So this hot (22) girl added me on SC after we matched on Tinder (about a month ago). Tinder has been deleted for a while because I have better shit to do than swipe and offer these hoes my validation and efforts in sufficient amounts to incite arousal, establish frame, etc et-fucking-cetera. Im working on myself. Period.

So, idk, its Friday and Space Jam is out. I see this girl post a story about using a grenade launcher for work (air force, security forces, if you know anything about either of those, it equates to hoe-fa-sho). Im former military so I make some banter, whatever. I'm still plugged in enough to think I have to do things on the weekend, it has to be with a woman, so I try. I only text back and forth a couple times before asking her if she's going to see Space Jam this wknd. She doesnt open the message that afternoon, that evening, Saturday morning I notice she still hasn't opened the message, I unfriend her and move on with my life.

In the past, I would have stuck around and waited for her to dole out my piece of the attention pie that is currently spread between multiple dudes. Im not doing that anymore. You have your phone in your hand, or close by, at all times. Everyone does. She had other stuff going on. Most likely massive dick(s). I have things to do regardless of what a woman is doing, thinking, or trying to get out of me. I have better things to do than chase. You should too. Send her back to the streets and do the next thing you need to do to improve yourself.

Remember guys: a woman is in her prime when she is young, a man is in his prime when he is successful. Let them have their fun riding the carousel, disregarding you in favor of Big Bodied Ben. You are the prize. Not her. She belongs to the streets. You belong to your purpose.