I'm fairly new to RPW but I never really looked into the vetting process, and after a recent breakdown in my relationship I really think I need to know it!

Could someone advise me on what to look for in a potential Captain?

I'm also really concerned about my value- I'm 22F, a little overweight but making good progress in weight loss. I have scars on my body from my teenage years which I apply bio-oil to every night but they're still quite visible, and on top of it all I have PCOS. I just feel... broken! And I'm not sure where to begin in changing that either?

Thanks everyone. Sorry if this is babbly, my mind has been scrambled by what's happened today..