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[–]47rivers15 points16 points17 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're thinking about it the wrong way- you should have absolutely no concern whatsoever what she does with this guy, because it's not you who has to worry about "losing out". The more concerned you appear about him, the more frame you lose. You shouldn't be worried about her cheating on you, she shouldn't want to anyway, and you shouldn't care enough about staying in a relationship with someone who would cheat anyway.
[–]Paydenwayne8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you, I think that’s what I was feeling is why I never expressed my annoyance, but I wasn’t sure how place it. Hearing it resonates tho, it felt wrong to gratify her with my acknowledgment of him and now I know why.
[–]DochreanSepp5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She brings him up to test you and it bothers you. She knows that.
Where does that insecurity come from?
[–]Paydenwayne1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I couldn’t say. Probably from being a BP in a not so distant past life
[–]DochreanSepp5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Play it cool. Tell her that this guy sounds fun. She will soon stop telling you about him.
[–]jpeero885 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Knock them both out of orbit. Fuck that shit.
[–]Self-honest1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's getting her girl fitness advice from a guy who acts like a girl (orbiter). Don't feel disrespected. I'm sure it makes perfect sense in her head.
[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What the hell happened in here? We got guys fretting about orbiters now?
In case any of you have forgotten this place exists to understand competition within the STR paradigm.
Seriously, these guys occupy a spot lower than random dude in a bar you sit next to. They're at -1 on a scale of 0-10.
Clear your head. If I had to take some random wager, right now you're all sorts of sideways and this guy has absolutely nothing to do with anything. This post is a manifestation of you right now.
[–]Paydenwayne0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean by “you’re all sorts of sideways and this guy has absolutely nothing to do with anything”
[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well are you or are you not sorted out right now?
[–]Paydenwayne0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well I just got out of the military and landed a great career, although I’m not settled in yet, I’m moving forward. Our relationship is long distance though due to meeting her while I was in the service. As far as myself I’m pretty sorted, but being long distance isn’t ideal as far as my relationship.
[–]Triadis3 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
She maintains an orbiter because you are not fulfilling everything she requires.
1 - fix that.
2 - Establish the boundary that no girlfriend of yours has a platonic BFF of the opposite sex.
[–]Paydenwayne4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’ve mentioned the no platonic BFF of the opposite sex early on in our relationship but she seems to have missed the memo, I haven’t pressed out of fear of looking like a bitch, or appearing threatened by him. How would I avoid it.
[–]DochreanSepp-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Some girls just like the attention they get from their orbiters. Especially the hot ones.
I dont think that has anything to do with him not fulfilling requirements. Giving her attention die free is the orbiters job.
[–]civilizedfrog2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Her job is to make your dick hard, not your life hard.
Reduce her to plate status.
[–]uzi00964 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Aha, we're in a fairy tale. From where comes such wise advice?
[–]Ceeda1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Get her to take a selfie with your dick in her hand, and send it to him.
Bahaha i think I might actually do this
[–]Rares5555-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What if he has a small dick and the orbiter has a 14 inch magic wand?
So you’re 6’, 180, 10% body fat man...but you clearly don’t have the mentality of one.
Why the fuck would you be concerned about an orbiter when you have a greek god body?
Check your finances, wit, intelligence and performance in bed.
Like I said, I’m not so much concerned as I am annoyed and just wondering if it’s better to continue ignoring his orbiting, or do something about it. I figured the former but thought I’d ask.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just haven’t been able to properly asses how I should respond to his orbiting.
It's like a girl friend your girlfriend has, your proper response is to ignore/treat him with the same niceness you would her other gfs.
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