Tl;dr: the blue pill mentality is destructive for everyone involved. The red pill yields happiness for all those involved, even though it's harder to swallow.

Lets just start and say that R is one of my closest friends for 5 years. I feel no attraction towards her. She usually calls and I don't mind hanging out. She's never been in a relationship. Recently she's been getting closer to a clique that is quite chill I usually pass by whenever I'm free. Now Bob is in this clique. He's actually a really nice guy, funny, always laughing, smart engineering student, very well off, dresses well. Not our typical hunchback pushover beta bucks, nor our amused Chad. He's somewhere in the middle he has a respected clique. I really like Bob and respect him.

Since R has been getting closer to said clique she's been hanging out with Bob more in her gaps, they'd go to training together and all. He'd tease her and she'd eat it all up.

Yesterday, Bob goes to R and says come on let's go out on a date. She says no I have training. He's persistent, and nags for 30 minutes. R insists on going to the training thinking Bob is just bored and messing around. They're just friends why would he want a date she hamsters.

Now R comes to me for advice, was Bob really joking? She's worried. He , later sent a voice note saying that he wasn't really joking. He told people she rejected him, all while laughing of course.

Is it all a big joke? Does he really want to date her? Oh it's all so confusing she says.

"I'm a pussy in these things I've never tried them" she tells me.

I look at her, smile and say " well he was not joking he was for real it's just his style. And I approve. Bob is a pretty safe bet for a first time. Just give it a try you'll lose nothing. He knows that you're in it just to try. Go with the flow "

Then I reflect on it. I genuinely meant no harm for Bob. I like him. I just want R to explore because that's what she should do. R isn't a bitch, she's actually really cool. Quite considerate actually she was really concerned about Bob and his feelings. It'll be all lovely-Dovey at first. They'll be 'so cute' Bob will be happy that he got R.

However, it's doomed. R and Bob are over. We all know how it will end. They both meant no harm and it'll be a fucking disaster at the end. In a while she'll ' just not feel it'. Telling herself that she was just trying . It's doomed. Simply because although not beta bucks. Bobs approach is wrong. He didn't assert himself, he didn't give R the tingles. He offered himself the mans way; the logical way. Failing to see that women - even the nicest of them- are emotional.

Thus it's our mission as men to be Red-Pilled men. Not only for us for EVERYONE. If Bob approached it our way. R would've been fucking thrilled. FINALLY someone she can experiment with. If Bob took the lead and asserted himself. R would be thrilled. FINALLY someone to tackle her confusion, lead her and show her it's all good.

I share this with you to reflect on it and as a change from the typical theme of all women are whores. R isn't a whore (yet I guess). I am not a little bitch because I told her to explore her options. I want her to experiment and explore. Certainly, all women definitely have the potential to fuck us over, however our Red pill methods teach us how to tame that potential. And how to lead ourselves and those with us to a better reality.