TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

  • Subreddits

      Popular

    • /r/askTRP
    • /r/TheRedPill
    • /r/MarriedRedPill
    • /r/MensRights
    • /r/MGTOW
    • /r/PurplePillDebate
    • /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
    • /r/seduction
    • /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates

      • Other

      • /r/AllPillDebate
      • /r/AlreadyRed
      • /r/altTRP
      • /r/AntiFeminists
      • /r/askFDS
      • /r/askMRP
      • /r/askRPC
      • /r/becomeaman
      • /r/BlackPillScience
      • /r/Chadfish
      • /r/Divorce_Men
      • /r/EverydayMisandry
      • /r/ExRedPill
      • /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
      • /r/FeminismStopsWhen
      • /r/GEOTRP
      • /r/MalePsychology
      • /r/Male_Studies
      • /r/MenSupportMen
      • /r/MGTOW2
      • /r/MuslimRedPill
      • /r/newTRP
      • /r/PussyPass
      • /r/PussyPassDenied
      • /r/RedPillBooks
      • /r/RedPillParenting
      • /r/RedPillWives
      • /r/RedPillWomen
      • /r/RedPillWorkplace
      • /r/RPChristians
      • /r/ThankTRP
      • /r/TheRedPillStories
      • /r/trpGAME
      • /r/TRPOffTopic
      • /r/TrueBlackPillMGTOW
      • /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
  • Blogs

      Popular

    • A Voice for Men
    • Dalrock
    • Good Looking Loser
    • Heartiste
    • Married Man Sex Life
    • Return of Kings
    • The Power Moves
    • The Rational Male
    • The Spearhead

      • Other

      • Alpha Game
      • Archwinger
      • Artful Prudence
      • Black Label Logic
      • Caleb Jones
      • Captain Capitalism
      • Corporate Machiavelli
      • Days of Game
      • Deep Strength
      • Dicipres
      • Donal Graeme
      • Female Misogynist
      • Free Northerner
      • Gaming My Wife
      • Hawaiian Libertarian
      • Illimitable Men
      • In Mala Fide
      • Justice for Men and Boys
      • Kill Your Inner Loser
      • KillToParty
      • Krauser PUA
      • LaidNYC
      • Mensactivism
      • NO MA'AM
      • Omega Virgin Revolt
      • Pook's Mill
      • Random Xpat Rantings
      • Red Pill Theory
      • Red Pill Wifery
      • RedPillDad
      • RedPillDoctor
      • Rian Stone
      • RooshV
      • Seasons of Tumult and Discord
      • Sigma Frame
      • The Feminine Woman
      • The Futurist
      • The Masculine Principle
      • The Modern Man
      • The New Modern Man
      • The Obsidian Files
      • The Private Man
      • The Red Pill Room
      • The Red Quest
      • The Rules Revisited
      • Troy Francis
      • Wintery Knight
      • Woujo
      • Young Man Red Pill
  • Books
  • Dictionary
  • @TRParchive
  • Support

Consider the options. If you are an Alpha, wouldn't it be nice to have an Alpha mate?

[deleted]

December 5, 2013
0 upvotes
/r/TheRedPill
Archived from /r/TheRedPill

r/TheRedPill is a subreddit for discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.

TheRedArchive is an archive of Red Pill subreddits and blogs. This page is our copy of the original post.

/r/TheRedPill archive

Download the post

Want to save the post for offline use on your device? Choose one of the download options below:

PDF TXT EPUB
Support the archive

Everything here was supposed to disappear. Banned subreddits, deleted communities, cancelled blogs — much of what is archived here survives nowhere else.

It stays free — no paywall, no account — for the next man who comes looking, the way it was free for you.

I pay for the servers, the storage and the bandwidth myself. If you want this record still standing in ten years, become one of the people who keeps it online.

Support the archive

Share
Share Tweet Reddit Email
Post Information
Title Consider the options. If you are an Alpha, wouldn't it be nice to have an Alpha mate?
Author

[deleted]
Upvotes 0
Comments 10
Date December 5, 2013 2:31 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1s4o8x/consider_the_options_if_you_are_an_alpha_wouldnt/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/consider-the-options-if-you-are-an-alpha-wouldnt.8514
https://theredarchive.com/post/8514
Red Pill terms in post
alpha

Comments

[–]RedSunBlue8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Two captains on one boat? No thank you.

