I have been lingering TRP for the past few months. I discovered this thread shortly after my girl of 4 years suddenly left me.

Bear with me, I have had a few whiskeys...

Back then I was a beta bitch blue pill typical boyfriend. The woman I was with was a 9, maybe a 10 depending on who you would ask, but being objective she was HOT. Sex was fucking fire, she was just ridiculous in all the physical aspects that makes a woman sexual.

Anyways, enough of the context, for 4 years I treated her like a fucking goddess. Bought her everything, went on trips and saw the world, she had no bills, subsidized her life. She could do no wrong in my eyes.

Fast forward 4 years, one day she has an emotional breakdown and says she doesn’t feel like we are right for each other and we need to separate.

Naturally I lost it, begged her to take me back, fucking cried, developed a drinking habit, all for this girl.

Months after the break up, she would text or call me here and there, basically whenever she was lonely. I would always answer. I would see her, buy her drinks, we would go out, and she would be comfortable.

This happens for months post break up. The whole time I am hopeful we would get back together ( massive mistake and typical blue pill bitch boy behavior )

Deep down I know she just wants to explore the dating pool, maybe fuck some other guys, see what’s out there.

At this point I am fucking glad she “ruined my life”. My eyes have been opened to a new god damn dimension . My beta, blue pill bitch self has been excoriated. My eyes are open to TRP way of life. I am FREE.

Now, women seek me, they are drawn to my confidence, my give zero fucks attitude. They put in effort to talk to me, they don’t expect material shit form me, just my attention.

Cognitive dissonance in the scheme of relationships is when you continue going back to that girl, even though deep down you know she is fucking you over.

You blue pill your way through life convincing yourself that this girl, or women in general, will make you happy.

This is bullshit. Live for yourself, keep your true friends close, don’t ever over exert yourself for women, be calm and collected ALWAYS, women will flow to you.

Be smooth and under control. NEVER show stress or weakness, make women work for your attention. Stop tripping over yourself and financing women’s lives. Be a red piller and stop fucking letting women turn you into a bumbling blue pill mess.

TLDR; cognitive dissonance is prevalent in relationships, do NOT let this fallacy happen to you, read through TRP, and stop being a beta blue pill bitch.