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A note on one-itis, outcome independence, and inner game

HappyJerk

December 1, 2013
27 upvotes
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Title A note on one-itis, outcome independence, and inner game
Author

HappyJerk

Upvotes 27
Comments 5
Date December 1, 2013 1:05 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1rt2vd/a_note_on_oneitis_outcome_independence_and_inner/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/a-note-on-one-itis-outcome-independence-and-inner.232272
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Comments

[–]semigod__6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

story of kyle seems like the male equivalent of an alpha widow.

[–]Costafarian1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good post. Definitely some RP truth to all of that. At the end of the day, I think we all need to understand that the price of pussy is so low we just need to treat it like a McDouble. Some late night fun with the guys, and you happen to get hungry. So you grab a quick snack and be on your way. Go back to doing your own thing.

Doing your own thing is way more important than anything else in your life. Aside from the obvious.

And he's right. You will meet girls who are genuinely more interesting than the others, but when the relationship is over its difficult to move on when you bond in an intimate way. I could easily say that my most recent ex was one of my best friends, but her needs, future plans, etc were conflicting with mine and I had to let her go.

[–]qstnnblmtrl1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is an excellent post which highlights one of the problems that some men here have: they base their worth on the women they're with. I've noticed some new members here that are interested in all the PUA stuff without trying to better themselves, which is what this sub is about. Ironically, /u/JonnyBeanBag suggested to x-post this to seddit, but due to this crossover that I've been seeing here, both TRP and seddit can learn something from this article: don't base your worth on the women you're with, work on building your intrinsic value and the women will follow.

[–]JonnyBeanBag-2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Might be better submitted to r/seddit...not TRP

[–]HappyJerk[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Done

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