Do guys get increasingly insecure the longer they go without sex? Bc girls don’t

Totallyoriginaluser · Wed Dec 13 7:07:51 2017 UTC

Pics or GTFO. You’re on Reddit as a female, chances are you’re ugly as shit.

tibikush2012 · 2017-12-13T06:02:11+00:00

You sound like a sociopath. Some girls aren't capable for love and would see a guy as a tool in order to achieve something or get something while others will feel a connection. You being pretty or ugly doesn't change the fact that you can speak for your own (and your friends) and nothing more. About girls being hypersexual or not, I have had exes waking me up in the middle of the night because they were rubbing their pussy against my legs or took my hand and shoved them their pussy, while others didn't even want to do morning sex.. Again, you can't generalize. I do agree that men were brainwashed to think that pussy is the greatest asset to have though. This is why I strongly advise to any guy to pass a period in which he fucks a large number of girls (preferebly hot) in order to get rid of said society induced pussy addiction (if the guy is sane, he will no longer want pussy but rather sex with a woman he likes and he will no longer get satisfaction from ONS as much as he used to) and he will be able to build a healthy relationship with a woman because he will be able to judge her by her human side and not by the simple fact that she has a pussy.

moke57 · 2017-12-13T06:15:21+00:00

Your post is mostly right. So if sex is just a tool to manipulate men good sex is probably lesbian sex for you?

LeMishu · 2017-12-13T07:20:02+00:00

I wonder, why did you write this post? What did you hope to accomplish by writing all of this? Why would a girl browse TRP in the first place?

SuperCrazy07 · 2017-12-13T07:22:14+00:00

I strongly disagree. Women are insecure without sex. Go ask any old chick, ugly chick, or fat chick.

I agree hot chicks are not insecure without sex...because they can get it whenever they want.

You speak of women who use sex to get what they want - AND OF COURSE THEY DO - but what about the happily married mother of two who blows the lead singer at the concert when he doesn't pay her a thing and doesn't know her name...and she happily leaves with a belly full of his cum. That's the AF part.

SirKolbath · 2017-12-13T07:39:59+00:00

What the actual fuck is this? This has to be the most arrogant whore on Reddit. "A mod only took my post down because he was jealous of me!" "My post is the most important one in the history of this subreddit!" "I'm so hot you and your plates would look like hammered ass next to me!"

Yeah, right. Fuck out of here. There may be a grain of truth behind your narcissism and pootlepatting, but I don't think you'll find many men here willing to listen to your spoiled bitchprincess attitude.

Tits or GTFO.

Trooper_1868 · 2017-12-13T06:35:49+00:00

Your post is quite spot on, but what ticked me off slightly, is that most people, who post on here, don't go out of their way to say no hate mail please. This is a sub where multiple cultures, mindsets and opinions CLASH, so obviously you are gong to get some disagreement anyways.

I don't think all men get insecure about sex. Ive actually been pushed for sex, with this chick I know, and she had to basically guilt trip me into doing it. It was great the first 2-3 times, but then after that I got a little less interested. I think men want sex, but for a lot of people on this sub, past a certain phase, we dont NEED it. We want it. Its like ice cream, I would love some right now, but I dont feel bad if I dont have any for a few days/weeks/months.

It depends entirely on the person, and I think women feel insecure about sex as well. You are talking from personal experience I am assuming, and even if you know an extreme amount of women, it is not nearly enough to make that generalization. I would think, that women who aren't getting fucked by their SO who has a higher SMV respectively, in the spirit of this sub, would actually be very insecure. You have to understand.

Most en want women mostly for sexual pleasure. Everything else comes after that. So if a man doesnt want you for sexual pleasure, is perfectly happy where he is, then likely nothing short of you tying him up, would get him to sleep with you. I think that would make a lot of women pretty insecure.

Just my two cents. :)

CloudGuide · 2017-12-13T08:46:39+00:00

I don't get what your main point of your post was. That women don't want sex as much as men?

In as far as basic biological urges, I believe this is true.

But in regards to ego and validation, and all that other stuff your post infers, I think women do get insecure the longer they don't get sex in certain situations.

Much of men's desire for sex is 'artificial' i.e. it's enhanced by the fact that 1) sex is often in short supply for men, and 2) to be a 'man' (alpha etc.) means plentiful supply of sex.

Men don't only have a basic natural urge for sex, but they have a social urge to be great, to fuck lots of women, because it's what great men do.

I know from my own basic experience I often crave sex more out of a feeling of not getting it enough (i.e. shame) then a biological urge.

I.e. if I ever go through a dry patch, I will consciously seek to remedy this situation coz I know it'll lower my self-esteem if I don't do anything about it.

The difference when it comes to women is that sex is plentiful for them, it's not in short supply. It's available on every corner as it where — hence there's no honour or value in getting lots of it. And it's socially looked on for them to do so.

