Similar sob story to most of the fuckers on here. I married young to my first fuck (quite hot mind you), both mid 30's now. Beta'd my way to a sexless marriage for more years than I care to consider. I was the classic Mr. Nice Guy from the side bar. About 12 months ago I started swallowing the red pill without knowing it what it was, but regressed because I didn't have the right goals or pathway.

About 6 months ago I was all but ready to end the marriage and walk. I laid this out for my wife and things improved somewhat, but it all came to a head recently and I started to get an exit plan together.

While researching exit plans on /r/deadbedrooms I saw a reference to The Red Pill, I followed it up figuring I had nothing to lose. Wow, fucking wow!

I was at the absolute bottom with zero fucks to give which made swallowing the pill that much easier.

To say it turned my life around is an understatement, my balls are now firmly attached. The key things that have changed in my life are:

  • I'm lifting (Stronglifts 5x5 is excellent, eating a lot is hard)
  • Got a new wardrobe (make sure you look good around the house too, set the standard)
  • Make eye contact
  • Assertive at work
  • Improved posture
  • Stopped playing video games (too busy doing productive things)
  • Decisiveness
  • Girls on the street checking me out
  • Reading again (and more non-fiction)
  • Improved my relationship with my sons
  • And of course my relationship with my wife has improved dramatically (yes relationship not just our sex life).

With my wife I'm passing shit tests (lots of text shit tests), being physically flirty (ass slaps, head grabs for deep kisses), getting respect, dread game, amused mastery, being dominant in and out of the bedroom. It's fucking awesome. My wife knows who's in charge now and she likes it despite some ongoing confusion as roles change.

She is really enjoying the sex and sends me heaps of dirty texts in anticipation during the day. I'm enjoying the sex more and lasting longer (Make sure you read the Sex God Method). I'm getting BJ's regularly (previously only under sufferance because “she’s not that type of girl”). Her period week is now BJ week. Hell I even got a great BJ while driving! (I've been dying to share that with someone).

I'm still not holding frame consistently and some shit tests are still going through to the keeper. However the contrast is sharp.

And the best part about discovering TRP is I now have the opportunity to raise my sons with a regular dose of TRP so they don't waste half their lives trying to live up to a false ideal.

tl;dr Swallowed Red Pill appears to have saved marriage and self improvement is awesome.

Edit: added tl;dr