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[–]mrbossman12318 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
That's literally the dumbest thing I've read all day. What you need to do is read the side bar (whether or not you did in the past) before you ruin your life. I'm serious. You're going raw in Tinder skanks and want to ltr them?? What am I reading??
[–]RpStinger277 points 10 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
She may be hot and fun but LTR material?! Dude, you met this chick on Tinder!!! Use this as a learning experience, no need to beat yourself up. You need to step back and take an objective look at your situation, you have to many emotions right now to think clearly. next time you match with some chick don't have any expectations. Who cares if you can't get off, or that some other dude can make her cum better. She shouldn't mean anything else to you except a means for your pleasure. If I were you I wouldn't contact her again. Learn from this experience, regroup and try again with some other skanks.
[–]R1fle[S] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
You mentioned something I didn't get to touch on. Technically, so long as I'm still feeling genuinely confident about myself it shouldn't matter. If I was a boss I should just literally not use a condom, pump until I am about to cum, pull out, cum, and be done for the night. If she said I was bad at sex, I'd just own it. That's my TYPICAL personality, and I think I could make it work; however, I sort of high-talked my sex because I actually thought making her cum wouldn't be so fucking hard.
Thanks for the advice, I will take into consideration when I can think with a clear mind.
[–]Pillredpopper 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"If I was a boss I should just literally not use a condom, pump until I am about to cum, pull out, cum, and be done for the night"
There is nothing boss about playing roulette with your dick health. This is twice you have mentioned no condoms fairly flippantly, with a Tinderella no less. Dude be smart.
[–]R1fle[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My dick's health is fine. The actual issue would be with her getting pregnant, which, if I came I'd make her buy the morning after pill.
Update, even after I blocked her number she snapchatted me all night. She started with 'I feel sad.'. Went on and on about how she doesn't understand why I don't want to see her anymore. She got super pissed. She thinks it's because she can't make me get off in bed (this is actually the opposite but it's what she thinks), and she thinks I want to sleep with other women because she's not good enough for me - her exact words. I tried to be as nice and aloof as possible with my reasoning. It sucks knowing I could have her if I want her, but I still can't wrap my mind about what she said in bed to me. She'll never know that's the real reason I can't look at her the same.
[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You focus on securing her by pleasure. You're beta. You're insecure. You focus on that other man already.
Your relationship with her won't go anywhere.
I agree if I stay insecure and focus on the other dude it won't go anywhere. Thanks, I will be working on this.
[–]KartagoPill 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Alpha Widow is hard to please. Just be cautious. Her standards were set very high. In my opinion it's plate material.
[–]R1fle[S] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I liked this advice last night but after some rest I think making her a plate is a very good idea now. She said she doesn't want me having sex with other girls as she said it will make her jealous, and she knew I had sex with a girl while I was still seeing her. I think I will just go back to my old roots of having sex with multiple girls, because mentally I cannot handle failure with one when all my eggs are in the same basket.
Thanks
[–]ecosci 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Just be more primal in bed look at pornhub and take notes women want the balance of good dude good sex so work on it she is just being honest dont compare your self to him its always some guy bigger and better and never ask about details with her ex lovers it helps with anxiety because it will get mental if you allow it to consume you, 5ft asian likes sex hell go for its not many like her around (honest).
I guess this is my problem. I can be more dominant, but... I dont know if I can stay hard while being dominant. I read a fair bit of Sex God Method last night and there are heaps I saw where I went wrong, and where I can improve, things I want to try... I need to learn for next time, that's the whole point of this experience. I cannot live with myself if I cannot ensure this never happens again to me. I know how I want to be more dominant in bed... but staying rock hard at the same time I'm a little unsure. That's my current problem.
[–]1Sir_Distic 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So two girls in Tinder had sex with you and told you exactly what they needed, and you still couldn't do it?
Dominate them. Fuck them hard. Toss them around like a fucking man!
