As I understand it it is true to a point that iron is iron. However, the antique Griswold and Wagner or superior to todays Lodge. This is because they have been machined smooth. I have both Lodge and Wagner and I will tell you that the Wagner are far more nonstick than any Lodge I have ever used. You can find them in antique stores, auctions and if you're very lucky garage sales. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 03:32 PM |
| 3 | SteaksIt's not cast iron. It look similar to Swiss Diamond but the handle is different. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 03:27 PM |
| 6 | If not college, then what? And where to begin with major self-improvements?As far as employment goes, apprenticeships are slowly making a comeback. I'd Google to see if anyone in your area is offering any that might interest you. It could be a garden nursery, or store shop or anything like that. Also, maybe think about being a nanny. I don't know what kind of classes or experience that might take but it would definitely be worth looking into. As for your self improvement, pick one thing that you really want to focus on and stick to that one thing for a period of time t… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 02:30 PM |
| 3 | How to spice upthis rp is a miracle. Everything changed! I feel like we are back in the "dating" stage again. I'm more calm don't get angry he then appreciates me and I'm getting the attention I need. This is great. Well done! Now, I'm going to reiterate what u/MsSadieDunham said. There will come a time where something will happen and you will feel shocked at it, or that you failed, or that you hit a huge wall or something along those lines. It will surprise you and may make you doubt things in those moments. … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.It's been so many years since I've seen it I don't remember most of it. Though the cowboy scene just popped into my head. But that scene, that always stood out to me. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.And that scene from Parenthood was always my favorite part in that movie. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 01:09 AM |
| 14 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.Absolutely fantastic post. I, to this day, think about everything my husband has given up to marry me. I know where he would be if he didn't. I've talked to him about this before and told him that I hope he didn't regret that decision, that I knew how things would be without me in the picture. His answer has always been the same. Things are far better for him than they would have been otherwise. While in some ways this is true, in other ways it most definitely is not. I do not think he regrets h… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 12:30 AM |
| 7 | Iyanla's Tough Love for a Defensive Wife: "Stop Trying to Be Right"The part that got to me was when he said "you don't do x, y, and z" and she immediately comes back with "YES I DO, oh yes I do!" This is one of the many reasons the hamster can be such a diabolical creature. The bugger can talk one into almost anything and is so useful for hiding us from the truth. I was so happy this woman got right in the wife's face and told her what was what. It was amazing. it's one of the hardest because it doesn't feel like a conscious decision, just the reaction I have w… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Making redpill-minded girl friendsThis leads me to another idea. What about DIY posts? I'm trying to get into some more DIY because it's fun, it's usually superior and it often saves money. I wouldn't even know where to start, but it might be a good thing for the sub . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 06:35 PM |
| 12 | Making redpill-minded girl friendsLOL. I read this as literally making an RP girlfriend. As in, not a robot, but making one of your GFs RP. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 04:16 PM |
| 11 | Iyanla's Tough Love for a Defensive Wife: "Stop Trying to Be Right"WOW. Stop. Being. The. Man. Well done. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: have you ever had guys hit on you or ask you out via a note or letter?I had a guy do this while in college. The entire situation was an utter turn off. He was sitting right across from me studying and slid it across the table. Now, this man was not sure of himself at all and his body language made this very clear. If he had lots of confidence and held himself differently, I'm not sure how I would have reacted. I certainly would have thought it very strange unless the letter was cleverly written. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/16 02:29 PM |
| 5 | All About RPWThank you. ;) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 01:07 AM |
| 3 | RPW Film Club April 2016 + AnnouncementStoic is fantastic. And what a perfect name. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 08:50 PM |
| 6 | All About RPWNew Flair - Pink Lipstick | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 07:52 PM |
| 4 | All About RPWI remember thinking he was a douchebag too, but I couldn't blame him and those women were letting him do what he wanted to them. I laughed my tail off at some of his stories. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 07:50 PM |
| 3 | All About RPWCheck out the alt-right, too. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 07:48 PM |
| 4 | All About RPWWas PUA. He's not any more. He's completely changed his brand now. I think he got or is getting married and he changed a whole lot then. He was hilarious. He's maybe the second or third I ever read when I found the sphere. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 07:34 PM |
| 5 | All About RPWIn Mala Fide, RooshV, Heartiste (Roissy), Hawaiian Libertarian, Elusive Wapiti, No Ma'am, Vox Day, Captain Capitalism, Tucker Max, Married Man Sex Life (though it's entirely different now than how it began), Mystery There are more. I came in later than some of the other women here who could give blogs further back than this. It began with PUAs and then morphed more into theory. The PUAs really began it. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Husband Not Affectionate | Laura DoyleLOL. So cryptic. . . . | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Husband Not Affectionate | Laura DoyleYou should write a post about how men want to be respected vs how women think men want to be respected. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Husband Not Affectionate | Laura DoyleIt's what happens when you treat your husband like your girlfriend. And since it works with the GF, women are completely lost when it doesn't work on their husband. A devastating effect of teaching people that men and women are the same. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 03:38 PM |
| 5 | The Ban List is Empty--Come Get a Fresh Start!Excellent. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 03:23 PM |
| 4 | Avoid Overthinking a SituationI think it was seeing one of these memes that finally sent the concept of the hamster home for me. I understood it before this, but this really made it concrete in my mind. It was like a slap upside the head. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Avoid Overthinking a SituationI love these memes. So much truth and done in such a hilarious way. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 01:36 PM |
| 4 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesYou should put this up at the new sub. Fantastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/16 02:23 AM |
