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[–]rkg-pua 23 points23 points23 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Maybe I am missing something but I dont see what is so wrong with that thread besides her obviously being a dumbass (which she admits)
Its okay for her to want to be married at that age...If the guy doenst want the same, they should part ways.
[–]ANALGAPE12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link
The thing is that she feels that because they have been together so long he owes her marriage and kids.
[–]rkg-pua 28 points28 points28 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Dude, they have been together for 14 years. Of course she feels that way. A women of her age needs to be aware of her clock.
The only issue I see is that she should have left him a long time ago.
[–]delta_hedge12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
not only her clock. also the SMV mismatch. 34 and 35? she has hit the wall while he is still in his prime.
assuming they matched SMV when they met 14 years ago (19/20), unless she went from landwhale to 100 lbs and he became a fat fuck, there is no way she will be able to find a better guy now.
[–]ossamig-1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As much as I like this place, it's ridiculous how for some all this stuff they "learn" clouds their common sense. Ah right it's because her SMV hit the wall of ABC XYZ... what are you talking about, these people haven't participated in the sexual market for a decade, it's not about the fucking sexual market, it's about having kids and starting a family now or never.
[–]soyanon12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Except she said she realizes that she cant find anyone else at her age.
She all but said "my SMV is too low to move on"
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Marriage has no point or reason she only wants because society says she should. The only thing that maters is kids, she should own up to having kids with him or move on this should have been covered in the first month of dating.
[–]Sword112 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It is greedy and selfish, yet if a man were to be greedy and selfish it would not fly "OMG CREEP"
[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, but who cares?
[–]Sword11-1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Double standard... Red pill dislikes
[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We're going to face that shit no matter what. Let it fall right off you and proceed as you feel like proceeding.
[–]socal832 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's not written that we have to be nice to anyone.
in fact, we're the hardest on some of ourselves, the former-beta idiot fuckwad stupid shithead dumbass retards that spent the better part of their teens and 20s with their head up their blue pill ass.
like me.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Now I feel I am too old to find someone who will love me and someone with out baggage.....I hurt everyday, I feel he doesn't love me as much as I love him, but I think I am ready to walk away.
Funny. It sounds like it's not about "him" or "us" as in a union of two people, but rather about her own desires. I just hope the guy won't bend to ultimatum if it comes.
[–]socal830 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I
pretty typical.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women use marriage as a proof of status amongst each other. The red pill truth is that it means nothing.
There's no reason a piece of paper and some words said would change a 14 year relationship. So ridiculous..
[–]M0nsterRain4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.
They have been together for 14 years. That's longer than a lot of marriages last.
She needs to wake up and realize that she's already "married" even if she doesn't have a piece of paper that says so.
[–]ANALGAPE3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The entitlement of women in that thread is quite shocking.
[–]ladyuniscorn 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The biggest problem I see with this is that she "thought he would change". You can't expect someone to change. If someone doesn't want marriage or kids and is upfront about that, it doesn't matter how long you wait because you cannot make them change.
On the first date with my ex, I told him that I never wanted to have biological children. Fast forward 6 years and he wanted to turn me into a baby factory, nope, I did not change my mind - still don't want kids.
[–]culofiesta 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bad thing for her is she passed the prime dating years for women. Now she will get out there, expecting to get a lot of dates and realize it's a man's game in your thirties.
[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hitting the wall at 88mph instead of going 20 years back in time and telling yourself to dump the guy because we dont have no flux capacitors.
[–]throwme19671 point2 points3 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll never understand why the person I give free milk to whenever they want still refuses to buy my cow...
[–]RedditBlueit0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never pushed...
Because she knew, or thought she knew, what the answer will be. And now that she's 34, she can't put it off any longer, she's going to push when her leverage is weakest.
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