But if a woman was in a relationship and a man got bored of her she would crave sex in that artificial sense that men do — her ego will be affected by its lack of supply.

whatsthisgarg · 2017-12-13T06:47:37+00:00

GARBAGE but here it is because it will be deleted (following is the original post):

Know some things about me before you read my post: First of all, I’m not male so there’s only one other thing I could be. Secondly, you and all of your plates/exs would look like 3’s compared to me. Yes, you should feel bad that most ppl look terrible. About 90% of women are low value/underaverage/average (average is just a nice way of saying ugly). It’s not my fault the world values beauty over everything else. Society was set up that way before I was born.

Like the title says - Do guys get increasingly insecure the longer they go without sex? Bc girls don’t. Girls can’t even fathom what it’s like to be insecure without sex.

The question is: is it possible for guys to be secure without sex?

I’m sure if you surveyed all of the sluts/porn stars/prostitutes in the world asking them if they got insecure without sex, 99% of them would say “no”. They also wouldn’t know that guys got insecure without sex bc ppl only care about themselves.

That’s too deep of a topic for girls to entertain, guys getting insecure without sex. They also just wouldn’t care about what guys wanted.

Girls just know that guys WANT sex. And they like taking advantage of it to manipulate/enslave guys. They don’t care that guys get insecure without sex.

So, is it possible for guys to be secure without sex? Bc they should try to achieve that. Guys shouldn’t want to have anything to do with women for as long as they are manipulative. Going after women is the least productive thing guys could possibly be doing right now. It’s like feeding into a black hole.

TL; DR Guys shouldn’t trust women with their security bc they are selfish/manipulative/malicious/retarded

I’m expecting a lot of dumb comments so just know a few things about female nature before you want to dismiss my post because you feel threatened by how true it is: (1) you were manipulated to obsess over sex so that women could take advantage of you (2) girls obsess over how to manipulate guys (3) girls get their ego from manipulating guys & they don’t want to give that up (4) girls don’t get physically attached. They don’t even know what that is. That’s like some alien concept to them (5) most of trp ideology is wrong bc it revolves around their rigid belief that girls are highly sexual (6) it’s hilarious, if you let guys come up with truths about women/the world, they will oversex the entire thing

^ I posted this once before and it got taken down by a mod who’s jealous of me for being smarter than him or something, I don’t know. Could you leave it up this time even if it gets 5000 downvotes? This post is more important than any other post on this subreddit. This post should be made into an announcement & it should be put in the sidebar.

Here is some more information so that you don’t get confused and say something stupid in the comments like what happened the last time I posted:

Why did I identify as female in my post? Bc the other times I posted, everyone thought I was a guy and talked to me like I was a guy. I wanted to clear things up.

Don’t tell me females need male attention to feel secure. Attention and sex are different. Girls don't get insecure without sex.

All the guys browsing/posting on this subreddit get insecure without sex. TRP wouldn’t exist if all men were secure without sex.

Trp taught you the wrong things about male-female dynamics. Girls don't categorize guys into AF/BB. Seriously, who came up with that concept? That’s the dumbest thing I have ever heard in my life.

Yes, girls are VERY insecure, but they don’t get insecure without sex.

This is something very important for all guys to know and internalize:The only reason girls come back for more sex is to make sure guys put their full effort into validating them and doing as they like, which is taking advantage of guys and essentially emasculating them. Girls don’t feel validated from the physical act of sex itself, they know that guys are desperate for sex so they come back for more sex thinking they can use it to get other things that they actually want out of guys. Yes, all of your ex-gfs did this to you, all of your past hookups did this to you, and all of your future hookups will be doing this to you. Society was set up this way for women to have this particular advantage over men.

I already know you guys are going to comment something really ignorant so here is a tip for you on how to be a realistic person: if guys saw women as putting money/resources/emotional support as their number one priority and saw them as not having a genuine drive to desire guys physically, then they would have a much more accurate view of women.

Don’t bring up some experience of yours to prove some girls legitimately want sex, it doesn’t change the fact that their initial reason for coming back for more sex was to get other things out of you. Girls can't keep up with how sexual guys are on a biological level (the frequency and variety they want sex) so they would only tolerate it to get other things out of guys. Guys were manipulated by society to have high sex drives specifically so women could enslave them. Guys can't build healthy relationships with women because women (and society) are the problem. Women are the darkest beings to ever walk the earth.

Don’t tell me to post in AskTRP, this subreddit gets more traffic so that’s why I posted here.

Fryhtan69 · 2017-12-13T07:51:05+00:00

^ I posted this once before and it got taken down by a mod who’s jealous of me for being smarter than him or something, I don’t know. Could you leave it up this time even if it gets 5000 downvotes? This post is more important than any other post on this subreddit. This post should be made into an announcement & it should be put in the sidebar.

sniff sniff

Damn the stench of your narcissism is outstanding. The reason TRP exist is because of women like you.

mnemos_1 · 2017-12-13T08:30:40+00:00

Rampant narcissism and penchant for the dramatic aside, a fair majority of your points raised here seem useful. Certainly so, with regards to my own current circumstance. Thanks for sharing.

Now, fuck off.

Title	Do guys get increasingly insecure the longer they go without sex? Bc girls don’t
Author	thexanaxpill
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Date	December 13, 2017 5:48 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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