Hi all, quick question. I'm getting married soon, and we're having a beach wedding. The ceremony already has a slightly nautical theme, and how perfect is that for the Captain / First Mate?

The only thing I'm not crazy about is how the vows are written - in this pre-written service, we would promise the same thing to each other. I don't like that. Customizable, of course. So here's my question:

What do you feel, in the light of RP, are the four things a husband most craves from his wife? And a wife most craves from her husband?

(Obviously needs to stay wedding-vow appropriate... Idk, this is why I need you guys...)

Going to use this to brainstorm vows that are appropriate to C/FM dynamic. Thanks in advance. :)