So I'm siting watchung TV and my mom decided to give me some life advice. First she tells me some general advice.

Then she says that all women want to get married. And that this drive is not only natural but social, women get jealous of other women who are married and thus want to get married. Morever the women who never get married are looked at as if they have something wrong in them

Then she says that's why they're all nice. They always smile and keep their options open. They always have "backups" ( beta orbiters) so that when they want to marry they have options and pick the best man (hypergame and after riding the cocktrain )and that she herself did that with my dad (exclude the cocktrain) She even said that all women do this and some are even told by their mothers to do this. Almost like a quest and that if she had a daughter she would tell her to leave uni with a diploma and a husband. (While persevering herself)

Then she says to play hard to get and that women purposely play hard to get and there are social construts and rules that they follow.

And said to be mysterious and vague. To never be too available so that my presence is valued

If a 45 year old women who've seen way too much testimony isn't legit evidence then nothing is