The purpose of this post is to highlight when you should use date compression to your advantage and how doing so incorrectly can actually make things worse for you.  It is a tool, nothing more.  For newbies out there, date compression is when you lead a girl through multiple locations in a single outing or 'Date' to build a deeper level of comfort to make it seem like you've done a great deal together in a short time period.

Here at redpill, we stress the importance of our time being valuable and that a woman must earn such attention to be worthy of further considering for casual dating, LTR, etc.  We all know that comfort and familiarity does not create sexual tension or strengthen attraction.  These are ultimately the beta qualities that plates beg for when they are getting pumped and dumped by Chad (this should be you).  Sprinkle them in from time to time, but just enough so she thinks she still 'has a chance' without totally losing the frame and giving her an excuse to trade you up.

Using it WRONG:

With the above stated, using date compression  on a new sexual prospect, or even a plate you just started fucking, is a counter-productive strategy.  Put yourselves in the shoes of the average hypergamous woman and analyze the guy who just met you and leads you through multiple activities and locations.  Her thoughts?  Way too much investment and 'wow he really likes me, all the other guys usually just want to go fuck.'  Queue the moment he tries to pull her to the bedroom at the end and she throws up a huge wall of LMR or even bails before the pull because she 'doesn't want to mess this up.'  You just cockblocked yourself into BF territory.  Also, if you don't screen your girl correctly, you could be going into a situation with a DTF girl, one that may even be cheating, but you do all these activities and it just turns her off because you don't escalate and then she has to bail to get back to her boyfriend.

If your date compression does happen to result in a f-close with a new girl, you've already set a bad precedent because she will expect this behavior from you in future interactions.  In her mind, this is what it took to get sex from her, and depending how many notches she has, your actions may seem like a great deal of effort to her.  You are already in beta territory at this point no matter how much you made her laugh, held frame, or how much you made her cum.  If you did this with a new plate you've only booty called 2 or 3 times, it's too giant of a step and the shift in behavior on your part will prompt her to think you are fast tracking towards a relationship and/or you fell for her too quickly and showed your Beta hand.   'Wow that was easy' she'll think.  Lack of abundance.  Also keep in mind that if she was not making it known several times that she wanted a date night over the long term, you just made her evaluation of you easier, especially If you overtly communicate that you planned a multi venue date of your OWN volition.  If she texts you 'hey are we hanging out tonight?' And you answer 'meet me at X at 4pm, then we are going to grab a bite at X around 6, and then we are going to the show around 8pm,' you basically gave her every incentive to text Chad and say 'I'm coming over around 11 tonight I'll text you to see if you're up.'  If I were this chick that is exactly what I would do to keep my options open and get more investment from this guy to see how far he will go.  She was probably just planning on fucking you, perhaps even after another guy hit her with plans just like this, but then you upped the offer so she replaced you as top Beta and now has her shot at the guy who was 3 steps up her wish list.  If you ever plan something this large, don't tell her, just say 'I've got a plan meet at my place'  Be vague, and when she arrives fuck her right there and then before you go on some unnecessary elaborate outing.  That way you at least get what you want first.

Using it RIGHT

Date compression originated in the form of 'venue bouncing' during night game at clubs, which is where you should be primarily using this tool.  In many cases it is necessary to use 2 or more locations in these scenarios because you will usually meet the girl for the first time at the venue.  You didn't approach her last week, or chat over tinder prior, or anything like that.  The likelihood of grinding up on a random HB9 for 15 mins and knocking back some shots won't be enough for an immediate pull.  The only way you could pull this off is if you have an apartment or hotel very close by, not to mention a host of other factors.  If it's past midnight already this helps but otherwise you will have to use date compression.  This is most successful while being done under the guise of accomplishing your logistical travel plan back to yours/hers.  Going from a big club setting to a cool food joint that's on the way back to pound town is a smart move.  Adding a private bar or ritzy cocktail place that's very close to the endgame is another good choice, or if you're staying in a hotel that has a hot tub or pool with barside is another good plausible deniability move that's gets them to your place.  All of this cannot be done too late in the night, or you risk her friend's bullshit interfering, puking/passout, etc.  You can clearly see how these things were done out of necessity versus overinvesting or losing the frame as highlighted in the previous section on using date compression incorrectly.  Another area where this is similarly applicable is day game same-day lays (SDL) via cold approach.  Again, it would only be feasible to use if you met the girl across town at a coffee shop and brought her back to a bar near your place.

The only other time you should use date compression is if you have been plating a girl for a long time (sex only) and one of the following two things happen:

  1. You or her are going out of town/vacation or back to school, so you won't be seeing each other for a while.

  2. You can no longer ward off 'the talk' or an ultimatum after diffusing previous ones.

In the first scenario, using the date compression for a big day/night out on your LAST meetup with the plate is a smart move.  It's an opportunity to showcase that you are an Alpha guy capable of LTR, which she hasn't seen so far as you've just been fucking her senseless for months.  The idea is to get the hamster going and create as many fun moments as possible so when you two part ways, she won't stop thinking about you and it will leave her wanting to continue things with you in the future when your paths cross again.  Outside of being alpha widowed or cheated on, it's hard for a girl riding the CC to actually have a deep memory about a guy.  When she comes back to town 6 months down the road, she will be like 'hey we had an awesome time last time we hung out, I'll hit him up.'

In the second scenario, as many of us should already know, when a girl is pressing you hard for committment, it is almost always because there is another guy she is seriously considering and seeing who caves first.  If you have deflected this shit test with a plate prior times and she has been implying at something more, it is now time to use date compression, and it's okay because you have been using her for sex this whole time so now you are going to watch what happens.

Take her out on a multi venue date.  Meet at your place after work first and fuck her immediately.  Go grab coffee and then get cheap food a little bit after and then go out for the night to your favorite bar, then a decent nightlife location and then back to yours for slamfest #2, 3 and so on.  For a girl who has been nothing but your fucktoy for this long will be blown away by the experience and will feel much closer to you, especially knowing that she had to earn this after all the times she invested in you by draining your balls.

At this point you MUST pull back to determine her true interest level through re-evalution.  Don't initiate anything.  You will be able to tell from her behavior in the following days if she was just trying to get anything she can from you, and more importantly, if you think she tried to BB you and go with the other guy she was most likely weighing you against as her new Alpha. Itll be easy to tell if thats the case and you can call her out and she will fold like a cheap whore.  Otherwise you can use her positive feels from the occasion to determine how to proceed further as if the 'talk' never happened..

(TL;DR)

So there you have it, folks.  A new look at the date compression model.  Overall in today's (openly) hypergamous hookup scene, date compression is a poor strategy when trying to spin plates, but great for SDL/ONS and as a relationship investment evaluation tool.  If you are going to do an outing of any kind, stick to one bar or coffee shop, and make it quick and low investment..