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[–][deleted] 42 points43 points44 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Freezing out is an option I'm a situation like this. Turning around and ignoring her gives the power back to you. Soon she'll make the advance and want you to fuck her. You could have also done a push pull method, where you make out, work, work her up, then pull away. Talk for a bit, make out again, then pull away. The goal is to work her up and leave het wanting more. Soon she'll jump on you or want you to continue escalating. This was a tactic illustrated by David deangelo and has worked for me before.
In the end, she wanted the D. But didn't want to be perceived as a slut, she tried to pull you into her frame by taking away the option of sex, that way she could shift the power back in her favor. As long as you maintain your frame and don't get pulled into her's, you'll get the lay.
[–]10J18R1A 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the correct answer.
[–]replyaccount 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
She wanted you to just fucking rip her clothes off. Listen to what she's doing, not what she's saying. She's saying no to satisfy her own self respect, but she's tugging at your belt asking you to free her from the consciously making the decision to have sex so she doesn't feel slutty.
You didn't mention any foreplay, just said you went straight from making out to trying to take her shirt off. Try working her downstairs a bit through the clothes and see if getting the juices flowing helps loosen her up for sex. If she still persists with telling you no after making out with you in bed I would honestly just tell her I'm not into playing games and if we're not going to do this then I'm leaving, and get up and walk out right there.
[–]VinylGuy420 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I was doing some over the cloths foreplay, she liked it but still persisted with the ASD. At that point I was worried about rape so I let her know I was going to leave if she kept it up. And I did.
[–]replyaccount 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Who knows man. She could just be a cock tease. Some chicks just do that shit for attention with no intentions of doing the deed.
[–]Dai_Einon 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think this is the correct course of action. I'm not an established member here or anything, but isn't this why TRP says to spin plates? If one girl tries to work you over like this, put your shirt back on, call up another girl, and leave. You can always leave the option open with the other, but her not having sex with you doesn't have to mean you don't get sex. It just means she won't get to have sex with you.
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[–]replyaccount 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
60% of the time it works every time
[–]McMurphyCrazy 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Those are some shit odds. I wouldn't put money on that.
[–]darksoldierk 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's all fun and games until someone gets accused of rape.
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[–]ilovemyself101 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is very plausible, and could of been the case.
Try to get her naked before you take any clothes off, chances are she won't want to be the only naked person.
Also, the feeling of 2 naked stomachs running against each other, simulates the feeling of what it's like during sex and should turn her on even more.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
OP was oral on the table???
[–]VinylGuy420 -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you asking whether or not I was willing to give oral or she was willing to?
[–]MahlerNinth 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she stopped me and kicked in her ASD, she said she didn't want to have sex tonight and wanted to just lay there for the night
"Agree" with her on the not having sex tonight part, then suggest doing something incredibly un-sexy. Zip up your pants, turn on the TV and suggest just casually watching a bit of TV (while sitting in the solo armchair, not the couch). Then if she wants to cuddle, push her away for a bit, eventually relent and then take her clothes off.
[–]Uber_Nick 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Check your phone. When she asks what you're doing, say "you've got me too riled up; I need to cool down a bit. Otherwise I might just have to tear your clothes off" (lighthearted tone) *smirk*. She'll tease, complain, and cajole. Respond nicely with things like "sorry babe but you're way too sexy."
Lay on stomach, browse internet, politely dismiss her until she flips you over and forces you to stop. She will. Don't initiate a damn thing until she does. And don't even hint about being upset or pissy, because that will kill the mood.
[–]Thors_Cock 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She wants you to fuck her really hard. Just be honest about what you want.
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