Dialogue, objectivity, and rationality are an illusion for all but a tiny fraction of the human population. This is one of the most sobering and disturbing truths about human nature.

Recently, there was a post from a guy who (kindly) rejected an engaged girl for sex and she reacted by verbally abusing him. The following quote was made in response to the post.

There was this study way back that showed how to our brains rejection is equivalent to pain. You basically teased her, and for a while, she was unable to think. Her logical brain was shut down and everything she said was a verbal convulsion. It had nothing to do with you and everything to do with how she felt (pain).Our brains are hardwired to hurt us sometimes. It's an unlucky aspect of our biology. Another unlucky aspect of our biology is the propensity to believe in scapegoats, seek them, and indulge in a sense of superiority when we believe to have found one.She's not a scapegoat, neither are you. She got hurt and lost it for a moment, but never did anything evil to you.Not the happiest of stories, but not a horror story either. Don't take it personally. Move on.This can serve as a warning though about what people with less self-control may do to you. If somebody gets stuck in the pain and loses their mind permanently, their whole life may become about getting back at you. Avoid causing pain if you can."

It doesn't matter how wrong something is, most humans will always rationalize their way to a conclusion that suits their emotional bias. This is one of the worst examples I've seen on the Red Pill mainly because of how convincing it looks on the surface. However, when you look a little closer, the depth and stupidity of this rationalization comes to light.

A. You as a man caused pain to a woman (by rejecting her), therefore, she was unable to think or control her actions.

B. She did not do material harm to you because your feelings (pain) doesn't matter.

C. Your pain doesn't matter so you should move on. Also, don't do this again because the next girl might ruin your life (false rape most likely).

This is one of the most depraved and disturbing posts I have read on TRP - made worse so by the fact that it has upvotes. The poster essentially justifies the woman's behavior while turning the male into the bad guy when anyone capable of clear rational thinking would see that the opposite is true. Unfortunately, such rationalizations always happen when a woman does anything bad to a man because of deep evolutionary programming.

What a perfect example of the natural flaws in human thinking; people can rationalize anything. But of course, if the genders were reversed and a man decided he wanted to call a girl racial slurs for rejecting him, no one would be justifying it like this.