It's funny you mention the 2nd girl because I never mentioned the 2nd girl also said she liked to be dominated(she did say this though), and I couldn't do it to her either, but she also isn't the girl I'm trying to form a relationship with.
It sucks how I know what I have to do and just haven't/can't do it. My appetite is completely fucked at the moment too. I have eaten about 700 calories in the last 48 hours due to the stress. I know what I need to do to feel better (eat, lift, work), but I cannot remove this stress.
Sort of having a bit of a meltdown at the moment and I think I need to severe the ties with this girl before I damage myself anymore.
[–]1skittles_man 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude, first of all, you met this hoe on Tinder. IMO, when you meet a girl on Tinder, you should only be concerned with your own pleasure.
That being said, YOU'RE BETA. Straight up. You need to unplug further. That bullshit she gave you right after you guys had sex? Massive shit test. You failed. That fact that you don't even recognize that is a huge red flag. She could smell your beta. Want to know why she remembers the other guy? Because he didn't give a fuck about her and probably used some domination in the bedrooom.
If you want to become more secure in your sexual prowess I highly recommend the Sex God Method. It will teach you proper domination.
[–]R1fle[S] -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, alpha and beta are states. I am alpha most of the time, and I failed her shit test which made me beta. Obviously, this shouldn't have even happened in the first place. I know girls like domination in bed, I just... I wasn't giving it my all. And hearing what she said after not being able to get it up just stung like fuck. It was a test I could not pass, and it's one I never want to fail again in the future.
I am currently reading Sex God Method - something I already wanted to do but never felt necessary, and I'm already feeling a lot better about the next time with the next girl.
[–]RageLionRising1 points 10 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Delete this post, and learn the rules. TLDR at the beginning. LESSONS LEARNED at the end. Stop wasting our time.
[–]R1fle[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I edited it a bit now. Left out the lessons learned. And I agree my thread is terrible, but I had to share my situation and TRP is the only one who understands.
[–]mrbossman1231 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Some people's entire purpose in life is to serve as an example for others not to end up like you. Don't be that person, please. Because that's exactly where you're headed.
[–]aanarchist -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sounds like you need to smoke some weed cuz you sound like a robot. women don't get off to robots they get off to animals. what makes you an individual rather than a carbon copy of trp alpha #029349028? if you can answer that, then you can get a woman to cum.
[–]NeoreactionSafe -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
At the level you are approching this you aren't going to gain a lot of tingles.
Masculine polarity is mostly a mental thing.
It's very likely this other guy was just average in many ways, but he had that mental capacity to drive her over the edge because his mind did it to her.
What gets women to orgasm is the act of mental submission.
Women crave losing.
I know... it sounds weird as hell but that's their biology.
Combine that with the Hamster Wheel that makes them seek happiness emotionally and you understand women.
Half the time they are seeking happiness and the other half is seeking submission to a guy that mentally rocks her world.
When you understand this then all your sexual fears will dissolve.
[–]R1fle[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
It makes sense. This girl has been very tough to swoon. I know she gets aroused a ton with me. I do a lot of masculine things around her. I make her do things, I blame things on her playfully, I always pick her up and set her down places. I just need to do that in the bedroom. Not sure if it's worth talking to my doctor about viagra at 26, I just want to be a fucking machine in bed + applying sex god method.
[–]NeoreactionSafe 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You will gain more with the mental than the physical.
She just needs to find her submissive place and you need to get her there.
Update. I ended it with her. Thanks again for the tips man.
[–]probpoopin 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Are you taking any medications? Erectile dysfunction at that age is very, very rare. I would guess you are on some sort of anti depressant, or you have low testosterone. Go get it checked. If you are on SSRI meds, that's what is doing it. But yeah, you shouldn't be having those problems at your age. I'm ninety nine percent sure that the ED is secondary to either a testosterone issue or from meds. I really doubt it is a primary case of ED, too young.
[–]R1fle[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Sex God Method mentions that if you have too many toughts, and are thinking logically in bed (insecure, worries), you will have issues in bed. I do have ADHD, and during weekdays I take meds to keep me focused. This won't effect ED tho, except because of ADHD it's possible I get easily distracted (thinking about what she's thinking, instead of just fucking her for my enjoyment).
