So I'm a single 22yo who's 6'1 handsome and athletic but I haven't had much success with women. I even have a college degree and a good job at a bank. I get along with them and I always thought they might be flirting with me but I just didn't get it.

After reading this subreddit I realized that all my female "friends" actually wanted me. They would go out of there way to bring my favorite beer over(Its a $12 six pack) and invite me to events that were of great interest to me but no so much to them. But what wierded me out was they always talked about different guys and so I figured they weren't interested. I would just ignore it instead of being hurt and just played it cool since I thought we were only friends. Now are reading about shit tests I'm figuring it all out.

Also one of my friends was a bit drunk and asked if she could stay over and sleep in my sister's room and I said sure. But then at the last minute she said that she probably shouldn't and that she should go home. I just said ok and her response was "Too bad I could have used a cuddle" I replied "We weren't going to be in the same bed anyway" like an idiot.

Whatever you live and you learn.

EDIT: I feel like a pussy now