in this thread i want to focus on your LTR's (girl)friends, not so much on the common houseparty/bar-pickup-interview-shit-test-galore her friends give you, when you first hit on a girl in a set.

what i'm looking for is advice how to deal with a situation as follows:

  • new gf for a couple of months
  • got her into working out
  • got her into sleeping/eating healthy
  • generally bring order into her life and raise her self esteem

this results in

  • her not going out clubbing etc. as much as she used to (which was fairly often) with them (she still goes on girls nights out, but now leaves earlier than 5am and doesn't get wasted)
  • her not eating shit loads of random sweets, chocolate, chips, etc. when they meet
  • her telling her friends she can't come or will come later because she'd rather hit the gym
  • her sometimes saying 'no' when getting asked to do ridiculous favors and not being a doormat any more

so naturally her girlfriends now complain how she's not fun any more, i'm no good for her, she should break up - just being the jealous crab-mentality bitches they are.

my first instinct was to tell my gf "heh, ain't that cute how they're being jealous at us and you for bettering yourself".

how can one deal with this problem long term? especially considering that women are depending on their social circle and valuing other's opinions so much (sheep mentality i guess)?!