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[–]kanaduhisfruityeh8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cut her off. She's wasting your time.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"uhh im horny, cant wait for u", "im saving myself for u", "i want it rough" etc.
This is what's known as beta bait and you chomped down on it like a starving beta. I assume you responded with something along the lines of "me too" or "that's hot" just like every beta guy.
An alpha response would have been "thanks for the kinsey report" or "your flirting skills need work"
[–]Lt_Muffintoes0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or call her bluff and tell her to visit for a shag, if she feels so roused up.
On that rejection, it has to be tuned, otherwise it can cause them to hamster hatred against you.
[–]Try_25 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
if you ever get involved with her again, make sure you get her consent in writing. Otherwise, start saving up for a good criminal defense lawyer.
[–]markasstrick1231 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should of cut her off when you said first mistake. You don't let a child play games with you. She's either fucking you or fucking off.
[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It sounds to me that you don't do a lot of approaching to women as this is someone that you are honestly considering wasting another breath on. Learn some game and go out and learn abundance mentality by meeting new girls and approaching. Stop wasting time with stupid bitches like this and get someone who isn't seeking massive amounts of free validation.
[–]Roman_Statuesque1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
and doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
Heard that one before. Son, this is bait.
[–]MasonJarTeaDrinker1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro the other day I went on a business trip with some co worker, she's in a fucken short ass dress laying on my bed, I lay down next to her and we are talking. I try to kiss her and she backs off, granted she has a BF and a kid but WTF are you doing in my room in my bed then?
Anyways, I get rejected and act like whatever, next night we go drinking and she lets me hit it, WTF? women are fucken weird.
[–]akolyteofthecentury0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope, just very emotionally driven, which would, within a RP-PoV qualifiy as natural behaviour.
but it may as well be put as weird, because to marsians, venusians will always be weird, and vice versa, are either complicated or total fkn douchebag assholes.
[–]Croatian_Ent 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Also, should I move this to /r/asktrp or is it OK here?
[–]CareBearTheProtector5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Sounds a little like you were in the "boyfriend candidates" zone, meaning her teases and playfulness was to make you beg and attempt to make you her pet. But, when you manned up and escalated, it shocked her thought process of you. You weren't as much of an orbiter type as she pegged you to be. Without knowing more about her, that "don't touch me" bit might have been her shit testing you to see if you'd "take her." But in this day and age, it's hard to tell if she's a rape claimant. So telling her to hit the bricks was a passing answer to the test question. Hold your frame homie. Find new plates to spin in front of her, like a circus performer, and watch her start pining for your attention even more.
Yeah, she dropped the word 'rape' somewhere in the pushing and all that, so i really tried not to be so pushy
Thanks for the advice! I'll start spinning soon
[–]garlicextract2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
You did the right thing by telling her to leave. If she says "Don't touch me" then do not touch her. Don't waste your time, she is either the game playing type, or legitimately isn't interested. Treat her like she's a complete stranger, one you don't want to talk to.
[–]2IVIaskerade1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The one thing to make clear is that it's her only chance. If she goes ahead anyway, she made the decision and so cannot blame you for "rejecting her", and if she stays, it was her decision.
[–]CareBearTheProtector0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's why I approved him telling her to git. I've been with a few chics who were twisted, like me, and enjoyed the "struggle" before fucking each others brains out. But that's definitely not recommended for first fucks/early in the relationship.
[–]binrobinro0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can't believe you even have to ask.
[–]MOldMuckyTerrahawk0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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