Do Hotter Girls Get Approached Less?

[deleted] · 2014-02-09T23:36:37+00:00

In my experience? A little. I'm just going off of a personal thing here from what I deal with in college.

The guys survey whoever's in the room (lets say at a party). The guys who perceive themselves as high value go straight for the ones they find most attractive. And the hot chicks get swamped.

Then there are guys that have the mindset I used to have, where they look at a hot girl and want to be with her, but just don't think that they deserve to be with her, so they get intimidated and don't approach. They think they're too ugly or too short or not funny enough. So they don't bother.

The hot girls are always going to have people chasing after them. In the case of the model from the video, I'd say that because of her extremely high status, it intimidates the average joe everyman for the most part. They think themselves out of approaching.

draketton · 2014-02-10T07:13:02+00:00

Slightly above average woman get the highest quantity of approaches

Smoking hot women get the most highest quality of approaches

LMAO_USERNAMES · 2014-02-10T03:09:04+00:00

The OkCupid stats blog showed that the top tier of attractive women got messaged slightly less than women that rated slightly less attractive than them.

http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/your_looks_and_inbox/Male-Messaging-Curve.png

General_Fear · 2014-02-10T00:07:26+00:00

I remember seeing a talk show where they talked to several beautiful women. They all had the same complaint. That only the most confident men approach them. That average men don't seem confident enough to approach them.

Don't jump the gun. Don't assume that just because a woman does not get approached that she will go out with anyone. No. The fact is, a woman who is a 10 and knows it will hold out for a man who is a 10. They will not waste their good looks on an average man. The only time hot women lower their standards is when they are about to hit the wall.

bleh321 · 2014-02-10T01:11:09+00:00

In my experience, hotter women get approached more and get their egos stroked and attention spooned to them in masses every day.

This constant gratification builds resistance in this type of woman and therefore are able to react to approaches more swiftly (read rejection) than a typical woman.

Personally the hottest women have been the most loyal and are able to prevent insecurity in an LTR as they are able to reject approaches more readily - compare this to say a shy girl who may lead many orbiters on due to them being 'nice'. That's not to say they hot women aren't crazy with daddy issues!

FugitiveAlpha · 2014-02-12T15:20:26+00:00

This depends on when. In my high school the really hot girls were pretty lonely, because no one thought they had a snow balls chance in hell with them. Outside of the pre-drinking crowd, you have "liquid courage" which allows even the ugliest of guys to think he should be approaching hotties.

cagethepepper · 2014-02-09T23:50:16+00:00

Do hot guys get approached less?

Title	Do Hotter Girls Get Approached Less?
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Date	February 9, 2014 11:28 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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