I hate the 0-10 scale.

It serves no purpose, aside from feeding an ego.

"Dude, I totally banged this HB8 last night." And?

I have been with a lot of different girls. Some of them were smoking hot all around. Some of them had busted faces with great bodies. Some of them were really pretty faces, with alright bodies. Some of them have been fairly plain all around. And while I have never fucked an outright fat girl, I have been with a couple of chubbier girls.

While some of them were better than others, there was more to the equation than how physically attractive they were.

Hang in there with me.

I have noticed a lot of guys, most of whom are terrible with women and possess no masculine value, nitpick women based off arbitrary bullshit.

Their noses are too big, they have hairy arms, they cannot have an intellectual conversation, they have small boobs, etc… “Well, you like what you like,” is what they clamor when I would confront them on their criticisms, and I call bullshit.

The reason these guys disqualify women for shitty reasons is because they are afraid of rejection. This fear is what causes them to project their own insecure bullshit onto women, via critiquing some other arguably trait easily ignored.

What solidifies this idea for me is most men given enough time without a vagina to fill, will invariably find themselves sticking it in the very same type of women they once rejected. If they truly “liked what they like,” why would they go for something less?

The other side of the coin.

There are guys out there who do the exact opposite of nit pick. They specifically go after older, fatter, and/or uglier women because of their preferences. "Dude, fat girls give better blowjobs." "Older women are just better to hang out with, smarter, and more experienced in the sack." I call more horseshit.

I have been with chubby girls, and older women. The chubbier ones did not suck dick any better than some of the dime pieces I have been with.

Older women are just as retarded and annoying as your average 18 year old college freshman.

The reality is older, uglier, and fatter women are much easier to get.

It all comes back to ego.

The 0-10 scale is a way to brag.

Nit-picking women's attractiveness is a buffer against rejection. So is specifically going after obviously undesirable women.

Women should not be the determination of your self-worth.

This is something many red pill guys can get on board with, but I am going to take it a step further.

Who gives a fuck if an average girl rejects you?

Who gives a fuck what other guys think when they see you out with the plain Jane you are dating?

If you like a 5, you like a 5. End of story.

Somewhere beyond hot and ugly, there is a field, I will meet you there.

Some of the girls who stirred my loins the most were nothing spectacular to being with. They had nice figures, but overall they were fairly plain, and definitely not head turners.

Now, you may be asking yourself why I would bother going after these girls in the first place. The answer is because my gut said so.

What is attraction?

I answer this in two parts.

The first part of attraction is how short the length of time is after I bust a nut, that I want to get back inside her. Some girls I put it to, and once I am done, I want them gone. Some girls I do not mind having around afterwards, but I am not particularly aroused. Some girls I will fuck 4 to 5 times in the course of a night.

The other part of attraction is how willing I am to spend time with them aside from when we are fucking. Some girls I will occasionally see. Some girls I will not spend any time with with them outside of the bed. Some girls I enjoy spending time with inside and outside the bedroom.

Ideally, I want to have a girl I can bone relentlessly, and spend time doing fun shit with after my nuts are empty.

Sometimes I find girls who meet this criteria, and they are not what most men would expect.

It is all about your enjoyment.

Guys who spend time chasing older broads and fatties, along with those who are disqualifying women for arbitrary bullshit trying to get those "8's" and "9's", are missing out on a pretty awesome thing.

No, I am not talking about oneitis.

I am talking about complete satisfaction.

Like a great meal, an awesome vacation, or that last gym session.

It is a feeling you get when you have no wish for things to be anything better than what they are. That is not to say the feeling cannot be replicated, because it can. That is not to say you could not make it better either. But it is damn good. Why waste the effort trying to improve upon it?

Coming from a guy who has been with 100+ women, there is a difference in satisfaction among the women you meet. And that complete satisfaction comes from the most surprising sources.

Kill your ego.

All too often I hear guys bragging about this and that, to who the fuck ever. Shit, I find myself doing it from time to time. But the longer I am alive, and the more aware I become, the more I realize everyone else does not fucking matter. All you should concern yourself with is your own enjoyment.

Rejection means nothing.

What other people think of your women means nothing.

This is not going to happen overnight. Just as anything else you have been programmed with, it will take some time to undo.

It is all about you and your enjoyment.

If you are enjoying yourself with a girl, and she gives you zero grief, roll with it.

That little voice in your head telling you she is not hot enough, or you can do better, that is just your ego talking. Shut it up so you can enjoy your life.