Don’t give a fuck.
Why? Because no matter how hard you try, you are trivial. The sheer number of other opinions and belief systems that exist make your mean that much less from a human perspective.
And guess what? We are human.
Its no surprise that one of the most desired and respected traits in human beings is confidence. Humans are really trivial creatures, and yet we admire those who act like they aren’t. It is this inherent contradiction that forms the base of our biological and intrinsic philosophical imperative.
Men strive to accomplish goals, whether it be gaining muscles, money, or women. Why? Accomplishing our goals make us important. It helps us rise above our inherent meaninglessness and gives us purpose.
Women are similar, although they are much more passive in general. They derive their purpose from being validated. Not necessarily by men, but in general this seems to be the case.
If a man is having fun and is confident, while accomplishing his goals, he gains a sense of purpose. That sense of purpose drives him, while giving the appearance that he is somehow larger than life. For a woman, merely accomplishing goals is not enough. Having someone who is successful validate them gives them purpose. When a women feels validated by a successful person, she becomes less worried, and more loving. More like a unicorn if you will.
In other words, men with purpose are attractive, and women who feels truly validated by such men are also attractive.
That is why real men workout and work hard, and real women take care of their bodies and love others. A lazy and low self-esteem man is not attractive, and neither is a bitch.
I don’t know why this is the case, but it is an observable phenomenon.
For example, most radical feminist women are not successful, and if they are, they don’t feel validated by successful people. This is the root of their unhappiness. They realize their triviality. And that scares them. They lash out at the successful men, because they realize that they admire some of their qualities. If they didn’t, they would waste their time caring so much. Think about it, do you pay attention to things that are irrelevant to you?
On the other side of the spectrum, real women who know what they want, get it. When a woman understands her inherent desire to be loved and protected by a strong and confident man, she becomes more of what Nature intended her to be. She doesn’t need to cheat, she doesn’t display bitchy attitudes, and she is more confident herself.
But how does all of this tie in to not caring? Well, the answer is simple. We have been conditioned by the current miserable society to care too much. That is why reality TV and gossip sites exist. Caring is not necessarily a bad thing, especially when the trait is present in women. But when this spread over to the male population, it becomes a deadly virus.
Now, before you stone me for being misogynist, I’m not advocating the complete lack of emotion, or insinuating that women are lesser beings for displaying this behavior. I’m just stating facts. Women naturally care more, and they are SUPPOSED to.
Men however, should not get caught up in this excessive worrying. This distracts them from their purpose. It is only when men are full of purpose that caring becomes useful. This is the main reason why women are not attracted to Nice Guys ™. News flash!
If you are not a successful high value person, a woman will not give a shit if you care about them. Purpose first, caring later.
Most of what the liberal feminist media feeds men today is also bad advice. They tell you to prioritize a woman’s needs, to never insult them, to not belittle them, etc. They make it seem like having everyone feel good is immediately achievable just by desiring it. News flash!
Happiness only comes if you have purpose. If you try to do things to make yourself feel happy, but neglect your purpose, you will ultimately fail, because you still lack purpose. That’s why always striving to be PC and nice to women almost always fails. It cultivates beta men who think that their purpose is to be nice to women. In reality, they have no purpose, and thus are not attractive.
(The main reason why beta men exist is because it is easy to be nice. Beta men succeed at being nice, so they are tricked into thinking they are fulfilling their purpose, despite the sense of unfulfillment that nags and eats them away. This is also the reason that when upon encountering Red Pill truths, Betas often react with incredulity. They thought they were doing all the right things, but their whole life was a lie.)
Now how does this tie into the title?
The reason is that if you stop caring about the trivial things, you start sifting important things from foolish things. This enables you to find your purpose.
Don’t give a fuck.
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