[–]TRProdigy4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Women can't be alpha. Men and women aren't the same. Your point is moot.

[+]LasherDeviance-6 points-5 points-4 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

No yours is. There are Alpha women. The women that rinse a dude for all of his money and posessions with out sex. Or, women that make more than you in a field that is predominately ran by men. Such as Astrophysics or Business. Don't think that there aren't Alpha women... I encounter one everyday. And she fucks whomever she wants to fuck with indiscrimatently. It's plenty of Alpha hoes, they just don't fuck with guys like you, and they don't make good GF's the same way that Alpha dudes don't make good BF's.

[–]TRProdigy3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It's plenty of Alpha hoes, they just don't fuck with guys like you,

LOL. Read the sidebar, nice little article called "Glossary of (Feminis) shaming techniques."

The reason I know that quality women fuck men like me is I don't have to stoop down to the levels of the feminists. Go home man, come back when you're ready to talk with the big boys. You're just embarrassing yourself now.

[–]LasherDeviance-4 points-3 points-2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I've read everrything in the sidebar to ad nauseam. I don't shame anyone but sluts that want a husband. I've been here a while bro.

I'm not emberassing myself at all. This isn't a dick-measuring contest at all, I'm just speaking from my own experience. I ain't gotta lie to kick it! I've been here for a long time. Ask RPS and SH. Not trying to shame you. Stop trying to call out BS.

[–]JustACrosshair_5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Look man, I see what you are saying. I know the 'alpha-females' you are talking about. I am 'friends' with a couple, literally just 'friends.

They have a lot going on for themselves beyond sexuality which is good. But they are still females. They still always desire a constant flux of emotion no matter what. But with this you are going to run into the most irritating thing of all. They are going to be expecting you to emotionally entertain them at all times, but then when you expect any form gratitude, or if you begin to expect 'too much', they are going to start viewing it as subservient.

As soon as the dread games start, they are going to go off and talk pure shit about you to guys like me who are just their friend, just like any average female begins to do. They are going to make you seem like the most beta mother fucker compared to them and seek other people to tell them that they should get out because they deserve better, etc, etc. just like the rest.

You are going to have a constant back and forth of this dread game shit and eventually everyone is going to be fed up with it and you'll split - because hey, both of you can do better right?

And that's why you have all these 'alpha' independent female's watching eat, pray, love with friends who they feel are beneath them while they sit around and drink boxed wine, confused as to why they actually got with an 'alpha' guy and it still did not work out.

Meanwhile you go to a bar and start spinning plates again, wondering why this 'alpha' girl didn't work right.

It's better to have a girl that takes you for the alpha and loves to support your alpha-ness to the worlds end. A girl that doesn't view that as a subservient behavior, but simply a different role to play. A girl that views you as the protector, and she is like the medic to patch you back up so you can protect some more.

But hey - if you want to be in a weird cycle of bouncing back and forth with an 'alpha' girl that can't fucking figure out if she really wants you or not, then by all means go for it. Report back with what happens. Everything I am spouting out right here is just what I can gather through dialogue I have with a few female friends I have here and there. So I can only know what they say to me from their experiences and I sort of piece together what is actually going on. In short - take all this with a grain of salt, but this is how I've made up my mind from what I know.

[–]JohnGalt3162 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

to summarize: females can't hold their frame like an alpha

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't his wife cheat on him with the artist? I know he's cheating on her but if I recall the show suggests that he has her implied consent since it furthers his political ambitions (or at least they think it does).

[–]7Vega0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wouldn't it be exciting to have an alpha mate.*

Nope. 55/45

[–]that_new_new0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No.

There's value in having a woman who challenges you at times, but not in your position in the relationship. My girlfriend is a smart girl, and very well-informed in her area of study. We challenge each other intellectually, and often debate issues that neither of us are emotionally involved in. Now, we can only do this successfully because in our relationship I am the clear leader and she does not perceive these debates as threatening her authority in the relationship--she already knows where she stands.

I wouldn't waste my time with a woman who ever tries to get an upper hand in the relationship. Ambitious women, I can appreciate, so long as she does not aspire to dominate me.

Browse all authors
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter