Tl;Dr:
Don't take poor interaction personally, they're always having a terrible day.
Body:
My boy put me onto tinder and remaking our accounts when frequenting the same metropolitan. Fast forward and it's our third time in LA. Hitting the same neigborhood meaning the same woman swiping right.
The third time I've matched with this bitch. I remember because she's my type of sexy. Same photos. Same line each time. The first two getting ignored. Round three, she eats it up, we link, we click. The end. Not a damn things changed on my end. It was all her.
Not Just Woman:
My sandwichman has two moods a great sandwich or a sub that's over the top. I frequent this sandwich shop where I regularly take people. The guy working every Sunday's name is Todd. Todd either makes my regular with two rolls of meat or three. Todd's a master sub maker. He spreads the sauce on both slices of bread. He cut's his foot longs in half, then half again, to make it easier to eat. I've tried to figure it out, tipping him more but nothing I do seems to trigger the extra meat. The point is, I'm not changing a thing yet Todd gives me extra meat some Sundays verus not. The outcome of our interaction isn't controlled by my actions but his mood.
Because I know it's not me, my approach each Sunday is the same. My reaction is the same. Just like using the same profile and lines on the same match. Don't string your self along.
In Conclusion:
Always swing. Keep on swinging even when you've struck out before. You can do everything right, miss once, knocking the next identical pitch out of the park. Sometimes you fail, completely out of your control. This is why you keep swinging when the same chance you want keeps knocking.
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