I just got back from making my most expensive mistake in quite some time. I've lived in Germany for almost 4 years (American) and I'll be moving back to the States when I graduate later this year. During my stay here I dated a Polish girl for a while: didn't last very long, but she was a nice girl (and willing to experiment in bed) and I didn't have anything bad to say about her. Until last night.

A few weeks ago she heard I was movnig back to the States and asked me to come visit her before I did. Obviously by visit I thought she meant "hook up" so I threw a few jokes in about her old squeaky bed just to make sure that was what she meant; she never corrected me. So I bought my ticket and arrived yesterday night and she immediately asks me if I can stay at a hostel because her mom is divorcing her dad for cheating on her (again). I told her I didn't come here to stay in a hostel and she offers me the couch, to which I say I didn't come to sleep on the couch either. Then she drops the bomb: she's had a boyfriend this whole time and never thought to mention it. So I left her place, bought the first bus ticket back to Germany, and deleted all her info.

TL;DR Ex invites me to visit her without mentioning she's got a boyfriend. AWALT