Attraction exists in a part of the brain which cannot be controlled by logical reasoning. You see, generally speaking, people (this includes Women) have 3 parts of the brain. For the sake of this post, and since we are trying to focus on women, let’s just talk about women. Women have a logical brain, an emotional brain, and a primal, lizard brain. These 3 different parts of the cerebellum often operate together, but sometimes exclusively. And this is what brings me to my main point: Attraction CANNOT be negotiated. Say it with me: Attraction CANNOT- I repeat- CANNOT be negotiated. At least offline it can’t.

The thing about being an anonymous poster on an internet forum is that you can pretty much say whatever the hell you want to say and get away with it. You’re using your logical brain, and perhaps even your emotional brain at times. Do we ever use our primal brain online? Sure- if you look at porn, yes, there are times when your dick will get hard and your panties will get wet by means of a computer screen.

This is why we must always understand that we must focus on what women actually do in real life- rather than what they say, especially online, but in field as well. Women logically don’t want a dominant man who is sexually confident; a man who thinks of himself as the prize- why should they? Women have sex in their disposal to easily manipulate men and get the Beta bucks. They want a nice guy who bends over backwards to please them, a smart man who can provide for her- at least, that’s what she thinks she wants.

You see, a woman doesn’t have to like you to fuck you. Seriously. A woman will “hate” you, and still manage to sleep with you, perhaps build a LTR with you if you have enough game- and she’ll “hamster” away the reasoning and rationale later. This is why subs like The Blue Pill or PurplePill debate ultimately should be used as entertainment and taken with a grain of salt- Attraction is non-negotiable. Period. You do everything right in field, and you won’t come off as a misogynist like everyone at the Blue Pill says we ALL are. You’ll come off as the guy who understands her more than most men. The guy who gets it.

I can tell myself all I want that I’ll be attracted to the obese woman with a partner count ranging in the 50’s- but in reality, I fail to get hard from that. Women can tell themselves (on The BluePill and otherwise) that they will never be attracted to the Red Pill man. But that’s because they probably don’t understand how a real Red Pill man operates. They may have had bad experiences with men in the past. Maybe they’ve been abused. But Red Pill men don’t endorse abuse. We endorse leaving if the women takes you for granted.

All Blue Pill arguments are futile because of this one fallacy: You can’t control who you’re attracted to because Attraction is Non-Negotiable.

Always remember that.