Been reading on this for a while now and I am now starting to see the dynamics presented in everyday life. I should think this example is sufficient for a post.

That being said I want to share an example reinforcing some theory. A female co-manager of mine was telling me about a guy that was texting her. She has never met this guy, but has seen pictures and admits he is cute (purely from appearance). Her sister is trying to set her up and after reading TWO (2) of his text messages I can clearly see why she has such disdain for him. He recently got out of a 3 year relationship 3 months ago. Although they have never met, he texts her all the time. She passed out the other night without texting him back and DUDE TEXTS HER THE NEXT DAY APOLOGIZING FOR BEING PUSHY. Major red flag I told her. Dude apologized for something he thought she did wrong. She explains that she just passed out, and he proceeds to explain to her that he "likes her a lot" and is eager to meet up. Seriously? She literally laughed when she read that to me, and then tells me she will "use him for a date and then break it off." However, after the last text she was hesitant to even do that. This dude displayed such little value that she wouldn't even go out with him for free drinks and food. How pathetic.

He has, presumably unintentionally, communicated to her that he literally has nothing going on in his life outside of waiting for a chance to date this chick. Is there anything else to learn from this example?