I have an amazing relationship with my boyfried. He is very alpha and I have been doing the best I can to make sure he is happy and taken care of and he has done the same for me in return.

I have been pursuing RPW and it has opened my eyes on my own self. My past, present, and where I want to be in the future.

To get to the point: I want to talk with him tonight about being the Captain and leader. He already is in an unspoken agreement. I just want to solidify it.

I am coming to you all because I am not sure exactly what to say. He has many red pill qualities but just has never looked into the red pill. I know a few points of what I need/desire from him, but I am unsure how to say it.

Is this even a conversation I need to have? Do you have any examples of Captain thinking/doing I can tell him?

Thanks in advance!