Apologize in advance for wall of text, here goes. So friend of mine, 25 years old, meets this girl in the 7-8 range. She is a local small town TV personality so that makes her a little hotter I guess (especially in a small Texas town almost completely bereft of talent). Anyways, he starts hitting on her hard, taking her out to dinner, inviting her to parties, etc etc. They hang out at least a couple times a week for many hours at a time but never really do anything past making out and cuddling. My friend helps her move her stuff to a new apartment and is a crying shoulder when she has personal problems etc.. From the outside they appear to have great chemistry, have a lot of fun when they're out together and seem to be a good match. Seems like only a matter of time before it escalates into some hanky panky and possibly girlfriend/boyfriend status. Same shit goes on for a month. A couple makeout sessions, some boob grabbing, but a shit ton of long assed movie watching and feeling sharing dates etc etc. She admitted early on during this time that she recently professed her love to one of her co-workers but was turned down. Then after about three months of them hanging out, he is making out with her in the back of a car en route to a party (me and buddy #2 are shotgun and driver, we have no idea ANY of this is going on until after the fact) and tries to grab her boobs, she brushes away his move, then SHE JUMPS on him AGAIN and makes out with him, so he tries to feel her up some more. After the second time she gets super rattled and defensive and retreats into her phone for the next hour before her friend comes to the party we were at to pick her up. My buddy doesn't know what the fuck is going on, tries to talk to her and ends up telling her he really likes her in is drunken state.. Before she leaves she says "I never tried to grab YOU!", "you caught me off guard! How could you?!". Essentially my friend felt like a predator, despite me telling him that he didn't do anything wrong. The next week they talk over phone and she tells him that she had been starting to like him up to that point but it was ruined.. begins ignoring him. So things have cooled off between them for a month or so and small texts have resumed. Having been only recently acquainted with this subreddit myself, I have steered him into TheRedPill to show him that he was being played the whole time by this girl. It's really weird because for the most part he has mad game and can get laid pretty easily at any city with a size-able amount of people, I've seen it first hand, with girls hotter than this girl. I am giving him the usual advice, but was wondering, from this brief intro to the situation what kind of advice on how to deal with this girl? I think if he read it here, it would affirm what I have already told him. I have him sending back kind of short, bitchy texts to her, and have told him that he needs to totally change the way he is trying to approach this girl.
I am sure this subreddit gets all sorts of advice type shit, so I won't feel bad if this gets buried.
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