I can’t change the title but if U could I would.....

This is what happens when you haven’t gotten truly over oneitis but have gotten over the initial-they are still perfect, I just wasn’t good enough phase.

I originally wrote this under the guise of : its motivational and a sign of how far I have come but actions talk louder than words. I’m also a bit of a hobbyist writer so the ability to take a simple thing and stretch it for half a page is something I’ve always kinda done so bear with me!

I’ve been informed that I spent too much time even writing this out, I keep it up as a reminder to the rest of you that oneitis is not easy to break.

It’s been six months since the oneitis “ended” on a surface level but deeper changes are probably a year away when I make more progress , we are both teens....

Original post as follows:

I recently saw an old oneitis again and it spurred some emotions.....of pity. I’ve come a far way since then.

It was a 3 year oneitis and my grades even dipped for a while - not her fault , my weakness was to blame. But it was because of this oneitis that led to my discovery of Redpill so for that alone I decided to spend a modicum of time to write this:

Just as a bury-the-hatchet kinda move and forgive(out of pity) and definitely forget-we’re both teens at the time of the Oneitis.

A manifesto to the ONEITIS & Successfully breaking one.

Let it be known , your oneitis is nothing special. In retrospect , mine definitely wasn’t anything remarkable -only above average compared to the rest of the locals. Her face is not a beacon of light or energy, merely a testament of her makeup skills. My oneitis was a master make up artist and she only slipped up ONE day and I almost didn’t recognize her -I thought she was almost a light drug addict or chronic clubber with no sleep.

Her supposedly perfect smile ? Hahahaha!!! Braces. Braces the whole fucking time. You remember when you first met her....She had braces you dumb fuck. Let her sister(who didn’t get braces) be a testament to that.

YOUR teeth however- au naturale and beautiful from the worlds greatest orthodontist if you have the right parents-Dr. Genetics.

Has she worked hard ? Ha!! Even her slightly above average looks can ensure she can coast comfortably. Doesn’t know effort even if it was looking at her back in the mirror. And when/If she tries to actually go against beautiful women- she will get destroyed. Relatively Pretty is no match for the ACTUAL goddess like figures that roam the wilderness/upper echelons of society.

She has a great body- no you dumb fuck. She probably has a solid face and an slim average body that looks better than it is because of the face. Your mind plays tricks on you Fool.

She goes to parties for fun? She’s an alcoholic and you know it. Those snapchats of her downing a bottle of champagne is unattractive as fuck. And yet you hang on....,

I can change her!

No.....you can only fuck her and be done with it. Because you see....,what attracted you wasn’t the looks or some such. It’s merely because she behaved in a manner that implies she was unattainable. That’s why you hang on. The “unattainable” fantasy!

You know what happened when u fucked that girl as hot as her. You got bored and if you got bored with her....you would get bored with this one if she gave in as well.

She was merely an above average girl on the same journey as you of self improvement and looking as beautiful as possible.

And you know what?

You beat her. You are on an exponential curve of achievement where as her accomplishments are linear and will plateau with children.

Make no fucking mistake. You dodged a bullet. Never regret oneitis or think: “One day my TRP skills will fuck that”

She was never that remarkable to begin with-she was hot because of the hype of the beta orbiters around her telling you constantly how hot she was.

Your Oneitis......

A fabrication of your own imagination -more grandiose than reality would have you believe.

She served her purpose, got you to RedPill.

Now do something with this knowledge like I did. I tap a girl that looks my oneitis on a slow weekend these days.

You are exponential , she is linear.

Take it from me , Success is way more fun than a oneitis. Succeed and next time you see her at an old reunion or somewhere—pay little attention and keep laughing your way to the bank and leave her in the dust......

Where she belongs.

So yeah that’s the cringe post of a guy trying to get over oneitis after six months.

Any an all advice on truly beating this shit for the long term is welcome!