So this is a field report about something that happened to me this weekend. So I'm 24 years old, 6' tall, yadi yadi yada. I've been part of the TRP community for a year now. I've been off TRP for the past 3+ months because I wanted to take the time to absorb the knowledge. I realized that I learned a lot about gaming, sexual strategy but I had no idea of who I was as a person. So, I disconnected from TRP and stopped the reading just to focus on me (This is relevant).

Anyway, let's rewind back to this past Saturday. I spent the day with one of my plates and I took care of my garden (it's one of my hobbies, judge me). I had a pretty long day and my roommate had asked me to go out with him to meet some of his girlfriend's friends. I refused because his group of friends includes a friend whom I fucked and she gets all worked up when I'm around so I avoid going out at all when he's with them to avoid drama; let's call her Mary So he ends up going out as I stay home and watch Netflix and endlessly swipe left and right on tinder. He comes back home maybe 3 hours later with his girlfriend, and two of her friends. One of them is smoking hot; short haired brunette, 7 face wise and a solid 8.5 body wise. The others aren't too relevant but they are friends with Mary and know my history with her. She is tall, died her hair blue and doesn't shave her armpits. He asks me to hang out with them. So I'm like "sure whatever, I'lll hang out for a bit" So we are all chilling in the living room and we start talking. The girl (We'll call her Clara) and I start our own conversation on the side since she likes my cat. The first sign I got that she was interested was her showing me her rib tattoo when I asked her if she likes cat. She literally lifts her shirt to her bra just to show me her tattoo. We end up talking while everyone is having a conversation. At some point, she mentions that she is married to a woman and I go "Oh, you're married? Interesting" and I simply turn and start joining the conversation. While we were all hanging out, she keeps throwing those looks at me. The "I wanna fuck you really bad" look. Like every 30 seconds, I'd look at her and she would be staring right back.

Fast forward to half an hour later, she goes downstairs to get water and play with the cat. So I'm thinking this is my chance. I follow her downstairs to find her playing with the cat. I grab some water and our conversation goes something like:

me: How long are you in town for?

Clara: I'm here until next Sunday (she's from SF)

Me: You're cute, I'd ask you out but you sound pretty married.

her: I'm in a poly marriage if you dig that. That's the right thing to do when you marry at 24

me: Oh? Does that mean you get to see other people?

... ( a lot of shit tests and smart answers)

her: So you're a virgo, I have a problem with Virgos, they're too cute.

me: Oh yeah?

her: when with a virgo, it's like putting my hand on a hot stove to see if it's hot. (Word for word, I shit you not)

me: Is that what you're doing with me?

And then bam , I grab her mid-sentence and we start making out. We are in my kitchen making out, we're grabbing each other, we're really getting it on in the kitchen. We talk about her staying the night. She kept walking away from me only to come back and keep making out (Mind you, she's married to a girl). I tell her my room is right down the hall and we can go there and for some reason, I don't go in my room and we end up going back upstairs (This is also relevant). When upstairs, everyone in the room can feel the tension. And the other girls end up calling a uber. I walk her downstairs and ask her to spend the night and she says "I'm gonna have to be good and go home" so I ask her out for drinks and grab her number.

Next day I text her and her answer was "Hey last night was fun but I'm gay when I'm sober" I fucking died of laughter when she sent this I really wasn't mad, I really thought it was fucking hilarious. But I'm sure one of the friends told her about Mary and I'm guessing that's whys she turned her away from me. This whole group of girls hates me because of this but that's ok.

This is a hit because: I had a good sense in my gut that she was interested. I made a goal in my development as a man, to be as straight forward as I can hence why I said she was cute cause she was. it's a hit because of how quickly I was able to escalate. She was at my house for 30 minutes before we made out. It was a hit also because I listened to my body. I listened to what my mind told me about the situation and this is something I was able to accomplish through meditation and tons of isolation.

This is a miss because: 1) I should have just gone in my room and fuccked her when we were downstairs. Something in my gut told me to do it and I didn't follow through with it. Even if she's gay when she's sober, just knowing I fuccked her would have made a big difference for me.

Lessons learned

  • Take some time off TRP and learn about yourself. Learn to listen to your guts, learn to listen to your feelings. Meditate and spend tons of time alone
  • "When it comes to sex, men are like an on/off switch, women are like a volume knob" so escalate, escalate, escalate.
  • and work on your looks. This is overtalked on TRP but that's because it is important. Work out, brush your teeth, get a haircut. IDK JUST FUCKING LOOK YOUR BEST.
  • Don't trust women. Specially the "gay" ones or the "married ones"
  • Next time my heart tells me to 'Fuck her' I will do just that with no hesitation.
  • But most important, know yourself, know your worth. Know what you're capable of and if you're part of this process, trust in it. I would never have done this a year and a half ago and yet I still have some much to improve on.

TL;DR: roommate brought over girlfriend's friend. We bonded over my cat, made out but didn't fuck her but learned some good lessons from that.

Of course, thanks for reading my post. And as always, let me know if you have any suggestions.