I know if I get checked for low test they'll probably say I'm fine/average. I just want to be better. I want to be hard and be able to do a tapdance naked and stay hard. It's like if I'm not laying on my back(bad habit from jerking off) I can't stay rock hard for more than a few minutes.
[–]probpoopin 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dude, take your meds on the weekends too. I was an army medic for 6 years. So, I'm not a doctor, but I do have quite a bit of experience with meds and pharmacology. Here is what I think is a possibility. You are dependent on the medication from taking it awhile and when you stop on the weekend, you could he going into a mild withdrawal and not know it. Causing anxiety, and a number of other symptoms that go with amphetamine withdrawal. If anything that shit will help keep you up and going and stay focused. Either take the meds or don't. Don't do the some day I'll take it someday I won't. It fucks your brain chemistry up.
[–]R1fle[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well I take it for work...
Anyways I guess I'll provide a status update. I had texted her asking how her father liked her card for Father's Day. 2 hours passed with no text back, and in typical beta fashion I could not get over it. I tried so hard to get a big meal into me. I couldn't stomach anything. I could not get down ANY food. I called my mom, to vent a bit before leaving for work cause I wanted to catch up on work (writing this from my office atm).
Once I left the house I got a text back from the girl. She asked me how my gift to my father went too. We backed n forth for a little bit. She didn't seem that phased from last night.
I had already made my decision though before I left my house. If I can't eat, it's not worth it. I told her I'm not ready for a relationship, apologized for last night just to be courteous, thanked her for seeing me when I wanted to see her.
I didn't know what else to say... She said... 'So I guess you're saying we're not seeing each other anymore.'... I still didn't know what to say. A couple minutes later she said 'Well it was nice meeting you, all the best.' and I replied with 'Thanks, you too.', then blocked.
More importantly than anything is my diet and my fitness, and I can't stand not being able to eat from the stress. Apart of me wants to just be like 'I changed my mind I'm coming over right now.' and then go demolish her vagina, but I know I can't even do that. I have wayyyy too fucking much on my mind I'd never be capable of pulling it off.
Just want to move on and try again in a few weeks/months with a new girl as someone already suggested.
[–]probpoopin 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Again, taking it that way will mess with your brain chemistry. I guarantee you are going into amphetamine withdrawal and don't even know that's what is going on. Take it, or don't. Does the bottle say take it at work? If take it daily? Those are NOT as needed medications like ibuprofen. It is a hardcore drug that is altering the chemicals in your brain. Taking it one day, and then not the next is asking for trouble. I guarentee that is why you are having anxiety like you are. I can't stress to you how important it is that you are not taking your psyche meds properly. Go ask your doctor if it is ok and he will probably yank your prescription on the spot for taking it negligently. Also, that is a great way to pick up an addiction. Yes diet and exercise are important. However, taking your meds as needed is definitely the more pressing issue here. OP, please take your medication correctly. Out of curiosity, why aren't you taking it on the weekends? Are there side effects you don't like or something? There are other medications you could try and see if they work better. I'm just saying, taking them how you are is asking for some pretty major trouble. It would even be better if you didn't take any at all. Again, I can't stress this enough. Take your medications properly. They will not work correctly otherwise and can cause a plethora of problems. Like anxiety!!! You put amphetamine in your body everyday, and then on the weekends stop. You really believe your body is going to respond in any positive way to that? Take it or don't. You're shooting yourself in the foot here.
I meant to get back to you earlier. I'll give taking meds on the weekend a shot. The reason I don't is because yea, there is a side effect I don't like which is the loss of appetite. I'm keen on gaining weight and it's hard enough for me to eat as is. Losing weight would sink me into a depression.
[–]probpoopin 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or go ahead, take your meds wrong and wonder why it doesn't work and you struggle with anxiety.
[–]CockThunderchad -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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