| 4 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesWhy do you assume it is not being given back? She's a woman talking about her side of things. Does she then need to qualify that by saying he husband does the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsBread making machines are nice, but honestly the best, cheapest and easiest bread I've found to make is sourdough. It's awesome and it's only three ingredients. The most expensive being the starter and if you know someone who makes the bread, it's free. Otherwise you can make a starter yourself or buy one. My mom tried making her own starter and it didn't work very well, but I think for some it works great. Seriously, the best bread ever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Pregnancy?Online is bad. Maybe look at forums where women do midwifery or had natural childbirths. That's where you will find more women who have their head on straight about pregnancy and child birth, but even there women have a tendency to go way overboard. Statistically you will have a better chance, but you still need to pick and choose whom you listen to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Pregnancy?I'm just worried I might lose control with horomones later on. Don't because if you make up you're mind that you won't lose your mind, you won't lose your mind. Yes, you will feel like you want to more often and at times it will be more difficult than others. I'll tell you what worked for me and I only remember having to do it a couple of times per pregnancy. When I could feel things getting beyond my control, I would tell my husband, I'm not doing so hot right now. I'm wanting to snap. It's not… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Pregnancy?Third and sorry it came so late . . . . CONGRATULATIONS!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 11:37 AM |
| 26 | Pregnancy?Second bit of advice. Do NOT listen to people and their advice about pregnancy. Seriously. It's the worst. Find one down to earth women whose had lots of babies and isn't all paranoid about it. We are designed to do it and handle it. It's not nearly the big deal that most women make it out to be today. I am utterly convinced that stress makes pregnancy and birth far worse for most women than it needs to be because everyone freaks them out before hand. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Pregnancy?Keep doing what you're doing. Improve where you need to improve. You're might (likely will feel) extra tired and maybe sick for a while. Rest when you need to but it is absolutely not an excuse to change your behavior towards your husband. Beyond that, I'm not sure what else you are looking for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Do what he says.If you're filling your own drink or your getting up to get a plate of food, or using the restroom . . . . | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/16 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsI also tell him he's my most favourite husband ever LOL. We do this. It's so much fun. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/16 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsThis is going to be a culture specific question. Those of us unfamiliar with your culture aren't going to be able to help you. Do you know of any experienced women here or in real life who can better help you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/16 11:34 AM |
| 1 | My so is on a holidayIf you write another post, be sure to follow the post writing rules on the sidebar. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 03:47 PM |
| 10 | Husband [32M] of 6 years moved out of our (me 36F) house in the middle of the night (X-post to r/marriage)You haven't told us what, on your end, made him so angry that he has been threatening to move out and finally did so. You listed a bunch of things that you are trying to do to get him to stay. What have you done to actually make him happy? I don't see anything in this post that actually pertains to that. A man doesn't care about a coat hanger, wedding pictures, or a welcome mat. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | My so is on a holidayI don't know what else to teach you now. Sorry. My brain doesn't work like that. If you can give more examples of what you are struggling with, or write another post when something comes up, I will do my best to help you out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 03:01 PM |
| 1 | My so is on a holidayAll right. Get up. Right now. Find something to do. Don't watch a movie and don't put sappy music on the radio. Put up beat music on and clean or do you hobby or do something that you know will bring a huge smile to his face when he gets home. Think about how happy he will be. Not how much you miss him. Also, if he's not as happy when he gets home as you picture he will be in this moment . . . this is not a big deal. 99.9% of the time, what we picture in our minds is not how it happens, so start… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 03:00 PM |
| 1 | My so is on a holidayWell, you said your SO sent you here so he would understand this. When you have the urge to blurt, literally clamp your hand over your mouth to keep it shut. Tell him in a calm moment that you are working towards this and this is a technique you are going to use to help yourself. My bet is that he will highly appreciate this. He will realize that this is hard for you and while it might be embarrassing, that you are doing it for him. This is a big deal for a man. Don't be afraid to embarrass your… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 02:38 PM |
| 1 | My so is on a holidayWell, it's hard for us to give pointers on general anger issues. But follow the advice I gave above and change it to the situation. There is no reason to be angry by things that are out of your control. And much that you are likely angry at that is in your control is because you are stuck on seeing things only from your own perspective and never from another persons. So, you change your perspective. You look at things from your SO's point of view. This is how you lose your princess attitude. It'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 01:37 PM |
| 1 | My so is on a holidayThere are things you can control and those you cannot. You can't control when finals are. You can control how you react to when those finals are. Don't focus on what you think you are missing out on. Think about what he is enjoying. Not in terms of what you are missing but about what he is gaining and be happy for him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 11:57 AM |
| 1 | My so is on a holidayWhy are you angry? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 11:37 AM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsBe grateful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/16 01:31 AM |
| 6 | Simple QuestionsI think it's actually easier to do in heels because you don't have to balance on your tip toes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/16 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsCheck out Pinterest. I got a ton of recipes the other day by typing in Paleo recipes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/16 07:55 PM |
| 9 | Simple QuestionsSquat | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/16 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Feminine role models in mediaMaria Von Trapp from the Sound of Music. Max:He's got to at least pretend to work with these people. You must convince him. Maria: I can't ask him to be less than he is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/16 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Where to make high-quality, RPW-minded girl friendsThis is where Tits or GTFO comes from. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/16 03:06 PM |
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