My mistake: Spinning a plate too fast.

AWALT Vs. Onenitis

It's easy to partition.

While spinning multiple plates - you inevitably get one that is just fucking wild and one that is a bit more fun to spin.

I'm talking about the craziest, wettest, tightest, hottest fucking nymph in your rotation.

I went to a bar for a drink, and to relax after work.

Smoked a cig, and a few hot girls came out whining about these other guys hitting on them in an unattractive fashion. This went on for a minute, and like clockwork, the boys came outside to chase. After five minutes of mentally cringing while smoking I mentioned out of the blue to the one that was giving me the most attention. "Hey I'm going in, come on."

She agreed and all of her friends came with her. I went in and sat down, they followed and bought me a drink as thanks. We cheered a glass then the game was on. Throughout the night I played confident borderline cocky and the one I had motioned to originally stayed interested. I was able to naturally find moments to isolate and demonstrate value and she kept coming along.

Then I played my set. It was an open mic. I hadn't planned on doing so; but, being a few drinks deep and getting a nudge from the host I decided to grab my guitar. I played 4 songs - granted I had her number by this point, and she texted me in the middle of my set about how good I was.

I invited her to come back to my house, she accepted, I got a new plate.

Imagine the best plate you/you've have/had. That's this one. I mean physically, so bare with me. The chick that does all the right stuff for you on all the right ways.

This went on for 3 separate occasions.

The sex was so good I started focusing too much on this particular plate - it was better than the others and more important.

I started planning more with this plate, texting more, spending more energy on, and basically trying to do tricks with the plate to show it off.

Needless to say, I dropped the plate.

Lesson: Plates are all the same size. Reference AWALT and Abundance Mentality.