Deep down, we just don't care.

Stradivorius · 2015-10-02T20:50:45+00:00

The more i read TRP the more i see that women are nothing but a bunch of shrilling, annoying animals who are still stuck in cavemen times. The constant need for attention and drama is both infuriating and pitiful. I dont care that some bitch at your work talked shit about your shoes, i dont care that you are feeling sad and instead of just saying whats causing it you prefer to wallow and cry for no fucking reason. I just dont care anymore. Either bring on the nuclear apocalyspe so i can roam the wasteland with a dog or perfect sex bots and artificial wombs so we can get this shit over with.

CHAD_BUCHANAN · 2015-10-02T08:59:27+00:00

"People are only betas because they bother themselves with the outcome of sex."

This is maybe the deepest sentence I've ever read on here.

It's so damn true.

If you stop caring about sex, if you genuinely do not give a fuck whether or not you will ever have sex again for the rest of your life, it's literally impossible to NOT be alpha as fuck.

(And then paradoxically, women throw themselves at you)

mrmeyhemn · 2015-10-02T08:49:13+00:00

its been a lot of years with me giving no fucks about womens wants/needs/feels. the last couple of times i tried ltr i found that women are not worth the effort to maintain. they are worth minimal effort for sex, but i won't waste much time on them trying to get it. this leads them to label me "asshole"/"misogynist"/etc. trp for me is about self improvement. been doing the monk mode thing for a few months, probably closer to coming out on the mgtow end of things afterwards rather than pua (or pedestalizing pussy). about the only time i can see sleeping with a woman is if im her chad. not about to be some bitches beta bux again.

oldredder · 2015-10-02T04:50:40+00:00

I agree: I don't care; but where I don't agree: most people here really do care. They chase pussy using what they learn here because they intend to keep pussy on the pedestal forever.

You and I are rare indeed. Maybe 5 others here are like us whereas thousands are not.

Let's be real. We are only betas because

Incorrect. A beta must follow alpha males. Must. That's the hardwired mammal requirement. I don't and can't.

Feelings die with the prolonged absence of sex

This is untrue. Feelings remain for all until they are modified using chemistry. I modified mine and that's how they're gone. Without the chemistry, putting drugs in, the emotions would still be there.

When I am in a relationship and I'm not having sex, suddenly my concerns are directed towards the health of the relationship.

Don't be a tool: a man having a relationship with no sex is like having an empty wallet and being proud of it being empty, then being concerned about it being empty but never admitting to yourself the core problem is that it's fucking empty.

A relationship without sex is one you put to an end immediately. Either she wants sex and it happens or you throw her away.

AdonisHera · 2015-10-02T05:13:02+00:00

Dude pussy is nice, but I no longer put it on a pedestal. Once you take it off the pedestal, that's when you start to get more of it. I'm with you on the the not caring about women's problems or feelings. I won't commit to a woman if I haven't banged her. Women outside of sex are of no use to me. Hard truth

SeekingTheWay · 2015-10-02T09:17:41+00:00

I can very much relate to that.

Back in my pre-trp days, I genuinely cared for all women well-being (well at least the ones I considered pretty). Now I don't care. Someone else will make them happy, it's not my job.

Freddy_Fedora · 2015-10-03T01:13:28+00:00

I might be so down the beta hole I can't see it but I genuinely enjoy my girlfriends company. We don't need to have sex to have fun. I mean we had sex 1000+ times easily at this point and it just got to a point where it was robotic. I was her dildo and she was my fleshlight, that wasn't as fun.

Now we do it less frequently and have a lot more build up. She dances around like a sexy stripper, there is more foreplay and more importantly we don't have sex every time I get horny. For me that teasing almost makes it feel better when it does happen, and I'm more sensitive and there's a bigger and better climax. It also means she is way more into it when it does happen.

I've realised sex isn't even that good by itself. It's all about the build up / context / person which make it so much better. A beta is going to have a better time with a HB9 then you will (despite the fact he'll never get the chance)

iLLprincipLeS · 2015-10-02T18:34:31+00:00

you know what the secret is? not to not care, but not to worry.

anyway, thought i was alone in this.. as good as the act is, as bad is the feeling after. it's a combination. a poisonous combination that forms in my mind and suppresses any humane outcomes

Red_August · 2015-10-02T15:50:51+00:00

Nice post. I heard a great joke and can't remember where so if any of you heard it before let me know the source.

It goes:

Have you ever had sex and then afterwards wish she would just turn into a bunch of butterflies or something and they all fly out the window?

Code_Bordeauxx · 2015-10-02T08:09:02+00:00

It is just you. People are selfish, but they're social beings just as much. This means caring about the well being of the people around you, which crosses gender barriers. It may be the type of girls you're dating and surrounding yourself with that's eliciting this responce from you. Otherwise, maybe you're just not that empathetic as a person.

Just because sex is required to maintain a relationship doesn't mean there isn't much more to them that makes them worth the effort. (with the right type of girl, that is) But you wouldn't know that if your main reason for entering relationships is securing a steady source of sex. Care, support, validation, not facing things alone, these are all great things, if -and that's a big IF- you don't fall into the trap of becoming dependent on them. So no, it's not only the outcome of sex that matters.

There are girls in my life that are good people and I care about them. And no, I didn't have sex with them, except for my current gf. Live your life the way you see fit, but don't project your lack of empathy on the rest of us.

dicklord_airplane · 2015-10-02T17:29:57+00:00

I care :) i like companionship with women, sexual and not. my dear mother is a woman, after all, and i owe her everything.

Title	Deep down, we just don't care.
Author	Noctis_Cloud
Upvotes	17
Comments	19
Date	October 2, 2015 4:11 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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