An experience based approach to first dates: Part 1

Summary

Nothing determines your relationship to a woman more than your first date with her. I like to offer you some insights on the dating game based on my experience:

  • Common mistakes to avoid

  • How to get laid on the first date

  • Typical question women use to evaluate your SMV

  • Choosing the location

Body

  • Lead

First of all remember that you are the man. Women want to be led by a strong man. So it’s your job to find a location, to set the time and manage the logistics. One of my favourite strategy is simple and effective. I just tell a girl: “Hey let’s go out, I’ll pick you up at X.XX pm.” Don’t bother to tell her what you’re planning to do. Hold frame, ignore her questions. The unknown is very exciting and women love surprises. She’ll spent her days imagining what you are going to do with her, she’ll even discuss it with her friends. Another advantage of this strategy is, that she submits to your lead if she accepts your invitation.

  • Location

If you don’t want to show off your qualities as beta provider, don’t take her to restaurant. She might like the idea of getting free dinner, but we all know, that free meals don’t get her wet. (Unless you’re playing the hypergamie game, than take a low class girl to a fancy place, she has never seen before. This way she’ll do anything to secure you as her provider. Of course you dump her sooner or later)

Take her to a bar? Rather boring, a waste of money. A women who wants to go out drinking with you, wants to fuck. She only needs some alcohol to loose inhibition. In this case tell her to visit you, because you got a fine bottle of wine. Doesn’t matter if you offer her cheap wine, 99 % of all people can’t tell the difference between a great and an average wine.

I personally take women to place I want to visit myself. You want to see an exhibition in the museum, take her with you. You enjoy watching animals? Take her to the zoo. And so on.

Some of you may think: What’s wrong with this stupid fucker, called /u/rp_orginalblend ? Why does he even bother to take girls on relationship-like dates?

Good point, but I enjoy female companionship on certain activates, I like to create sexual tension over the course of multiple hours, I like to make women fall in love with me. And this way she sees how awesome a relationship with you can be. Also there’s nothing more interesting than a man who enjoys himself, participate in interesting activities. Show your knowledge, show your social skills while interacting with other people.

  • Dealing with rejection

Ok, you told lets meet Tuesday evening and she tells she’s busy? Well shit, but she better suggest on alternative date. If not, she’s not interested. A women will make time if she’s interested. Or do you think a women wouldn’t drop all her plans to go on a date with Brad Pitt. She doesn’t want to come along, it doesn’t really matter, because you planned an activity you enjoy yourself. And you don’t need another person to make it enjoyable. Time to practice cold approach.

  • Jerking off

I don’t want to you to masturbate while on date. But if your one of these guys, who shoots fast, it might be a good idea to release some pressure before. Great sex is essential to make a women truly love you and great sex takes more time than two minutes. If you’re not a great lover, read the Sex God Method.

On the other hand jerking off diminish your motivation to fuck her, so this really depends on you. Don’t think of her while masturbating, because this is something creepy betas do. And women can smell a creepy beta from two miles away.

Lessons

  • Be the leader: You tell time, date and location
  • Choose an activity you enjoy on your own
  • Evaluate her level of interest realistic