For some context, here's the original post by amishbreakfast, eloquently explaining the subtle realities in taking a woman home.
Now, take a look at dedelsd's reply to a comment on the original post.
dagnart's useful comment:
The insistence that everybody should be super verbal and clear about their intentions from the get-go and refuse to acknowledge non-verbal communication or the complex realities of human interaction is, in my opinion, really dogmatic and unrealistic.
And now the bullshit:
It might be dogmatic and unrealistic, but with 1 in every 6 women in the US being raped, I'm okay with that. I think people overestimate 'consent', it can simply boil down to saying "is this ok" or "how does this feel", "are you ready", " wanna keep going", etc. It doesn't have to be a contract, it accounts for everyone's feelings and does not make anyone uncomfortable. And, in my opinion, usually yields a lot better sex.
I hate this. With the way our society treats rape, and the statistics used, Men have their lives ruined by allowing a girl's regret to turn into persecution. I've seen this shit happen firsthand, twice. Contrasting these women to an actual rape victims, it's shameful. It's designed to subjugate men.
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