An all to convenient and questionable explanation on women dating during their 20's and marrying around 30.

orographic · 2013-09-04T19:12:43+00:00

As a society we are lead to believe that women in general are naive in love and dating until they reach the age of about 27-30. Around this age they spontaneously and whole-heartedly accept that a set of qualities in men that they've never valued before are the most important values they should be looking for and are then able to find true love and marry.

Masterfully said. In fact, that paragraph lead me to a depressing revelation.

When a younger woman (e.g. 21) desires an older, more mature man (e.g. 36), the reaction is frantic hand-wringing:

He's preying on you! You're too young to know what you want! Don't waste your youth on that creep! Have some fun with guys your own age! A normal, decent man would want someone more mature!

In other words, we're expected to simultaneously believe:

Women in their thirties suddenly change their romantic preferences because they finally discovered what they truly desire in a partner. Don't be bitter by assuming those women are reluctantly having to settle for the men they used to be able to ignore!
Young women in their sexual prime who already have those wizened preferences shouldn't act on them yet. They shouldn't miss out on all the fun with guys they can have in their youth!

In other words, we are told that those wizened romantic preferences are only wise once those women have no other options.

Wow! That's exactly what we say those women are thinking, but we're called cynical and bitter for expressing it directly.

RedBigMan · 2013-09-04T17:28:59+00:00

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icallmyselfmonster · 2013-09-04T17:20:19+00:00

it’s important to note that women mature both physically and emotionally

They say all their lives they are more mature, they pat themselves on the back for it. But I disagree that they ever mature emotionally.

Swifthand · 2013-09-04T17:30:09+00:00

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no_game_player · 2013-09-04T17:49:15+00:00

I feel like this post is rehashing everything we know. Almost to a circle jerk level. This female behavior is nothing new, special, or astounding. Its women making choices like women naturally do.

My advice to all those TRP think tanks (noobies who don't get laid regularly) would be to GAME, WRAP YOUR DICK, GET YOUR ASS TO THE GYM, AND SUCCEED IN YOUR PROFESSIONAL LIFE.

Stop circle jerking and over analyzing and pretending your making gains in life when all your really doing is sitting in front of your pc all day. I whole heartedly believe your a fucking loser if you spend your day like this. You guys are the bitter faggots that are the low hanging fruit the mass media makes fun of. Stop making us guys look so bad.

Get outside and start fucking bitches. In my experience of gaming, this is absolutely the best way to learn redpill knowledge.

LifterofThings · 2013-09-04T18:27:34+00:00

My theory about why people are marrying later has more to do with education. Women are expected to have some sort of profession now, outside of wife and mommy-- for better or for worse, to get a profession you can support yourself with nowadays requires a post secondary education.

So while in the 50s, people got married out of high school, we're telling both boys and girls to get established before starting the dating game in earnest... and that takes a lot more time than it did 50 or 60 years ago. My mom said when she came out of high school, becoming a teacher required 10 months of teachers' college. Now any sort of teaching job typically requires a 4 year degree on top of a 2 year teaching diploma... so rather than looking for a marriage at 17 or 18, people are putting off getting hitched and making babies for at least 4 years (assuming the average person goes to university right after high school and finishes their degree in 4 years and isn't taking time to build a career).

This isn't really that unusual for men-- they've always been expected to be financial providers, and still are today even with women landing high prestige and high salary jobs (which is why a woman with high earning potential isn't necessarily a more valuable mate). I don't think a lot of women appreciate the impact that prioritizing education and career have on her dating prospects.

sulopejur-2 · 2013-09-04T21:58:15+00:00

girls mature faster emotionally

Is this really true? It certainly wasn't in my case; I remember being much more mature than girls of my age.

In the hyper feminine world of education and anything else child related, submissiveness and dependence are seen as "mature" and aggression and independence as "immature". Understandable, but there's nothing more mature about one than there is about the other. Unless if you just define it that way.

rapey_raperson · 2013-10-16T19:44:09+00:00

women mature both physically and emotionally much faster than men. And in the case of emotional maturity, men are said to peak over a decade after women.

Speak for yourself: most of the women I know are simply stuck perpetually at the emotional maturity of a 14 year-old. In my 40-plus years, I've witnessed this in women in their 20's, 30, 40's and 50's.

Most of the men I know generally matured in their 20's, with some further wisdom and maturity developing in their 30's and 40's.

I've often been told that my subset of friends is atypical; but always by Blue-Pill women, White Knights and Manginas when I refute their feminist Blue Pill assumptions.

Dating is the topic where this often comes up. White Knights and Manginas tend to characterize all men as being lying, poontang-chasing lust machines unless counseled otherwise. Yet most of the guys I know really just want to have a relationship with a woman who will treat them fairly and honestly. In fact, aside from the occasional "Yo, she has a nice ass" comment, I have never heard a guy talking about his "conquests" or how he lies to and/or cheats on women.

Yet I've seen the majority of women in their 40's behaving with the same immature games that the men left behind in high school. I feel bad for them; they get treated like shit when they are being honest and treating women with fairness and consideration. These guys are not pussy-whipped White Knights, they are just regular guys who don't get that the women they are dealing with will gladly play games with their heads and treat them like shit, just because they can.

Title	An all to convenient and questionable explanation on women dating during their 20's and marrying around 30.
Author	RebuildVer1
Upvotes	38
Comments	38
Date	September 4, 2013 3:36 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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