I have a lot of trouble keep up with the sub and what exactly is the current trends but I just want to share a little insight on how I built more charisma and strengthened my frame. The idea is to change my rules, MO, playing field, technique. I Make it harder for myself, pushing myself in the gym is parallel in concept. Below are couple of ways I actively will try, meaning I choose when to do this.

Wearing simple clothes: Jeans, White T, Jacket, no jewelry, nothing flashy, maybe PJs or old gym clothes that not revealing. Peacocking can be fun, but it can also can take away from valuable lessons. Wearing money may convince a girl I have money, which may have her overlooking my shit ability to approach. My close friends say "So what dude, you got laid." Well for anyone else is feeling cocky, there will come a time when you game and you're money are not enough. Industries sucker us all into fashion, and trends, I just try to notice that and make sure I am working on my approach and frame, not my style.

lesson 1: Be who you are, not what you wear.

Approach groups: In public places it can be rare to find the exact chick you want all alone, most often she is in a group. My frame has to be strong enough to withstand her shit-tests and her pack of cock-blockers. I have found that unless I am really feeling myself then a cold approach into a group can more difficult if I'm showing my hand right off the bat. Engaging her friends first is key, the longer I engage everyone but her the easier the pick up is. Attention whores will be screaming "looking at me, notice me!" Easy pick up. Quiet, shy chicks will be floored that I was even interested after feeling ignored for so long. I talk to the guys first, it's their domain, sports, politics, fucking whatever, if they connect and accept me so will the girls who trust them, if they turn out to be betas then I just need to engage the girl[s] faster, buy a drink, take to the side, etc.

Lesson 2: Just dive in with no game plan. It's the next level of cold approaching.

I feel like every post is 40 paragraphs long, I'd rather hear from the sub what ways you like to challenge yourself, or have found yourself challenged in the past. Tell me a time of when you felt like something risky paid off.